Client pictures?

[Tuffpie]

Has anyone else encountered an escort who has asked to see pictures of you in advance of meeting?

[Nvr2thick4me]

Yes, several times. That will not happen regardless of who the escort is.

[marylander1940]

Yes, several times. That will not happen regardless of who the escort is.

 

yes, and not even crazy I would send him a picture of me...

 

[big-n-tall]

Yes. Both asked out of curiosity. However, I think one did it to verify whether I was not s cop. He seemed extremely paranoid about everything. I saw him only once, because settings things up with him is such a task. Although the sex was hot.

 

The other... He and I talked back and forth over email before we met. He was coming from another country and was coming to my area for the first time. We got pretty well acquainted through email. So after awhile, he seemed genuinely curious to see what I looked like. I've seen him many times since on and off the clock, sex and no sex involved.

 

I got the impression if the paranoid one had not liked the pic I sent, the meeting wouldn't have occurred. Where as the one I still see, it would not have mattered if he saw a pic of me or not.

 

I normally don't send pics but those 2 cases I did.

[MiamiLooker]

When I’ve been asked, I send a full body shot with my face obscured. Never had an issue doing this nor been asked for additional pics. Sometimes, I think the escort just wants an idea of whom they’re meeting.

[AdamSmith]

My stock reply...

 

 

[Lewis H]

My stock reply...

 

 

 

Cheeky, but effective. I like! And what kinds of reaction have you gotten? Has an escort turned you down ever?

[liubit]

I seem to remember that this has been discussed here before. Yes, some boys have asked me for pics. No, I have never sent anything. Conclusion: no meeting...

[AdamSmith]

Cheeky, but effective. I like! And what kinds of reaction have you gotten? Has an escort turned you down ever?

 

In truth it's just my stock joke here when the subject comes up. I've been lucky never to have been asked for a pic by an escort.

[marylander1940]

Yes. Both asked out of curiosity. However, I think one did it to verify whether I was not s cop. He seemed extremely paranoid about everything. I saw him only once, because settings things up with him is such a task. Although the sex was hot.

 

The other... He and I talked back and forth over email before we met. He was coming from another country and was coming to my area for the first time. We got pretty well acquainted through email. So after awhile, he seemed genuinely curious to see what I looked like. I've seen him many times since on and off the clock, sex and no sex involved.

 

I got the impression if the paranoid one had not liked the pic I sent, the meeting wouldn't have occurred. Where as the one I still see, it would not have mattered if he saw a pic of me or not.

 

I normally don't send pics but those 2 cases I did.

 

In which city this happened? I understand an escort paranoia with cops in Nashville of Vegas, but not in NYC or LA.

[+ azdr0710]

I have a several-years-old, somewhat-distant shot of myself outdoors on a hike, fully clothed, that I sometimes send out as part of my own introduction with my basic stats.....I think it's a courteous thing to do and shows some authenticating validation to the escort

[TruHart1]

I guess all of my hires are completely professional because I haven't ever had a request for my picture from any escort I've hired so far! Not only that, but not one of the escorts I've met with ever showed anything but excitement or pleasure when we met the first time! I do always explain in my first contact (text or email) that I am older and overweight, though, and so far that has been more than enough! I continue to feel lucky I'm privileged to meet with many of the truly great escorts working today!!!

 

TruHart1

[Tuffpie]

In which city this happened? I understand an escort paranoia with cops in Nashville of Vegas, but not in NYC or LA.

He's in NYC. One side of me can understand his request, as I know what he looks like; the other side says, "One of us gets paid to be out there, the other doesn't, so why should I run the risk?"

[Tuffpie]

I guess all of my hires are completely professional because I haven't ever had a request for my picture from any escort I've hired so far! TruHart1

I'm new to this whole world so I don't have much of a track record to rely on; regardless, the request seemed unusual. Even if I was up for it, and I'm not, the husband is definitely not.

[corndog]

If an escort asks for a picture of the client, it implies that their performance is going to depend on their physical attraction to the client. If this is the case, they're in the wrong business.

[+ honcho]

I offer. I'm not expecting a freebie (by any means), but if I know what the escort looks like and where he lives,

my sense of equity and fairness makes me want to provide the same information.

 

And if the escort doesn't think we're a good match then that's time and effort saved.

[Despardo]

Sometimes I volunteer a picture or send one unsolicited just to make sure we are a good fit and there will be no surprises. When an escort checks out my client profile on Rentmen, it tells me that he is showing an interest in me and my preferences and doing his homework before scheduling a meetup.

[+ Keith30309]

Yep - once, by a younger guy.

I sent a selfie.

That was followed by series of text questions... then a request to delay to the next day... then another set of questions texted from a different phone. I put an end to it, suggesting that we would not be a good match.

Ironically, his M4RN ad says that he is "a very calm person" and "professional".

[Guest RexB]

I once asked an escort for a face pic and he said he'd send one if I sent one of me. I agreed to that so I sent it and he sent me one of his chest and his chin and lower lip along with the note: "Thank you for understanding my discretion." Would it be presumptuous of me to to find that rather presumptuous of him to leave off his nose, eyes, and hair and take it for granted that I would "understand"? We never met, needless to say.

[Epigonos]

Recently, for the first time, an escort asked me for a photograph. He was definitely NOT someone from a law enforcement agency as he has been positively reviewed on this site and has even posted here. I declined and ended by stating that we obviously would not be getting together. The escort quickly replied stating that the photograph was not a necessity, he simply thought it would be a nice idea. I did not respond to that reply. I realize I was being difficult (impossible if you wish) but it's a buyers marked and that is my choice.

[BaronArtz]

I usually include my basic stats in the first email, i.e. athletic, height, weight, age. I also say that I read their ad (and their reviews) carefully and here is why I think this may be a good match. I have never been asked for a picture. But I would not at all mind sending one (one with my clothes on, thank you very much). I totally understand that the guy on the other end may want to have an idea of what he's going to run in to. Let's put it this way: if it really is not going to be a good match I'd rather know right away, before I spend the time and the money to go over to his place. Nothing worse than having a 'holy shit' moment when the door opens. That does not make for an enjoyable encounter no matter how great an actor he is.

[Tuffpie]

Recently, for the first time, an escort asked me for a photograph. He was definitely NOT someone from a law enforcement agency as he has been positively reviewed on this site and has even posted here. I declined and ended by stating that we obviously would not be getting together. The escort quickly replied stating that the photograph was not a necessity, he simply thought it would be a nice idea. I did not respond to that reply. I realize I was being difficult (impossible if you wish) but it's a buyers marked and that is my choice.

I hadn't even thought about the law enforcement angle. :-) But, he's well known here and a porn actor so I'm taking his ad on face value. I texted him back saying I was uncomfortable sending a pic but understand if it is essential for him. We'll see what he comes back with, if anything.

[+ purplekow]

i have never been asked for a picture before but on a few occasions I have been asked for picture afterwards. I sign it: Best wishes in the future, your ass was amazing. Purplekow.

I wonder if they are being resold on ebay.

[Wolfer]

I haven't been asked. Though with my first escort I sent some pictures out of my own volition. But this was just because I was enthusiastic and wanted to keep the conversation going. I wouldn't necessarily mind sending one if I were asked, although it would give me slight pause.

[ncc1701d]

Only once, and when I refused he flew off the handle and accused me of being an idiot. I smiled and thank the lucky star that it happened before we met. And it was someone well reviewed over at Muscle Forum. So go figure