Best way to proceed?

[jasoninoc]

Never hired before, but been fascinated with a particular escort and fantasized a lot. Emailed him a couple of times but every time I pick up the phone to call and set something up, I get cold feet, I get too nervous and end up not making the call. Maybe its because I'm married, or because I never hired before, or maybe I'm just intimidated by his great looks and very huge endowment, whatever it is, I really want to meet him just don'l know the best way to proceed, any advice?

He might even think I'm a flake due to only email contact so far.

[+ WmClarke]

Pick up the photo and call him. That's not only the best way to proceed, it's the ONLY way to proceed.

 

I was extremely nervous the first time I hired. Once I got over my nerves I had a great time. You probably will, too.

[BabyBoomer]

Jason- If it's the escort who posts here, that I think it is, call him. He's a real sweetheart.

 

~ Boomer ~

[Guest Starbuck]

Jason, just a reminder that SO MANY OF US have been in your shoes (yes, those EXACT shoes) and SO MANY OF US are glad we picked up the phone, made the appointment and went ahead with it. If the fellow who interests you is well-reviewed, if he's responded in a friendly manner to your emails, your anxieties are more about YOU than about HIM. You probably know this already. Just tell him how you feel. Admit to being nervous ... go ahead and say that it's because he's handsome and well-endowed. (This will not hurt his feelings.) If you are kind, clean, well-intentioned and seriously into this man, I promise you, you are NOT his worst case scenario. Go have the time of your life. Good luck to you.

[maximdw]

Jason, just a reminder that SO MANY OF US have been in your shoes (yes, those EXACT shoes) and SO MANY OF US are glad we picked up the phone, made the appointment and went ahead with it. If the fellow who interests you is well-reviewed, if he's responded in a friendly manner to your emails, your anxieties are more about YOU than about HIM. You probably know this already. Just tell him how you feel. Admit to being nervous ... go ahead and say that it's because he's handsome and well-endowed. (This will not hurt his feelings.) If you are kind, clean, well-intentioned and seriously into this man, I promise you, you are NOT his worst case scenario. Go have the time of your life. Good luck to you.

 

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[down_to_business]

I am another one who absolutely hates speaking with escorts on the phone, prior to meeting them in person. I am usually able to set up 80-90% of my stuff without phone contact at all. If you are making a 1 hour appointment with someone, it is my opinion that you should be able to do that without phone contact at all- although you may need to provide a contact number of some sort to the escort. If you are going to set something up longer term (i.e. an overnight , travel, etc.. than phone contact may be necessary). It is at that point you will have to decide if it's worth it to you. If you are going to do this, be sure to get some burner phone or google voice type thing to protect your privacy (just like the escort you will call has done).

 

For my case, making actual phone contact with escorts has been just as bad (if not worse) than my initial fear. If its someone I really want to see and they require it, than I force myself to go through with the phone call, but I hate every second of it! It just comes down to how much you want to see them. Once I meet them, however, I don't have any trouble speaking with them by phone to make a second appointment if they require it. I still don't like it ;0

[+ purplekow]

Listen, the escort is not going to call you, so the balls are firmly in your call. So grow some, call him and get them off. Gay sex is not for sissies. Man up and bend over. You will be glad you did.

[Guest Starbuck]

Gay sex is not for sissies.

 

PK, better copyright that ... you'll have a bestseller if you decide to sideline into the T-shirt business.

[+ SundayZip]

Never hired before, but been fascinated with a particular escort and fantasized a lot. Emailed him a couple of times but every time I pick up the phone to call and set something up, I get cold feet, I get too nervous and end up not making the call. Maybe its because I'm married, or because I never hired before, or maybe I'm just intimidated by his great looks and very huge endowment, whatever it is, I really want to meet him just don'l know the best way to proceed, any advice?

He might even think I'm a flake due to only email contact so far.

 

Call the escort and say exactly what you said to us in your posting. It's honest and endearing and any escort worth his salt will take it from there....

 

"Never hired before, but been fascinated with YOU and fantasized a lot. Emailed YOU a couple of times but every time I pick up the phone to call and set something up, I get cold feet, I get too nervous and end up not making the call. Maybe its because I'm married, or because I never hired before, or maybe I'm just intimidated by YOUR great looks and very huge endowment, whatever it is, I really want to meet YOU just don't know the best way to proceed, any advice?"

[big-n-tall]

Call the escort and say exactly what you said to us in your posting. It's honest and endearing and any escort worth his salt will take it from there....

 

"Never hired before, but been fascinated with YOU and fantasized a lot. Emailed YOU a couple of times but every time I pick up the phone to call and set something up, I get cold feet, I get too nervous and end up not making the call. Maybe its because I'm married, or because I never hired before, or maybe I'm just intimidated by YOUR great looks and very huge endowment, whatever it is, I really want to meet YOU just don't know the best way to proceed, any advice?"

 

Or text it if the escort allows texting. :-)

[BabyBoomer]

Jason- .Make the call tonight. You know you have 2+ weeks before the actual appointment will take place. We'll get you through any

pre-appointment jitters.

 

~ Boomer ~

[loverboy95]

Jason, be brave! Call him, introduce yourself and get to know him more. If he really is the right escort for you, you'll both click! Just don't let nerves stand in the way of a great meeting.

[Boink]

This reminds me of a time long ago when I was really new to hiring. I called an escort I had fantasized about and when he picked up the phone I froze and hung up. He *69'ed me and called me back. I picked up the phone and he was so nice to me he talked me into meeting. I was always grateful for that - we had a great time.

[gallahadesquire]

Isn't it Nike who says "Just do it?"

