Seeing other clients before and after a trip with one client

[+ Truereview]

I don't really understand this response. He is getting all his time and attention when he is with him. Are you saying he should get his time and attention OUTSIDE the time he is actually seeing the client? How much time would that be? Do I get your time 1 day before and 1 day after or what?

The way I processed AmEx's post is that there is an opportunity for Mike to upsell his client and propose something like this: "Mr Client, I offer a very exclusive service where I fly in for you and you only...no one else can have me in yor city but you. Since we are already spending 3-5 days together, would you like to entertain this upgrade option? I'd be delighted to discuss pricing and perks at your earliest convenience. Otherwise, just want you to know how excited I am to see you soon."

[+ purplekow]

If he were paying for the tickets, he would be paying for you to get to see him. If you extend the trip early and late and the ticket prices go down as a result, I feel like he should pay you the difference. After all, look at the money he is saving. More seriously, even if he pays for the tickets, he should ask you which days you would like to travel and make the arrangements accordingly. If he is making the arrangements and can find a better price for the tickets and those tickets get you in and out of the client.....'s city but you would like to stay, you should pay the difference and if you take a few clients or see a show or pick up a dancer and have wild sex taint nobody's business if you you.

[+ Truereview]

If he were paying for the tickets, he would be paying for you to get to see him. If you extend the trip early and late and the ticket prices go down as a result, I feel like he should pay you the difference. After all, look at the money he is saving. More seriously, even if he pays for the tickets, he should ask you which days you would like to travel and make the arrangements accordingly. If he is making the arrangements and can find a better price for the tickets and those tickets get you in and out of the client.....'s city but you would like to stay, you should pay the difference and if you take a few clients or see a show or pick up a dancer and have wild sex taint nobody's business if you you.

Ay ai ai, Papi...my head hurts....Is there an app for this calculation thingy?

[Epigonos]

I have been hiring escorts for so many years that this issue is a real no brainer for me.

 

If I fly an escort in to spend 24+ hours with me I expect to pay for his transportation costs. I have always preferred that the escort book his own flights. If HE knows me and trusts me I reimburse him when we meet. If I know him and trust him and he would like me to prepay his flight I send him the money in advance. I don't usually pick up my guests at the airport -- they rent a car. I could care less if the escorts decided to come to town before our scheduled time together or remain in town after our scheduled time together - frankly that's his business. I certainly don't expect an escort to clear with me if he intends to get together with other clients nor to I expect him to discuss his other clients with me OR me with his other clients.

[mike carey]

I chatted to a guy who said he would travel to where I said I would be, and not require that a meeting would happen. He said he would make a buck whether he met me or not. I really, really want to meet him, but his attitude is great.

[Juan Vancouver]

Absolutely not a problem nor a conflict. You are a businessman running a business and having a life. As long as you are one hundred percent present while you are with your client, what you do before or after has absolutely nothing to do with him.

 

Even if the client was paying the travel expenses I think it's open to negotiation. I have had someone come out to my place on LI for 3 days and he asked if he could combine it with other business before and after and we worked out a better rate for my 3 days since he could make it up with other clients and I still paid his travel expenses. I think it's a matter of how comfortable you are discussing it with the client.

 

I agree.

 

I only go visit people who understand that they don't own me or my time before or after the session they book. If they are covering the travel I will share with them that I might get to their location before or leave after or might connect to a different trip before or after. That is why I always book my own travel which they refund later. Most people understand that what they are looking for is a special time together.

 

If someone is looking for the illusion of exclusivity, I would recommend marriage, not hiring an escort. Oh, and also, I would recommend traveling back in time when marrying someone actually meant they were your property.

 

In the present time, what you offer as an escort is a concentrated, talented, loving, caring experience of togetherness while you are together.

[mike carey]

My view is that as a client I am paying for the time I spend with an escort, and what they do outside that time is entirely their business, whether they paid for their travel or I did. My general preference though is to travel to meet rather than have an escort travel to me.

 

That said, I have read of escorts whose approach to the issue was that their billable hours started when they left home and ended when they returned. Having read this thread, that approach now seems to me to be a statement that they don't want to travel.

[Juan Vancouver]

I have read of escorts whose approach to the issue was that their billable hours started when they left home and ended when they returned. Having read this thread, that approach now seems to me to be a statement that they don't want to travel.

 

That's actually not an entirely bad idea.

 

Next time I am "invited" for a visit by someone who then expresses their desire to own my whole trip, then I will charge for every single second I spend from packing to unpacking.

 

Otherwise, it's two free adults who are excited to spend time together and know they will have a wonderful experience while they are together.

[geminibear]

That's actually not an entirely bad idea.

 

Next time I am "invited" for a visit by someone who then expresses their desire to own my whole trip, then I will charge for every single second I spend from packing to unpacking.

 

Otherwise, it's two free adults who are excited to spend time together and know they will have a wonderful experience while they are together.

Bazinga!

[Mikegaite]

Since over half the time I post something I get at least one person pm'ing me telling me I'm unprofessional and asking me to delete it, I thought I would provide an update on this thread to continue the drama.

 

I wasn't asking a question just for the sake of asking a question. I wanted trenchant feedback, and I definitely received it. I also got an incredibly lengthy and thoughtful response from a client who thought, rightly so, that the question was partially directed at him. So a big thank you to my Gaited Bear.

 

For the most part, I followed people's advice. However, many people thought my question was somewhat ridiculous and had an obvious answer with a clear demarcation of when the clock was starting and stopping. Perhaps my original question was somewhat absurd because there are generally accepted practices among escorts and clients whilst traveling. But that being said, I just made a regional exclusivity agreement with a client such that I am now his property in certain zip codes. There was symbolic territorial marking with hickeys to boot. I don't know if it's the healthiest arrangement for both parties, but hopefully it will work for us. At the end of the day, I just followed my gut feeling I mean my six-pack abs feeling. Maybe I'm a fool, maybe I'm lucky, and maybe it's a bit of both.

 

Happy Thanksgiving to everyone in advance.

 

All my love,

Mike Gaite

[+ Gar1eth]

It seems like everything has been answered. But as I just saw this thread, I thought I'd put my two cents in.

 

I personally wouldn't mind. In fact in the past when meeting an escort in a city that is not the home base of either of us (Chicago or LA for example), I have occasionally asked the escort whether he wanted to leave the same day I did or stay for extra business.

 

As for conducting business on the side when an escort is with me -while I wouldn't like it if an escort was constantly on the phone talking or texting with other clients when he is with me, constantly emailing, constantly updating his ad, constantly making new travel arrangements, or etc, depending on the amount of time we are together, I certainly don't mind if he takes some time out to conduct other business.

 

For example, if we were only together for an overnight, I wouldn't be very tolerant of an escort conducting a lot of business on the side. On the other hand, we are together 48 hours or more, I don't see the harm in an escort taking an hour a day if needed. I mean I might need to check on some matters at home too. In the same fashion if I'm with an escort for multiple days, I realize there's a good chance he may want/need to work out. I usually used to hire athletic/muscular/bodybuilder guys. Why would I want to stop them from activities that are what made me want to hire them in the first place.

 

Gman

[jawjateck]

All my love,

Mike Gaite

 

<sigh>........He loves me!.........<sigh>