WHEN will rich older guys learn???????

[maninsoma]

I'd agree with that -- except when it comes to the younger guy killing the older guy like in this situation. I think that SeanCody model who got caught up in the Donald Burns mess got railroaded -- why wasn't Burns charged with transporting these guys across state lines and paying them for sex? Oh that's right, he has money and influence. Based on my own observations of "May-December" relationships I've come across, there have been a few where the older fellow with the money was clearly a control freak and viewed the younger guy as the trophy, the possession vs. as a partner. Sad.

 

Really? I think the Sean Cody guy who had already extorted a lot of money out of Burns and then was trying to blackmail him for more wasn't railroaded. His greed was just excessive. I haven't seen any allegations that Burns did anything beyond hiring young men for sex. Yes, that isn't legal. But the guys he was hiring were willing partners in those transactions. There were no allegations that he was kidnapping anyone or through some other means forcing them to do things they didn't want to do.

[Tonyko]

Why is attraction based on looks more valid than attraction that based on fame, status, power, or whatever?

 

They're two sides of the same coin. Sic transit gloria mundi.

I don't know about that. Think you'd be hard pressed to find a young guy who would turn down another hot young guy because he was jobless or even HOME less lol. Because physical attraction is genuine and can't be forced. Don't think being with someone you're TRULY attracted to possibly "in spite" of something, and being with someone you're in NO WAY physically attracted to "becau$e" of something, is on the same coin One is turning a blind eye to an aspect that you don't like about a guy you're INTO, and the other is having to CLOSE your eyes just to get thru putting it IN him. Or vice versa. And hey I'm sure there are 34 yo's who find regular non-rich 75 year old men physically hot. (They live mostly in heavily wooded areas of the Pacific North West their footrpints have been found )

[+ honcho]

And hey I'm sure there are 34 yo's who find regular non-rich 75 year old men physically hot. (They live mostly in heavily wooded areas of the Pacific North West their footrpints have been found )

 

Back in the day, there was a print porn magazine called "Chiron Rising" which featured guys in the 65-85 year old

age range. The photographer who photographed me for a spread many (many) years ago volunteered

his efforts for it, and according to him, it *did* sell.

[+ FreshFluff]

I don't know about that. Think you'd be hard pressed to find a young guy who would turn down another hot young guy because he was jobless or even HOME less lol. Because physical attraction is genuine and can't be forced. Don't think being with someone you're TRULY attracted to possibly "in spite" of something, and being with someone you're in NO WAY physically attracted to "becau$e" of something, is on the same coin One is turning a blind eye to an aspect that you don't like about a guy you're INTO, and the other is having to CLOSE your eyes just to get thru putting it IN him. Or vice versa. And hey I'm sure there are 34 yo's who find regular non-rich 75 year old men physically hot. (They live mostly in heavily wooded areas of the Pacific North West their footrpints have been found )

 

Tonyko, you assume that one can only be genuinely attracted to hotness and youth, and everything else is forced in order to obtain $ome benefit.

 

And are you talking about men only here? Guys are indeed wired to value those things, but haven't you met guys who are also genuinely turned on by fame, sexual experience, musical talent or whatever? Also, the 34 to 74 example is extreme. How about 34 to 50?

 

And that's just men. For the other half of the world, it's a completely different ball of, er, fluff.

[Tonyko]

Tonyko, you assume that one can only be genuinely attracted to hotness and youth, and everything else is forced in order to obtain $ome benefit.

Noooo, I assume young hot men who are with wealthy older men would not be with them if they were mailmen and while the other things you mention may be turn-ons, if they looked at the man knowing NOTHING about him and WEREN'T turned on, then a major part of it IS forced. If the basic "physical" attraction is one-sided which it almost always is (esp if the boy is str8 lol) it rarely turns out well. And yes I have met young hot guys who are star-fckers lol they're very excited by the idea of getting with these kind of older men so yes that does exist. (but they don't JO thinking of them )

[caliguy]

Noooo, I assume young hot men who are with wealthy older men would not be with them if they were mailmen and while the other things you mention may be turn-ons, if they looked at the man knowing NOTHING about him and WEREN'T turned on, then a major part of it IS forced. If the basic "physical" attraction is one-sided which it almost always is (esp if the boy is str8 lol) it rarely turns out well. And yes I have met young hot guys who are star-fckers lol they're very excited by the idea of getting with these kind of older men so yes that does exist. (but they don't JO thinking of them )

Whenever there's a post about May/December couples I usually get beat up for saying the same thing. Apparently, people don't like hearing reality. I always get a kick out of the mind games they'll play sometimes. I always say just take away juniors allowance and will see how far that love goes.

