Do you get hit (online or in person) by young men?

[Hammockrider]

let me know if you ever return to Boca!

 

 

Grindr

Face Photo - No / Little Messages

Body Photo - Phone blows up but once I sent face photo it becomes a wasteland

 

I message older guys but I rarely get a response. I live in a conservative/waspy area. Many guys have in there profile "no rice", "no yellow", "no azns or blks", "whites only" "no ethnics". It is only once you hit Boca Raton and south it is much more diverse and more open minded.

 

I get some mean messages some are funny such as:

 

"egg roll", "wanton soup", "china man" 0___o

 

In Person

I live in a conservative/waspy area, I see guys looking / glancing at me I think something is wrong or if i'm doing something weird but I never get approached or talked to.

 

Off Topic

This is a quote from another escort Clark and his tumblr hyperlinked <--

"The designation of Asian men being considered less attractive by our beauty standards is because of racism, misogyny, and male supremacy in an arbitrary system which regards european men as the highest standard of man"

 

Which i can agree to some extent only because I have heard a lot of evidence (feedback from my own "hook ups") such as:

 

"you are the first asian i've been with", "i'm usually not into asians", "you are cute for an asian" and my favorite of all lines "are you really asian you don't sound asian?"

 

Not everyone is like that, many are judgment free and free loving however I have seen a good number who share these thoughts / philosophy. This is my take coming from my end/side. What is your take?

 

This could be a reason why I don't get approached or messaged online/in person.

 

Sorry to steal the thread, I was in a society discussing mood lol.

 

Back On Topic

I'm too shy/intimidated to approach others in a club/bar setting. I don't like going out for this reason so my nights consists of staying home and reading or entertaining guests .

 

When I go do normal errands mom-aged women will compliment me and ask if I have a girlfriend. I don't know how I feel when moms ask me if I have a girlfriend, I've had one mom introduce me to their daughter right afterwards. It was kinda awkward. However when Dilfs chat me up (which is rare) I get a rallied up and have mischievous thoughts. Thoughts such as "Son's friend seduces the dad", "son catches dad with his best friend" and "wife catches husband with son's schoolmate" LOL.

[RealAvalon]

Wanna switch places?

I was born in 1940, I'm a member of the "silent generation", I hope that has nothing to do with the "silent majority". I was raised by folks who where teenagers during the great depression and called a spoiled brat just because I never went hungry.

You're turning 80 this year? How are you going to celebrate?

[marylander1940]

You're turning 80 this year? How are you going to celebrate?

 

unfortunately NOT with a trip to Ireland I was hoping.

[RealAvalon]

unfortunately NOT with a trip to Ireland I was hoping.

Which Irish rugby player do you want, and how do you want him wrapped?

[RealAvalon]

That post you quoted was from 2015, so.....

I did the math - 1940

[thickornotatall]

I get hit on by men around my own age a lot. Which is great. I didn't notice it until I became one of them, but there's a large population of successful, in-shape, well-kept men in their 50s - 60s who chase after each other instead of chasing after young men. I'm finding I really enjoy this group. Now and again, somebody in their 20s - 30s hits on me online.

 

I have an interesting flirtation going on right now. A classicly tall, dark and handsome real estate broker, around 60, who I assumed was straight. But I'm not sure he is anymore. We've had lunch a couple of times and he sends me flirty emails. We've talked about doing a deal together.

I hope your deal involves a condom! ?

[Rudynate]

These things are fun, but they hardly ever go anywhere

[rustyrex]

Try molested by a brat in his early 20s. He caught me off guard when I had something heavy in my arms that I didn’t want to drop. I told him that if he ever did that again he would get his ass beat. While tempting, he was for the most part way too immature and even threw tantrums like a child. In the end I ended up turning him down. He was sexy, one of those former college cheerleader types. Could do all kinds of flips and tricks.

[Guest]

There's this 25 year-old guy I met on Seeking Arrangements who is frequently requesting and occasionally coming over for sex (I don't pay him). He drives 45 miles to do it, too. We don't work out as a couple due to very different interests, but he seems very turned on. There's another dude I met on that site, with whom I also don't feel compatible, but who tells me I'm "very cute," which feels weird to me, since I'm in my late 50s. That guy's also in his mid 20s.

[gallahadesquire]

I’ve met an organic chemist who I in academics (Ph.D. Program) and teaching a full semester. We text quite a bit and have had dinner twice. We’re just similar nerds, and he doesn’t seem to mind I’m twice his age. He’s a little too into fashion, but it makes him happy.