How do you like your lap dances?

[Kr8zy]

So let's get right into it. When it comes to lap dances, how do you like your strippers?

 

Each place I go they seem a little different. Maybe I am a little odd, or just have some social issues or something, but I really want to have a conversation first off. Not trying to get comfortable or anything like that, or maybe it is a bonding thing. But I like to hear about what stripping is like, what their experiences have been, etc. It seems a lot of the guys, and maybe this is because I think many of them are gay for pay, want to romance you. If I wanted romance I would go somewhere else. I just want to look at naked guys.

 

For that matter, a big thing at some places is that they try and grind into you. Maybe I am too transnational about the whole thing, but I am not much for hugging. If I am not going to be playing with something good, I would rather just look at the goods. Just having a body pressed against me doesn't do it (when talking about lap dances anyways). I could really care less of they are "into me" or focused on me. Heck, I think I might be turned on hearing about what turns them on instead.

 

But that's just me. What do you guys like?

[mattr]

I like a little foreplay in the bar area, chatting, getting my shoulders massaged, some mutual surreptitious touching, etc. I am more likely to go into the back with a dude who is interactive in the bar since it usually (not always) bodes well for the main event.

[RyanDean]

I am still trying to figure this out.

I do like verbal interaction before the song count begins.

 

That said, pre-show chatting can present its own problems, as happened the other night when a bit of conversation revealed just how dim a bulb a particular beauty was. Still trying to figure out why this made me feel uncomfortable enough to not accept his invitation for a private dance.

[MikeyGMin]

Each place I go they seem a little different. Maybe I am a little odd, or just have some social issues or something, but I really want to have a conversation first off. Not trying to get comfortable or anything like that, or maybe it is a bonding thing. But I like to hear about what stripping is like, what their experiences have been, etc. It seems a lot of the guys, and maybe this is because I think many of them are gay for pay, want to romance you. If I wanted romance I would go somewhere else. I just want to look at naked guys.

 

This paragraph confuses me. Did you leave a word out somewhere? You say you want to have a conversation first, like to hear about their experiences, but don't want to be romanced and you only want to look at naked guys. I can't tell whether you want to talk to them first or just be left alone to watch them dance/strip.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I don't need to talk, I don't need to know his name or anything at all. I just need him to lock his eyes on me and physically connect. Chatting is extra and not necessary.

[+ glennnn]

Never having been to a strip club, cum-lap dance facility, and being a curious guy, I would love to know how it works. I mean, step by step what happens? How do you connect? How do you choose or get chosen? How much does it cost? What's allowed or included? What's not? Does anybody get off?

 

Would someone be willing to post a narrative of a personal and typical lap dance? I can't believe I'm the only innocent bumpkin on the forum? PLEASE! Youth (and maturity) want to know!

[BodeBrentwood]

pm me if you want lapdance details

[AdamSmith]

I like my lap dances to go too far.

[RyanDean]

I like my lap dances to go too far.

That's why I like the "nude party" approach.

With some of those distracting obstacles (ie underpants) already out of the way, the "starting" line can begin a bit further down the track.

[cany10011]

I much prefer the subtlety and eroticism of seeing guys walking around in provocative underwear. Lapdances only work for me as a prelude to other naughty things...which is often difficult in the lap dance area and not worth it (in my mind) in the champagne room. Prefer the comfort and cleanliness of my own place.

[bigvalboy]

I like getting a straight boy hard...

[geoffk]

For me the best lap dances happen when I have some kind of connection with the dancer. So fore play out in the bar is always a prelude to getting a lap dance. When a dancer approaches me and immediately asks if i want a lap dance my answer is always No. I need to feel like I want to be with this dancer and spend my money on him to do it. If a dancer can't give me some attention in the bar area i'm just not interested no matter how attractive he may be. As Ryan says above if the dancer is hot but there's nothing upstairs I don't really want to be with that kind of guy. Don't get me wrong i love looking at the guys and the goods but when i get together in the lap dance area i want the full service treatment. Looks, talk, and action. Then i want him to spend more time with me after it talking about how it was and what we might do next time or later.

[AdamSmith]

P.S. Should a dancer mention the champagne room, one might reply: 'The champagne is much nicer back at my hotel.'

[+ José Soplanucas]

P.S. Should a dancer mention the champagne room, one might reply: 'The champagne is much nicer back at my hotel.'

 

That's my man. Yep, the only talk I care for is dirty talk. And the only question I would ask if I like him is "do you escort?, and straight to business if the answer is positive.

[mattr]

I am still trying to figure this out.

I do like verbal interaction before the song count begins.

 

That said, pre-show chatting can present its own problems, as happened the other night when a bit of conversation revealed just how dim a bulb a particular beauty was. Still trying to figure out why this made me feel uncomfortable enough to not accept his invitation for a private dance.

 

I have the same problem with someone who comes off as dumb. The issue for me is that this is an awkward interaction and I would like to think that the dancer (or escort) has come to the interaction willingly, that he had other choices in life and this is the one he chose. If I feel that he is interacting with me out of desperation or lack of choices, then I find the interaction somewhat depressing and i feel like I am taking advantage of is diminished circumstances whether mental or monetary.

[+ Keith30309]

P.S. Should a dancer mention the champagne room, one might reply: 'The champagne is much nicer back at my hotel.'

 

[Becket]

Keep your underpants on and let me peel them off toward the ending of the song. At least ...that's the way....uh huh uh huh.....I liiiike it.....uh huh uh huh.....in Atlanta, ya'll.

[LD19847]

Personally, I like lap dances for body-to-body contact with muscular guys.

 

I agree it's good to build chemistry and rapport with the dancer in the bar first. Emotional intelligence in a dancer is important. A really good dancer will show a genuine interest in you having a good night. That said, I've no hesitation in going up to a dancer and just asking for a dance. And I've never regretted doing this.

 

In terms of the dance itself, I like dancers to properly remove their jeans and trainers before the start of the dance, rather than leave their jeans down at their ankles. The better dancers at Stock will always do this. It obviously makes it much easier for the dancer to move. I like a lot of body-to-body contact with a dancer.

 

When finished, the dancer should always offer a hug or a kiss on the cheek, rather than just walking off to count the cash.

[+ newatthis]

...I like dancers to properly remove their jeans and trainers before the start of the dance, rather than leave their jeans down at their ankles. The better dancers at Stock will always do this...

I guess I had one of the worst dancers at Stock this past week. He said "I never take my pants off during the first song." To which I replied "Then you're not getting more than one song from me!"

[mattr]

I have never been anyplace where the dancer starts out in pants... how bizarre! Dancers at Adonis, Spunk, Fairytail, and Boardwalk all start out in underwear and although it has never come off completely various parts are often exposed at various times. The face that they keep their shoes on is not an issue for me.

[joselowe]

I want dick in my mouth during my lap dances.... Just being honest lol

[AdamSmith]

I want dick in my mouth during my lap dances.... Just being honest lol

or tongue in ass ... or cock in ass ...

[+ jeezopete]

I want dick in my mouth during my lap dances.... Just being honest lol

 

Been there, done that.....

 

or tongue in ass ... or cock in ass ...

 

and that.....and that.

 

For me, a lap dance is often an audition for a private show back at my hotel.

[bigvalboy]

Audition...yes. I call a lap dance an interview.

[AdamSmith]

Audition...yes. I call a lap dance an interview.

You could go run Fox News.

 

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