How do you like your lap dances?

[+ José Soplanucas]

Clubs like Stock have speakers in the back with a separate audio feed of music to the stage show and you pay the dancer a set amount per song. I've never had an issue with dancers at Stock miscounting the number of songs. If I know a dancer well I will say in advance how many songs we'll go for.

 

Other clubs like Boardwalk also have a house fee which you have to pay to go to the private booths.

 

Thank you! That is how I thought it was. I was confused by the comments about asking the dancer to let you know when a song is over. Both, client and dancer are listening to the song, trying to steal you by overcoynting the songs sound pretty stupid to me.

[+ sniper]

Well at Club 20 they always announced the dancers and even announced when it was their second song. Adonis these days the announcers volume seems lower and there is a much less distinctive break if any between songs..which may have to do with the style of music being played now but really they do seem to run together more and it takes like 20 seconds to be clear a new song has started, kind of takes you out of the moment to figure that out.

[Kr8zy]

I have two problems with the song count thing. One, most of the time you end up starting halfway through a song. So what does that count as? Second - I'm too old. I can't figure the heck out what is one song and what is another, they all sound right to me. Usually I just say how many songs I am willing to do, and that is what they get paid for. So far that has stood me well.

 

Out of curiosity - I see that many people on here seem to know a lot about the dancers. How do you ever find that out - where do you hold these conversations? How long do you speak with the dancers before you go into a booth - maybe I am getting in there a little too quickly.

[samandtham]

"How do you like your lap dances?"

 

I like them very much.

 

But seriously, I don't go for a lot; maybe two songs with three guys max. Unless I'm having a dance with someone I've had before and am eager to see again, in which case I tell them a set number of minutes for $X amount.

 

For the latter, I also would ask at some point if they are available for a date outside of the club.

[12is12]

Mattr and ya'll,

 

Does the underwear "never come off completely" in all clubs, or are there some more liberal?

Even when it stays on, is it allowed to sneak your hand inside?

[Becket]

The guys at Swinging Richards in Atlanta get as neeked as you want. They do have to keep at least one article of clothing on at all times, so usually it's just their shoes. For an ass lover like me, it's an awesome show. I especially like it when there are four guys dancing all at once on the main stage. Love comparing and contrasting hinies. Then you can take your favorite back to the VIP area and put your hand bout anywhere you want.

[+ newatthis]

My experience is mostly in Montreal and Fort Lauderdale; ymmv in other places.

I have two problems with the song count thing. One, most of the time you end up starting halfway through a song. So what does that count as?

Most dancers will ask whether you want to wait till the beginning of the next song; if not, I tell them that's what I want to do. Occasionally a dancer will say words to the effect "you can have this half song for free before I start counting."

Second - I'm too old. I can't figure the heck out what is one song and what is another, they all sound right to me...

For me the problem is getting caught up in the passion of the moment and forgetting to count.

Out of curiosity - I see that many people on here seem to know a lot about the dancers. How do you ever find that out - where do you hold these conversations? How long do you speak with the dancers before you go into a booth - maybe I am getting in there a little too quickly.

I never opt for a lap dance without conversation first. Dancers are people too and the ones I prefer are interesting, or at least fun, to talk to. If you see someone over multiple visits you learn about them.

[JayNY]

The guys at Swinging Richards in Atlanta get as neeked as you want. They do have to keep at least one article of clothing on at all times, so usually it's just their shoes. For an ass lover like me, it's an awesome show. I especially like it when there are four guys dancing all at once on the main stage. Love comparing and contrasting hinies. Then you can take your favorite back to the VIP area and put your hand bout anywhere you want.

 

Sounds great, I'm heading there sometimes this summer. Hopefully, I will have a good time at SR.

[samandtham]

Mattr and ya'll,

 

Does the underwear "never come off completely" in all clubs, or are there some more liberal?

Even when it stays on, is it allowed to sneak your hand inside?

 

Not sure if you're asking about clubs in a specific state, but in the Montreal clubs (Stock, Lux, Campus), they get completely naked, save for their shoes. When the underwear comes off depends on the dancer. Some guys take it off on your first song, some do it on the second. I have a few favorites at Stock who know me, and they get naked the second the clock starts ticking.

[jeffla]

How does Nob Hill get away with the things they do? I think it's great, but I just don't understand it.

 

Do they not serve liquor so they aren't subject to California ABC regulations? "Private club?" Or is it just because it's San Francisco?

 

I think it's a San Francisco thing. Technically, you're not supposed to touch their genitals, but no one really pays attention to that.

 

Otherwise, you're free to jack off as you watch the entertainment, and strippers will often pull your dick out for you if you don't already have it out.

 

Can be pretty hot on certain nights.

 

Especially when they have multi-stripper shows.

[30somethingsexybear]

Pvt. me pls

I did, looking forward to seeing if I can be of assistance :-D

[joselowe]

I think it's a San Francisco thing. Technically, you're not supposed to touch their genitals, but no one really pays attention to that.

 

Otherwise, you're free to jack off as you watch the entertainment, and strippers will often pull your dick out for you if you don't already have it out.

