The underendowed 2min man!

[m4hotness]

Good day guys!

My main question is how does one last longer in bed? What are your techniques?

Have any of you lasted longer over time due to more sex? Or have you always been wired to last a longtime?

What's the longest time you've been able to withhold yourself from coming? What's the shortest amount of time?

When masturbating, do you do it as fast as you can or edge till you can't hold back anymore?

Thanks let's discuss!

[AdamSmith]

My main question is how does one last longer in bed? What are your techniques?

 

My secret: Keep getting older!

 

(Partner: "Will you cum already?!")

[+ Gar1eth]

Good day guys!

My main question is how does one last longer in bed? What are your techniques?

Have any of you lasted longer over time due to more sex? Or have you always been wired to last a longtime?

What's the longest time you've been able to withhold yourself from coming? What's the shortest amount of time?

When masturbating, do you do it as fast as you can or edge till you can't hold back anymore?

Thanks let's discuss!

 

I have always been rather quick off the mark unfortunately. It's probably gotten better a bit as I've gotten older but not anything comparable to what AdamSmith describes as he has gotten older. I'm still pretty much a Wham-Bam-Thank-You Sir unfortunately. There are lots of factors for me that can be involved. For example if I haven't cum in awhile, I'm much more likely to cum quickly. Another factor can be what kind of stimulation I'm receiving. I can hold out topping much longer than I can when receiving oral or being stroked by hand.

 

I'm not sure if you just only want a discussion or whether you are looking for tips for yourself. If for yourself-there are creams like Man Delay (I think that's the brand name) It contains a topical anesthetic. Another solution works best with a partner-you have them get you near to cuming-but go slow-then as you are almost there-the partner squeezes at the base of the tallywacker compressing the urethra that usually will stop someone shooting if they catch it right before the 1st contraction. Another thing I've noticed is that right before I cum, I often seem to be taking a deep breath. If I know I am close, I try to have my partner slow down what they are doing and try to prevent myself from taking a deep breath. And of course there is the old standby of figuring up batting averages.

 

Gman

[Rudynate]

With my hand, I can come in no time. With others, I can last indefinitely - with the help of my cialis daily.

[big-n-tall]

For me it depends a number of factors... like how aroused I am; how loose or tight the person's ass or other orifaces are; if I held off from coming or if I masturbate before I see the person; and other factors, etc. The longest I have had penetrative sex before coming is a little over 40 mins. The shortest was about 5.

 

I can get aroused again almost instantly after orgasm. So the longer I go, back to back the longer I can last between sessions. Because I can do this, I Have kind of gotten passed trying to prolong sex before orgasm.

 

I use to worry about lasting longer too, but the more I worried about it, the more anxiety generated, which caused performance issues. I just go with the flow and I haven't gotten any complaints.

 

I say also try a flesh jack to try to build stamina. Use it to edge yourself and learn the sensations you get leading up to coming so you know when to slow down or stop before orgasm.

 

I hope that helps.

[m4hotness]

Thanks guys! All you've shared so far is very helpful! jerking off, i can edge or an hour, however when I fuck someone, i only last at most 5 minutes.

I find that my flesh jack actually feels better than most mouths/ asses and I come within a minute. Lol

Have we had any escorts respond yet? If you are an escort and reading this please share your technique(s) of how you last so long. And do you get blue balls if you had to hold off for too long?

[Guest ChrisW]

Think of Margaret Thatcher

[rvwnsd]

Think of Margaret Thatcher

I would think that would result in losing your erection altogether!

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

I have actually had to do algebra problems in my head before.

 

Or slow down.

[body2body]

Count backwards from 1000 in french.

[AdamSmith]

Think of Margaret Thatcher

 

Or John Major!

 

Gordon Brown, now...

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

Count backwards from 1000 in french.

 

Yeah, but French is sexy and then makes me think of foreskins and Cadinot porn.

[curiousnomore]

Think of Margaret Thatcher

Great Woman, but there's not enough lube to get me there in that uncomfortable situation.

[curiousnomore]

Seriously though, I have sex so infrequently that I'm a 30 second guy sans condom (think wife you preverts, lol). But, when properly attired (with condom), I can go for hours. Don't ask me why. I buy the thinnest condoms I can find, but it doesn't seem to matter.

 

Good problem to have, I guess.

[AdamSmith]

Great Woman, but there's not enough lube to get me there in that uncomfortable situation.

 

One imagines Maggie as the original Sandpaper Sallie.

[+ purplekow]

I will take British Prime Ministers for 2 minutes Alex....

Back to the OP question, I last but am usually first. I try to come before he goes and hope he comes and then goes. Sometimes, if I think prematurity will be a problem, I come the morning of an evening appointment and that will slow me down but it makes a round 2 much more difficult than it is otherwise. I come much much faster when I jerk off as I have very little self control but I am pretty good at controlling others so they will stop when I say to stop but I do not listen to me,

[curiousnomore]

I don't get the reference, AdamSmith, but I'll look it up.

[AdamSmith]

I don't get the reference, AdamSmith, but I'll look it up.

 

Avoid near mealtime: http://www.ebaumsworld.com/jokes/read/395517/

 

[curiousnomore]

Dang PK, that's a lot of planning.

[Steven_Draker]

My main question is how does one last longer in bed? What are your techniques?

 

There's a simple technique/exercise that will help any guy suffering from premature ejaculation to achieve a satisfying and delayed orgasm.

 

I have posted about it previously in this Forum. The technique doesn't have anything to do with edging, it has to do with urinating and controlling the stream and the flow. Check your PM for more details.

[+ purplekow]

Dang PK, that's a lot of planning.

Well I have the time and really not a hell of a lot else to think about. And it only happens infrequently, so I consider it like Christmas, worth planning for and coming once a year.

[+ purplekow]

Avoid near mealtime: http://www.ebaumsworld.com/jokes/read/395517/

 

That is just wrong on so many levels, but mostly just wrong.

[AdamSmith]

That is just wrong on so many levels, but mostly just wrong.

 

True.

 

Oldest joke in the book.

[ZhenXBear]

With my hand, I can come in no time. With others, I can last indefinitely - with the help of my cialis daily.

 

I don't understand. I thought Cialis was used primarily as a means to improve ED, but does it also impede your ability to ejaculate or do you just mean that after you do....you stay board hard? hehe.

[Rudynate]

I don't understand. I thought Cialis was used primarily as a means to improve ED, but does it also impede your ability to ejaculate or do you just mean that after you do....you stay board hard? hehe.

 

 

I have always been able to last a long time - just lucky, I guess. Years ago, a straight friend, when I told him I could delay orgasm pretty much as long as I wanted, said that women would love me. Now that I've regained my ability to stay hard for extended periods, it's like being a boy again. My complaint with cialis, which I can definitely live with, is that it's an unnaturally hard erection. People do complain about viagra making orgasm difficult. The best of the PDE5 inibitors, to me, is levitra. Sensitivity is excellent, the erections feel natural, and no diffculty with orgasm.