What Is an ideal Perfect "Escort" Or Perfect "Client" Mean To You???

[JDXXX]

Hello Everyone,

 

Just got back from seeing a client recently that is of a fellow forum member, and as we were at dinner we had a fascinating conversation on escorts, and where "we" as escorts have a place in this world for perspective clients.

 

My client asked me a very intriguing question that stuck in my mind on the drive back to the hotel which was: What is the perfect escort/client? Knowing how analytical I am about "certain" questions one ask of me that can be difficult to answer, I thought to myself as an educated professional, "Hmmm, what would be the best answer that he'll treasure and use for future meetings with other escorts"?

 

Here are 6 things I can come up with of what would be an ideal "perfect" escort, and those 6 great qualities are:

 

1. An escort who values YOU(The client) as a special client/friend he enjoys being with everytime you get together

 

2. Show in many positive and productive ways possible how much he values you, and your loyalty

 

3. Create a comfortable environment that is pleasing and elegant for a true BFE

 

4. Never fail in giving an amazing mind-blowing experience/session that's out of this world

 

5. The escort will see in your best interest you don't leave his place without a smile on your face you enjoyed the time you shared together. .

 

6. Stunning looks and superb hygiene by smelling nice, and looking suave for the occasion. Nothing I like more in a man with stunning looks, great breath, and smelling good from head to toe to where you just wanna eat him alive and suck him dry. .

 

Whew - after awhile I'm gonna need a fan as it's getting hot up in here all of a sudden thinking about what turns me on about a hot man. Fanning myself. LOL.

 

Now -

 

For the Clients.......

 

I gave away my secrets of what I think could make the "Perfect" escort. What ideas come to mind of what you think make the "Perfect" escort?

 

For the Escorts.........

 

Seeing what my views are what makes a "Perfect" escort according to what my client in Dallas asked, what do you guys say what is the "Perfect" A-list/VIP client?

 

Penny for your thoughts....

 

Be honest now as this post is suppose to be a fun, informative, but educational for both Clients and Escorts.

 

HUGS

[maninsoma]

I think the most important quality in an escort is that he either is able to genuinely connect with me while he's with me or he is such a good actor that it appears he's actually connecting with me. I used to be able to enjoy just being with someone I found sexy, but now if I get the sense that a guy would rather be somewhere else it's extremely difficult for me to not think about that in a way that ruins the experience.

[JDXXX]

I think the most important quality in an escort is that he either is able to genuinely connect with me while he's with me or he is such a good actor that it appears he's actually connecting with me. I used to be able to enjoy just being with someone I found sexy, but now if I get the sense that a guy would rather be somewhere else it's extremely difficult for me to not think about that in a way that ruins the experience.

 

Good point as I totally agree that can be of a major dealbreaker for most clients if the escort isn't focused, and they're mind is wondering off, and would rather be someplace else. I can imagine that can be frustrating for the client to deal with.

[RockyHardon]

I would think the fun thing about being an escort is learning about the experiences of the client, ie, if he is a successful businessman learning of some of his business adventures, or if he is widely traveled, hearing about his favorite travel destinations...of course, you have to be able to make the client comfortable enough to share things about his experiences with you so that a connection can be made. Just my thought.

[JDXXX]

I would think the fun thing about being an escort is learning about the experiences of the client, ie, if he is a successful businessman learning of some of his business adventures, or if he is widely traveled, hearing about his favorite travel destinations...of course, you have to be able to make the client comfortable enough to share things about his experiences with you so that a connection can be made. Just my thought.

 

I agree as you stated some very interesting points as I'm one who is about getting to know the client, and making them feel comfortable in my surroundings as well as with me in the midst of they're company. It's a passion to make the client feel welcome, comfortable, and wanted by the escort in fulfilling his needs and then some.

[BaronArtz]

The 'best' definition in my book is what Louis XV said about his mistress, Madame du Barry. When one of the courtesans asked Louis what he still saw in this woman, at that point in time aging, he replied: "I still discover new pleasures and she makes me feel young". It does not need to be more than that.

