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As much as I can I shy away from organizing this kind of sessions. If I am organizing it, it is my service, it is my reputation and the success or failure of the session will impact my brand. Working with other escorts is hard enough; There are only a few that I can wholeheartedly recommend knowing my recommendation will only yield great experiences for my client, and those escorts are rarely ever in the same city. Therefore trying to guess which escort is good or works well with others, or is safe and won't create problems is a lot of work. Then making sure they arrive at the same time, clean, ready and energetic, then making sure that they focus on the client, not on each other, then making sure that everyone is paid fairly and everyone leaves happy...

 

If I don't know the escort/s in advance, I more likely than not will choose not to organize this kind of session.

 

If I find it almost impossible to provide a great experience with a few professionals, the idea of involving amateurs or laymen just sounds like really wanting to invite terrible things to happen.

 

I am sure there might be escorts who like this idea, it's simply not for me. I am a bit of a control freak and I am hell bent on the idea of providing a great experience every single time to the best of my abilities. Trying to provide a good session with people I don't know sounds a little like herding cats.

 

If you go ahead and try this out, do let us know how it went. I hope you have a blast.

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I can see being hired for such a session, perhaps too to host, but seldom if never will you be asked to organize. Clients who want this scene will be very mindful of their own tastes and safety, and will generally coordinate schedules with 2 escorts he's had successful prior solo experiences with, pay them seperately, perhaps tipping out the host for use of his space. IF a client were both flush and trusting (reckless?) enough to ask me to stage this, I'd be extremely professional about it. I'd delve into the clients' exact fantasies/tastes/expectations, engage a pro I personally knew & trusted, or carefully vet (clear, precise phone interview!) a scort w an established, stellar reputation AND the willingness to be the perfect "fit". I'd never bring in a non-pro who was a stranger (dangerous wild card, perhaps appropriate for a hook-up scene, NOT for this.) And lastly, I'd be damned sure it was a client I had a prior relationship and/or foolproof financial guarantee with.

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As much as I can I shy away from organizing this kind of sessions. If I am organizing it, it is my service, it is my reputation and the success or failure of the session will impact my brand. Working with other escorts is hard enough; There are only a few that I can wholeheartedly recommend knowing my recommendation will only yield great experiences for my client, and those escorts are rarely ever in the same city. Therefore trying to guess which escort is good or works well with others, or is safe and won't create problems is a lot of work. Then making sure they arrive at the same time, clean, ready and energetic, then making sure that they focus on the client, not on each other, then making sure that everyone is paid fairly and everyone leaves happy...

 

If I don't know the escort/s in advance, I more likely than not will choose not to organize this kind of session.

 

If I find it almost impossible to provide a great experience with a few professionals, the idea of involving amateurs or laymen just sounds like really wanting to invite terrible things to happen.

 

I am sure there might be escorts who like this idea, it's simply not for me. I am a bit of a control freak and I am hell bent on the idea of providing a great experience every single time to the best of my abilities. Trying to provide a good session with people I don't know sounds a little like herding cats.

 

If you go ahead and try this out, do let us know how it went. I hope you have a blast.

 

I'm told that an escort of long standing here in SF, as part of establishing a working relationship with another escort, always does a "trial run" with the other escort, adding a whole new dimension to the casting couch.

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I'm told that an escort of long standing here in SF, as part of establishing a working relationship with another escort, always does a "trial run" with the other escort, adding a whole new dimension to the casting couch.

 

I would never dream of wanting to use my colleagues' time for free. The same way I would politely decline if an escort told me he has a client who might want to have a group session with the condition that the escort and I fucked first.

 

Also, not much can be learnt about escorts this way. I have had sex for fun with many incredibly hot and crazy good lovers who ended up being escorts and I had the most amazing time. However I had the chance to work with some of them in a group setting and as the client arrived (regardless of the client's hotness degree) they clammed up and became cold, robotic professionals at best, mean dismissive assholes at worst.

 

To recommend an escort wholeheartedly I need preferably two things to be in place. I want to hear unsolicited reports from their past clients, and I want to see them in action with a client.

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As much as I can I shy away from organizing this kind of sessions. If I am organizing it, it is my service, it is my reputation and the success or failure of the session will impact my brand. Working with other escorts is hard enough; There are only a few that I can wholeheartedly recommend knowing my recommendation will only yield great experiences for my client, and those escorts are rarely ever in the same city. Therefore trying to guess which escort is good or works well with others, or is safe and won't create problems is a lot of work. Then making sure they arrive at the same time, clean, ready and energetic, then making sure that they focus on the client, not on each other, then making sure that everyone is paid fairly and everyone leaves happy...

 

If I don't know the escort/s in advance, I more likely than not will choose not to organize this kind of session.

