+ goosh69 Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 The hypocrisy of the SA management is surprisingly different from what I’d expect. (I.e., when there’s money involved I expect hypocrisy... just of a different sort.) Their customers - those who pay for subscriptions - are very heavily scrutinized and messages monitored. But the content posted by the free members seems to have few boundaries: I'm naturally submissive, loyal to people close to me, and attentive to other's needs. I currently live at home, and I'm having trouble with rent and going to school full time, so I need a bit of discreet assistance. I’m everything that makes a good time worthy. I’m versatile, submissive and ready to be paid for. I’m here to have a good time with you as well. If you think we could have some sort of good conversation and sexual chemistry; I’d love to be a part of something interesting. I’m a poet, and an emotional bitch; I’ve got daddy issues that I wouldn’t mind discussing Not looking for anything serious or committed, just looking for a daddy (or mommy) to have some fun with. A weekly allowance would be ideal, and we can discuss what I can do on my end to keep you happy. Message me and we can hash out the details, baby. Let's make your fantasies realities. ? I'm looking for sexual encounters either one time or many times. I'm happy to go on dates with you. I can be a little kinky so if you are that's a plus, just give me a list of what you're into to make sure I'm okay with it. With men I'm a bottom but be sure to go slow ? Tall, Black, and hung here... Not into back n forth just looking for someone serious with ??? Very athletic, fit, young man who is well endowed. I currently go to college and need help getting through financially, hit me up . I'll do anything for some money, let me know what you have in mind. Let’s break the ice over a Private lunch upon arrival to find something suitable for the night: Toys? Gangs? Jockstrap? Handcuffs? Strawberry syrup? It gives me a chance to figure out a little more about your fantasies and kinks. What gets you going? What keeps you going? Etcetera. I would have guessed they would be willing to look the other way for those who write their paycheck. BUt why do daddy’s need to say anything? Its obvious what they’re offering.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 BUt why do daddy’s need to say anything? Its obvious what they’re offering.... I don’t think it’s that simple...at least not from my experiences + quoththeraven 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted March 25, 2019 Share Posted March 25, 2019 Stop reporting... live and let live! I reported a couple of guys on Grindr but I stopped doing it.... amateur guys on Grindr willing to do it for $100 save escorts from being bothered by bottom feeders who end up becoming No-shows. I'm shocked about how much S.A. wants to deny the obvious... Sugar daddy = long term client I’ve been hesitant to join Grindr. I’m not sure that I want to be in the Chinese Ministry of State Security’s database! https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/josh-rogin/wp/2018/01/12/can-the-chinese-government-now-get-access-to-your-grindr-profile/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.5b075d47962a marylander1940 and + quoththeraven 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted March 25, 2019 Share Posted March 25, 2019 FYI I’m in contact with Seeking customer support and seems they *might* reinstate my account after I sent an email re-agreeing to the TOS ?? So...an update and some interesting information. After a weekend of 2 to 3 emails back-and-forth with customer support, and a statement from me promising to be a good boy in the future, SA reinstated my original account ???? Funny side story... I used another device and a different email account to set up a “temporary“ new account on seeking over the weekend. I wanted to reach out to to 3 gentlemen I have been in contact with, regarding an out-of-town trip I had coming up in the future. I had only recently reached out to these 3 from my original account, before I got suspended. Before my new profile for the new temp account was even approved, I sent a message to each of the 3 stating that my original account had been deleted, and here was my phone number if they were still interested. Within 12 hours of my new temporary profile being approved by seeking, my new account was suspended for using “escort terminology“ Coincidence? I suspect not! I think one of the 3 out-of-towners reported me. As soon as my original account was reinstated I promptly blocked those 3 (and a few other recently contacted users) and deleted our convos. