general discussion on rehiring

[down_to_business]

Long-term client of an escort. There is a lot about this escort I like. He is attractive, trustworthy, kind, friendly, easy-going, reliable etc. etc. I have hired this person for hourly, overnight, weekend, and even once for a 3 week engagement and never had once moment of trouble or strife.

 

So what's the hesitation... well the sexual chemistry isn't anything to write home about. It's adequate (not bad, not terrible, but not great).

 

So here's the part I would like to get different perspectives on. Would you continue to hire someone when you have formed a very good emotional connection, but there are no fireworks in the bedroom?

[kaboom35]

I guess it comes down to what you are most happy getting out of the relationship. If you are more turned on by the emotional connection then you are in a good place. For me personally, I hire purely for sexual purposes which is why I don't hire for weekends or extended hours like going out to eat or anything like that. I have a regular escort that i've seen like 20 times or so and at this point, i'm pretty much bored with our sexual relationship so I'm moving on. Could you talk to the escort and tell him that you aren't "feeling it" in the bedroom? Maybe he has some tricks up his sleeve to make it new and interesting.

[loverboy95]

My answer is no. When I hire someone, I want there to be a connection on all levels. That may be an unrealistic expectation, but I just wouldn't be able to be with someone if we haven't connected 100%. The sex is just as important as having things in common and enjoying talking to each other.

[+ dutchmuch]

 

So here's the part I would like to get different perspectives on. Would you continue to hire someone when you have formed a very good emotional connection, but there are no fireworks in the bedroom?

 

 

Sounds like a marriage.

[+ Topseed]

No.

[+ purplekow]

i have been hiring an escort lately and i like his company very much but his limitations sexually have me looking elsewhere. He is very good looking and he is local and he gives great oral, so there will always be a place for him on my list of men, but he definitely will not be at the top of the list, more a niche player.

[MiamiLooker]

Long-term client of an escort. There is a lot about this escort I like. He is attractive, trustworthy, kind, friendly, easy-going, reliable etc. etc. I have hired this person for hourly, overnight, weekend, and even once for a 3 week engagement and never had once moment of trouble or strife.

 

So what's the hesitation... well the sexual chemistry isn't anything to write home about. It's adequate (not bad, not terrible, but not great).

 

So here's the part I would like to get different perspectives on. Would you continue to hire someone when you have formed a very good emotional connection, but there are no fireworks in the bedroom?

 

Rather than asking others if they would continue to hire him you should be asking yourself why you continue to hire him.

[down_to_business]

Rather than asking others if they would continue to hire him you should be asking yourself why you continue to hire him.

 

In case there is any confusion, hearing others opinions on the matter doesn't make my decision for me. It's not like I am asking people to vote or tell me what to do. I do find it beneficial, however, to share ideas, discussions, and insight from other people to possibly give me a different perspective.

 

As to why I continue to hire him, it's likely because I haven't had negative experiences with him while I have had several awful experiences with both reviewed and un-reviewed escorts. He's for lack of a better word, safe.

[BaronArtz]

It is your decision. I believe that in the end, all relationships run their course and come to an end one way or the other. If you decide to end it, be gracious about it. Don't do it via text or email. And express thanks for the nice times you had together. Because it is the decent thing to do. And you never know when your paths may cross again.

[Bluray2]

I've known one well-known, most handsome escort for some period of time who is an

absolute gem. It was never a sexual relationship, but an intimacy of

companionship. Geographic distance prevents me from seeing him as

much as I would like to, but miss his humor and kindly soul more

than anything else.

 

BR2

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

If the escort is providing something that you need that is missing from your personal life outside of hiring, by all means keep hiring him.

 

I chose to rehire an escort because we travel well together. Our sexual chemistry has at times been very hot and other times mediocre. For me, the peace of mind for having no drama while escaping my professional life is much more important than always having the hottest sex possible.

[AdamSmith]

One thought -- you could bring in a 3rd party (hired or otherwise), assuming your guy was up for it, and see what that might do for the ongoing chemistry between the two of you.

[Decatur Guy]

One thought -- you could bring in a 3rd party (hired or otherwise), assuming your guy was up for it, and see what that might do for the ongoing chemistry between the two of you.

 

That's a good idea!