 

If I find it almost impossible to provide a great experience with a few professionals, the idea of involving amateurs or laymen just sounds like really wanting to invite terrible things to happen.

 

I am sure there might be escorts who like this idea, it's simply not for me. I am a bit of a control freak and I am hell bent on the idea of providing a great experience every single time to the best of my abilities. Trying to provide a good session with people I don't know sounds a little like herding cats.

 

If you go ahead and try this out, do let us know how it went. I hope you have a blast.

 

Your awesome, Juan for posting this as I can relate!!! Well said as you pinpointed a lot of good points to this sort of issue as it's NOT easy setting up these types of session in a group settings. I one am learning more and more on what to look out for and to be careful with group sessions or escorts recommending me to they're clients as if you don't conduct the proper protocols to "certain" expectations to the other escort - it can bite you in the ass even though you didn't know or intend for misunderstandings to occur in the group session they set up with you to meet with that client - but it can happen as it did to me, and it's even caused me to now be careful more of being involved in group settings with another escort who are also friends of mine. Not worth the drama or losing friends of yours who happen to be escorts as well over something you didn't do escort's expectations regarding the client. I tend to work enjoy working with ALL escorts/my fellow brothers, but it's always best to just cover all bases as you pointed out if you are going to work with other escorts in a group session for which at one time I didn't do properly - not on purpose, but just cause of certain rules I didn't know or was aware what that other escort expected. I can relate totally 100 percent to what your saying, Juan and part of this is due to the fact of me experiencing this sort of problem last year that caused some problems which is why I am extremely careful with doing group sessions nowadays, and making sure I cover all bases now with the other escort(s) before and during the session, and not after the session is over. Learned all these lessons the hard way as we learn new things in this business everyday, right? Thanks Juan for your posting. It's a good learning tool for me as I like to learn new and exciting things from other escorts. :D

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I'm with Juan on this one. Good scenario for a porn-scene, but asking for a "try-out" or "one-off" feels more than a bit predatory to me. Not only is it disrespectful, it's unnecessary. If an escort approached me for recreational sex, I'm flattered. But as pre-condition for a job, I'm highly suspicious. There's no way to know that job exists.

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No-brainer ending to the porn-script version: the "one-off" sex is SO inflammatory, that: INT: CLOSE-UP ON CLOCK/DISSOLVE-- AN HOUR PASSES. 2ND CLOSE-UP/DISSOLVE--4 MORE HOURS PASS. INT: CLOSE-UP ESCORT #1: (spys clock, panicks) "Shit! We missed the appointment!" INT: CLOSE-UP ESCORT #2: (smiles easily) "Aww, too bad." INT: CAMERA PULLS BACKS AS THEY CONTINUE MAKING LOVE. FADE OUT.

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Trial run? Seriously? I guess some people are just foolish enough to go for that. That's kind of dispicable actually.

 

Trial runs hmmm? I think an Escort asking another Escort for a trial run, would be about the same as a Client asking an Escort for a trial run. What's next, asking for a coupon or a punch card? Hire 10 times and get the 11th free? :p

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I would never dream of wanting to use my colleagues' time for free. The same way I would politely decline if an escort told me he has a client who might want to have a group session with the condition that the escort and I fucked first.

 

Also, not much can be learnt about escorts this way. I have had sex for fun with many incredibly hot and crazy good lovers who ended up being escorts and I had the most amazing time. However I had the chance to work with some of them in a group setting and as the client arrived (regardless of the client's hotness degree) they clammed up and became cold, robotic professionals at best, mean dismissive assholes at worst.

 

To recommend an escort wholeheartedly I need preferably two things to be in place. I want to hear unsolicited reports from their past clients, and I want to see them in action with a client.

 

There's somewhat of a yuck factor here because it smacks of the casting couch. But it's possible to see it as a quality-control measure. If two escorts, who previously haven't been involved sexually, are considering teaming up to offer each of their clients more options, wouldn't it make sense for them to make sure, in advance, that they are compatible?

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There's somewhat of a yuck factor here because it smacks of the casting couch. But it's possible to see it as a quality-control measure. If two escorts, who previously haven't been involved sexually, are considering teaming up to offer each of their clients more options, wouldn't it make sense for them to make sure, in advance, that they are compatible?

 

If I were to work with another escort I don't want to know if we are compatible. I am a professional and I will find a way to work with him happily. What I really need to know is how good the escort is in dealing with clients. Is he polite to clients? Is he participative with clients? Is he able to see and celebrate everyone's beauty? Is he dedicated to providing an unforgettable experience?

 

Most escorts will have fun with other escorts. An escort fucking another escort will only tell me one thing, whether the escort likes other escorts.

 

That doesn't help me see anything about the quality of his service.

 

I don't need to be compatible with the escort. I want our styles of service to be compatible.

