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So I tried out this SA site recently, and no sooner had I set up a profile and started looking around the site, but it was like a flock of locusts descended on me - I think in a little over a week I have close to 140 messages, all of them unread, because I'm debating on whether it's worth the bloody $80 just to be able to read them. I agree with some of the posts in this thread that it seems like much more of a crapshoot than when you hire an escort, because a lot of these guys just seem to need the money and probably couldn't be less interested in you as a person. The other thing I found strange about the site, is that sometimes I'd see that someone favorited me whom I had previously favorited, and a red box would appear announcing the reciprocity and urging me to "send a message" - so I'd send a message with my e-mail address, but to date, not one of those guys has e-mailed me. I'm assuming that it only "looks" like a message will be sent if you're a standard member, or else the site blocks out any attempt on your part in the message to convey an e-mail address - or else, they're all flakes and won't take the time to even send a brief e-mail! Let's face it, guys, $80 is a hefty price to pay for full access on a website. Also, since there are so many "Premium" level sugar babies on the site, I'm assuming that it costs them much less to have full access? I mean, it looks like they already have more privileges on the site than SD do, because they can send messages. I will admit, though, that it's tempting to pay the $80 just to read all those messages, because some of the guys looked pretty interesting...

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So I tried out this SA site recently, and no sooner had I set up a profile and started looking around the site, but it was like a flock of locusts descended on me - I think in a little over a week I have close to 140 messages, all of them unread, because I'm debating on whether it's worth the bloody $80 just to be able to read them. I agree with some of the posts in this thread that it seems like much more of a crapshoot than when you hire an escort, because a lot of these guys just seem to need the money and probably couldn't be less interested in you as a person. The other thing I found strange about the site, is that sometimes I'd see that someone favorited me whom I had previously favorited, and a red box would appear announcing the reciprocity and urging me to "send a message" - so I'd send a message with my e-mail address, but to date, not one of those guys has e-mailed me. I'm assuming that it only "looks" like a message will be sent if you're a standard member, or else the site blocks out any attempt on your part in the message to convey an e-mail address - or else, they're all flakes and won't take the time to even send a brief e-mail! Let's face it, guys, $80 is a hefty price to pay for full access on a website. Also, since there are so many "Premium" level sugar babies on the site, I'm assuming that it costs them much less to have full access? I mean, it looks like they already have more privileges on the site than SD do, because they can send messages. I will admit, though, that it's tempting to pay the $80 just to read all those messages, because some of the guys looked pretty interesting...

I am planning on signing up as I have purportedly 1700 messages to review.i haven't received any new notifications in prob 5-6 months which tells me the system is either blocking the sugar babes for lemailing me a message until I become a member and check out my inbox...anyone else have similar issues?

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I will admit, though, that it's tempting to pay the $80 just to read all those messages, because some of the guys looked pretty interesting...

 

Well, I've paid the $80 a couple of times. And I can tell you that I am suspicious that SA has a couple of guys doing several profiles that look enticing, and you never hear back from them after several back and forths.

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So I tried out this SA site recently, and no sooner had I set up a profile and started looking around the site, but it was like a flock of locusts descended on me - I think in a little over a week I have close to 140 messages, all of them unread, because I'm debating on whether it's worth the bloody $80 just to be able to read them.

 

139 of those guys want to fuck your brains out.

One wants to murder you in your sleep and steal your car.

 

Carpe Diem ! :D

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Well, I've paid the $80 a couple of times. And I can tell you that I am suspicious that SA has a couple of guys doing several profiles that look enticing, and you never hear back from them after several back and forths.

I agree. I've also observed that some of the introductions and responses are strikingly similar.

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Standard opening lines that I have seen over and over, unsolicited:

 

"Hey"

"How was your day?"

"Was up?"

 

Yep. I have gotten four unsolicited messages since reupping.

"Hello"

"Good morning"

"Hey! :) How are you?"

+1 that was actually specific in response to my profile, though the guy is not at all my "type" alas

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I have posted a profile with my pic, but the only thing traceable to my real identity is my credit card, which is not accessible to any other members.

