Clients request/require certian actions

[Edward]

Not sure daddy will let this question fly. How many clients request/require their "rentboy" (lack of a better term) to cum?

[liubit]

I used to require the escort to cum, it was a must. Not anymore. I guess I have become selfish in my old age: I have finally understood that MY pleasure is first. I always cum. If the escort shoots, so much for the better. If he doesn't, it is no longer a big deal.

[down_to_business]

Well I don't require it, but I let the escort know how important to my enjoyment of a hire that particular aspect is (it's right up there with kissing for me) and if they choose not to, I leave the session disappointed and simply never hire them again.

[Will Do]

Not sure daddy will let this question fly. How many clients request/require their "rentboy" (lack of a better term) to cum?

 

I don't request / require it but I make sure they do. Not an issue so far.

[beachboy]

Not sure daddy will let this question fly. How many clients request/require their "rentboy" (lack of a better term) to cum?

Best if he does - the icing on the cake :-) !

[seaboy4hire]

I always cum but I never pull out.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[rvwnsd]

I used to require the escort to cum, it was a must. Not anymore. I guess I have become selfish in my old age: I have finally understood that MY pleasure is first. I always cum. If the escort shoots, so much for the better. If he doesn't, it is no longer a big deal.

Although I do not require an escort to cum, I enjoy the taste so I want him to, but because I enjoy it. I had a guy one time say "oh, but this is about your pleasure not mine." After explaining that I found that it enhanced my pleasure, he came.

 

That said, I also understand that sometimes a guy simply cannot cum. That's fine with me.

[Kuriousity]

Well I don't require it, but I let the escort know how important to my enjoyment of a hire that particular aspect is (it's right up there with kissing for me) and if they choose not to, I leave the session disappointed and simply never hire them again.

 

Based on your wording, you do require a cumshot...you just don't want to say it. Whether or not an escort shoots with you is not an indication of you or your attractiveness level or his enjoyment or whatever. The only person one needs to be concerned about having a pop shot is the person they see in the mirror.

[jimboivyo]

not a biggie for me

 

if the guy can really shoot, it's fun to see but not a make er break thing

[+ glennnn]

Not required, but greatly enjoyed and appreciated, because I usually dont cum until I am tasting and swallowing his load. For me, that is making love; its MY trigger. The greater the volume of both sound and cum the better.

[down_to_business]

Based on your wording, you do require a cumshot...you just don't want to say it. Whether or not an escort shoots with you is not an indication of you or your attractiveness level or his enjoyment or whatever. The only person one needs to be concerned about having a pop shot is the person they see in the mirror.

 

No I meant what I said, I do not require it. I don't withhold his fee. I don't threaten or give him a bad review. I don't chastise him. I simply don't give him my future business because I don't get any enjoyment from the encounter with him.

 

I do say it, I tell him how important that aspect is to me in a hire, but no- I don't force anyone to do anything they refuse to do.

 

I also have every right to be concerned with that aspect of a hire and find it important to my enjoyment if I so choose to do so. I find it quite strange that you feel you should tell me what I have the right to be concerned with in my own hires.

[Zapped]

I really like the escort to cum, and the couple of times in which this didn't happen in my earliest hiring days I was disappointed. It's usually a big part of the fantasy I'm fulfilling.

 

On the other hand, I once hired an escort as part of an evening in which I had planned a subsequent trip to a strip club and then the baths, and while I wanted to see him cum, which I enjoyed, I didn't cum myself. We also didn't connect as well sexually as I'd expected; it might have been a different night if we had. I actually had a more engaging time with the lap dances, and then a lot of poppered-up fun at the baths.

 

There are many ways to be clear about this expectation (and do so discretely) when arranging the session.

[tpl]

I used to require the escort to cum, it was a must. Not anymore. I guess I have become selfish in my old age: I have finally understood that MY pleasure is first. I always cum. If the escort shoots, so much for the better. If he doesn't, it is no longer a big deal.

