What is a weekend?

[Reluctant Daddy]

I recently contacted a previous short time hire about the possibility of accompanying me on a long weekend or week getaway (4-5 days). I've never traveled alone and thought he might be good company. Initially, he seemed interested and indicated that he would email me as soon as he could. While I said that there was no urgency, it's been a little over 2 months and I haven't heard from him.

 

I've hired very little, so I may be way in over my head and expecting too much.

 

Given the lack of response, was it really stupid of me to suggest something like this? Is there some protocol in hiring someone for this period of time (have been with them X number of times, have spent leisure time with, etc.).

 

It begs the question

 

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[down_to_business]

Your mileage will vary. For me, its a hire consisting of at least 2 consecutive overnight periods and 2 consecutive day periods such as a Friday dinner through a Sunday breakfast. My weekend hires, however, have varied between 2,3 and 4 nights. After that, like a rental car, it becomes the weekly hire (just silly word games and no real substance behind it). Your experiences will vary with every single escort you speak with so be prepared to discuss terms and conditions and assume NOTHING! Sadly, like the overnight...there are no industry standards.

 

P.S. I wouldn't wait for a guy after two months, but that's just me personally!

[AdamSmith]

His lack of enthusiasm should be emphatically reciprocated.

[MscleLovr]

I guess a long weekend is whatever you can afford.

 

Sorry to read of your dismay NYClocker. It's always disappointing to wait a long time for a reaction, and it's simply bad manners (and bad business) on the part of the guy you'd hired.

 

I don't feel it's stupid of you to suggest this. I too enjoy connecting with men sexually and I enjoy travel, so I often suggest a short trip together. If it goes well, I later suggest an extended trip. I would not do this, however, unless I have spent social time (albeit paid) with the guy on at least a couple of occasions and found him interesting and an easy-going companion.

 

I also would have hired for an overnight date to make sure we were fully compatible sexually. As I'm older and a top only, that means I like to have full sex first then a good dinner, quick affectionate sex after eating, and 7 hours good sleep before kissing, being sucked off and cuddling on waking. I mention all this only to set out how easy it would be to find someone is incompatible with me overnight (eg if he's a restless sleeper or snores, or if he doesn't enjoy morning sex) which I wouldn't discover on a short hire.

 

When proposing a trip, I suggest you say "I'm thinking of going to Key West for some sun/Maui to explore/NYC for theatre for 4-5 days including travel. If you'd be interested too, let me know what you'd charge. Obviously I'll pay for all the travel, hotel and food costs. If you're interested, I was thinking of these dates. Perhaps you can get back to me in the next week or so". If he doesn't get back to you in a timely fashion, he's not interested. It's better you learn this at home than during an expensive trip where you are confined with one another.

[marylander1940]

I recently contacted a previous short time hire about the possibility of accompanying me on a long weekend or week getaway (4-5 days). I've never traveled alone and thought he might be good company. Initially, he seemed interested and indicated that he would email me as soon as he could. While I said that there was no urgency, it's been a little over 2 months and I haven't heard from him.

 

I've hired very little, so I may be way in over my head and expecting too much.

 

Given the lack of response, was it really stupid of me to suggest something like this? Is there some protocol in hiring someone for this period of time (have been with them X number of times, have spent leisure time with, etc.).

 

It begs the question

 

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yet another thread about escorts who don't reply... Move on... Plenty of fish to be hired if you have Ƀ $ €

 

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[+ Truereview]

Typically, I go to my regulars for the weekend and extended vacation requests, but I'm intrigued with the concept of hiring a weekend specialist. Kinda like hiring a chef who specializes on grilling...I wonder if there are any escorts out there who either specialize or offer a weekend package? I haven't seen many escort advertise, talk, or offer that up in their profiles. Personally, I would be interested bc I'm a weekend warrior and this would be my favorite kind of "battlefield." Let's lock swords!

 

Good post [uSER=12070]@NYClocker[/uSER] !

[Mikegaite]

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Weekend_(2011_film)

 

The point being, if you read the plot synopsis of the aforementioned film, that a weekend can be much more memorable than one might think at first blush, thus justifying the time and expense and unknown territory of the extended hire. Of course, it's natural to feel apprehensive about taking such a trip when you haven't done it before, and there's no guidebook on how to plan it, but things tend to work themselves out if both parties are compatible.

 

Sight-unseen extended trips can be exhilarating but hit-or-miss, so I would probably avoid those.

 

I personally can tell if I'm going to be compatible to take a trip with someone within about twenty minutes of meeting the person: when you know, you know.

[liubit]

I have done many, many overnights, weekends and longer hires. In my experience, they all start and end exactly at the time you agree with the escort. There is no rule: you would be surprised at how broad a range there is. Once again, communication, communication, communication.

[wisconsinguy]

I started out first thing with an extended weekend, and try to continue that practice. This usually is a Friday afternoon through Sunday afternoon. I am fortunate that the regular I chose, lives in a large Midwestern city. He is very familiar with the city on many different levels, so there is always great stuff to explore. As been said, each situation will be different, the timing as well. Always time for that negotiation thing! WG2

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He's driving me nuts but he still owes me forty-five minutes

[topinla]

Newbie here in posting but have been reading the forum for a while. I've never hired someone for a weekend. Let alone overnight. Nothing to do with how much it costs. It's just that I only need an hour (sometimes two) of a guy's time.

[Reluctant Daddy]

I pretty much let it go after not hearing from him within a month. Kind of disappointed, but I want to make sure that I don't repeat the same stupid thing again with someone else. I don't have regulars, and I thought that this might be a good idea to gain one. You know what thought did?

[Rudynate]

I recently contacted a previous short time hire about the possibility of accompanying me on a long weekend or week getaway (4-5 days). I've never traveled alone and thought he might be good company. Initially, he seemed interested and indicated that he would email me as soon as he could. While I said that there was no urgency, it's been a little over 2 months and I haven't heard from him.

 

I've hired very little, so I may be way in over my head and expecting too much.

 

Given the lack of response, was it really stupid of me to suggest something like this? Is there some protocol in hiring someone for this period of time (have been with them X number of times, have spent leisure time with, etc.).

 

It begs the question

 

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No you weren't stupid. How else do you get what you want but by asking for it?

 

There aren't many protocols in this business, just good sense and good manners. After two months of no response, you certainly wouldn't be pestering him if you emailed him and asked him if he is interested or not.

[Reluctant Daddy]

After two months of no response, you certainly wouldn't be pestering him if you emailed him and asked him if he is interested or not.

 

I tend to think that his lack of response was his response concerning interest. At this point, even if he was interested, I'm not sure if I would be able to go through with it. It just seems that it might be a bit awkward and uncomfortable now.

[Rudynate]

I tend to think that his lack of response was his response concerning interest. At this point, even if he was interested, I'm not sure if I would be able to go through with it. It just seems that it might be a bit awkward and uncomfortable now.

 

 

I would agree.