What to do when you meet a major stud by accident?

[samwhygy]

Getting out of my truck at the post office, 3 feet away from me is a major muscle stud changing a tire with no shirt ,arms and chest to die for. I offered to help ,extracted a little info,but left all horned up realizing I'll probably never see him again. I did find out his first name (Chris) ,that he has a girlfriend and 2 kids from a previous marriage and was formerly a Marine. He also blurted out in the conversation that he didn't have the money for new tires. He was very polite, thanked me, but gave no indication (at least that I spotted) that he was interested in anything other than getting his tire fixed. In those few minutes we talked I just felt a certain closeness to him ,even beyond the sexual attraction. My question is, could I handled this any better, and walked away with any more info?

[bigjake8]

Oh man, he told you he was broke and you didn't pick up the ball? All you gotta say is something like "Why don;t you come back to my place and have a drink, cool off, and maybe I have a few things you can help me with and I'll get you the money for some new tires". A shirtless straight guy isn;t going to tell you all the info you got out of him without some kind of agenda on his part.

[woodlawn]

>A shirtless straight guy isn;t going to

>tell you all the info you got out of him without some kind of

>agenda on his part.

 

He isn't? Maybe you have spent so much time around hookers and johns that you think everyone on earth fits into one category or the other. Believe it or not, there are plenty of people who don't.

[Luv2play]

Well, maybe, maybe not. In my experience ex-wives and current girlfriends don't mean squat in certain circumstances. It all depends. You can't assume that a guy who has the above baggage may not be trade. Especially when he suggests he is broke (and just happens to be showing off his hot upper torso (some so-called straight guys know what turns a gay guy's crank!).

I met a guy a couple of nights ago who has an ex with 3 kids (his)and a current girlfriend (well, he said things were a little rocky right now with her) and he was more than willing to come home with me and get down and dirty when he told me he had only made $50 that day, which wouldn't even pay for his day care charges for the kids (well, he was a dancer, of course, so this kinda thing was not altogether new to him LOL)...:+

[mansniffing]

Former Marine.?

Well, here's my experience with a former Marine. Many years ago, a friend from Vermont sent a former, divorced Marine with one kid, to me in NYC for the weekend. A fee was arranged and I gave him a tour of NYC and took lots of pictures. He was 6'2", had a fat 9x7, an ass to die for and 13 feet. He was tasty and a memorable experience.

:-)

[+ deej]

He had 13 feet?

 

Even Imelda Marcos would be jealous of HIS shoe collection!

 

:+

[VaHawk]

Please woodlawn, go a little easier on the patrons of this site. Obviously the majority of them, only think about sex 24x7. It is beyond such people to realize, that regardless of dress/attire, economic standing, etc. that a "straight, hot man" could "actually" respect and engage in friendly conversation with a "gay" man with no other agenda than to be a decent, caring individual who responds honestly to someone with similar interests and a similar caring personality!

[Rick Munroe]

>Obviously the majority of them, only think about sex

>24x7.

 

This is a sex-oriented message board and this is where people go to post stuff that is related to sex (duh). Why must you assume that because someone takes a moment to post about a sexual experience (or non-experience, as the case may be), that it means they think about sex 24/7? (Personally, I think about sex 23/7 but I'm a special case.)

 

>a "straight, hot

>man" could "actually" respect and engage in friendly

>conversation with a "gay" man with no other agenda than to be

>a decent, caring individual who responds honestly to someone

>with similar interests and a similar caring personality!

 

Screw that; I want to hear some hot tales of straight guys dropping their pants for us homos!! }(

[jackhammer91406]

> In those few minutes we talked I just felt a

>certain closeness to him ,even beyond the sexual attraction.

>My question is, could I handled this any better, and walked

>away with any more info?

 

As we are all sexual beings, it's difficult not to notice someone who has obviously worked on their body and has little or no insecurity about showing it. Having said that, from your details, I would submit that while his look got your attention, what kept it was the fact that he was another human being who was in need of assistance. While he may or may not have had a motive in sharing so much personal information, fact is, you were interested in hearing it and so stayed long enough. This is indicative of a caring individual.

 

In my current occupation, I am in contact with many very attractive str8 men. The few of them who know I am gay , while not believing me at first, seem now to have no problem with coming to me for advice, just to hang out, or go for a drink or something to eat. Guys who are comfortable with their sexuality have little problem having friends of other sexual persuasions.

 

I don't know what other information you wanted from the encounter, but wouldn't have blamed you if you had offered to help him without any ulterior motive. It's what we are supposed to do. I know that sounds like goody-goody and before the guns come out, I am no saint. But I find myself spending more time and money helping people in circumstances like the one you mentioned, and for whatever reason, I always feel better afterward.