[+ Keith30309]

Hi Everyone,

 

Just got back from seeing a client

 

Awesome questions and observations JD! I love these kinds of posts because they're positive and constructive and you're one of the most positive, upbeat guys on the forum.

 

I agree with everything you've said and think the first two are key in delivering a Nordstrom customer experience versus a Walmart experience. It's all about sustaining a level of interest in understanding what the client is looking for and then focusing on delivering it for that hour/weekend.

I think part of it is innate - some people naturally have this ability to understand other's needs and wants and some don't. The "best" I've encountered have listened to what I've said (and not said) and tailored their approach accordingly.

The second piece seems like common sense but it's maintaining focus 100% on the client for the duration. Those who have excelled have made me feel like I was at the center of their attention for our time together.

My personal best-of-the-best wasn't runway-model hot, did not have an Adonis body nor the endurance of a bull - he figured out what experience I wanted and made sure I got it.

 

I'd have to add that no one can deliver this in a vacuum and it's incumbent upon the client to communicate effectively what they're looking for, as uncomfortable as that may be. Even the most insightful, dedicated professional can't provide what they don't know. Emotional empaths are rare and it's unreasonable to expect to have hired one.

 

Great post!

[+ WilliamM]

JD, so many good points, thank you. I am not really looking for the BFE, but that's just me.

[RockyHardon]

JD, so many good points, thank you. I am not really looking for the BFE, but that's just me.

 

And there you have it...some client's just want you to drill them deep...and go home...That can be fun too.

[Wolfer]

I've been giving this a lot of thought as my past few hires have left me unsatisfied...

 

1. The escort showing he's excited/enthusiastic to meet up with me

2. The escort being totally in the moment, both physically and mentally

3. Give me the feeling that I am safe in his company and that he cares for me

4. Show that he is willing to accomodate my requests

5. Be turned on by the sex, or at least show some enthusiasm...

6. Doesn't make the session feel transactionary, i.e. not just a pat on the back after orgasms and then out the door the client goes.

 

And there's... a thing I can't really explain but I love love LOVE physical affection. Basically a guy who's all over you with hugs the moment you walk through the door, you know? A guy who's visibly excited that you're there. Who doesn't make me feel like I'm just a part of his rent payment.

[+ Keith30309]

I've been giving this a lot of thought as my past few hires have left me unsatisfied.. ... rent payment.

 

I feel the same way.

 

It occurs to me that some companions may be reading this and thinking "You've got to be kidding me - you want me to be your analyst, partner, lover, admirer, mother and sexual concierge all within the span of 60 minutes. That's completely unrealistic and unreasonable. "

 

I understand that and agree - JD asked what "perfect" was and perfection is rarely attained but always worth pursuing. There's some damn fine companions here who have given allot of themselves in emotional investments and sheer effort and it's important to recognize and appreciate that.

[+ glennnn]

I think the client's attitude can also make or break a "perfect" ASSignation (pun intended). If we are clear and communicative about our needs, appreciative for the attentions we receive, open about our lives, curious about the escort's life and very, very vocal in our pleasure (depending on the proximity of the neighbors) .... it's bound to help the escort please both of us.

 

 

Nothing's spurs a stud on like lots of moans, cries, pleas and screams..

[calrichmond]

I appreciate an escort who honestly portrays what he is willing to do, and has accurate and has recent photos displayed. I never hire escorts who don't have face pictures. I like escorts in their 30s to 40s range generally, and those who provide a "boyfriend" experience.

 

Here's my list:

• Good personality, friendly and engaging
  
• Beautiful body, well groomed
  
• Handsome
  
• Good hygiene (fresh breath, recently showered, anally clean for penetration)
  
• Honestly described what his limits are (if he doesn't kiss, I pass on him)
  
• Not arrogant, and respectful of me and my appearance (this isn't a date, it's a business arrangement)
  
• Responsive during sex (just doesn't lie there as I pound him)
  

If he meets these qualifications, I usually write a review. I tend to see the same escort over and over (i.e., Mitch Branson).