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimjaxon3 Posted March 25, 2019 Share Posted March 25, 2019 So my only fear with putting in a credit card is it being an Ashley Maddison .. where they target it, and release info on people paying to be a part of it. + Pensant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted March 25, 2019 Share Posted March 25, 2019 I’ve been hesitant to join Grindr. I’m not sure that I want to be in the Chinese Ministry of State Security’s database! https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/josh-rogin/wp/2018/01/12/can-the-chinese-government-now-get-access-to-your-grindr-profile/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.5b075d47962a I would not worry. If you are my age or older, the raise of China following USA and Europe collapse will take place when we are dead or too old to care about it. + g56whiz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ quoththeraven Posted March 25, 2019 Share Posted March 25, 2019 I would not worry. If you are my age or older, the raise of China following USA and Europe collapse will take place when we are dead or too old to care about it. What makes you think the Chinese government can't make mischief with that information now? They may not be as anti-gay as Russia, but they're not friendly. It may be true, however, that they aren't interested in ruining your life, but only the lives of Chinese nationals or famous or politically connected people they can embarrass or threaten. + José Soplanucas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted March 25, 2019 Share Posted March 25, 2019 What makes you think the Chinese government can't make mischief with that information now? They may not be as anti-gay as Russia, but they're not friendly. It may be true, however, that they aren't interested in ruining your life, but only the lives of Chinese nationals or famous or politically connected people they can embarrass or threaten. It was just a joke. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ oldNbusted Posted March 25, 2019 Share Posted March 25, 2019 It was just a joke. That doesn't make it untrue! + José Soplanucas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RealAvalon Posted March 25, 2019 Share Posted March 25, 2019 I’ve been hesitant to join Grindr. I’m not sure that I want to be in the Chinese Ministry of State Security’s database! https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/josh-rogin/wp/2018/01/12/can-the-chinese-government-now-get-access-to-your-grindr-profile/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.5b075d47962a Everyone probably already is + oldNbusted 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ quoththeraven Posted March 25, 2019 Share Posted March 25, 2019 It was just a joke. Ah. Sometimes I can't tell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted March 25, 2019 Share Posted March 25, 2019 Ah. Sometimes I can't tell. At least you did not say "never". + quoththeraven 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted March 26, 2019 Share Posted March 26, 2019 Funny side story... I used another device and a different email account to set up a “temporary“ new account on seeking over the weekend. I wanted to reach out to to 3 gentlemen I have been in contact with, regarding an out-of-town trip I had coming up in the future. I had only recently reached out to these 3 from my original account, before I got suspended. Before my new profile for the new temp account was even approved, I sent a message to each of the 3 stating that my original account had been deleted, and here was my phone number if they were still interested. Within 12 hours of my new temporary profile being approved by seeking, my new account was suspended for using “escort terminology“ Coincidence? I suspect not! I think one of the 3 out-of-towners reported me. As soon as my original account was reinstated I promptly blocked those 3 (and a few other recently contacted users) and deleted our convos. Interesting to hear @MikeBiDude tnat you’ve had these difficulties with Seeking. When I was actively looking, I always stressed that I wanted an “arrangement” with an attractive young man as a “potential husband”. I emphasised that we needed to be “compatible physically” and emotionally. And lastly I mentioned that if the initial meeting went well, the young man would need to “commit” to a relationship. I never suggested anywhere how long (or temporary) the arrangement might be. The young men seemed to understand readily what I was contemplating. And I never fell foul of the ‘escorting police’. + José Soplanucas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ muscleboyinsd Posted March 26, 2019 Share Posted March 26, 2019 Interesting to hear @MikeBiDude tnat you’ve had these difficulties with Seeking. When I was actively looking, I always stressed that I wanted an “arrangement” with an attractive young man as a “potential husband”. I emphasised that we needed to be “compatible physically” and emotionally. And lastly I mentioned that if the initial meeting went well, the young man would need to “commit” to a relationship. I never suggested anywhere how long (or temporary) the arrangement might be. The young men seemed to understand readily what I was contemplating. And I never fell foul of the ‘escorting police’. My chats with the boys on Seeking varied a lot... Whenever they were specifically asking about what would be involved in an agreement, I always mentioned that I wanted to hang out and take them out to dinner and that I wanted a sexual element. And if they asked, I would agree that there would be a