Knowing an Escort's true identity -- Etiquette?

[recency]

Sometimes you just get to know the real name without making any effort. If it is an "in-call" the name is sometimes on the doorbell especially if it is an apartment building. I would never reveal anything like real names. Such information travels on its own, and to places never envisioned.

[+ dutchmuch]

I would never reveal anything like real names. Such information travels on its own, and to places never envisioned.

 

Ask Richard Hatch.

[MiamiLooker]

I know of whom you're speaking, (M) he used to work in NYC too. And yes thou he advertises late 30's he is well into his 50's.

Are you sure he's "well into his 50's"?

[Tonyko]

Are you sure he's "well into his 50's"?

To me he looked 52-3 ish :-) BUT I could be tots wrong I'm real bad at ages. (I had NO idea Goldie Hawn was 80) (kidding)

[MiamiLooker]

To me he looked 52-3 ish BUT I could be tots wrong I'm real bad at ages. (I had NO idea Goldie Hawn was 80) (kidding)

You are tots wrong. Do you think it's fair to the escort to post that he's "well into his 50's" just because you think he "looked 52-3 ish"?

[Tonyko]

You are tots wrong. Do you think it's fair to the escort to post that he's "well into his 50's" just because you think he "looked 52-3 ish"?

YUP. I do. FYI :

A) The ORIGINAL thread poster felt he was at least TWENTY YEARS older than he advertises, feel free to go back and look

B) The scort advertises 39

C) Neither myself NOR the poster has mentioned the scort by NAME so what's the PROB re being fair to the scort???

D) When I said I could be TOTS WRONG I meant I was being CONSERVATIVE in my estimate

[thickornotatall]

YUP. I do. FYI :

A) The ORIGINAL thread poster felt he was at least TWENTY YEARS older than he advertises, feel free to go back and look

B) The scort advertises 39

C) Neither myself NOR the poster has mentioned the scort by NAME so what's the PROB re being fair to the scort???

D) When I said I could be TOTS WRONG I meant I was being CONSERVATIVE in my estimate

 

Being the original poster I stand by my words...No way....no how...could the escort be 39....he flat out copped to 10 years older to my face.... I would add a few years to that....as I also wrote...he was very sweet....a nice guy....just not of this world...I felt quite awful for him...I cannot imagine having to "fudge" my age to get a job....Still I was so disappointed...not so much with age...but with the rest of the stats all being wrong..wrong...wrong....even after re-reading all the reviews I believe all were written by the escort or friends...they all read the same and are all wrong...I know I'm repeating ....I would hope he comes to some sort of real life facts and changes his ways...One day someone...not so kind will do him real dirty...and that will be sad...he is a nice guy....If any of his friends read this forum....sit him down and give him a shoulder to lean on and help write a new ad....that's all folks...

[+ Gar1eth]

Not quite on topic, but in the mid-90's I was renting a room in a house from an ad I'd found in the local gay bar rag. In the gym steamroom, I saw a guy I'd hired a few years earlier, and managed to take him home with me. I'm not sure if he remembered me as a client because this was strictly tricking, no money exchanged. He laughed about the fact that he'd been to that house before, under the same circumstances, tricking with a previous tenant in that house.

 

I would consider 'turning tricks'/'tricking' to be for money. What you are describing for your second meeting would called (nowadays) a hook-up. Or if he realized you were a former client but didn't charge, then it might be called a 'freebie'.

 

Gman

[Scorpio]

...the body is soft...overweight...so disappointing...

 

....Still I was so disappointed...not so much with age...but with the rest of the stats all being wrong..wrong...wrong....

 

Did you not look at his ad pics before hiring him? All of the things that you say disappointed you, are quite evident from the ad pics. It's been evident for years that the visual evidence does not depict the ad text or reviews.

 

As for you contention about the reviews, take a look at his email handle and the review handle of his first reviewer. Coincidence? I think not. The reviews sound similar because 5 of the 13 reviews are written by the same 2 reviewers.

[+ dutchmuch]

Its so crazy I'm still trying to find my very own forum spokesperson to announce when I'm town, when I get a new review posted or speak on my behalf.

 

Killian, why don't you send a 'Discussion' to Jimboivyo?? He announces, reviews and defends on behalf of Benjamin Nicholas and Noah Driver, pro bono publico!

[bostonman]

Do we really have to use non-words like "tots"?

[AdamSmith]

Do we really have to use non-words like "tots"?

 

+1

 

http://www.oreida.com/~/media/OreIda/assets/img/ProductDetailImages/Prod_Tots.ashx?mw=611

[jimboivyo]

Killian, why don't you send a 'Discussion' to Jimboivyo?? He announces, reviews and defends on behalf of Benjamin Nicholas and Noah Driver, pro bono publico!

 

haven't defended noah in some time. quit twisting facts fox news. also, nice to see that val keeps his lips on your butt with his likes. lol

 

benjamin on the other hand is a personal favorite and one of the best out there. that's not gonna change anytime soon dear. deal

[jimboivyo]

+1

 

http://www.oreida.com/~/media/OreIda/assets/img/ProductDetailImages/Prod_Tots.ashx?mw=611

 

 

isn't it being spelled totes, not tots?

[AdamSmith]

isn't it being spelled totes, not tots?

 

...???

