Reliving your own experience through someone else's review

[Decatur Guy]

Have you ever read a review and pretty much relived your own experience with an escort?

 

I just did that today (June 9) with the review of Carlo of D.C. The reviewer's description of events made me realize my experience with him played out pretty much the same way. The guy is hot, and he made pretty much the same moves on both of us, from the way he initiated getting sucked to the way he likes you to ride him.

 

That got me to thinking, and I realized that I've noticed that in some other reviews of escorts I've hired. I had pretty much the same experience with them too.

 

For instance, a really fun guy called RoughScort likes to maneuver you sitting on the floor with your head against the bed and then go in for a facefuck. It happened with me, and I've seen that exact same thing mentioned in other reviews.

 

I've noticed the same thing with Renn Callahan, one of my first hires and another of my favorites. Many reviews report the same chain of events and fucking techniques. And Tom Isern seems to usually get in the same type of oral action with a client. Numerous reviews mention how he likes to clamp your head with his legs and immobilize you -- something he seems to do a lot but I seldom encounter with other escorts.

 

There's nothing wrong with it to me -- I've had GREAT times with these guys I've mentioned and others I haven't. And I hope to hire each I just mentioned again.

 

But at least with the take-charge tops, who I tend to hire, I'm starting to realize the encounter is a bit formulaic, now that I'm thinking back to other reviews. In my head, I kept thinking these were unique experiences and wildly different for the escorts. Now for me, they were, because all these guys have different approaches, scenarios and techniques. And in subtle ways, I'm sure the action was different for each escort because each client has to vary at least a little.

 

But in seeing so many clients, I'm sure escorts have a "routine," if you will -- a set of things that they find erotic and gets them turned on. A certain way they like for the action to happen. I'd never really thought about it in that way before today.

 

So, do any of you other clients also experience that "I've been right there" feeling reading a different review of the same escort?

 

And escorts, does any of this have a ring of truth for you?

[Vato Loco]

Déjà vu...

[mike carey]

Great post, Decatur. I don't know how this plays out. I can see that escorts would have their own play list of how they go on appointments, but I suspect they have that as a default in the absense of input from their clients. The good ones would adapt to what their clients want the less good would not. In a way I don't have a problem: if it works, even if it is a bit formulaic, then go with it. I have no doubt that there is a number of escorts who have a fixed method of operation that their clients like so who are we to say they should change. From what I've read here there are several guys who I would hire and just let them do what they do!!

[Decatur Guy]

Great post, Decatur. I don't know how this plays out. I can see that escorts would have their own play list of how they go on appointments, but I suspect they have that as a default in the absense of input from their clients. The good ones would adapt to what their clients want the less good would not. In a way I don't have a problem: if it works, even if it is a bit formulaic, then go with it. I have no doubt that there is a number of escorts who have a fixed method of operation that their clients like so who are we to say they should change. From what I've read here there are several guys who I would hire and just let them do what they do!!

 

Yeah, it's not a problem for me either. Whether it's a formula or something he just made up, it was hot for me. It was just sort of a mini-ephinany today reading that Carlo review and realizing how often I've had that happen now.

 

My own review of Carlo should be posting soon, and you're going to read a similar scenario.

[thickornotatall]

not only escorts have a "playbook".....I do too....I know exactly what I like...and how I like it......I have been with Roughscort....a very nice guy with his own playbook....just so happened we both wanted the same scenario....I have learned to be a take charge oral bottom.....When making an appointment I am very clear about what I want..and how I want it......I can usually have my way by being aggressive and making the first move...so don't be surprised to have your dick in my mouth when saying hello!...be ready to crawl out the door when we're all done....I make sure we both have a good time and want my companion to leave with a smile...and want to come back....make no mistake...I am a sucker for an alpha male with major meat....sorry to say..few and far between....wannabes and posers stand back......

[Decatur Guy]

not only escorts have a "playbook".....I do too....I know exactly what I like...and how I like it......I have been with Roughscort....a very nice guy with his own playbook....just so happened we both wanted the same scenario....I have learned to be a take charge oral bottom.....When making an appointment I am very clear about what I want..and how I want it......I can usually have my way by being aggressive and making the first move...so don't be surprised to have your dick in my mouth when saying hello!...be ready to crawl out the door when we're all done....I make sure we both have a good time and want my companion to leave with a smile...and want to come back....make no mistake...I am a sucker for an alpha male with major meat....sorry to say..few and far between....wannabes and posers stand back......

