Strange Voyeur Question

[DirtyHarry]

Not sure if this forum is the right place to ask this, but thought it's worth asking here: I have a sort of fantasy that I'm looking to make a reality...basically I am just looking to watch 2 people have sex (in person). I feel like the only way to find people who are interested is craigslist, but am sort of scared about the anonymity. I'm not overly concerned with what the people look like, but am more worried about getting myself into a creepy/dangerous situation. Is this something that an escort/client would somehow accommodate? Or is there a better online resource for this? Any advice is appreciated!

[nynakedtop]

where are you located? any sex clubs or party circuit in your area?

[DirtyHarry]

where are you located? any sex clubs or party circuit in your area?

 

I'm in NYC but can't really seem to find anything like that...unless they are so 'top secret' that they aren't searchable online?

[nynakedtop]

I'm in NYC but can't really seem to find anything like that...unless they are so 'top secret' that they aren't searchable online?

 

they are a bit "underground" for obvious reasons, but not that hard to find.... if it is a scene that you think might work for you, hit me up if you are interested.

[jjkrkwood]

I'm in NYC but can't really seem to find anything like that...unless they are so 'top secret' that they aren't searchable online?

 

Theres a sex club in LIC, right outside Manhattan by train, open 7 days a week from 6 pm. Several promoters also have parties there. If you pvt me, I can send you details.

 

The place is large, and CLEAN with both OPEN spaces and pvt niches and rooms. $17 - 20 depending on the party

[adannyboy]

Is Paddles still running? That was my fave

[nynakedtop]

Is Paddles still running? That was my fave

 

it is very much up and running, and one of my favorite places, depending on who is hosting that particular night - i notice that other venues are being used now and then, but i have a special place in my heart for that haunt of 28th street, long may it survive... (and a shout out to lidell and to cade....)

 

some smaller hosted parties can also be fun, but one must be kind of "networked" to know about them, and have some special preferences (i am thinking bbrt)

[bimbosavant]

Is Paddles still running? That was my fave

 

Paddles is still very much in business and is usually "rented out" for different parties/hosts. There are a variety of events that take place there.

[adannyboy]

My hole has fond memories of that place.

 

I need to get back to NYC sometime

[bimbosavant]

From voyeur to voyeur - I completely understand your trepidation. It is hard for some to understand this fetish and many times I find myself in a conundrum or feeling a bit scared to watch (JUST WATCH, ONLY WATCH) because it can come off as creepy or inexplicable to others. Yes, I like group sex, yes I enjoy foursomes (threesomes not so much - someone ALWAYS gets left out, better to stick with even numbers), but more than the actual act itself, I like to sit back and enjoy two or more people getting it on. The good news is, there are a world of exhibitionists out there and they love to be watched and actually get off on it just as much as you (we) get off on watching them watching us watching them get off.

 

Sex parties are hard. There are archetypes that crowd the place and most people like to do it in darker areas which is the Achilles Heel for voyeurs (see also: dark rooms, saunas, steam rooms, glory holes et al). Some people are shy (read: married) and don't know exactly how things work. Some people may take a visual cue as a come-on, and then you're stuck in that awkward place of trying to be polite about telling them you don't want to have sex with them at a sex party.

 

Sometimes I'll play the rabbit in that I'll get something started and duck out to the side and encourage them to keep going. It's a chore but worth it.

 

If you can afford it - ask a professional to help. Perhaps they can bring in an assistant for a nominal fee.

 

There are other methods as well - inquire within.

[+ azdr0710]

I also like to watch.....I usually ask well-trusted escorts I've already seen if they know another dude who would be comfortable putting on a show for me.....at other times, I've brought together two dudes (unknown to each other) to put on a show.....communication ahead of time, trust, friendly atmosphere, safety are all important, of course

[+ José Soplanucas]

Who doesn't like to watch? It's just hyper real porn.

[Marlfox]

I don't think this is a secret site as I found it by googling.

http://groupsexinthecity.com/pages/home

I haven't got up the courage to go to any parties yet, but who knows.........

 

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[MikeBiDude]

Not sure if this forum is the right place to ask this, but thought it's worth asking here: I have a sort of fantasy that I'm looking to make a reality...basically I am just looking to watch 2 people have sex (in person). I feel like the only way to find people who are interested is craigslist, but am sort of scared about the anonymity. I'm not overly concerned with what the people look like, but am more worried about getting myself into a creepy/dangerous situation. Is this something that an escort/client would somehow accommodate? Or is there a better online resource for this? Any advice is appreciated!

