Seeing other clients before and after a trip with one client

[Mikegaite]

As an escort, I am traveling to your city on my own dime and spending 3-5 days exclusively with you per your request. We've met before a few times. Can I see other clients before or after our meeting in the same city/region, or is that taboo, or does it largely depend on how I ask? Many thanks in advance for your feedback.

 

Mike Gaite

[+ Truereview]

Imho, as a client, I only care about what happens during our actual time together, not before or after. Your business practices are your own to decide. If I don't want you to see anyone before or after, I should compensate you accordingly.

 

This one seemed like a no-brainer, but I am known to have large blindspots.

[Rudynate]

If he were paying your travel expenses, the picture might be different. But since you are paying your own way, I don't see that it's any of his business what you do before/after you see him.

[BaronArtz]

If you are travelling on your own dime, you should do whatever you want before and after. I believe there was an extensive thread with heated discussion about this subject bef0re - but that was for a situation where the client would pay most, if not all travel expenses. I just can't locate this thread right now but I remember it was interesting with many conflicting opinions.

[BaronArtz]

Here it is: http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/touring-vs-traveling-escorts.102884/

[down_to_business]

Mike, I think that you are threading a very difficult needle here. In the best cast scenario, you could ask advance permission, but if you did you would have to be prepared to deal with the consequences or the fallout if he objected. Hopefully, it would be a very understanding and supportive client that would say of course I wouldn't mind and thank you so much for asking.

 

As you are paying your own travel expenses, it seems reasonable that you should be perfectly in your right to book other business before or after your main client. You would also be under no obligation to tell your client of this, although things could get awkward if he were to discover this through some other means (like innocently running into you at a restaurant the next evening).

 

I think if it were me in such a situation, I wouldn't ask permission, but I would tell my client in person when I was with him (probably at or near the conclusion if seeing someone after, probably near the beginning if I had seen someone prior) as a matter of fact comment, not over emphasizing it or giving it any significance, but not starting out with a "lie" of omission either.

[maninsoma]

If the client wants exclusivity with you during your visit to his location, then the client needs to pay for your travel to/from his location.

[+ glennnn]

If I was the main client, I probably wouldn't want to know about other clients; I really enjoy the lover/boyfriend illusion as I always fall at least a little in love with whoever is Fucking me. You paid your way, keep it to yourself unless specifically asked- just a sin of omission.

[+ sf westcoaster]

First I would not want to know anything about any of your clients. I would want the session to be about you and me. If I understanding correctly, you are paying for your transportation, which in my view gives you the right to do what ever you want before and after our agreed time. I would, however, expect that our time together would find you rested and not drained from previous appointments.

[geminibear]

I agree with westcoaster, as long as the time dedicated to the client commitment is fulfilled whatever else you do is your business.

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

As an escort, I am traveling to your city on my own dime and spending 3-5 days exclusively with you per your request. We've met before a few times. Can I see other clients before or after our meeting in the same city/region, or is that taboo, or does it largely depend on how I ask? Many thanks in advance for your feedback.

 

Mike Gaite

 

Client: I'd like to meet up with you IF/WHEN you come to my city.

Mike: Sounds good, I'll be there Days 1-7.

Client: I'd like to meet Days 2-4.

Mike: Do you care if I meet with a client Day 1, or Days 5-7?

Client: I'm not sure why you're asking me, since that doesn't have anything to do with our time.

 

At least, that's how it should go. If a client asks you to come to a city but doesn't pay for you to come, then whatever you do there apart from your appointment with him is your business and only your business. It's no different than showing up to a city and setting up an appointment while you're there.

 

I completely agree with SFWestcoaster. Keep your client arrangements to yourself, and show up present and ready to meet up with him and have fun.

[+ Cash4Trash]

I agree with other posters that what you do with your time and your dime isn't the clients business.

However, you might consider other engagements only after you spend time with the client - hooking up before might leave him feeling he's paying top dollar

for second hand goods.

[MrMiniver]

As an escort, I am traveling to your city on my own dime and spending 3-5 days exclusively with you per your request. We've met before a few times. Can I see other clients before or after our meeting in the same city/region, or is that taboo, or does it largely depend on how I ask? Many thanks in advance for your feedback.

 

Mike Gaite

 

I honestly don't see the issue here. If it is "before" or "after" the time you are meeting your main client and you feel it won't interfere in any way with your time with him then why not?

[jackjackjack]

First I would not want to know anything about any of your clients. I would want the session to be about you and me. If I understanding correctly, you are paying for your transportation, which in my view gives you the right to do what ever you want before and after our agreed time. I would, however, expect that our time together would find you rested and not drained from previous appointments.

