Overnight rates... ?

[good ol boy]

I am going back and forth with these overnight rates... are they worth it? I could see the 250 for the hour for the sex..

 

But 1000.00 to 1500.00 or more for an overnight, are we really having that much more sex? Now before someone uses the word companionship... here in the thread, are you up all night, talking philosophy... at the after hours clubs...

 

Then I was thinking, let's go to Cancun, so then the guy gets to go to Cancun... and gets paid? Hmmm not too sure anymore. On the fence.

[big-n-tall]

I am going back and forth with these overnight rates... are they worth it? I could see the 250 for the hour for the sex..

 

It depends on the escort really... how much chemistry you have with them... and ultimately what you expect from the overnight. If you expect non-stop sex for 8-12 hours, then stick to hourly meetings.

 

But 1000.00 to 1500.00 or more for an overnight, are we really having that much more sex? Now before someone uses the word companionship... here in the thread, are you up all night, talking philosophy... at the after hours clubs...

 

Again it depends on what you expect from the experience. The most I've had sex in an overnight was 5 separate times, the least was once. And yes, some hire escorts for just the companionship and no sex at all. As long as the escort and yourself agree you could do any number of things together... go see a show, go hiking, have sex, shower together, get sick eating gallons of ice cream, etc., etc. You can find escorts who enjoy longer visits over hourly meetings.

 

Hell, sometimes doing overnights are more economical than hourly. There is an escort I've mentioned before who charges almost the cost of an overnight for an hour or two, but for about $600 more you get to spend 12 hours with him as opposed to 0ne or two.

 

Then I was thinking, let's go to Cancun, so then the guy gets to go to Cancun... and gets paid? Hmmm not too sure anymore. On the fence.

 

I think it's a bad idea, if you are considering taking someone on a trip, especially if you're hesitant to do an overnight. "It does not compute Will Robinson." LOL!

 

The real question is why you are considering an overnight, if you're happy with hourly visits? If you find a escort you like, build up to extended meetings. Do an hour, then maybe two, then maybe 3 the next time, and so on. Maybe then the idea of whether you want to do an overnight will become clearer to you.

 

Good luck.

[jimboivyo]

I am going back and forth with these overnight rates... are they worth it? I could see the 250 for the hour for the sex..

 

But 1000.00 to 1500.00 or more for an overnight, are we really having that much more sex? Now before someone uses the word companionship... here in the thread, are you up all night, talking philosophy... at the after hours clubs...

 

Then I was thinking, let's go to Cancun, so then the guy gets to go to Cancun... and gets paid? Hmmm not too sure anymore. On the fence.

 

 

dude, if you don't want to pay an escorts higher rate then don't expect the positively reviewed ones to go along with what you want

 

it sounds to me like you need to figure out what you really want out of a hire

[+ quoththeraven]

IDK, I like overnights and longer meetings. My first appointment ever was for three hours. The shortest appointment I've had was two-hours, but that was with two escorts, not one.

 

That said, if an hour of sex works for you, great! It's probably better to start out that way with any given escort anyway. As for prices, I spent $1200 for a fifteen-hour overnight. Base price was $900 for a twelve-hour overnight, but I needed the additional time so I didn't have to leave at the crack of dawn. The rates I've seen range from $900 to $1200. I think once you're talking anything over $1200 for a twelve-hour overnight, you should consider if this is the right situation for you. Some escorts price overnights high because they prefer not to do them. Some price them competitively because they like doing them.

 

As far as how much sex you might be able to anticipate, during that overnight, we had sex three times -- pretty much as soon as I got there, after dinner, and the following morning. Each "session" was at least an hour long. A twenty-four hour appointment with the same escort that started early in the evening (and which cost $1200) worked similarly except for timing because we talked for close to an hour before having sex. We had dinner much later, so we had almost in the middle of the night sex (he'd fallen asleep as soon as we got back from dinner, I hadn't, he woke up, we had sex, we both fell asleep), sex upon awakening mid-morning, and sex in the middle of the afternoon. Other than a half-hour or so on our electronic devices and a shower before going out to dinner the second day, we spent the entire time we were awake fucking, eating (not a euphemism for sex), or talking.

 

But each escort is different, and even the same escort may fall into different rhythms with different clients. If you're still interested, ask the escort how things usually unfold during overnights.

[+ WmClarke]

I just had an overnight with my favorite guy and he related the story of a former long-term client. Their first three sessions were overnights with no sex. Just talking.

 

While I wish I had that kind of money to spend on just companionship, for the price of an overnight I expect more than talking. No matter how good the conversation.