And is that modeled after Garry Gilmore's last words for the firing squad: "Let's do it!"

[+ azdr0710]

Garry Gilmore's last words for the firing squad: "Let's do it!"

 

 

ha ha, gallahad....just the thing our OC guy needs to hear!

[jasoninoc]

Well thank you everyone for all the encouragement, I took the advice that I got a couple of you in particular and I am glad I did, I picked up the phone and called JDDaniels XXX, and we had a nice conversation, he was incredibly nice, totally understanding, he put so much at ease it felt as I've talked to him many many times, he made me so good on the phone, I kept wondering why I waited so long to make the call. I am so exited about getting together with him when is back in my part of town, specially after reading all his great reviews, over and over, I know I'm in for a memorable time, and I have no doubt we can become good friends, he just has that amazing personality and charisma that makes you feel so good and takes all the nervousness away. I sure would love some advice if you have been with JD that can make the experience even better than I already know it will be.....

[BabyBoomer]

Jason- I'm so glad you called.

 

~ Boomer ~

[TruHart1]

Jason- I'm so glad you called.

 

~ Boomer ~

 

...And you picked a really sweet guy, Jason!

 

TruHart1

[+ quoththeraven]

JD Daniels is a hottie and a sweetie. I met and had several opportunities to hang out with him (and other people) the weekend of the DC forum luncheon in January. If I'd known he was the one you were worrying/obsessing over, I'd have told you to go for it! Now you have what I'm sure will be a fabulous experience to look forward to.

[anatole]

99 % of the time, i meet escorts like that :

With my profile on gayromeo.com (planteromeo.com), messages between me and escort to set conditions (question about cocks, photos, availability, date meeting, what I want, rate, etc.). if all is ok, I send a text on mobile phone to confirm and he textes me his adress in return. If he wants, i can phone him but I don't like too much (I don't know why but I never know what to say when it happens)

[JDXXX]

Hello Jason -

 

Thank you so much for your testimonial on what you shared about me here on the forum as I thought it was quite touching, and truly sincere of you to give your insight on our interaction during the phone conversation. I think it's wonderful of the outpouring support you got from my loved ones here on the forum - especially from Truhart, quoththraven, and Babyboomer along with many others who gave you the "proper" guidance and support in handling your dilemma on how to proceeding further for a possible meeting with me. Thanks for your love and support guys in helping Poor Jason come to decision as it wasn't easy for him to get over his "first time jitters", but with some TLC, Word Of Wisdom, and Motivation - you guys pulled him through this tough period in taking that first step which was: To Call me. LOL.

Jason sweetheart - I am so proud of you following the advice of my pals here on the forum in making the initial call to where all the fears you had in the end went away as you got to know me to find - I'm a fun loving guy. . Your in the right hands, and will be sure, Jason to give you(as I do with all my clients) of an memorable and joyous experience. I'll make sure you don't leave my presence unless you do. LOL. Looking forward to meeting you soon, and remain positive and true to yourself, sweetie as you did the right thing coming to forum, and then eventually calling me which was the BEST choice. Want to Thank you Jason for all the lovely things you said about me as I found it to be very touching and incredibly sweet. Now I have SO many exciting things to look forward to in meeting you and having an amazing time with our session. . Thank you to those here on the forum who helped encourage Jason make that initial first move that has now put him at ease and has pushed him in a positive way to move forward. I love you guys, and do appreciate your love and support very much indeed. .

[JDXXX]

UPDATE:

 

Hello Everyone -

 

Well, for those of you who's been following this thread in regards to Me and Jasoninoc meeting - Today is FINALLY the day as it's here. Really thrilled and excited about seeing him face to face for the very first time - EVER. The many things I have in store for him will have him leaving me after the meeting with an unforgettable/remarkable experience he'll treasure for life as I want to make his 1st time with an escort special, and rewarding. .

 

Stay Tuned as I will be keeping you all updated on the experience/meeting, and so will Jasoninoc I'm sure!!!

[jasoninoc]

UPDATE:

 

Hello Everyone -

 

Well, for those of you who's been following this thread in regards to Me and Jasoninoc meeting - Today is FINALLY the day as it's here. Really thrilled and excited about seeing him face to face for the very first time - EVER. The many things I have in store for him will have him leaving me after the meeting with an unforgettable/remarkable experience he'll treasure for life as I want to make his 1st time with an escort special, and rewarding. .

 

Stay Tuned as I will be keeping you all updated on the experience/meeting, and so will Jasoninoc I'm sure!!!

[jasoninoc]

Well it finally happened, we finally met and what a meeting it was...WOW does not even begin to describe the experience or JD himself...I will save the hot details of the experience and the amazing abilities of this incredibly hot and sex guy, for the well deserves review that will be forthcoming in the very near future. Let me tell you all, if you have not yet had the chance to meet JD, I promise you that you are missing out big time, from the moment he opened the door till the moment I left, he never ceased to amaze and surprise me, I dont want to call him a Class Act because that would be a major UNDERSTATEMENT, I've met lots of classy people in my life but JD definitely takes the cake. To all you escorts out there, if you don't treat your clients the way JD treated me today, you'll have a tough act to follow. It was the first time we ever meet and he had gifts for me, and a nice card, and that's for starters, and that's besides the strawberries and bananas afterwards. i could go on and on about what a real pleasure it was to finally meet JD and what an amazing human being he is, as well as an incredible lover, but like I said earlier, look for the review to really know what this guy is really about. Thanks again JD, can't wait for next time.

[BabyBoomer]

Jason, NOW aren't you glad I told you to call. Lol.

 

~Boomer ~