I advice to those interested in SA to read the posts in my blog, you have some advice there.

Sugar babies who can prove they are college students obtain a Premium Membership for free.

 

Out of all my experiments, my Texas Boy is being very successful so far. He wants more sex than I do, as I am playing with others and he is not (yet), and the friendship keeps growing. I am confident we will keep hooking up after he moves out.

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Yep. I have gotten four unsolicited messages since reupping.

"Hello"

"Good morning"

"Hey! :) How are you?"

+1 that was actually specific in response to my profile, though the guy is not at all my "type" alas

 

What usually separates the wheat from the chaff, ask them to FaceTime or Skype, or even a simple phone call... it brings the phonies to a total halt.

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So I tried out this SA site recently, and no sooner had I set up a profile and started looking around the site, but it was like a flock of locusts descended on me - I think in a little over a week I have close to 140 messages, all of them unread, because I'm debating on whether it's worth the bloody $80 just to be able to read them. I agree with some of the posts in this thread that it seems like much more of a crapshoot than when you hire an escort, because a lot of these guys just seem to need the money and probably couldn't be less interested in you as a person. The other thing I found strange about the site, is that sometimes I'd see that someone favorited me whom I had previously favorited, and a red box would appear announcing the reciprocity and urging me to "send a message" - so I'd send a message with my e-mail address, but to date, not one of those guys has e-mailed me. I'm assuming that it only "looks" like a message will be sent if you're a standard member, or else the site blocks out any attempt on your part in the message to convey an e-mail address - or else, they're all flakes and won't take the time to even send a brief e-mail! Let's face it, guys, $80 is a hefty price to pay for full access on a website. Also, since there are so many "Premium" level sugar babies on the site, I'm assuming that it costs them much less to have full access? I mean, it looks like they already have more privileges on the site than SD do, because they can send messages. I will admit, though, that it's tempting to pay the $80 just to read all those messages, because some of the guys looked pretty interesting...

 

Im about 6 weeks into SA. its apparent that new members are tagged... got dozens of favorites and messages right away. Deleted a bunch, still have 80 to review. Much slower now, but still three or four per day.

 

Havent paid the $80. Probably wont, as very few guys are local. And Im not open to transportation/relocation for someone never met.

 

But, ya never know.... so I'm just being very casual, passive..... and maybe someday, something will pique my interests enough to subscribe

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So I tried out this SA site recently, and no sooner had I set up a profile and started looking around the site, but it was like a flock of locusts descended on me - I think in a little over a week I have close to 140 messages, all of them unread, because I'm debating on whether it's worth the bloody $80 just to be able to read them. I agree with some of the posts in this thread that it seems like much more of a crapshoot than when you hire an escort, because a lot of these guys just seem to need the money and probably couldn't be less interested in you as a person. The other thing I found strange about the site, is that sometimes I'd see that someone favorited me whom I had previously favorited, and a red box would appear announcing the reciprocity and urging me to "send a message" - so I'd send a message with my e-mail address, but to date, not one of those guys has e-mailed me. I'm assuming that it only "looks" like a message will be sent if you're a standard member, or else the site blocks out any attempt on your part in the message to convey an e-mail address - or else, they're all flakes and won't take the time to even send a brief e-mail! Let's face it, guys, $80 is a hefty price to pay for full access on a website. Also, since there are so many "Premium" level sugar babies on the site, I'm assuming that it costs them much less to have full access? I mean, it looks like they already have more privileges on the site than SD do, because they can send messages. I will admit, though, that it's tempting to pay the $80 just to read all those messages, because some of the guys looked pretty interesting...

 

Im about 6 weeks into SA. its apparent that new members are tagged... got dozens of favorites and messages right away. Deleted a bunch, still have 80 to review. Much slower now, but still three or four per day.

 

Havent paid the $80. Probably wont, as very few guys are local. And Im not open to transportation/relocation for someone never met.

 

But, ya never know.... so I'm just being very casual, passive..... and maybe someday, something will pique my interests enough to subscribe

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