Being Asked to Pick a Third

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I often have clients inquire about arranging a 3-way with me and another escort. For me, when it comes to having a third join, I always want to make sure that they will only add to the ecstatic magic that will be taking place. I don't want someone to join us that will bring an energy that isn't completely wonderful and positive. Most of the time they will ask my advice on whom I know that can join us, of which I have a list of 3 or 4 local guys that I know and trust. When I'm traveling, it's a little more difficult, but I will go through ads and see who I feel good about. I look more into what they say than I neccesarily do there pics, however, professional pics are a sign that a guy takes his work seriously. When it comes to reviewing ads, I usually will pass on one's that say things like "clean" when referring to their HIV/STI status. I also will pass on guys that have very little to say in their profile, or say things like "I'm open to any and everything".

 

I will often spend a significant amount of time to select the right guy, just to have the prospective client say they don't like them. Many times, after all the back and forth, the client doesn't even come through on scheduling, causing me to doubt his sencerity in the first place.

 

My question to fellow escorts is, how long will you spend trying to arrange such things, and what do you look for in other escorts.

[Juan Vancouver]

I only do this with proven regulars, except that regulars often just want to spend time with me or me and Thor, so this is rare.

 

If someone out of the blue asks me to put together a group, I will decline. 80% of the times, this leads to weeks of hot chat, no hire.

 

I look for other escorts that have the characteristic my clients are looking for. And then I look for the ones that look professional. It's even better if we know each other and have good chemistry. It's even better if they have a long list of great reviews. Then I contact directly and ask them about their rules, their likes, their limits, etc. After a five minute phonecall I often have a clear idea of whether this escort will contribute or be a detriment to the session.

 

It's a lot of work, but it can give my client an unforgettable experience.

[+ saminseattle]

From my perspective (admittedly, not that of an escort), Juan’s suggestions make a lot of sense. If the client is a regular and you already have a list of folks you think would be a good match, there’s little to lose, but if you’re traveling and end up having to do a bunch of research yourself, the time involved may not be worth it, especially given the risk that it won’t work out for one reason or another. I also saw there was some good advice on this topic awhile back:

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/client-asking-to-set-up-group-sex-date.103843/

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/hiring-more-than-one-escort-at-once.101733/#post-936069

[LADoug1]

I often have clients inquire about arranging a 3-way with me and another escort. For me, when it comes to having a third join, I always want to make sure that they will only add to the ecstatic magic that will be taking place. I don't want someone to join us that will bring an energy that isn't completely wonderful and positive. Most of the time they will ask my advice on whom I know that can join us, of which I have a list of 3 or 4 local guys that I know and trust. When I'm traveling, it's a little more difficult, but I will go through ads and see who I feel good about. I look more into what they say than I neccesarily do there pics, however, professional pics are a sign that a guy takes his work seriously. When it comes to reviewing ads, I usually will pass on one's that say things like "clean" when referring to their HIV/STI status. I also will pass on guys that have very little to say in their profile, or say things like "I'm open to any and everything".

 

I will often spend a significant amount of time to select the right guy, just to have the prospective client say they don't like them. Many times, after all the back and forth, the client doesn't even come through on scheduling, causing me to doubt his sencerity in the first place.

 

My question to fellow escorts is, how long will you spend trying to arrange such things, and what do you look for in other escorts.

Why do you pass on guys that say "clean" when referring to their HIV/STI status? Why is that an issue?

[Brian Kevin]

I refuse to take on this task, similar to what Juan said, it's a waste of time. Save yourself the headache and ask for a deposit up front. To be fair to my morals and ethics, I really don't even like bringing a 3rd person in. I'd rather have 2 clients than 2 escorts. This just boils down to me being a selfish bitch. I'll be kinda and friendly with other escorts but it will be a cold day on hell before I include someone else into my sessions. You never have a second chance at making a first impression, and time to clean up after people, that time, I do not have.

 

I herd this once as a kid, I still remember it....

 

"If you pick up nice China and smash it on the floor, saying sorry doesn't put the plate back together"

[Brian Kevin]

Why do you pass on guys that say "clean" when referring to their HIV/STI status? Why is that an issue?

 

 

Some people find saying "clean" isn't fair. Just because you have HiV does NOT mean your dirty. Its just a stigma going around. When someone asks me about my HiV status I respond HiV -. When someone asks me to tell them about myself I say clean and discreet, in this context for me, clean reflects my feet, teeth, arm pits and body.

 

 

In closing I'd like to remind everyone.