 

Yeah, I think I operate with something of a playbook myself. And I guess part of the challenge is finding playbooks that match! (Although I can operate with several different playbooks! LOL. I'm sure many escorts can as well).

 

For instance, I like to kiss. A lot. But if an escort doesn't, that won't be a deal breaker for me. I've had VERY HOT sessions with guys who didn't want to kiss.

[curiousnomore]

Great post Decatur. I've noticed the same thing, on both sides. I have an idea of how I want things to go, and I'm sure my friend for the evening has his own ideas. It's finding a guy that matches that makes the difference.

[+ quoththeraven]

I think for a lot of escorts -- and clients -- sessions are a matter of theme with variations, as oppose to jazzlike improv. Or sonnets vs. free verse, to use another metaphor.

[curiousnomore]

That may be, but my impression is that Escorts want to give us what we want. That's a good thing. But, apparently, most clients want their own personal porn encounter. I'm not that guy, though.

 

Kiss, undress, trade oral, anal in 2-3 positions, orgasm, go to sleep. Fun, sometimes, but boring every time.

 

Let's just play and see where it goes.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Any time I read a review of an escort I've seen, there is always a flashback to my own experiences. It might be the polite way he greeted me at the door and we chatted before we got to know each other better, or it might be a mention that he is a great kisser. Some things just trigger the memories that may have a completely different set up than, "he had me in a sling and alternately inserted a chilled dildo and his cock in my hole."

[TruHart1]

Yes, sometimes a review will bring back the experience for me with an escort I've hired before, and yet I do feel each time I've hired the same escort again, I've usually felt closer to them and they seemed more involved with me. Perhaps it is in both of us getting to know what I like and what they like or perhaps we just become so comfortable with each other over multiple sessions that the sensations are more intense every time. I realize that I am among those clients who, when I find a man I have a wonderful experience with the first time, will continue to hire him again and again and almost always with my satisfaction level growing with each consecutive meeting! That's just me in search of the ultimate BFE. I know of a number of clients who enjoy only hiring an escort once and then moving on to a new man, no matter how wonderful the experience was, so they may enjoy many different guys, and there's nothing wrong with that!

 

TruHart1

[+ purplekow]

I wrote a review and someone mentioned in the discussion of the review that The Escort started that persons encounter with the same romantic gesture, a bath/

Well I did feel a bit cheated, like my encounter might have started out a bit formulaic. But you know what, it was hot, it was not new but it was hot. He later gave me a great blow job. Chance are he has given other guys great blow jobs. That thing he does with your dick and his tongue, probably did not de novo think of it when he saw my dick. One does not get that good at something without practice. I then fucked him. Chances are he has been fucked before and flexed those beautiful biceps for them like he did for me as he rode my cock. .

I figure if I want a unique sexual experience with an escort in order to make sure he doesn't just go through the motions, then that is what I need to bring to the table, or the floor or the washing machine or the press box at a baseball field or the back seat of my car.

The next time I saw that escort, I brought along a gift of a Tens electrical stimulator and while others may eventually get to see that Tens unit induce the large erection it generated for this escort, I am pretty sure it led to an unscripted encounter. Gentleman, you want exceptional and spontaneous great sex with an escort, then you better bring it with ya and show him what you want.

[loverboy95]

The most I have felt is when I read a really good review, I get jealous that I am not the one doing those things the client did with the escort.

[Decatur Guy]

I think for a lot of escorts -- and clients -- sessions are a matter of theme with variations, as oppose to jazzlike improv. Or sonnets vs. free verse, to use another metaphor.

 

That's a very eloquent and great way of putting it!

[Decatur Guy]

Yes, sometimes a review will bring back the experience for me with an escort I've hired before, and yet I do feel each time I've hired the same escort again, I've usually felt closer to them and they seemed more involved with me. Perhaps it is in both of us getting to know what I like and what they like or perhaps we just become so comfortable with each other over multiple sessions that the sensations are more intense every time. I realize that I am among those clients who, when I find a man I have a wonderful experience with the first time, will continue to hire him again and again and almost always with my satisfaction level growing with each consecutive meeting! That's just me in search of the ultimate BFE. I know of a number of clients who enjoy only hiring an escort once and then moving on to a new man, no matter how wonderful the experience was, so they may enjoy many different guys, and there's nothing wrong with that!

 

TruHart1

 

I prefer multiple encounters with a man, whether escort or just an encounter between us "civilians." I have a fuck buddy going on almost a year now, and we meet at least twice a month. The sex is just getting better and better as we learn to read each other more and more.