[eastbayguy]

>certain closeness to him ,even beyond the sexual attraction.

>My question is, could I handled this any better, and walked

>away with any more info?

 

Well, nothing ventured, nothing gained. The brain can certainly conjure up lots of unpleasant, negative scenarios. Play your cards carefully, and you're unlikely to get clobbered.

 

I've gotten more than one str8 guy naked in my hot tub or pool. Enough alcohol and the right music, who can tell the gay ones from the str8 ones anyway? They all look about the same nekkid. Oh, and keeping a few str8 pornos around can help if they insist on talking about their wife/girlfriend.

 

--EBG

[VaHawk]

>This is a sex-oriented message board and this is where people

>go to post stuff that is related to sex (duh). Why must you

>assume that because someone takes a moment to post about a

>sexual experience (or non-experience, as the case may be),

>that it means they think about sex 24/7? (Personally, I think

>about sex 23/7 but I'm a special case.)

 

DUH in return, as this is supposed to be a sex-oriented board only in the terms of escorts/clients. Believe it or not, not every encounter between a straight man/gay man has to CENTER around sex and those who view such encounters are imo, indeed "obsessed with sex 24x7"! I'm sorry, but imo, an innocent encounter with another human being of the male gender does not MEAN there is "some kind" of sexual innuendo implied! No wonder the "straight population" has such a low opinion of gays!

 

>Screw that; I want to hear some hot tales of straight guys

>dropping their pants for us homos!! }(

 

Good for you, but I personally HAVE NO INTEREST, in hearing bs stories about "straights" dropping their pants for us "homos", as it just plays right into all the stereotypes of "gay fantasies" about "straight" men. Right up there with queers who post messages on sex boards looking for "straight or straight-acting" men, as if they are ashamed of being gay and sucking a gay dick is beneath them. BTW: those ads really slay me, as how would anyone know that a dick is attached to a str8, a faggot or a bi, as the last time I looked there isn't some logo branded on a man's cock!

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

>a major stud by accident?

 

I have been dating a very tall guy into extreme sports - so nearly all of his best friends are straight. None of them have ever shown even the remotest homophobic concept, but they are metrosexually oriented in absolutely no way. They drive trucks, big honking SUVs with no bells and whistles, care little for the type of furniture they have, clothes they wear, etc.

 

On a camping trip recently, my friend and I were up early making buckwheat pancakes for everyone and heating water for coffee. Two of the guys woke up from their tent and both did what many of these guys commonly do, which was undressed in front of us, rolling their long johns off and heading out in hiking boots to dig a pit and use the bathroom.

 

Not really sexual, but certainly interesting, considering they all sleep alone in their individual bags and we slept together in a larger one.

[Luv2play]

You're absolutely right about the str8 pornos. That's what my dancer friend asked for the other night. Normally, with an escort, I refuse to play any porno tape at all as I find it distracting from the sex between the two of us. But in this case I conceded to playing one (which I had to rent as mine are all gay) just to ensure he enjoyed himself as well. It turned out all right as he never got too diverted by it and it remained in the background).

 

We did get to talking a bit since he stayed close to three hours. He related how much he enjoys going to lesbian bars and hitting on the girls. According to him, quite a few are more than willing to hit the sheets with him, even threesomes and foursomes where he is the only stud.

 

I don't usually try to attract str8 men since I am always conscious of the underlying threat of violence if things go wrong. Still, when thrown together with a hot het, I do find myself having erotic thoughts. I'm not sure I would be very happy camping with a bunch of them like Franco does, I would just be a very horny, frustrated bottom boy :-(

[Guest RandyRon]

It's my experience that men think about sex 24/7 regardless of whether they are straight, gay, bi, other? If they're straight, they're thinking about pussy. If gay it's about cock, balls, ass, or other interesting body parts.

 

A few years ago (all right, back in the 60's) I found a bar in Cincinnati that was next to a major trucking terminal. It was almost always full of hunky men who appreciated a place to take a shower and at the same time get their plumbing worked on. I built up quite a roster of "will call" trade. All of them were very nice and appreciated the blow jobs. Some would spend the night while others had to get back on the road. I found it interesting that while some would let me fuck them (if I was patient and we had seen each other several times) none of them would kiss of do oral for me. Other than for the free sleeping arrangements, free shower, and a few beers, no money changed hands. Ahh, for the good old days!