 

Hiv+ or Hic- YOU NEED TO WEAR A CONDOM. EVEN PREP ISNT 100%. No one is going to protect YOU the way YOU PROTECT YOY... HOW MANY WOMEN TAKR THEIR BIRTH CONTROL "EVERYDAY" AND END UP PREGNATE? THERES NOTHING WRONG BEING HIV + JUST THEN YOU Have to stop caring only about your own life and start caring and otueesas well.

As we all know spreading HiV knowing your + is a crime.

DO...(when sexually active)

• Get a STI/STD check monthly (when sexually active)
  
• Get an HiV test monthly
  
• If youre a long time bottomer, get your colon checked before your 50, even 40 hell even 30.
  
• Be prepared with condoms as well as educate yourself on how to avoid contracting a STI/STD.
  
• Avoid meth addicts.
  
• Take perscrtions as prescribed by a P.C.P. or Doctor.
  

Don't...

• Think anyone has your health on their mind while your fucking as much as you do
  
• Listen to "I really like you" if you fall for this I just may laugh and call u a women for this one (sorry to sound sexist ladies-of-the-forum)
  
• Share needles, hell DONT EVEN USE NEEDLES, PUT THE METH DOWN.
  
• Trust @Jock123 till he shows me a picture.
  

[mike carey]

Trust @Jock123 till he shows me a picture.

Way harsh, Brian!!

[Brian Kevin]

Way harsh, Brian!!

 

I have become to enjoy picking on Jock.

He constantly wants to hit it from the back, but hides his face better than Batman and Super man.

[mike carey]

I have become to enjoy picking on Jock.

He constantly wants to hit it from the back, but hides his face better than Batman and Super man.

So true, but he seems like a good guy!

[Brian Kevin]

So true, but he seems like a good guy!

 

I agree. He clearly has a Lil crush on my muffins and dinner rolls. COUGH COUGH But so does @seaboy4hire WHO REFUSES TO EVER TALK ON THE PHONE, HE WILL INDEED TEXT YOU ALL DAY THOUGH COUGH CPUGH

[down_to_business]

So true, but he seems like a good guy!

I have become to enjoy picking on Jock.

He constantly wants to hit it from the back, but hides his face better than Batman and Super man.

 

For me it is a lot like chewing gum : New and exciting at first but gets stale and bland really quickly. Reminds a lot of that maxwellissmart guy that posted anonymously for a long while and then disappeared into the sunset without a trace.

 

I guess I am happy that he is still mysterious and exciting to many of you. Heck, maybe it is Maxwellissmart all over again.

[Rudynate]

Why do you pass on guys that say "clean" when referring to their HIV/STI status? Why is that an issue?

 

It's so thoughtless that it communicates the message, "Look at me!! I'm a flaming asshole!!"

[+ Lance_Navarro]

It's so thoughtless that it communicates the message, "Look at me!! I'm a flaming asshole!!"

 

Let's not be so quick to cast judgement. It's highly plausible that LADoug has never had anyone explain before why using that term in such a way could be offensive. I've had to explain to many good and wonderful people why that term isn't appropriate. I don't think he's trying to be malicious, he just hasnt thought about the reverse implication of "clean" and that's why he asked.

[Rudynate]

Let's not be so quick to cast judgement. It's highly plausible that LADoug has never had anyone explain before why using that term in such a way could be offensive. I've had to explain to many good and wonderful people why that term isn't appropriate. I don't think he's trying to be malicious, he just hasnt thought about the reverse implication of "clean" and that's why he asked.

 

 

You're right, Lance. It is, however, a careless way to talk about one's status.

[Jock123]

For me it is a lot like chewing gum : New and exciting at first but gets stale and bland really quickly. Reminds a lot of that maxwellissmart guy that posted anonymously for a long while and then disappeared into the sunset without a trace.

 

I guess I am happy that he is still mysterious and exciting to many of you. Heck, maybe it is Maxwellissmart all over again.

 

 

You're totally right. Heaven forbid an escort participates on this forum without showing his "Goods". Currently I'm looking at 17 Emails...all asking of "Where to Find me". I could easily be On here for more Business than Pleasure. But fact is I enjoy this forum... However I'm also in the Military. Being In the Military I respect my uniform FIRST and simply dont feel comfortable posting My information on A forum where peoples Identites are talked about frequently.

 

 

Love You all. Merry Christmas!

 

 

 

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[Juan Vancouver]

I'd rather have 2 clients than 2 escorts. This just boils down to me being a selfish bitch. I'll be kinda and friendly with other escorts but it will be a cold day on hell before I include someone else into my sessions.

 

I think I know what you are talking about. I also love having 2 or more clients at the same time. It's pretty fun. However, in defence of a multi escort session, I have met a few really great guys working with them. A couple escort of the years, a few who flew under the radar, dedicated loving, beautiful men who shared my passion for providing an unforgettable experience. When two or more escorts like this are together, it can be pretty fucking amazing.