 

Can be pretty hot on certain nights.

 

Especially when they have multi-stripper shows.

You can't be talking about nob hill theater. I've been going for years and think I've blown just about every dancer in the middle of their set. No one cares there and law enforcement knows what goes on but don't care. Nob Hill Theater is hands down the most free strip show I've ever been to in the US. Shockingly the nyc ones are more conservative unless you're doing a private with the right guy.

[+ sniper]

You can't be talking about nob hill theater. I've been going for years and think I've blown just about every dancer in the middle of their set. No one cares there and law enforcement knows what goes on but don't care. Nob Hill Theater is hands down the most free strip show I've ever been to in the US. Shockingly the nyc ones are more conservative unless you're doing a private with the right guy.

 

While "no one cares" there at the Nob Hill, at any given time most of the people in the audience aren't locals and don't necessarily know that. The first couple times I went there in the late 90s many people in the audience were quite reserved. Other times someone in the audience would just strip off and put his clothes in a bag and start playing with the patrons and the dancers. It can be very hit or miss.

[AdamSmith]

Nob Hill Theater is hands down the most free strip show I've ever been to in the US.

If you can ever manufacture a reason to travel there, go to Club Gold Coast in Detroit.

[hanginginne]

I did, looking forward to seeing if I can be of assistance :-D

 

just pm you

[12is12]

When the dancers get naked, is the customer allowed to also?

Partially, totally?

 

Is it allowed to to jerk the dancer off?

to suck him?

[LD19847]

When the dancers get naked, is the customer allowed to also?

Partially, totally?

 

At Stock, customers keep their clothes on during a lap dance. Individual preferences will vary by dancer, but most will immediately stop a customer at any sign the customer maybe undressing, such as loosening their belt.

[+ azdr0710]

frankly, in a lapdance context like Stock/Campus, I think it's a bit rude and insulting for the customer to make moves towards getting partially or entirely naked.....the customer is there to enjoy the dancer and he (dancer) should be the center of attention.....

 

if you want to get naked with the dancer, make sure you're already on good terms with him (vibe, tipping, chitchat) and ask if he's available for meeting outside the club.....if that's an affirmative, make sure you come to an agreement on terms and interaction......

[joselowe]

If I have to hear about Montreal/Vancouver/Ontario one more damn time on this forum!

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[12is12]

So in Nob Hill (according to Joselowe) you can blow the dancer while he's on your lap

(BTW requires quite a bit of flexibility),

but you have to stay fully dressed and zipped..... ?

 

Is the Nob Hill promsicuity particular to only that venue?

When I finally visit a club, I'd like it to be as hot as poosible....

[+ sniper]

The Nob Hillis actually a theater, so there are rows of seats. The dancer just sits on the back of the seat in front of the patron.

[joselowe]

So in Nob Hill (according to Joselowe) you can blow the dancer while he's on your lap

(BTW requires quite a bit of flexibility),

but you have to stay fully dressed and zipped..... ?

 

Is the Nob Hill promsicuity particular to only that venue?

When I finally visit a club, I'd like it to be as hot as poosible....

Like Sniper said...It's actually set up like a movie theater and the dancers work the crowd fully nude and let you do things in the movie theater seats....But there are also back rooms if you'd like full on penetration or too shy to blow in public....Just ask the dancer how much...prices depend on dancers. I much prefer blowing in the theater for free

[Despardo]

Like Sniper said...It's actually set up like a movie theater and the dancers work the crowd fully nude and let you do things in the movie theater seats....But there are also back rooms if you'd like full on penetration or too shy to blow in public....Just ask the dancer how much...prices depend on dancers. I much prefer blowing in the theater for free

The going rate (may vary) is $100 plus $20 to the theater for the room rental. The rooms are small, but very clean, very private and reasonably comfortable. The dancer when he gets to you in the theater may invite you for a private show and ask what you want to do--or offer what he is willing to do. Both dancers I hired for a private show were willing to do quite a bit and both had an orgasm--figure you will get about 20 minutes of their undivided attention give or take.

[Despardo]

So in Nob Hill (according to Joselowe) you can blow the dancer while he's on your lap

(BTW requires quite a bit of flexibility),

but you have to stay fully dressed and zipped..... ?

 

Is the Nob Hill promsicuity particular to only that venue?

When I finally visit a club, I'd like it to be as hot as poosible....

Nob Hill certainly allows (tolerates?) a lot of intimate activity. The downside to that venue is that it can be pretty boring on a slow day or night and some of the dancers are rather lackluster--also there is not much variety. The porn star headliners, however, generally put on an amazing show with audience participation. If possible go on a busy weekend or when there is a featured star or stars. Even then, the place rarely gets what I would call crowded. It is much worse when it is completely empty.

[Despardo]

At Stock, customers keep their clothes on during a lap dance. Individual preferences will vary by dancer, but most will immediately stop a customer at any sign the customer maybe undressing, such as loosening their belt.

At Campus, I have had dancers unbutton my shirt and play with my nipples, but that is about as undressed as I ever got with them.