 

However, if the guy is a bit older and/or established it's different. You know. Maturity and all. So I try to make it very clear it's about the age range/type (young guy lust) and not just the difference.

Edited December 30, 2015 by caliguy

[instudiocity]

Whenever there's a post about May/December couples...

Watch who you're calling December! I'm September if I'm a month. But my attractions go to April and May most often.

[+ FreshFluff]

Whenever there's a post about May/December couples I usually get beat up for saying the same thing. Apparently, people don't like hearing reality. I always get a kick out of the mind games they'll play sometimes. I always say just take away juniors allowance and will see how far that love goes.

 

However, if the guy is a bit older and/or established it's different. You know. Maturity and all. So I try to make it very clear it's about the age range/type (young guy lust) and not just the difference.

 

Er, guys, have you read my posts? I understand as well as anyone how men are wired. In fact, I just liked a post that said, in full, "the dick wants what it wants."

 

While looks come first, attraction is driven by lots of idiosyncratic factors that come from early experiences. For example, straight men look for partners that resemble their mothers. Yes, that has actually been shown. I wouldn't be surprised if gay men have some version of this too.

[Tonyko]

Whenever there's a post about May/December couples I usually get beat up for saying the same thing. Apparently, people don't like hearing reality.

Well I work in an industry and live in two places where I SEE this reality all the time. However I do want to say that I will acknowlege the exceptions where BOTH the physical and the $ocial attaction is there for the younger guy, but I think it's very rare. (if I were still in my 20's and a now 50somehing Tom Cruise (who I still find very Hot - I usually get beat up for saying THAT lol) hit on me I'd def be into ALL of him. If he looked liked Ricky Gervais or it was say a much older Tab Hunter, that wouldn't be the case

[samhexum]

David Meza has been sentenced to life in prison in connection with the brutal murder of his boyfriend in 2015.

 

The adult film star, who was reportedly leading a double life at the time of the murder, reportedly stabbed then-boyfriend Jake Merendino 24 times before slitting his throat and dumping his body in a ravine just off a highway in Rosarito Beach, Mexico, NBC San Diego reported.

 

According to People magazine, the 27-year-old was sentenced to an additional 20 years behind bars due to a conspiracy to obstruct justice conviction handed down during a May court appearance.

 

During that same trial, Meza was charged with domestic violence resulting in murder.

 

A judge described the crime against Merendino as "shockingly evil," People stated.

 

"The Merriam dictionary defines 'heinous' as hatefully or shockingly evil, abominable," U.S. District Judge Jeffrey T. Miller said during the hearing on Monday.

 

"The murder was shockingly evil — excessively so."

 

Miller went on to paint a picture of what Meza did to his beau, describing the repeated "torture" he endured.

 

"If we try to visualize what happened, we visualize blow, after blow, after blow, after blow, after slash, after slash, after slash, after blow, and repeat another three times," Miller described.

 

"One can't even imagine the torture and torment Mr. Merendino experienced."

 

Citing conversations inside the court room, People reported that authorities argued that Meza killed Merendino in the hopes of inheriting his $3 million estate along with his $273,000 condo with an oceanfront view.

 

The 51-year-old inherited his fortune from his parents, both of whom were employed at one time by ExxonMobil.

 

Merendino made Meza the beneficiary of the condo and drafted a will on hotel letterhead in December 2014, just over a year after the pair met.

 

In it, Meza was chosen as the heir to Merendino's fortune.

 

Miller said during sentencing that Meza's crime was fueled by desperation and greed, stating that his secretive life was falling to bits around him.

 

"His double life was collapsing under his own weight. A solution was the savage murder of Mr. Merendino," the judge stated.

 

When the killing occurred in May 2015, authorities claimed Meza was working as an online escort.

 

Unbeknownst to Merendino, People reported, Meza was dating a woman named Taylor Langston.

 

Langston was pregnant when the crime occurred and was called in to assist in covering up Merendino's murder.

 

According to the publication, she pleaded guilty in February to one count of conspiracy to obstruct justice. She told police that when Merendino died, she and her beau had just crossed into Mexico to visit a friend named "Joe."

 

She claimed they spent four hours there before returning home to San Diego.

 

Meza was charged with the same crime because authorities suspected he'd contacted "Joe" and requested a fake alibi for him and his girlfriend.

 

http://assets.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.2476198.1450986469!/img/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/article_750/merendino25n-2-web.jpg

[+ sync]

All the way back when I was a freshman in high school, the teacher of business law told the class to "never, ever make yourself more valuable dead than alive."

