Has this EVER happened to you when hiring

[geminibear]

oh. that sounds yummy lol

 

Just spit my milk shake out laughing.

 

WeHo's don't drink milk shakes I'm pretty sure of that.

[jackjackjack]

In this situation, I feel for the escort. Even though you've paid him for not going through the session, to be rejected when he's done nothing wrong can be really disheartening. Bear in mind he is a human being and have feelings.

 

If I was the client, rather than send him away I would simply ask him to hang out. As in talk, have a drink and enjoy his company for an hour. It is a better alternative. You might be suprised what you can learn about him even if it's just for an hour.

 

I certainly wasn't disrespectful to him....just honest. I understand, being older now, what rejection is about and feels like. I didn't say, "Get out!!!" It was just mutual feeling...and I didn't want to take up any more of his time. I wish I could describe the scene more but it was such a unique moment. I have respect for most, not all, guys in the business, and treat them as I want to be treated.

[sincitymix]

Just spit my milk shake out laughing.

 

WeHo's don't drink milk shakes I'm pretty sure of that.

lol, well he kind of had me at frat boy.. and muscular athletic:P

[jackjackjack]

I don't live there either. But it's WEHO-the gay area. Probably the California equivalent of what Chelsea in New York used to be-although I don't live in NYC either.

 

Gman

 

Oh, yes!!! West Hollywood is the gay....not area... gay city.

[jackjackjack]

Again I don't live there and I've never been in the good looking elite strata. But from stereotypes -picture this 'muscular/athletic' or 'athletic/slim' gay metrosexuals. They'd be very similar to the frat boys from college-but a bit more grown up except for the ones that actually are in college or college age.

 

Gman

 

Close description, Gar.. but not quite. It's not the look as much as the.... I don't know exactly how to describe the vibe of that person.... Sorry, I can't put it into words. It's just a aura about them. . Hey WH guys..help me out here.... haha

[down_to_business]

Yes it has. To make an awkward situation more awkward, I hired this person for a weekend, flying both of us to a destination city to spend this introductory weekend together.

 

I learned quite a few valuable lessons from this.

1) I can't hire someone for an extended period based on other people's recommendations and/or reviews no matter how many or how good they are. That just doesn't work for me.

2) I can't hire someone without a recent and accurate face picture, that aspect turns out to be too important of a variable for me.

3) Go back to lesson 1 and NEVER hire someone for an extended period that you haven't personally spent a shorter time period with, prior.

 

 

side note to self: I have never had a successful hire in this city even though I do love visiting there, that incudes hourly, overnight or extended. STOP hiring in this city!

[oz_carter]

Close description, Gar.. but not quite. It's not the look as much as the.... I don't know exactly how to describe the vibe of that person.... Sorry, I can't put it into words. It's just a aura about them. . Hey WH guys..help me out here.... haha

 

Je ne sais quoi

[BaronArtz]

I don't like Daddy. I've come to grudgingly accept it in certain circumstances.

 

What I absolutely hate most is when they say 'you look amazing for your age'. Sorry, no.

[+ Gar1eth]

 

 

side note to self: I have never had a successful hire in this city even though I do love visiting there, that incudes hourly, overnight or extended. STOP hiring in this city!

 

What city, if I may ask?

 

 

 

What I absolutely hate most is when they say 'you look amazing for your age'. Sorry, no.

 

I knew being ugly and out of shape was good for something. No one ever tells me this

 

Gman

[+ goosh69]

Yes West Hollywood is a separate city from Hollywood. Hollywood is just a neighborhood of Los Angeles. WeHo is majority gay.

 

Although the very heterosexual Sunset Strip is mostly in WeHo.

 

And frat guy types? Please! They are just like any big city gays.

[+ azdr0710]

the only time I like being called "sweetie", "honey", "hun", or similar is when I visit my favorite mom 'n pop breakfast joint where the long-time waitresses are dressed in their white starched outfits and keep the coffee cup full.....

 

hearing such endearments in an escort context means I made a mistake this time

[geminibear]

the only time I like being called "sweetie", "honey", "hun", or similar is when I visit my favorite mom 'n pop breakfast joint where the long-time waitresses are dressed in their white starched outfits and keep the coffee cup full.....

 

hearing such endearments in an escort context means I made a mistake this time

Ahhh Hun

[seaboy4hire]

There really is no proper way to describe weho boys. It's something that must be experienced. Sadly I think the only working guy bar Numbers is no longer with us. But if you venture over to Mickys, Rage or the Abbey you'll see.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ azdr0710]

though a bit scripted and edited......

 

[+ Gar1eth]

the only time I like being called "sweetie", "honey", "hun", or similar is when I visit my favorite mom 'n pop breakfast joint where the long-time waitresses are dressed in their white starched outfits and keep the coffee cup full.....

