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Every once in a while, a review will mention that the client was given a nice gift (wine, a dinner out, a sweet thank-you card) by an escort they hired. I am curious if this would be a positive experience for you as a client or might feel a bit awkward since it is a role-reversal from the usual client-escort relationship.

 

I myself have one regular escort in particular, who has brought me gifts a number of times. The first time I did feel a bit surprised, but after I got to know him better, I realized it was just an extension of his caring, giving personality, both in the bedroom and out!

 

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One gave me a watch one time. On a fourth visit together (all of them overnights). With an inkling in both of us that a friendship was developing that might transcend the hiring relationship.

 

The friendship, now a decade on, certainly did that.

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Every once in a while, a review will mention that the client was given a nice gift (wine, a dinner out, a sweet thank-you card) by an escort they hired. I am curious if this would be a positive experience for you as a client or might feel a bit awkward since it is a role-reversal from the usual client-escort relationship.

 

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In the years I have been hiring, I can only recall getting a gift one time, and that was from an escort i hired for an hour session every week or so. Sadly that escort has passed on, but just the other day, I was looking at the gift and thinking of him. To the other men on this forum who I have hired, I am open to receiving gifts. I can be gracious and giddy about it and will either be honestly grateful about it or I will feign being so. Recently an escort gave me a bubble bath, which was unexpected and delightful, and the gifting giving continued in the bath but I think this thread is really about more tangible gifts.

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Every once in a while, a review will mention that the client was given a nice gift (wine, a dinner out, a sweet thank-you card) by an escort they hired. I am curious if this would be a positive experience for you as a client or might feel a bit awkward since it is a role-reversal from the usual client-escort relationship.

 

I myself have one regular escort in particular, who has brought me gifts a number of times. The first time I did feel a bit surprised, but after I got to know him better, I realized it was just an extension of his caring, giving personality, both in the bedroom and out!

 

TruHart1 :cool:

 

 

I would appreciate it and it would increase my respect for the escort. Because I see escorts as professional service providers/independent business owners, when I encounter one who shows an unusual degree of professionalism, I find it inspiring. An escort who gave me a gift would get big points just because its a sweet thing to do, but also because he's actively working at building and improving the relationship - smart business practice. For this reason, I carefully read every single one of Juan Vancouver's posts. He's a smart businessman and its interesting and inspiring to see how a smart businessman runs an escort business.

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...since it is a role-reversal from the usual client-escort relationship.

 

Why do you say that? The business of escorting has often been compared on this site to that of an attorney or some other profession requiring an advanced degree. It’s not uncommon for an attorney to send a gift to his/her clients.

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How “professional” is an escort that doesn’t swing for a $20 gift every now and then for a client that has spent $500 (an arbitrary figure) or more and there’s every indication will continue to hire the escort? I would guess most clients would be more inclined to hire an escort that offers a nice gesture above and beyond their normal business relationship and provide an appreciative tip that well covers the cost of the gift.

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Some how I don't see this as an up-and-coming business model for our guys to latch onto. It may be a nice gesture that would probably be much appreciated by the receiver, but I have my doubts about this becoming the new craze that will sweep the nation.

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I remember getting a gift of two great tickets to see Elton John from an escort whom I saw for quite a while. For several years I sent him a gift for his birthday. He always reponded right away with a thank you note.

 

He never stayed much beyond the end of the "date," unlike some other escorts -- most memorably one who stayed all night on a two-hour appointment. Guess time is more important to me that the tickets.

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I do not see anything wrong with it. I have never had an escort give me a gift but I have had an escort

 

1) give me a free session

2)lower his rate when seeing me (while still charging his regular rate to others)

3)continue to see me after retiring at a lower rate

4) stay for a good 2 hours yet only charging me for an hour

 

Also, the only escort that I do continue to see did come up with a workout routine and physical fitness plan for me as well.

 

I would say take the gift and say thank you. There are some escort/client relationships that go on for years and I am sure that some escorts do think "wow, I made a lot of money off this client" and would feel that I small gift is in order as a token of appreciation.

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I think one of the nicest gifts-and I haven't received many- but it was when I was feeling down -I had hired an escort for an overnight on my birthday. We met at a theater to see A Little Night Music. Well when we met-he had mentioned briefly his stomach was upset. At intermission he had to leave because of the pain. I think it was a real illness -aside from the theater ticket-all he asked for was cab fare home.

 

I was upset and left the play early. When I arrived back at my hotel I tried to find someone else. It took me several hours. I finally found a guy whom unfortunately I can't remember his name as he quit escorting shortly after that. But I must have told him it was my birthday. I can't remember if I told him about the escort leaving me earlier in the evening or not. But on the way to my hotel, he had stopped at a store and bought me a birthday cake. I remember how touched I was by his thoughtfulness.

 

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I am touched, and appreciate it very much. Once my escort date offered to pick up the check after we finish dinner at a nice restaurant. I was so appreciative of the gesture. I declined. But the rest of the evening was incredible. Nice guys really turn me on. cheers

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I can only see it as a plus. While it might catch a client offbalance at first, it's a thoughtful gesture that at the very least indicates the escort appreciates your business and thinks of you as more than a source of income.

 

That doesn't mean all escorts have to do it or that those who don't are only about the money. Different escorts have different approaches.

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I saw a guy back in the 90s who had lived in Japan for several years. I shared that I was making a trip to Kyoto and the next time he came to see me he brought me some books about Japan that he had found informative. They helped make my trip a great experience. About two years later he got a great job and told me he was going to retire from escorting. He came to see me one last time and brought me an exquisite Meiji period sake cup as a parting gift.

My last "regular" used to send me notes ( written on paper with a pen and sent via mail) after memorable sessions, and always sent me a Christmas gifts ( books, a Waterman fountain pen, a jock strap, a collection of cock rings). For our last session he took me to the Theater. He too had gotten a promotion and now was working in a prominent position where he needed to be very discreet, but he took me out as a way to say good bye.

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