Dating an escort-Bad News?

[AndreFuture]

OMG your a client at 30?!!:eek:

so they do EXIST!!

 

All of the guys in their late 20's and early 30's who call to hire me and I avoid bc I feel they are just playing games and wasting my time :oops:

so many wasted opportunities

 

Same. I feel bad, but I'm always skeptical of guys under 35 messaging me (especially on A4A, which is 98% time wasters).

[+ goosh69]

I hired my first escort when I was 25. Got my first STD from an escort when I was 26. True stories.

[biggerbilly]

Another guy in his 3os here, 32. I also hire because I'm not looking for a relationship, and tire of the games on dating apps. Plus I'm not really a club person.

 

I'm very eager to see how this goes, because I feel that if I ever do start dating, the guy will turn out to be an escort. More and more, I'm noticing guys that I've spoken to on Grindr and Scruff are turning out to be escorts. At first, it wasn't a big deal because they were guys that I hit up, and that had rejected me. I figured I was shooting outside my league or something. Now I'm seeing guys that have hit me up are also escorts. And these were not guys looking for business, if you seen my profiles, sugar daddy is the last thing to come to mind. It's really starting to mess with my ego.

[+ RyanDean]

I often think I'm under 35...

[+ purplekow]

Clients under 30 do, in fact, exist! I got fed up with dating (which I was never very good at) and started hiring when I was 26. I remember totally fantasizing about Jason Carter, who used to escort in Dallas. But his early ads stated he didn't see clients under 30. By the time I turned 30, he had already moved to Phoenix. Lol.

I know that this is heresy in the escort client world, but did you ever consider lying about your age.

[Mike Monkevicz]

Hahahahahahaha

 

 

Hahahahaha!

[liubit]

I hired my first escort at 32. The rest is history....

[CompleteNewbie]

At 28, this thread makes me worried for my future hiring potential...

[Lab12]

At 28, this thread makes me worried for my future hiring potential...

why?

[greatnorthernp]

I just turned 30 and He is 28

I don't have a problem with his profession per se, i just think within the confines of a relationship, monogamy is paramount...or is monogamy overrated?

 

During the first couple of years, monogamy truly is helpful in establishing the relationship.

 

Once you feel truly safe with each other, playing together is fun, and helpful to defuse "the itch".

 

After a couple of years of that, an open relation is quite possible without having it all fall apart.

 

Every married man should have a few boyfriends (even if they're straight).

 

Results may vary. It's still working for me after 26 years.

[+ Eric Hassan]

Total monogamy is incredibly hard if both people in a marriage want to be totally fulfilled. That's not a moral statement. I'm just acknowledging the diversity and complexity of people and their needs and how they change over time. I've been married two decades and while we are dedicated to each other and want to maintain and grow our family for the rest of our lives, we also allow each other as individuals to grow and change over time. We want each other to be happy, successful and satisfied as people and as a couple and a family.

 

Relationships are very hard work and far too many people today seem unwilling, unable, or unprepared to put in the effort, energy, and work to make a relationship work over time. A year or two or even five are easy. It's when you get past a decade in that things get complicated, interesting, and rewarding.

 

Beautifully said.

[LivingnLA]

Beautifully said.

 

Thank you! I try to share what I know and might as well try to do it well. Just like any relationship, good communication takes work too. I learn a little more every day and try to grow a little more along the way.

[Strafe13]

Same. I feel bad, but I'm always skeptical of guys under 35 messaging me (especially on A4A, which is 98% time wasters).

 

FTMT and DK,

Younger clients do exist, so don't automatically write them all off. Although I'm now well removed from that time, I had my first hire in my early to mid twenties. I then hired my first guy again to celebrate my 30th birthday, and it was fun to relive the experience from both perspectives.

[+ dutchmuch]

I first read this as: "Dating a Bad News escort"

[AndreFuture]

FTMT and DK,

Younger clients do exist, so don't automatically write them all off. Although I'm now well removed from that time, I had my first hire in my early to mid twenties. I then hired my first guy again to celebrate my 30th birthday, and it was fun to relive the experience from both perspectives.

 

Oh I don't write anyone off, even those that from the get-go show themselves to be time wasters. I'm just wary of them because they usually are looking to sext and not hire—some have the indecency to tell me they "don't pay for sex." Um, okay…?