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I like ice cream. So does my 18 year old nephew. Vanilla, chocolate, strawberry and at the Creamery I went to recently I noticed a flavor called Rock the Cashew. I asked if there were peanuts in Rock the Cashew because my nephew is very allergic. He keeps an epi-pen because he has had anaphylactic reactions. The counterman did not know whether or not there were peanuts in Rock the Cashew but they were not listed as an ingredient. I bought it and gave it to my nephew anyway. He is deciding whether or not to eat it right now. Should he eat the Rock the Cashew which is new and I must say delicious, or should he just eat the Vanilla Bean which he likes a lot and which has not caused him problems?

 

He should eat the Vanilla Bean.

MiamiLooker Grand Master

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It should be irrelevant unless YOU want to BB and think this might make him more receptive to it.

 

There are clients that won’t hire an escort that advertises with a confederate flag because he’s perceived as being a racist. There are clients that won’t hire an escort that supports right-wing causes because they don’t agree with his politics. There are clients that won’t hire an escort that advertises offering unsafe sex or who promotes unsafe sex because they think this is irresponsible and offensive. You may not agree with their reasons, but that doesn’t invalidate them.

purplekow Grand Master

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Here is the difference between older men and younger men: Younger men think they have seen it all and know it all. Older men, who were once younger men who knew it all and saw it all now know little and what they do know is irrelevant, but the one thing they do know, is that younger men become older men and will come to learn they know little. It seems you do a lot of forgetting in middle age.

RadioRob Grand Master

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Here is the difference between older men and younger men: Younger men think they have seen it all and know it all. Older men, who were once younger men who knew it all and saw it all then realize they now know nothing. It seems you do a lot of forgetting in middle age.

 

Of all the things I lost... I miss my mind the most.

quoththeraven Grand Master

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Don't be too sure of that. A lot of us aren't into hiring guys who bareback.

 

 

 

And DYING might be the result.

 

That's a rather alarmist view. Yes, people are still dying, and some still develop other medical problems despite anti-retrovirals, but the folks dying of it are mostly, if not entirely, those who contracted HIV before or around the time anti-retrovirals were first introduced.

 

Hire (or don't hire) whomever you want, but be aware that if never having BB is a criteria, you may be faced with a smaller and smaller selection.

 

I would post a picture of beating a dead horse but I don't want to be morbid. I think the forum members like a hint of scandal so they can be outraged.

 

I can't speak to the OP's motivation, but might it not also be a hint that BB is so prevalent that people need to get over themselves and realize it's up to them? It's one thing if an escort doesn't want to or won't use a condom at a client's request. But if the client gets to make decisions about how to minimize risks beyond those the escort has already made for himself (for example, some won't engage in rimming or will only do so under specified circumstances), what is the big fucking deal?

 

I've seen arguments that BB=riskier behavior all around=greater risk of other STDs that condoms and vaccines don't protect against, but even if that's true, which I'm not necessarily conceding (BB on PrEP may be no more risky than condom usage, and I'm only qualifying that because widespread experience sometimes unearths issues initial studies don't), it is unbelievable to me that the risk is more than infinitesmally higher (i.e., it's not a statistically significant risk). It's also not the case that there are no treatments for these conditions.

 

Then there's the condom malfunction argument, which baffles me. How can someone slam BB, thus implicitly supporting condom usage, and then turn around and say condoms are unreliable? Does not compute.

ChrisWydeman Enthusiast

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I'm not naming names but if you think "my friend died so you should..." is an effective or adult argument you may need to reevaluate how you communicate with people.

 

Also consider grief counseling. There are many folks who lived through the height of the plague who suffered tremendous loss and the impact of that doesn't just go away. Many folks who survived the plague were left with deep psychological trauma.

 

As for all of this hub bub about people barebacking and skyrocketing sti rates if your as concerned as you are, go work with your local community health organizations and VOTE. The cdc just cited sever cut backs to public health programs around the country for an increase in sti rates.

 

If you guys truly care as much about sexual health as you say you do put your time and vote where your mouth is. Get off the forum and go advocate for your local reproductive health programs, republicans have been hacking back funding around the country for it.

 

If you will excuse me there is a man beefier than Austin Wolf working next to me that needs gawking at.

Tigger Enthusiast

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That's a rather alarmist view. Yes, people are still dying, and some still develop other medical problems despite anti-retrovirals, but the folks dying of it are mostly, if not entirely, those who contracted HIV before or around the time anti-retrovirals were first introduced.

 

Hire (or don't hire) whomever you want, but be aware that if never having BB is a criteria, you may be faced with a smaller and smaller selection.

 

 

 

I can't speak to the OP's motivation, but might it not also be a hint that BB is so prevalent that people need to get over themselves and realize it's up to them? It's one thing if an escort doesn't want to or won't use a condom at a client's request. But if the client gets to make decisions about how to minimize risks beyond those the escort has already made for himself (for example, some won't engage in rimming or will only do so under specified circumstances), what is the big fucking deal?

 

I've seen arguments that BB=riskier behavior all around=greater risk of other STDs that condoms and vaccines don't protect against, but even if that's true, which I'm not necessarily conceding (BB on PrEP may be no more risky than condom usage, and I'm only qualifying that because widespread experience sometimes unearths issues initial studies don't), it is unbelievable to me that the risk is more than infinitesmally higher (i.e., it's not a statistically significant risk). It's also not the case that there are no treatments for these conditions.

 

Then there's the condom malfunction argument, which baffles me. How can someone slam BB, thus implicitly supporting condom usage, and then turn around and say condoms are unreliable? Does not compute.

 

I went in for a Prep Interview with a provider the other day. I would like Prep mainly as a precaution. She made sure to discuss with me how antibiotic resistant gonorrhea is present in our community.

poolboy48220 Grand Master

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Here is the difference between older men and younger men: Younger men think they have seen it all and know it all. Older men, who were once younger men who knew it all and saw it all now know little and what they do know is irrelevant, but the one thing they do know, is that younger men become older men and will come to learn they know little. It seems you do a lot of forgetting in middle age.

When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years.

A quote attributed often to Mark Twain, although there is some doubt about that.

Guy Fawkes Grand Master

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Wouldn't BB shaming count as hate? I think the grinch is starting to wake up again. Just saying!

 

In his latest Randy Blue video, Derek fucks Cooper Dang bareback. I know that there has been a lot of controversy around Derek but I am wondering if this latest development will alter any opinions on him. I do have to say I love watching Derek's ass as he fucks...
mattr Grand Master

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This post was not meant to shame anyone. If it came off that way, I apologize. I watched the video and enjoyed it. I would seriously consider hiring Derek if the opportunity presented itself.

sincitymix Mentor

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Does anybody have a ballpark figure of how much more than the usual fee RandyBlue would pay an actor to perform BB? Can it really be worth it?

I think they do, I remember reading something about hazard pay :p

ChrisWydeman Enthusiast

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I just googled mr Atlas and lordy I got all hot and bothered. I think he will be just fine without a few clients that don't want to hire him or as a RuPaul said, "unless those bitches are paying your bills pay them no mind".

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