 

Also, as a rule, I avoid hiring escorts who've never been reviewed. I appreciate all the SF locals who do the initial reviews. I have, unfortunately, been burned several times by escorts who don't kiss (Colby Cruise) or who aren't willing to bottom once they've seen my equipment. I consider this money wasted.

 

Now with the shut down of rentboy and fewer reviews, I believe it will make the process of hiring more difficult. I notice there seem to be fewer SF reviews, which is a shame. We are a major gay market.

[Rudynate]

It's pretty simple - he has to look like his pictures, have good manners, be clean and deliver a dynamite experience.

[+ Truereview]

Using Rudynate's simplicity formula, then I would say a perfect client would need to be clear in communication, discreet, and shower before-hand. :-) I bet "generous" would be up there too

[+ glennnn]

I appreciate an escort who honestly portrays what he is willing to do, and has accurate and has recent photos displayed. I never hire escorts who don't have face pictures. I like escorts in their 30s to 40s range generally, and those who provide a "boyfriend" experience.

 

Here's my list:

• Good personality, friendly and engaging
  
• Beautiful body, well groomed
  
• Handsome
  
• Good hygiene (fresh breath, recently showered, anally clean for penetration)
  
• Honestly described what his limits are (if he doesn't kiss, I pass on him)
  
• Not arrogant, and respectful of me and my appearance (this isn't a date, it's a business arrangement)
  
• Responsive during sex (just doesn't lie there as I pound him)
  

If he meets these qualifications, I usually write a review. I tend to see the same escort over and over (i.e., Mitch Branson).

 

Also, as a rule, I avoid hiring escorts who've never been reviewed. I appreciate all the SF locals who do the initial reviews. I have, unfortunately, been burned several times by escorts who don't kiss (Colby Cruise) or who aren't willing to bottom once they've seen my equipment. I consider this money wasted.

 

Now with the shut down of rentboy and fewer reviews, I believe it will make the process of hiring more difficult. I notice there seem to be fewer SF reviews, which is a shame. We are a major gay market.

 

 

 

Had to ask... just how big is your equipment??

[+ Topseed]

I agree with WilliamM in that I'm not looking for a BFE either. Accurate pics, concise communication, on time arrival, a reasonably engaged performance and discretion about other clients all work just fine. And afterward: don't expect me to be your ATM or your therapist. It's a business relationship; no more, no less.

[bigvalboy]

Basically if I wake up the next morning and think about the escort, and not about how much money I spent, then he's a good escort.

[calrichmond]

Had to ask... just how big is your equipment??

I am 9 inches or so, and thick. Either guys love it or back away.

[Rudynate]

I am 9 inches or so, and thick. Either guys love it or back away.

 

With an endowment like that, they should be paying you.

[+ WilliamM]

I agree with WilliamM in that I'm not looking for a BFE either. Accurate pics, concise communication, on time arrival, a reasonably engaged performance and discretion about other clients all work just fine. And afterward: don't expect me to be your ATM or your therapist. It's a business relationship; no more, no less.

 

I would add a pleasant conversation as well so you get to know each other a little, but otherwise agree.

[Rudynate]

Using Rudynate's simplicity formula, then I would say a perfect client would need to be clear in communication, discreet, and shower before-hand. I bet "generous" would be up there too

 

I pay whatever the guy charges and I leave a tip - usually $50.00.

[Epigonos]

I look at this a little differently guys. I expect the escort to look like his photographs and do what he say he will in his profile, in his reviews and in our one on one communication. If once we get together he fulfills the above then at least 50% of the responsibility for a successful meeting depends on me. I firmly believe that the more I try to please him the more he will try to please me and the better the session will be -- it is definitely NOT a one way street.

[YoungAD]

I agree with everything you've said and think the first two are key in delivering a Nordstrom customer experience versus a Walmart experience.

 

The key is not being made to feel like a customer at all.

[geminibear]

I am 9 inches or so, and thick. Either guys love it or back away.

 

Some other peoples problems.