guru68 Posted February 14, 2021 Share Posted February 14, 2021 Another "Seeking" intersection. Longtime cam model Zander Sparks of NY has not made an appearance on CB in three months. His TW has been suspended (sometime in the last few weeks), though he's at least visited his OF page recently. Interesting enough, an entry on SA using pix from his Instagram and claiming to be unemployed in Grimsby, Ontario popped up a couple of days ago. I'm tempted to contact him even though it's very likely a scammer. And just got confirmation from the man himself that it isn't him. marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Bryan Dube Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 And just got confirmation from the man himself that it isn't him. I talked to him a while back on CB even did a few pvt shows—all with the goal of trying to get him to hang out in person. But he never seemed receptive to the idea. unfortunately. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guru68 Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 I talked to him a while back on CB even did a few pvt shows—all with the goal of trying to get him to hang out in person. But he never seemed receptive to the idea. unfortunately. My brief foray into his OF did not leave me impressed. All solo jacking with a toy here and there, nothing that he didn't do on CB. I did ask him if he was going to do another CB show soon - no response so far. It might be that he's making enough with OF not to care, though I always remembered his shows doing well. I'd be more surprised about him not wanting to hang out if he'd done any duo shows. I wonder if he's done any Spiderman cosplay - he looks like Tobey and Tom had a kid together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Bryan Dube Posted February 17, 2021 Share Posted February 17, 2021 My brief foray into his OF did not leave me impressed. All solo jacking with a toy here and there, nothing that he didn't do on CB. I did ask him if he was going to do another CB show soon - no response so far. It might be that he's making enough with OF not to care, though I always remembered his shows doing well. I'd be more surprised about him not wanting to hang out if he'd done any duo shows. I wonder if he's done any Spiderman cosplay - he looks like Tobey and Tom had a kid together. Yeah same for me. I only subscribed once for that reason. I don't ever recall him doing duo shows. but yeah i stopped barking up that tree when i realized he just wanted to keep everything online. ?♂️ he is a cutey though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 17, 2021 Share Posted February 17, 2021 I can't say enough good things about SA. Best investment ever. It's great for both daddies and SB's. Lots of men there are open to just go on trips, and they don't charge the ludicrous fees the escorts on RM are requesting. For the savings, you could fly up someone from a foreign country if you wished (and I have, multiple times). I've become friends with many of these men, all of whom have said that our time together was the best time of their lives. Although I eventually found out he was using my house as a bordello while I was at work, I cannot deny that the nearly 2 years I had with my lyin' Paraguayan were the happiest of my life, and many friends told me they'd never seen my happier. My retirement with "Diego" has been pretty close to paradise for me. He tells me likewise. And if that doesn't work out, I have 1200 messages from other men over the last 90 days. I can't think of anything that has made such a difference in my life (or the lives of the men who've connected with me) than that website. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted February 17, 2021 Share Posted February 17, 2021 I can't say enough good things about SA. +1 I love it although I’ve temporarily inactivated my paid subscription bcs of covid. I’ve been on I think 3 years now. Great resource. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted February 17, 2021 Share Posted February 17, 2021 I can't say enough good things about SA. Best investment ever. It's great for both daddies and SB's. Lots of men there are open to just go on trips, and they don't charge the ludicrous fees the escorts on RM are requesting. For the savings, you could fly up someone from a foreign country if you wished (and I have, multiple times). I've become friends with many of these men, all of whom have said that our time together was the best time of their lives. Although I eventually found out he was using my house as a bordello while I was at work, I cannot deny that the nearly 2 years I had with my lyin' Paraguayan were the happiest of my life, and many friends told me they'd never seen my happier. My retirement with "Diego" has been pretty close to paradise for me. He tells me likewise. And if that doesn't work out, I have 1200 messages from other men over the last 90 days. I can't think of anything that has made such a difference in my life (or the lives of the men who've connected with me) than that website. wasn't he the one who turn your house into a bordello? My house has been a bordello! | M4M Message Forum (m4m-forum.org) you're a hopeless romantic and we're happy for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smurof Posted February 17, 2021 Share Posted February 17, 2021 For all the posts to go into the 70 page range, this seems psychotic to be among them. Especially considering the original poster hasn't been on here in many, many years. Now I'm guilty of prolonging it, SMH! marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted February 17, 2021 Share Posted February 17, 2021 For all the posts to go into the 70 page range, this seems psychotic to be among them. Especially considering the original poster hasn't been on here in many, many years. Now I'm guilty of prolonging it, SMH! Whatever happened to @Keith30309 didn't he get a guy for 400 a week from SA? I can't find the post! HoseMaster 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 17, 2021 Share Posted February 17, 2021 wasn't he the one who turn your house into a bordello? My house has been a bordello! | M4M Message Forum (m4m-forum.org) you're a hopeless romantic and we're happy for you! Yes, the lyin' Paraguayan turned my house into a bordello, so I kicked him out. But we still had a wonderful time together, and we're still on cordial terms. I just don't trust him. "Diego" couldn't do that if he wanted to, since I'm retired and home most of the time now. But I doubt he wants to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted February 17, 2021 Share Posted February 17, 2021 Yes, the lyin' Paraguayan turned my house into a bordello, so I kicked him out. But we still had a wonderful time together, and we're still on cordial terms. I just don't trust him. "Diego" couldn't do that if he wanted to, since I'm retired and home most of the time now. But I doubt he wants to. Great! I also always remember the good things of my previous partners/lovers and later on hires. I never had a sugar boy but I'm comfortable hiring and even those who claim to get lucky on SA still hire from regular sites. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted February 19, 2021 Share Posted February 19, 2021 Whatever happened to @Keith30309 didn't he get a guy for 400 a week from SA? I can't find the post! I took an Atlanta SA guy with me on a business trip for 5 days and paid air, expenses, etc., and gave him something in that ballpark for walking-around money since I was in meetings most of the time. I’m far too unpleasant to be around any longer than that. In Houston I regularly gave guys $100 - $300 for overnights. These were students who had nothing else to do and enjoyed a little taste of luxury. i still occasionally hear from a few SA guys but haven't met any in a year. JulianLondon, LivingnLA, + FrankR and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Just Sayin Posted February 19, 2021 Share Posted February 19, 2021 I signed on to SA for 30 days; I have been on the Growlr app for maybe 6 months, and interestingly, there are a number of guys on Growlr who are also on SA, and a couple of Mintboys too; has anyone else noticed? MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Just Sayin Posted February 19, 2021 Share Posted February 19, 2021 I signed on to SA for 30 days; I have been on the Growlr app for maybe 6 months, and interestingly, there are a number of guys on Growlr who are also on SA, and a couple of Mintboys too; has anyone else noticed? MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KeepItReal Posted February 19, 2021 Share Posted February 19, 2021 I signed on to SA for 30 days; I have been on the Growlr app for maybe 6 months, and interestingly, there are a number of guys on Growlr who are also on SA, and a couple of Mintboys too; has anyone else noticed? Yes I have noticed, overlap is not uncommon. I haven't used Growlr, but have checked out both Seeking and Mintboys and I have seen familiar faces on both. + Just Sayin, marylander1940 and MikeBiDude 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KeepItReal Posted February 19, 2021 Share Posted February 19, 2021 I signed on to SA for 30 days; I have been on the Growlr app for maybe 6 months, and interestingly, there are a number of guys on Growlr who are also on SA, and a couple of Mintboys too; has anyone else noticed? Yes I have noticed, overlap is not uncommon. I haven't used Growlr, but have checked out both Seeking and Mintboys and I have seen familiar faces on both. MikeBiDude, + Just Sayin and marylander1940 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTMike Posted February 19, 2021 Share Posted February 19, 2021 Yes I have noticed, overlap is not uncommon. I haven't used Growlr, but have checked out both Seeking and Mintboys and I have seen familiar faces on both. Likewise for me (though i don't know what Growlr is) hahaha but I do occasionally see profiles that appear on both Seeking and RentMen. + Just Sayin and KeepItReal 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTMike Posted February 19, 2021 Share Posted February 19, 2021 Yes I have noticed, overlap is not uncommon. I haven't used Growlr, but have checked out both Seeking and Mintboys and I have seen familiar faces on both. Likewise for me (though i don't know what Growlr is) hahaha but I do occasionally see profiles that appear on both Seeking and RentMen. KeepItReal and + Just Sayin 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidAndy Posted February 22, 2021 Share Posted February 22, 2021 I have used a strategy suggested by someone previously - paying $50 just to meet for coffee and chat and just had my first meet. It was great! The guy was nice and pleasant, showed me a couple of good places to eat and I had overall a great time. Now we are moving towards more intimate things, like spending a night together. I have never spent a night with an escort before, but I want slow sensational encounter. Any tips from the pros how to make it happen in the best way? fedssocr1, JulianLondon, Kcdave and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Just Sayin Posted February 28, 2021 Share Posted February 28, 2021 just asking for a friend....has anyone had a SA-style ongoing relationship with an escort? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fedssocr1 Posted February 28, 2021 Share Posted February 28, 2021 despite my complaints about this site, I may have actually had some success. With my subscription running out I met a couple of guys on the app - one of whom I had a very pleasant coffee date with last week. He's a very sweet young guy who I actually see a lot of myself in when I was that age. We've been texting throughout the ensuing week and expect to meet again soon. I don't mind taking things slow with him. And the other guy I've also had some very nice online conversations with. We haven't met yet but plan to - he's working two jobs so doesn't have a huge amount of free time. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Impeccable_G Posted February 28, 2021 Share Posted February 28, 2021 I have used a strategy suggested by someone previously - paying $50 just to meet for coffee and chat and just had my first meet. It was great! The guy was nice and pleasant, showed me a couple of good places to eat and I had overall a great time. Now we are moving towards more intimate things, like spending a night together. I have never spent a night with an escort before, but I want slow sensational encounter. Any tips from the pros how to make it happen in the best way? Start slowly. No overnights. I rarely hire escorts. I prefer the less transactional amateurish SA and Instagram guys. + José Soplanucas, MscleLovr and Kcdave 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted February 28, 2021 Share Posted February 28, 2021 Start slowly. No overnights. I rarely hire escorts. I prefer the less transactional amateurish SA and Instagram guys. I’m taking a break from SA at the moment...didn’t renew and account is deactivated for now....I’ll be back on soon. But the 3-4 guys I’ve gotten close to over the years have kept in touch during the last (Covid) year via text/email. Even one socially distanced coffee meet with an SA buddy a few weeks ago in San Diego. Zero requests from any of them for any kind of compensation the last 12 months. + WilliamM, MscleLovr and HoseMaster 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kko123 Posted February 28, 2021 Share Posted February 28, 2021 Start slowly. No overnights. I rarely hire escorts. I prefer the less transactional amateurish SA and Instagram guys. Care to share more about these Instagram guys you've been successful with?? HoseMaster 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtwalker Posted February 28, 2021 Share Posted February 28, 2021 What is SA? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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