I've posts on Craigslist many times, it's one of my few craigslist attempts that almost never gets any responses

 

I even have hinted at "gen", no luck there.

[Juan Vancouver]

Totally understandable that you feel nervous about it and want to go cautiously.

 

Generally speaking, if people are having sex at a sex club in the open it means that they are comfortable being watched. Not necessarily being touched, unless they invite you expressly. If they are not comfortable with being watched, they will give you enough signs.

 

You could also hire a couple escorts, preferable some that are partners in real life. Thor and I put on shows quite often. Not only you have the advantage that they have good chemistry and know each other's bodies and how to play them, there is no weird vibe, you can tell them what you would like to witness and they can even adapt their angles and positions to give you a better view. That, in my experience is incredibly hot.

[+ RyanDean]

@Juan Vancouver 's advice is spot on. Both in terms of the double-hire and sexclub etiquette.

 

And @nynakedtop's invite is worth considering. (I've recently tuned into the underground network and not that long ago hit one of the events/venues with a gent; I found it to be quite hot and quite civilized, if you can call such a thing civilized.)

Edited July 26, 2016 by RyanDean

[Guy Fawkes]

Thor appears to be a bit shy which is why I tease Juan about being thor at time; however I've seen pictures and Thor is every bit as appealing as Juan is: http://www.daddysreviews.com/review/thor_maelstrom_vancouver

 

Thor and I put on shows quite often. Not only you have the advantage that they have good chemistry and know each other's bodies and how to play them, there is no weird vibe, you can tell them what you would like to witness and they can even adapt their angles and positions to give you a better view. That, in my experience is incredibly hot.

[Juan Vancouver]

Thor appears to be a bit shy which is why I tease Juan about being thor at time;

 

Daddy, I don't know who is your source, but I assure you he is not even in the least bit shy. The man always participates and satisfies with gusto!

 

But again, I am somewhat biased.

[+ FreshFluff]

Too bad you don't live here. My downstairs neighbors--originally a couple, now a threesome--just put a hammock on their huge terrace. (I went to one of their parties, which had a swinger undertone after a certain hour.)

 

Not sure if they're looking to be seen, but they picked a spot in the line of sight of at least 8 apartments. I wasn't looking to participate in their scene, but anytime I switched the AC on or off, there they were. The new girl was really paying her rent on that thing!

[MikeyGMin]

If you want to splurge sometime you should take yourself to HustlaBall in Las Vegas. Get a VIP ticket and you can see all kinds of shows with like-minded dudes -- unless you only enjoy it if you are the only spectator.

[Guy Fawkes]

Then you have that gorgeous hunk of a man contact Daddy to update his contact information. We need more "Juan Thor" Sandwiches! (oh dear, did I just let my pun slip?) W00f!

 

 

Daddy, I don't know who is your source, but I assure you he is not even in the least bit shy. The man always participates and satisfies with gusto!

 

But again, I am somewhat biased.

[+ Funguy]

Daddy, I don't know who is your source, but I assure you he is not even in the least bit shy. The man always participates and satisfies with gusto!

But again, I am somewhat biased.

 

I can certainly vouch that Thor is no shrinking violet!

[bimbosavant]

Who doesn't like to watch? It's just hyper real porn.

 

Watching is one thing, voyeurism is another. It includes some pretty definitive psychosexual issues that are not privy to everyone, on the same token as other fetishes i.e. Water Sports, Adult Baby, Zoophilia et al.

[Yeahman]

Not sure if this forum is the right place to ask this, but thought it's worth asking here: I have a sort of fantasy that I'm looking to make a reality...basically I am just looking to watch 2 people have sex (in person). I feel like the only way to find people who are interested is craigslist, but am sort of scared about the anonymity. I'm not overly concerned with what the people look like, but am more worried about getting myself into a creepy/dangerous situation. Is this something that an escort/client would somehow accommodate? Or is there a better online resource for this? Any advice is appreciated!

I also have this fantasy. But I am only interested in watching a hot handsome guy fucking a girl. I sometimes see hetero couple advertise on backpage, and really want to give it a shot. But likewise i am worried about personal safety. I want to suck on the man get him hard and then watch him fuck the girl and cum inside her. It's hot to see his climax facial expressions.

[Juan Vancouver]

I want to suck on the man get him hard and then watch him fuck the girl and cum inside her. It's hot to see his climax facial expressions.

 

That is fucking hot!