[P Gren]

From Calvin Klein on down, a straight G4P pornstar BF is NEVER A GOOD IDEA. They are going against their nature and are with you for ONE reason only and are usually full of self-loathing for it and will eventually loath YOU (as will the GF's they all have) then either embarrass you or worse rob or extort you or WORSE kill you to get their hand$$ on the one thing they are with you for. Fool around with them fullfill your fantasy but DON'T make them your partner it NEVER works:eek:.

*the deets of the handwritten "will" have not yet come out, it simply says "convinced" him to make him his heir, but wouldn't be surprised if it was at knifepoint:(

 

http://str8upgayporn.com/mario-romo-murder-david-meza-gay-porn-star/

I expect there's some level of 'self-loathing' with both partners.

[LADoug1]

There is going to be a miniseries about the Versace murder. Anyone know when it will air?

[Walker1]

Reminds me of these two love birds. How is it that anyone could partner with someone that's disgusted by you and probably themselves is beyond me. Clearly there's signs but hey you get to be with that hottie.

 

I don't pray or find sympathy for any of them either. It's just dumb.

 

Wait-is that Newt Gingrich? Does Newt Gingrich have a secret gay lover?

[+ poolboy48220]

There is going to be a miniseries about the Versace murder. Anyone know when it will air?

Wednesday, Jan. 17 at 10 PM, on FX

[+ Gar1eth]

Reminds me of these two love birds. How is it that anyone could partner with someone that's disgusted by you and probably themselves is beyond me. Clearly there's signs but hey you get to be with that hottie.

 

I don't pray or find sympathy for any of them either. It's just dumb.

Who are these two lovebirds?

 

Gman

[marylander1940]

it ain't just rich older men

 

guys in general are idiots when it comes to thinking with their dick

 

We know you're country and we miss you!

 

@Benjamin_Nicholas How is he doing?

[LADoug1]

Wednesday, Jan. 17 at 10 PM, on FX

Thanks. Do you know what it’s called?

[+ poolboy48220]

official title is American Crime Story: Versace (or "The Assassination of Gianni Versace").

[Walker1]

My retort is "When will poor younger guys learn"? They would/should know it's a relationship (if it can even really be called that) for a limited time only. They're not getting anything from a will, and everyone will wonder what this nobody is doing with this somebody. It is clearly a one-sided advantage from my vantage point.

Is it because same sex couples/gender-not making into anti gay-but wonder if it is gender dynamics? We all know of Anna Nicole Smith. Then there is Erica Girardi/jayne on the real housewives of Beverly Housewives(I know, I know, I watch the series) Plenty of straight couples and while many make snide remarks-but not as much ridicule as gay age difference couples.

Erika is a 45 year old tall, sexy hot stuff and he is ahem -homely and short and close to 80-but has two private jets and mansions and help. Reputedly he gives her 40k a month for makeup and hair They have been married 18 years and she has a "singing" career-though in the Billboard charts-though most of her videos are financed by hubby dearest.

 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Is it because same sex couples/gender-not making into anti gay-but wonder if it is gender dynamics? We all know of Anna Nicole Smith. Then there is Erica Girardi/jayne on the real housewives of Beverly Housewives(I know, I know, I watch the series) Plenty of straight couples and while many make snide remarks-but not as much ridicule as gay age difference couples.

Erika is a 45 year old tall, sexy hot stuff and he is ahem -homely and short and close to 80-but has two private jets and mansions and help. Reputedly he gives her 40k a month for makeup and hair They have been married 18 years and she has a "singing" career-though in the Billboard charts-though most of her videos are financed by hubby dearest.

 

 

But if they're happy, and they appear to be, who's to judge?

[+ WilliamM]

Continually bringing back so many old threads is a bad idea. Many people who posted are no longer here to defend themselves; they moved to other interests.

 

I have not seen any of my old post yet because I am living in the present & have not bothered to look. But, I do not want to defend something written years ago and taken out of context now.

[bigvalboy]

Continually bringing back so many old threads is a bad idea. Many people who posted are no longer here to defend themselves; they moved to other interests.

 

I have not seen any of my old post yet because I am living in the present & have not bothered to look. But, I do not want to defend something written years ago and taken out of context now.

 

+1

[samhexum]

This thread is just under 2 years old. What the statute of limitations? Are we allowed to access a time prior to when Jared Kushner's romantic rival was elected POTUS?

[+ WilliamM]

This thread is just under 2 years old. What the statute of limitations? Are we allowed to access a time prior to when Jared Kushner's romantic rival was elected POTUS?

 

It took just a few seconds to find someone who made his last post a few days after this thread was started two years ago. Look I could give more examples, but you are aware how often you bring back old threads.