[+ SundayZip]

My hiring has been in the 1 to 2 hour range or for a weekend. I've only done an overnight once and will probably never do one again. I prefer to sleep alone, I snore and don't want to pay someone just to have him sleep in the next room. With a weekend date, there's time to hang out together, go out for meals and have some good, unhurried sex in the morning, afternoon or evening – whatever times seem the most natural. The fact that he's sleeping in another room for a couple of nights doesn't seem like such a big deal because I'm getting more than enough of his time during the day and the evenings. I once asked an escort about doing a 7pm to 11pm date which seemed ideal to me. But I didn't like his pricing which was $300 for the first hour and then $200 each for the remaining 4 hours. That would have been $1,100. I suppose I could have negotiated, but that seemed.... I don't know... not right. In hindsight, I kind of wish I had done the $1,100 or had the time to get feedback from this forum. I did really like the guy and it was NYC.

[AdamSmith]

QTR describes exactly why I love overnights, and longer: the two of you get to live together for a spell. And do whatever, moment to moment, feels like the thing to do, without the sword of the impending End hanging ever o'er.

[down_to_business]

This is a very personal choice issue. For me:

 

They make sense in certain circumstances, like when you have to fly somebody in to your home location. Otherwise, based on my years of experience, for me- unequivocally no. A one hour hire is perfect for my needs.

 

I have placed a value on overnights, a max of 3.5 X the hourly rate. I have also placed a time restriction on them, a minimum of 12 hours. Finally, they must be with someone who I have met previously. If any of the three criteria aren't met, I wouldn't even take it into consideration any more.

 

I do have an escort I have done several long term engagements with, but that is only because of our history and he charges me roughly one grand for a 3 day weekend (close to what others will charge me for a single overnight). It does take a special escort to be able to keep up the "charade" for more than a couple of hours.

[loverboy95]

If you know the escort and have seen him a few times, I would say go for it. You know the escort would be worth it in the end. Overnights are expensive so I don't do them often.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

GOB - Let me compare my overnight experiences with two different escorts, both of them well reviewed on this site and both charge an overnight fee in the range you mentioned above.

 

With Escort A our evening included dinner a show, cocktails and conversation, and some playtime before falling asleep. It was a fantastic evening that I have repeated many times with Escort A.

 

I met Escort B at his place and was undressed within the first 15 minutes of our meeting. We grabbed a bite to eat before heading back to his place to play some more. We spent the entire evening naked, falling asleep only to wake up in the middle of the night and playing some more. It was a fantastic night that I have repeated with Escort B.

 

So while my experiences with each has been different, they both met or exceeded my expectations of the evenings I had with them and matched what I had asked each to provide. Be clear and the price tag will not matter.

[good ol boy]

Sam

Depending on the evening I might like both A and B or the guy. Isn't that why we hire?

[Rudynate]

I like multi-hour get-togethers -3 hours usually. I don't like to cuddle or sleep with strangers, so an overnight doesn't hold any appeal for me.

[thickornotatall]

I have had 3 over nights....all 3 asked to stay....I offered a guest room to all 3...all 3 slept with me....just slept...talked...watched TV....smoked pot....swam...snacked...played around...had a great time....one man (now retired) went with me to Key West....I had a 2nd home there..He asked if he could see clients and I limited that to 1 per day...I have found that being upfront...friendly...completely honest as to what I need and what I'll give and do goes a long way...I stay in touch with almost all of them....I love to share....and love men....lots of men.....but not so many anymore....as I get older I prefer the company when away from home....

[adriano46]

As I get older, the overnights that I so often did in the past become more annoying and problematic. I like (and need) a good night sleep (minimally 6-7 hours). I have slept alone most of my adult life, and have picked up (ahem) man-alone habits like evicting gas instantaneously and getting back to sleep. When an escort shares my bed, propriety has me trying to sneak into the bathroom and "evict" like a raspy whisper the gas... always in an unsatisfactory manner... well you get what I mean.

 

I am also one who really loves morning sex. I wake early every day (5 a.m. or so) and love nothing more than to rinse and brush my teeth, wash my special parts and then have very hot and satisfying sex * (usually including a hot shower with the other), but most escorts I hire seem to me Mr. Grumps or Mr. Sleepy and so I end up spending 2 hours or so in my study working --- alone -- while they continue to sleep. For such reasons, I no longer hire for overnights except on (exceptionally) rare occasions.

 

But when I DO hire, it is always for a minimal of 90 minutes to 2 hours, and occasionally I will extend it to 3 hours. A few guys in this range have been more than willing to join me for a meal (my treat, of course) afterwards, and if they do, I add a generous tip (cash, or gift card or both)

[ZhenXBear]

I agree with many of the suggestions here, it really depends on what you're looking to achieve by having the overnight. I can give you my perspective as a newbie to this arena, though. For me, I really have a genuine desire to know/understand/relate to any person that I decide to be intimate with on a personal level. I'm all about the boyfriend experience, because I need that to have a satisfying experience. For this reason, my limited experience has to date, involved multi-hour sessions, because that's what I want/need. I have a 24 hour session booked, but it hasn't happened yet; I'm excited about it because I know it's with someone I'll enjoy spending time with...