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I think it sounds like if you have a good client, who wants you to organize such a session, it might be a good idea to start small invite other individual escorts, for 3 ways, and then if client is cool with them all calendar the date for a group event, and have client deal with finances direct with each. Thanks for each of your responses. This has been helpful.

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i've asked a regular I see to arrange for other guys for a group weekend. most of them have been good fun, but one was a dud when the escort brought in didn't live up to his promises

 

it happens. it wasn't the end of the world and I sure didn't blame my go-to guy for the issue.

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Speaking from the client's perspective, I would not expect an escort to arrange a group scene for me. That's simply disrespectful of his time. I might ask him if he can suggest another escort with whom he has worked, but I would arrange the playdate.

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This in my experience works much better.

 

Speaking from the client's perspective, I would not expect an escort to arrange a group scene for me. That's simply disrespectful of his time. I might ask him if he can suggest another escort with whom he has worked, but I would arrange the playdate.
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I routinely arrange group scenes for some regular clients of mine. Some clients want other working guys and trust me to provide the ones that I know would fit the bill as far as their tastes are concerned, and know I can get the guys who are professional and good at their jobs and most importantly will show up on time. ;-) Other clients want me to attract civilians of a certain stripe to come join us using various hook-up sites.

I always get paid for my legwork. That's part of the arrangement. I'm arranging a hotel gangbang for a client in Chicago in May and he's already paid in full.

And as far as "trial runs" go, who wouldn't like to check out the hot competition and see if you have chemistry? Trial runs (in my experience) often turn into great working situations and friendships.

Providing this service saves the client time and hassle and they're always happy to compensate me for the work. It seems to also make the client feel safe knowing that I've vetted the other working guy or the civilian and that I'm there "hosting" as it were. I'm grateful for the clients who understand the value in this service. Plus it's a helluva lot of fun!

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my last 3 way was organized by my favorite escort...his idea...not mine...I suspect he was really into the guys he suggested....so I agreed...His taste was impeccable....one was Joe 12x7 (retired)..the other was Mike Grey....to me the gold standard....I never ever felt "so used" and love every minute ...every inch...Joe is a professional photographer and stayed to take some pics of me...his want...Afterwards we had more incredible sex....all the rugburn and stretched jaw soreness was more than worth it.....and some awesome photos....moral of the story....trust your man to do you right...

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I have occasionally arranged 3-ways (more often in the past than now) and I usually picked the guys but then introduced them (via e-mail) to each other just to make sure they were comfortable. More recently, about 18 months ago I arranged a get-together that would eventually include 4 escorts who had never met each other.

 

It was for a 2-hour appointment. I began with one, asked if he would have any problems if I opened it up to "another" (he had a few boundaries that I fully accepted [no drugs, safe sex] that were fine). Seeking out a 2nd, I wrote to two escorts I had met in the past and thoroughly enjoyed, but both were out of town when I made the initial inquiries and so I hired a 2nd who I had never met but who was a total aggressive bottom. Suddenly 3 days before the encounter, one of the two I had called but missed called back, said he was back in town, and the idea sounded very good to him, and he was my original 2nd choice (and I was very horny to see him again). And so now it was 3 guys. Then suddenly the night before the appointed date, the 4th guy called, had just returned to NYC and was more than happy if he could be included (and this guy was one of the most satisfying kissers ever). I was wondering how this would all work out -- but in each case, I had the ads of the others, and so each guy had a chance to see who would be included. It was a great success.

 

I like the challenge of mixing guys who I think or feel would interact well, and in general I have never been disappointed. I occasionally consider a recommendation for a 3rd from an escort, but to be frank, I prefer making the arrangements myself for two reasons: a) considering the combination of personalities, and b) I control the fee (for instance in the above scene with 4 guys there were 3 various fees for the 2 hours; I did compensate those who charged less with a generous tip, those who charged more got something but just not as much [in fact, in the end they all got about the same]).

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LOL!

 

This post from the absolute expert client here in setting up group sessions, which include the best and hottest guys without necessarily requiring any recommendations from them!!! From reading your reviews Okie, you are immensely talented in putting together the most amazing combinations of the best 5-star escorts!!! :D

 

TruHart1 :cool:

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One of the sexiest sessions I had was when I asked an escort to hire another one for a threeway. Sight unseen by me. Literally. I was blindfolded the first 15 minutes. It was very hot.

 

DG, you always write a review as hot as any erotic fiction and when I read this post I was pretty sure I remembered who you were referring to. I just went back and read that review and, I can tell you, it was part of my motivation to hire that same guy about a year and a half later. I wasn't yet ready for my first threesome (that didn't happen until this year*), but, still, I got taken to a place I hadn't been before--an ice cream shop in which "vanilla" was NOT one of the choices. ;)

 

*The escort not only arranged the threesome, he suggested it.

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