[mmk]

I have size 13 feet and trust me, even Imelda Marcos would have had a problem trying to find shoes in that size (It is a real bitch and don't even get me started on finding socks that fit either)

[Guest DevonSFescort]

>Good for you, but I personally HAVE NO INTEREST, in hearing bs

>stories about "straights" dropping their pants for us "homos",

>as it just plays right into all the stereotypes of "gay

>fantasies" about "straight" men. Right up there with queers

>who post messages on sex boards looking for "straight or

>straight-acting" men, as if they are ashamed of being gay and

>sucking a gay dick is beneath them.

 

I have no doubt that sometimes that's what's going on, but not necessarily always. Many straight men get turned on by the idea of seducing or "converting" lesbians, not because they're ashamed of being straight and eating a straight girl's pussy is beneath them, but because the challenge appeals to their macho ego. I don't think it's a stretch to say that some gay men take the same delight in the perceived "challenge," and I don't think it necessarily adds up to internalized homophobia. On the other hand, some gay men may see straight guys as LESS of a challenge than gay guys if their experience has been that super-hot curious straight guys are less picky than equally super-hot gay guys, who may be perceived as less willing to "settle" for someone less super-hot than themselves.

 

As for gay fantasies about "straight" men, I think they speak to two understandable phenomena: 1) for many if not most gay men, the original objects of our desire when we were growing up WERE either perceived as, or actually were, straight. So a lingering attraction to, or fetish for, straight men, needn't be a sign of internalized homophobia any more than a special attraction to freckles, to blond hair, or hairy-chested guys is. 2) Due to the mass media's unprecedentedly wide proliferation of gay images, it is probably easier to get straight guys and/or guys who identify as straight to experiment than it ever has been before. I do think that some percentage (I couldn't hazard a guess as to how high) of men basically default towards heterosexuality but are genuinely "flexible" enough that they'll try it with another guy, if only it "occurs" to them to do so. The eroticization of men's bodies in mainstream media, and the widespread availability of gay sexual imagery, easily accessed in private, would appear to suggest that gay experimentation has the opportunity to "occur" to more straight guys than it used to, and that, in turn, would suggest that gay fantasies about straight men have more basis in reality than they used to.

[JamesK840]

You know what they say about guys with big feet?

They wear big socks.

 

I'm a size 13 too, shoes are a bitch but socks seem pretty easily available at the big 'n tall stores. Many also have shoes in our size, but usually they're crap.

[samwhygy]

Guys..just to clarify,my studly friend did not have 3 feet. What I said was he was 3 feet away from me when I opened the door of my truck. Also regarding his foot size, I was much to busy looking at his massive arms and pecs to even notice his feet. When he pulled on the tire iron and his bicep pumped I practically came in my pants. And guys,honestly, I'm not making this up... this guy was hot. At this point ,if nothing else, I'm hoping I'll at least have a wet dream about him. Your Very worked up and horny friend Samwhygy

[Guest YFSC]

>Guys..just to clarify,my studly friend did not have 3 feet.

>What I said was he was 3 feet away from me when I opened the

>door of my truck. Also regarding his foot size, I was much to

>busy looking at his massive arms and pecs to even notice his

>feet.

 

It's not 3 feet and it's not about your remark "3 feet away."

It's from mansniffing's post:

>He was 6'2", had a fat 9x7, an ass to die for and 13 feet.

 

:7

[woodlawn]

>It is beyond such people to realize, that regardless of

>dress/attire, economic standing, etc. that a "straight, hot

>man" could "actually" respect and engage in friendly

>conversation with a "gay" man with no other agenda than to be

>a decent, caring individual who responds honestly to someone

>with similar interests and a similar caring personality!

 

I'm sure you're right. What I would add, however, is that it is a strange characteristic of the weird little group that post here, and not so far as I know shared by gay men in general, to assume that any goodlooking young man who needs money would be willing to sell his ass to get it. Assuming that a straight man one meets by chance might be interested in or curious about gay sex is one thing; assuming that he would be interested in prostituting himself is quite another.

[Guest msclonly]

If I had size 13 or any size feet!

 

I would not buy off the rack to avoid sore feet.

Shoes are not made for fit or comfort. They are built for flat feet and make them worse, since there are no corrections.

One reason for athletic shoes being so popular is the better custom fit and comfort.

You can have any and all types of shoes made to order for a few dollars more then rack prices including the personal built in orthotics. :+

 

First, I would check if he needs any medical attention from the accident, if not, he would need a shower and maybe a shave followed by some chicken and salad.

What happens next depends on his responses?

 

In fact, that poor hot stud wouldn't leave until a complimentary

pair of Cross Trainers, that fit like gloves was measured with an impression of his feet!

 

That would require a return visit.

 

:7

[Guest tango]

What do you mean by "13 feet"?