 

To me he looked 52-3 ish BUT I could be tots wrong I'm real bad at ages. (I had NO idea Goldie Hawn was 80) (kidding)

 

You are tots wrong. Do you think it's fair to the escort to post that he's "well into his 50's" just because you think he "looked 52-3 ish"?

 

YUP. I do. FYI :

A) The ORIGINAL thread poster felt he was at least TWENTY YEARS older than he advertises, feel free to go back and look

B) The scort advertises 39

C) Neither myself NOR the poster has mentioned the scort by NAME so what's the PROB re being fair to the scort???

D) When I said I could be TOTS WRONG I meant I was being CONSERVATIVE in my estimate

[mike carey]

isn't it being spelled totes, not tots?

 

...???

Yep, I thought it was 'totes' (= totally) not 'tots'. The discrepancy didn't really register when I first read it though.

[AdamSmith]

Tots

(tõts)

 

An abbreviation for the word totally

 

That car is tots cool!

 

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Tots

[+ purplekow]

isn't it being spelled totes, not tots?

Tots such at Tater tots or a roomful of 2 year olds

Totes are a shoe protector that you may carry with you to slip over your shoes if there is rain or other inclement weather.

"Lift that barge, totes that bail, get a little drunk and you land in jail" Famous line from Old Man River

It is "totes" or "tots" short for totally, as you cannot misspell as word that does not exist. THis is a neologism which sounds ridiculous when said by anyone other than a 15 year old girl as depicted in a Saturday Night Live skit, when it is used to illustrate just how vapid the character is.

I have heard of deeper daggers being thrust into the bosom of my mother language, but this one is particularly adolescent. Sorry Tonyko, though I must say that most of your postings are fun and your avatar is definitely "Totes hot" but not "hot tots" but it could be a Hottentot

[AdamSmith]

On the other hand!

 

Totes

A shorter more convenient form of the word: totally. This word is most commonly used by teenage girls.

 

The most obvious advantage of using this word is the time saved. Data collected at a prestigious university found that every syllable spoken takes approximately 0.14 seconds.

 

The same prestigious university also found that the average valley girl says the word totally around 190 times a day.

 

If you do the math, the average time saved by using the word totes as opposed to totally would save 26.6 seconds a day! Over the course of a year that adds up to 2.7 hours!!

 

Girl #1: I totes want to go to the shoe store because I totes need to purchase new heels.

 

Girl #2: Totes! I totes need a new pair too so I'll totes go with you.

 

Girl #3: OH EM GEE! you guys saved 0.7 seconds by saying totes instead of totally!!

 

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Totes

[AdamSmith]

And furthermore!

 

Tater Tits

When someone has nipples the size of tater tots. Either swollen or natural. They may occur after excessive sucking on the breast/nipple.

 

Dale: Man i sucked on that girl so hard last night, i gave her fucking tater tits.

 

Jon: Remember that chick from the bar last night? Defs had tater tits.

Geoff: Naaaasssstttt.

 

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Tater+Tits

[bostonman]

"Lift that barge, totes that bail, get a little drunk and you land in jail" Famous line from Old Man River

 

Actually not. It's "Tote that barge / Lift that bale." (Or "Tote dat barge / lift dat bale" in Hammerstein's quasi-dialect.) But in any case, it's "tote" in this case, not "totes."

[mike carey]

Totes

A shorter more convenient form of the word: totally. This word is most commonly used by teenage girls.

 

Girl #1: I totes want to go to the shoe store because I totes need to purchase new heels.

 

Girl #2: Totes! I totes need a new pair too so I'll totes go with you.

 

Girl #3: OH EM GEE! you guys saved 0.7 seconds by saying totes instead of totally!!

 

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Totes

 

I guess that means you can use either.

[+ purplekow]

Actually not. It's "Tote that barge / Lift that bale." (Or "Tote dat barge / lift dat bale" in Hammerstein's quasi-dialect.) But in any case, it's "tote" in this case, not "totes."

You are correct but without that error I would not have had an excuse to post Paul Robeson and that is always worth hearing again. Though the "gets" soon after is a similar bow to an imagined dialect and it is pronounced "get" in other versions, so it seems I have heard the "totes" used but it is indeed the barge they are toting and the bale their are lifting or in Noah Driver's case, it is the bail that is being raised.

[+ purplekow]

Tots such at Tater tots or a roomful of 2 year olds

Totes are a shoe protector that you may carry with you to slip over your shoes if there is rain or other inclement weather.

"Lift that barge, totes that bail, get a little drunk and you land in jail" Famous line from Old Man River

It is "totes" or "tots" short for totally, as you cannot misspell as word that does not exist. THis is a neologism which sounds ridiculous when said by anyone other than a 15 year old girl as depicted in a Saturday Night Live skit, when it is used to illustrate just how vapid the character is.

I have heard of deeper daggers being thrust into the bosom of my mother language, but this one is particularly adolescent. Sorry Tonyko, though I must say that most of your postings are fun and your avatar is definitely "Totes hot" but not "hot tots" but it could be a Hottentot

In looking up Hottentot, i discovered that this may be considered offensive. So I apologize to any speakers of the Khoekhoe language or members of the tribe and to anyone else who may be offended now, in the past or in perpetuity, I must admit, my awareness of the word comes only from another old movie in which the the Cowardly Lion says something to the effect of: "And what makes the Hottentot so hot? Courage." Guess I need to stop referencing 75 year old movies.

[MiamiLooker]

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