I have to admit that it really affirms me if they do. Unfortunately, most don't. That's just the way it is. There's much more to the experience than that.

[+ quoththeraven]

And in many cases the escort can't come at will or on command. They're not windup toys. So as much as it adds to a client's experience if the escort comes (true for me too), it's unreasonable to expect it on demand, though some escorts are so blessed or, if you've timed your meeting right, reliable that they can produce virtually on demand.

[jjkrkwood]

Not exactly sure HOW you can control that. If it aint gonna happen, it aint gonna happen..... Would you ask for a Refund if you don't get a "creamy finish" ?

[Juan Vancouver]

No I meant what I said, I do not require it. I don't withhold his fee. I don't threaten or give him a bad review. I don't chastise him. I simply don't give him my future business because I don't get any enjoyment from the encounter with him.

 

Wow.

 

Well, at least you are honest.

 

There is something for everyone.

[WolfRamNHard]

Fascinating thread! I am almost never able to ejaculate when I'm in the presence of others (for reasons even I don't fully comprehend, but let's just call it performance anxiety and leave it at that). Therefore it seems unfair for me to demand that of my sexual partner(s), whether they be escorts or otherwise. On the other hand, I do offer to help in any way I can if they'd like to cum, and it is admittedly flattering when they do, even though I am usually unable to reciprocate.

[+ José Soplanucas]

No I meant what I said, I do not require it. I don't withhold his fee. I don't threaten or give him a bad review. I don't chastise him. I simply don't give him my future business because I don't get any enjoyment from the encounter with him.

 

I do say it, I tell him how important that aspect is to me in a hire, but no- I don't force anyone to do anything they refuse to do.

 

I also have every right to be concerned with that aspect of a hire and find it important to my enjoyment if I so choose to do so. I find it quite strange that you feel you should tell me what I have the right to be concerned with in my own hires.

I think we have a wording problem here. By "requiring " no one is meaning forcing somebody to do anything.

If you do not enjoy your meeting when the escort does not cum, let's say that you pleasure requires his ejaculation. It is a requirement for your enjoyment of the experience.

[+ WmClarke]

Fascinating thread! I am almost never able to ejaculate when I'm in the presence of others (for reasons even I don't fully comprehend, but let's just call it performance anxiety and leave it at that). Therefore it seems unfair for me to demand that of my sexual partner(s), whether they be escorts or otherwise. On the other hand, I do offer to help in any way I can if they'd like to cum, and it is admittedly flattering when they do, even though I am usually unable to reciprocate.

Welcome to the forums, WRNH!

[down_to_business]

70%+ of my hires used to be for overnights and weekends and longer.... I think some of us are comparing apples to oranges.

 

Of course there was Jason M. of NYC many years ago who gave about 10 in the course of one hour lol.

[+ SundayZip]

I find that the more I assure an escort that I don't care if he cums, the more likely it is that he will cum.

[+ quoththeraven]

70%+ of my hires used to be for overnights and weekends and longer.... I think some of us are comparing apples to oranges.

 

Of course there was Jason M. of NYC many years ago who gave about 10 in the course of one hour lol.

 

It would be unusual for an escort not to ejaculate at least once in the course of an overnight or weekend. I guess as to the others, if they can't reliably ejaculate, you don't rehire them. That seems a little unfair in that coming, in those circumstances, can't be guaranteed. That's especially true if you tell them how important it is to you, ehich may actually work against you.

 

Thanks for the additional information.

[Juan Vancouver]

Of course there was Jason M. of NYC many years ago who gave about 10 in the course of one hour lol.

 

Surely that's a condition!

[edinbrooklyn]

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[TruthBTold]

I try to make it so that the escort cums during our time together and I guess the passion would not culminate if he did not. He could do it be by BJ, or me fucking him (e.g. by sitting on me), or him fucking me. But it seems like they all have. And while I don't necessarily have to get off (meds make it harder now and what seems to be embarrassingly small amounts) most escorts always make sure I get off. God bless them.