financial arrangement and we could meet a few times a month. I've never been barred from the site for that, and we were pretty clear there was sex and there was cash. Other times we just agreed to meet up for dinner and go from there. And most of the time, we switched to text fairly soon... as long as we both felt comfortable with each other. Which wasn't very often. Most of the time I would just let the conversation lapse because it didn't seem like there would be anything worth pursuing. But I've had at least 3 or 4 good and fairly long lasting experiences on Seeking. In fact, I just bumped into one of the guys I'd gone out with... dinners, movies, fun in bed at home. He'd lost my number, but I'd assumed he just lost interest. He tried to message me on the site, but I had already let my premium membership lapse so I couldn't read it, and I figured that he just didn't recognize my profile so I didn't bother to renew my Premium Membership to read his message. But I texted him after I saw him in public this past Sunday, and he said he'd lost my number and started texting again, and I'm taking him out to dinner tomorrow night So overall, while that site is a mixed bag... you can be somewhat open about what you're looking for without getting busted by the Secret Police. But best to switch to text as soon as you both are comfortable with it. And there are definitely boys worth meeting on the site who can hold a conversation and be fun to wine and dine and fun to roll around with in bed + Pensant, + quoththeraven, + José Soplanucas and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted March 26, 2019 Share Posted March 26, 2019 I texted him after I saw him in public this past Sunday, and he said he'd lost my number and started texting again, and I'm taking him out to dinner tomorrow night And there are definitely boys worth meeting on the site who can hold a conversation and be fun to wine and dine and fun to roll around with in bed Precisely my experience(s) too ;-) I’m glad @muscleboyinsd that you’ve re-encountered a promising guy and I hope your date goes well. + José Soplanucas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ goosh69 Posted March 27, 2019 Share Posted March 27, 2019 I’ve had more an a few who want to see how much they can get from me while staying strictly platonic and “taking it slow.” It can be a Chore. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fedssocr1 Posted March 27, 2019 Share Posted March 27, 2019 my membership has about 10 days to go and I don't expect to renew it. I did meet one guy who was fun and interesting and I think we'll get together again at some point. In the end it has been a lot of guys far away begging for money which got kind of tiresome. It's impossible to tell the scammers from the ones really in need and even if I could it's not like I can save everyone. I also think it's ridiculous that SA treats the guys paying their bills so poorly. + goosh69 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kko123 Posted March 27, 2019 Share Posted March 27, 2019 I admit my favorite part about Seeking is psychologically shifting a boy's self-perception who is resistant to the idea of being an "escort" by making it very clear how valuable their tight tushies are to me and many gentlemen really the perfect job for attractive young men jayjaycali 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted April 6, 2019 Share Posted April 6, 2019 Here's one who is 'shifting': https://rentmen.eu/Boyfriiend kko123 and marylander1940 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ oldNbusted Posted April 7, 2019 Share Posted April 7, 2019 Here's one who is 'shifting': https://rentmen.eu/Boyfriiend Already shifted to another handle? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted April 7, 2019 Share Posted April 7, 2019 Already shifted to another handle? https://rentmen.eu/versluiceyop + oldNbusted 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ muscleboyinsd Posted April 7, 2019 Share Posted April 7, 2019 https://rentmen.eu/versluiceyop His profile writing sounds like he's more or less looking to find an arrangement - as opposed to being more like an escort.. and his ass is BEAUTIFUL!!! ?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted April 7, 2019 Share Posted April 7, 2019 Is this site still good to finding a nice daddy, i haven't been on it in awhile. I want to live with a nice silver haired daddy and for him and I love to love each other forever and for us to live together in happiness Would you give up escorting to settle with a nice $ugar daddy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted April 7, 2019 Share Posted April 7, 2019 His profile writing sounds like he's more or less looking to find an arrangement - as opposed to being more like an escort.. and his ass is BEAUTIFUL!!! ?? And he maybe a whack doodle. LookingAround 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ muscleboyinsd Posted April 7, 2019 Share Posted April 7, 2019 And he maybe a whack doodle. that's always possible.. probable.. ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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