 

I also, sadly, have met with a few lazy, misrepresented, dirty, untalented guys. And some who thought I was there for them to get their jollies, instead of focusing on the client. That is why I will only consider well reviewed clients for that kind of session.

[Rudynate]

That is why I will only consider well reviewed clients for that kind of session.

 

You mean "escorts" don't you?

[Juan Vancouver]

I should never post when I am dealing with a turkey and mashed potatoes hang over. =)

 

Yes, I meant well reviewed escorts. Thank you for checking, and Happy Holidays!

[Brian Kevin]

I think I know what you are talking about. I also love having 2 or more clients at the same time. It's pretty fun. However, in defence of a multi escort session, I have met a few really great guys working with them. A couple escort of the years, a few who flew under the radar, dedicated loving, beautiful men who shared my passion for providing an unforgettable experience. When two or more escorts like this are together, it can be pretty fucking amazing.

 

I also, sadly, have met with a few lazy, misrepresented, dirty, untalented guys. And some who thought I was there for them to get their jollies, instead of focusing on the client. That is why I will only consider well reviewed clients for that kind of session.

 

2 Boyfriends/husbands are my favorite. the aggressive one goes first so the more passive more in more engaged durring the massage. I'll be greedy and keep the details top secret to keep those interested on edge you know whom you are.

 

I always enjoy what you share Juan! I'm flattered that you've responded

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I think I know what you are talking about. I also love having 2 or more clients at the same time. It's pretty fun. However, in defence of a multi escort session, I have met a few really great guys working with them. A couple escort of the years, a few who flew under the radar, dedicated loving, beautiful men who shared my passion for providing an unforgettable experience. When two or more escorts like this are together, it can be pretty fucking amazing.

 

I also, sadly, have met with a few lazy, misrepresented, dirty, untalented guys. And some who thought I was there for them to get their jollies, instead of focusing on the client. That is why I will only consider well reviewed clients for that kind of session.

 

My experiences, when I have had another escort join me have been quite positive either because I'm very selective of who joins us, or because my client is intuitive enough to pick another guy that's a good fit, or one that they have seen before.

 

I've only had one negative experience with a couple, most are fantastic. There's one couple that see me almost every spring when they visit SF. Their love for each other is so beautiful and palpable that I often find myself tearing up when I'm with them.

[TruthBTold]

Are you aware of situations where an escort who is asked by a regular client to find a third feels slighted because he feels that he is in some way not providing everything to his client? What about where a client finds a separate escort and suggests to a regular escort that the found escort join them?

[+ Truereview]

Are you aware of situations where an escort who is asked by a regular client to find a third feels slighted because he feels that he is in some way not providing everything to his client? What about where a client finds a separate escort and suggests to a regular escort that the found escort join them?

Thanks for asking this question, TBT! I've always worried about sending an unintended message. Would be good to get some suggestions on how to best approach the subject.

[down_to_business]

You're totally right. Heaven forbid an escort participates on this forum without showing his "Goods". Currently I'm looking at 17 Emails...all asking of "Where to Find me". I could easily be On here for more Business than Pleasure. But fact is I enjoy this forum... However I'm also in the Military. Being In the Military I respect my uniform FIRST and simply dont feel comfortable posting My information on A forum where peoples Identites are talked about frequently.

 

My last post on the subject as I am not trying to be argumentative at all, only expressing my humble an obviously lone opinion.

 

I think you should be allowed to post as anonymously as you should ever want to, just as most of us can and do. The only part of it that I don't like is the passive/aggressive games you play.. the " I'm so good-looking but you will never know what I look like", the "I'm an escort but you will never know who I am". Ok, great for you, I get it, you know something, we are all in the dark about it, you enjoy constantly rubbing our noses in it. I just don't enjoy playing those games, but hey, as I have said before, what the fuck does my opinion matter about anything. I guess if that's what makes you happy- keep up the good work!

 

And after reading your vicious reply, I totally get why you'd want to remain anonymous. Good call!

 

Happy Holidays to you too.

[+ DERRIK]

Speaking as a client - I would be reluctant to ask an escort to provide a third on short notice. Simply too much could go wrong

 

An exception would be made if I knew that had paired up before - i.e. The reviews on Daddys of a pair or if I knew they typically operated in tandem

[+ Truereview]

Speaking as a client - I would be reluctant to ask an escort to provide a third on short notice. Simply too much could go wrong

 

An exception would be made if I knew that had paired up before - i.e. The reviews on Daddys of a pair or if I knew they typically operated in tandem

DERRIK - It's probably been acknowledged before, but just a little note to say how much I enjoy the meaning of kintsukuroi and your avatar is one of my favorites here