 

In regards to taking trips, I haven't experienced this yet (but would love to with the right guy). I see it as follows: I imagine someone offering to take me on vacation to a place for free, but there's a catch. I can't use vacation time from work, so it's "time off without pay". During a normal work week lets say I make $3500. I then need to weigh the estimated cost of the trip vs. the loss of income vs. bills I need to pay vs. how badly do I want to visit this place, etc. Since we're talking an escort here, the additional dynamic of "what services are expected" might also come into play and I'd also imagine "how easy/low maintenance/enjoyable do I imagine this client is to travel with?"

 

As with anything, I'm guessing there's negotiation here? A week camping in Yosemite is significantly cheaper than a week in Paris or a private sailing trip to the Galapagos Islands. If I was taking an escort on a high end trip that I estimate was going to cost me $10,000 for his fare/dinning/expenses I'm sure we'd have open, honest communication about the cost of the trip and come up with a fair/reasonable fee for his companionship over an extended period of time. All speculation on my part of course, as I've never done this yet, but it seems prudent.

[good ol boy]

So, is anyone having sex all night and into the morning, is anyone paying for the sex? Can I reduce it to that? Can I be that rude?

[big-n-tall]

So, is anyone having sex all night and into the morning, is anyone paying for the sex? Can I reduce it to that? Can I be that rude?

 

Simple question to you... can you or have you personally had sex all night into the morning? I'm guessing no.

 

Not that it's impossible but these men are only human. And if they've seen any number of clients before you, I'm sure they can't fuck all night. Well unless they're on some serious narcotic. I have met some extremely sexual people in my life and none of them could have sex constantly for 12 hours without extended breaks or naps here or there.

 

Now you have me curious. Why this line of questioning? Are you curious to see if an all-night sex fest is possible just for curiosity's sake? Are you trying to literally get more bang for your buck?

 

Asking what your asking isn't rude at all. However, what exactly you're trying to get at is a bit unclear. Even more so after people have addressed your intial inquiry.

[good ol boy]

I am not interested in paying someone to sleep with me. I think I snore LOL. I have had long sexual encounters that were fun... they have gone until the time I should have been waking up... Bottom line, not interested in paying someone to sleep with me. Do not think it is worth it.

[jimboivyo]

Do not think it is worth it.

 

thats your opinion and thats fine, but there are many who prefer other wise

[big-n-tall]

I am not interested in paying someone to sleep with me. I think I snore LOL. I have had long sexual encounters that were fun... they have gone until the time I should have been waking up... Bottom line, not interested in paying someone to sleep with me. Do not think it is worth it.

 

Ok. Then if you want to have sex all night... hire multiple men... see each for a few hours... then switch to the next or overlap the encounters so you can work 3 ways in.

 

It's odd. You are tempted to do an overnight, but don't want to do one because you don't want to waste money. You answered your own question sir... don't do one. I highly doubt you'll find an escort who will stay up 12 hours to have constant sex. Stick with the short meetings... you'll be happier.

[marylander1940]

I am going back and forth with these overnight rates... are they worth it? I could see the 250 for the hour for the sex..

 

But 1000.00 to 1500.00 or more for an overnight, are we really having that much more sex? Now before someone uses the word companionship... here in the thread, are you up all night, talking philosophy... at the after hours clubs...

 

Then I was thinking, let's go to Cancun, so then the guy gets to go to Cancun... and gets paid? Hmmm not too sure anymore. On the fence.

 

 

I think it's a waste of time... I'd rather hiring the guy 4 times a week and pay him 300 each instead of hiring him for an overnight and have sex at night and in the morning (just twice) and in the morning I'm sure he'll be anxious about leaving and I'll be tired and possibly horny again at night.

[good ol boy]

i think the guy would rather go to Cancun "work" less instead of doing 4 appts a week,

[Will56]

I for one always book a 2-3 hour session, like to have plenty of time to play far better than the 1 hour wham-bam your out of here. Every escort I have spoken with had said they like to have the time to warm up with someone, even if they have been with them before and so do I.

I had never considered having an escort stay overnight until recently. I always thought why pay some to sleep overnight with me waste of money.

Someone I had been with before and had booked a 3 hour session with (our usual) said after we had finished and the time was up he asked if he could cuddle next to me and close his eyes for alittle bit before the long drive home. I said of course, well after having this young man curled up next to me sleeping for another hour I began to realize that this had a particular charm that I really enjoyed. We have since done an overnight and we did not have sex all night and not even the next morning. It was just great to have him next to me all night long and get a have breakfast with.

With the right escort this can be a wonderful experience and something worth adding to your experiences, give it a try you might be surprised how nice it can be, just as I did!

[curiousnomore]

Overnights are my preference because I get tired of sleeping alone. I also enjoy the non-rushed opportunity to get to know the man I'm with. And believe me, when you make a connection, both personally and physically, the extra time is well worth it.

[curiousnomore]

And, no judgment on my part, but unless you are looking for more than great sex, stick to 1-2 hour appointments. Overnights+ are about connection and friendship, not marathon sex.