Let me add, when you are with me for that time, you are not on your phone doing business. Also, if I'm paying for travel and everything, I expect that I'm exclusive for his trip.... I'm greedy... hahaha

[MrMiniver]

If he were paying your travel expenses, the picture might be different. But since you are paying your own way, I don't see that it's any of his business what you do before/after you see him.

 

Even if the client was paying the travel expenses I think it's open to negotiation. I have had someone come out to my place on LI for 3 days and he asked if he could combine it with other business before and after and we worked out a better rate for my 3 days since he could make it up with other clients and I still paid his travel expenses. I think it's a matter of how comfortable you are discussing it with the client.

[jimboivyo]

your money on the trip, your choice

 

regional exclusivity? oh please

[bigvalboy]

Mike...I'm with Down2biz on this one. Your dime, you can do whatever you want, and I also agree that you are under no obligation to tell your client about other plans you have, either before or after the scheduled time that they have paid for. That being said, travel and time are expensive commodities, so when I personally bring an escort in for an exclusive visit, I have told them that they are free to do business anytime before or after our time together. Things like that just aren't a big deal to me. I know it bothers some clients, but I never have felt that an escort owes me anything more than his full attention when it is on my dime. After that...by all means, go make some money.

[Guest]

Even if he were paying for your air fare, he still would have no right to be involved in deciding what you do when you're not on his clock. Since he's not even doing that, I'm not sure why this even comes up as a question. Did the client hint that he felt he had rights to your time when he wasn't paying for the time? There really is no issue here.

[jawjateck]

We clients would never object or have issues with what you do with your time and your life. We know our place.

[AdamSmith]

We know our place.

Not too graphic, now.

[american executive]

Hi Mike:

 

I tend to lean towards the notion of offering the client exclusivety. If a client is paying for 3 to 5 days that is a big committment of money and time. It's reasonable to assume that he wants you; and all of you. Give him all of your attention, emotion, physicalality, and the persecption that he is the only one. That would make for a great client experience and great customer relations for you. I agree with some others have said; I don't want to hear about other clients, boyfriends, etc. I also agree that if the client wants exclusiveity he should probably pay for the trip. Seems fair. Many of us are looking for a little bit more than a roll in the hay, and that would certainly meanthe 3-5 day client. I understand it would be tempting to see clients before or after, but it might be seen as a tour rather than "I am here for you". I think it would be good business to give him your all; attention and time.

 

Best regards

[BabyBoomer]

Can I see other clients before or after our meeting in the same city/region

 

Mike Gaite

 

Yes. However, if you meet Max Sargent, I get to watch.

 

~ Boomer ~

[RadioRob]

Personally the only time I care about is the time we're scheduled to be together. What you do and when you do it outside of our actual window of time is your business. I don't care if I bought the ticket or not.

 

Just like with work... my company does not care if I choose to stay an extra day or over a weekend if I'm traveling for business and it does not cost them extra. If you want to explore the city, go find a hookup, or do some extra work, that's YOUR business before/after our time together. I count on my gentleman to be professional enough to know what they can handle to ensure they're delivering a rock star experience. Outside of that, your time is exactly that.... YOURS!

[Guy Fawkes]

I alway recommend that you travel at your own expense exactly for that reason.

 

Arriving early and/or departing late means that your airway can be significantly cheaper and the hotel may chip in with better rates for those days.

 

Here in Las Vegas that can be significant. Another tactic is to switch hotels mid-stay. Catch the ritzy hotels at the mid-week rate, and stay off strip for the weekend. You'd be amazed at what a 1/2 mile can do to the price.

 

As an escort, I am traveling to your city on my own dime and spending 3-5 days exclusively with you per your request. We've met before a few times. Can I see other clients before or after our meeting in the same city/region, or is that taboo, or does it largely depend on how I ask? Many thanks in advance for your feedback.

 

Mike Gaite

[MrMiniver]

Hi Mike:

 

I tend to lean towards the notion of offering the client exclusivety. If a client is paying for 3 to 5 days that is a big committment of money and time. It's reasonable to assume that he wants you; and all of you. Give him all of your attention, emotion, physicalality, and the persecption that he is the only one. That would make for a great client experience and great customer relations for you. I agree with some others have said; I don't want to hear about other clients, boyfriends, etc. I also agree that if the client wants exclusiveity he should probably pay for the trip. Seems fair. Many of us are looking for a little bit more than a roll in the hay, and that would certainly meanthe 3-5 day client. I understand it would be tempting to see clients before or after, but it might be seen as a tour rather than "I am here for you". I think it would be good business to give him your all; attention and time.

 

Best regards

 

I don't really understand this response. He is getting all his time and attention when he is with him. Are you saying he should get his time and attention OUTSIDE the time he is actually seeing the client? How much time would that be? Do I get your time 1 day before and 1 day after or what?