[Decatur Guy]

Thanks to all of you for the input and replies. Great discussion.

[curiousnomore]

Any time I read a review of an escort I've seen, there is always a flashback to my own experiences. It might be the polite way he greeted me at the door and we chatted before we got to know each other better, or it might be a mention that he is a great kisser. Some things just trigger the memories that may have a completely different set up than, "he had me in a sling and alternately inserted a chilled dildo and his cock in my hole."

Never had a chilled dildo in my butt, much less alternating with the real thing. Thanks for the idea, though. I'll try it in about 3 weeks.

I've been trying to find a way to enjoy bottoming. This may be the answer. And no, I'm not joking. It'll be interesting if nothing else.

[AdamSmith]

I think for a lot of escorts -- and clients -- sessions are a matter of theme with variations, as oppose to jazzlike improv. Or sonnets vs. free verse, to use another metaphor.

 

Or, occasionally, toccata and fugue.

 

http://michaelsmusicservice.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/orgue.jpg

 

[curiousnomore]

Yes, sometimes a review will bring back the experience for me with an escort I've hired before, and yet I do feel each time I've hired the same escort again, I've usually felt closer to them and they seemed more involved with me. Perhaps it is in both of us getting to know what I like and what they like or perhaps we just become so comfortable with each other over multiple sessions that the sensations are more intense every time. I realize that I am among those clients who, when I find a man I have a wonderful experience with the first time, will continue to hire him again and again and almost always with my satisfaction level growing with each consecutive meeting! That's just me in search of the ultimate BFE. I know of a number of clients who enjoy only hiring an escort once and then moving on to a new man, no matter how wonderful the experience was, so they may enjoy many different guys, and there's nothing wrong with that!

 

TruHart1

Well said. And, better than I ever could have. I'm still new to ALL of this, but I really like it. I've relived my experiences, found inspiration, you name it.

 

Still working on translating the inspiration lol!!!

[curiousnomore]

Or, occasionally, toccata and fugue.

 

http://michaelsmusicservice.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/orgue.jpg

 

Beautiful picture.

[AdamSmith]

Beautiful picture.

 

Duke Chapel.

 

http://chapel.duke.edu

[curiousnomore]

It's a beautiful place.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Never had a chilled dildo in my butt, much less alternating with the real thing. Thanks for the idea, though. I'll try it in about 3 weeks.

I've been trying to find a way to enjoy bottoming. This may be the answer. And no, I'm not joking. It'll be interesting if nothing else.

 

Did I forgot to mention that it was a glass dildo? It really was quite the memorable sensation!

[whipped guy]

I just caught this thread.

 

Well many years ago I had the reverse experience where my actual session mirrored a review that I had read shortly prior to hooking up with the escort.

 

The escort decided that the same scenario would work with me and he was right. It involved a BDSM scene where he had me wear a white tee shirt and white briefs which he provided. I was then tied to some posts and he teased me and slowly ripped off the shirt and underwear. Then the real fun began.

 

Having read the review I knew what was coming, it kind of took the edge off things, but I also knew that it would be a gratifying experience. In any event, based on the fact that the escort had a drawer full of white underwear I am sure that he pulled the same trick on quite a number of clients with whom he though the scene wood be compatible.

 

I have often gone into sessions with a script in mind, but I have learned that letting things flow naturally yields the best results ninety percent of the time!

 

Incidentally, there was a review posted today (6/11) that in several respects mirrored a very recent experience with the same escort. If I had submitted a review it would have been so similar that I would have been accused of plagiarism!

[thickornotatall]

Yes, sometimes a review will bring back the experience for me with an escort I've hired before, and yet I do feel each time I've hired the same escort again, I've usually felt closer to them and they seemed more involved with me. Perhaps it is in both of us getting to know what I like and what they like or perhaps we just become so comfortable with each other over multiple sessions that the sensations are more intense every time. I realize that I am among those clients who, when I find a man I have a wonderful experience with the first time, will continue to hire him again and again and almost always with my satisfaction level growing with each consecutive meeting! That's just me in search of the ultimate BFE. I know of a number of clients who enjoy only hiring an escort once and then moving on to a new man, no matter how wonderful the experience was, so they may enjoy many different guys, and there's nothing wrong with that!

 

TruHart1

If I find an escort that pleases me..an I please him...then it's a done deal for as long as it lasts....I saw one man in particular for about 10 years....a mutual like and a good chemistry...an hour....an entire day....overnight.....a vacation....not looking for love....looking for??? who knows...it worked....glad he retired...we still keep in touch....