 

hearing such endearments in an escort context means I made a mistake this time

 

Ahhh Hun

 

Azdr obviously forgot to mention that the other exception for endearments was you, GB.

 

Gman

[geminibear]

Azdr obviously forgot to mention that the other exception for endearments was you, GB.

 

Gman

 

I was just practicing my WeHo vocabulary

[seaboy4hire]

though a bit scripted and edited......

 

 

Close enough. Add it who they know and what they do and what over priced label they're wearing.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ Gar1eth]

I was just practicing my WeHo vocabulary

 

You know I have had acquaintances who used the term 'girl' for years. I have not joined in with them in the use of that word.

 

Gman

[+ purplekow]

First, if I am payin' I'm layin' I'm just sayin'. I think i will get that printed on a Tshirt. So if he looks as I expected and is pleasant, I am tapping that. If he calls me daddy or fatty or fratty or batty, I will say please don't call me that and then instruct him to suck my dick.

While I prefer to like the escort I am hiring, if he has some annoying traits, I can deal with it for an hour, especially if during that hour I am coming once or twice. After all, I am not marrying him, theoretically, I am fucking him.

[+ purplekow]

On the other hand, I would not rehire the person unless the sex was exceptional, in which case, hey... a man has needs. In addition, even if he is really hot, if there is some amiss, I will not rehire. I recently found about myself even if they are incredibly hot, I probably will not rehire if there is something amiss. I surprised myself with that but reserve the right to reverse that stance. After all, there are not that many incredibly hot guys around.

[tedbear]

The only time I've ever sent a guy away was when he showed up quite late, with his eyes drawn up into beady little dots. At first he didn't seem that out of it and I tried to proceed. We began kissing and so far, so good. Not great, but OK. We undressed and got in bed. I started giving him a blowjob and heard snoring. SNORING! I woke him up and told him it just wasn't going to work out. He wasn't upset and didn't ask for any money nor did I offer any. He was staggering down the hall as I closed the door.

[oz_carter]

The only time I've ever sent a guy away was when he showed up quite late, with his eyes drawn up into beady little dots. At first he didn't seem that out of it and I tried to proceed. We began kissing and so far, so good. Not great, but OK. We undressed and got in bed. I started giving him a blowjob and heard snoring. SNORING! I woke him up and told him it just wasn't going to work out. He wasn't upset and didn't ask for any money nor did I offer any. He was staggering down the hall as I closed the door.

 

He clearly needed help. Did you offer any?

[+ Gar1eth]

The only time I've ever sent a guy away was when he showed up quite late, with his eyes drawn up into beady little dots. At first he didn't seem that out of it and I tried to proceed. We began kissing and so far, so good. Not great, but OK. We undressed and got in bed. I started giving him a blowjob and heard snoring. SNORING! I woke him up and told him it just wasn't going to work out. He wasn't upset and didn't ask for any money nor did I offer any. He was staggering down the hall as I closed the door.

 

I had this happen to me. An escort and I were making out for 15 or so minutes. I turned away momentarily. He got quiet. I turned back around-he was asleep and sweating. I tried tapping him on the shoulder. He didn't wake up. I started rubbing on his chest-he stayed asleep. I tried jerking him off. I figured that would wake him for sure. He got hard and still didn't wake up. But he did pee on himself-still without waking up. I thought I was going to have to seek medical attention. I checked his heartrate and breathing. They were ok. I started searching his hotel room and found generic Ativan or maybe Librium-it was a long time ago. I called his boyfriend (another escort), and asked him whether he had done this before. He said a few times. I stayed there and watched this guy. He remained asleep for about 15 minutes. If it had been much longer I would have had to call 911.

 

When the guy woke up, he wanted to continue the session. I cuddled with him a bit because he seemed nervous. But I was totally not in the mood to play around anymore. After a few minutes when he seemed calmer, I said I wasn't in the mood and was leaving. He still wanted his fee. He got upset when I didn't want to pay him. I was actually afraid he might come after me. But I left. I can't remember if I left him a token fee or not to keep from being beaten up. I hope I didn't. That was probably the scariest time I've ever had with an escort.

 

Gman

[LADoug1]

I don't live there either. But it's WEHO-the gay area. Probably the California equivalent of what Chelsea in New York used to be-although I don't live in NYC either.

 

Gman

 

Actually West Hollywood is its own city within Los Angeles. People call it WEHO and it certainly is the gay center of L.A. Interesting though, gays do not comprise the majority of people who live there.

[jawjateck]

I have shortened some longer appointments after it was clear there was no reason to continue, but I've never turned away a guy upon first meeting who looked as advertised. Like PK, hot flesh turns me on. So, if a companion's speech or mannerisms are annoying, I'll just say, "shut up and kiss me."