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Is it just me or there comes a time where the escort pickings are slim in the town you are in? Even here in Los Angeles I've either been with the ones I want to be with and/or don't want a repeat visit. I've only had two escorts I have seen regularly. One moved out of Los Angeles and even the one that is still here that i've seen the most, maybe like 20 times, I just don't have the desire to see him anymore. Maybe because i'm just ready for someone new. Does anyone feel like that? I realize lately i've been pretty aggressive in checking traveling escorts schedules to see if they will be in Los Angeles any time soon.

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Kaboom35,

 

In their fascinating book "Sex at Dawn" two very clever anthropologist and sociologists go through every single piece of evidence we have at hand and they draw the conclusion that shocked no one: Human beings, unlike some primates, but very much like bonobos, are not meant to be monogamous. While pair bonding might happen, both bonobos and human beings are programmed to mate with as many (if not all) members of their own social group.

 

We are wired, physically, to find newness attractive.

 

That is why when we equate sexual attraction and love, divorce rates go through the roof. NOBODY can stay attracted to the same mate over and over.

 

It is possible to find sex with the same people fun, but that spark that goes down to your gonads and makes you spray the room when you see someone new is part of your genetic predisposition and it is part of nature's plan to help our species thrive.

 

if you are interested in this subject I really recommend you to read that book. It alleviates the constant feeling of inadequacy the we live with whenever we realize that even if we have the perfect mate at home, we still want to stick it in somebody else.

 

You like variety? Mazel Tov! And welcome to the human race. Some people find familiarity comforting, some prefer the fresh paint smell of someone unknown.

 

Don't beat yourself over it. And be patient. There's always hot new guys one can do. =)

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I live in Santa Clarita. So that already rules out Alec, Ryan, Thomas Dexterous, and a couple other dudes. For such a nice and safe city people really complain about driving here even though it's only 30 minutes from Hollywood if you take the Hollywood freeway.

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Kaboom35,

 

In their fascinating book "Sex at Dawn" two very clever anthropologist and sociologists go through every single piece of evidence we have at hand and they draw the conclusion that shocked no one: Human beings, unlike some primates, but very much like bonobos, are not meant to be monogamous. While pair bonding might happen, both bonobos and human beings are programmed to mate with as many (if not all) members of their own social group.

 

We are wired, physically, to find newness attractive.

 

That is why when we equate sexual attraction and love, divorce rates go through the roof. NOBODY can stay attracted to the same mate over and over.

 

It is possible to find sex with the same people fun, but that spark that goes down to your gonads and makes you spray the room when you see someone new is part of your genetic predisposition and it is part of nature's plan to help our species thrive.

 

if you are interested in this subject I really recommend you to read that book. It alleviates the constant feeling of inadequacy the we live with whenever we realize that even if we have the perfect mate at home, we still want to stick it in somebody else.

 

You like variety? Mazel Tov! And welcome to the human race. Some people find familiarity comforting, some prefer the fresh paint smell of someone unknown.

 

Don't beat yourself over it. And be patient. There's always hot new guys one can do. =)

 

I think I just fell in love with you -- though you're still free to fuck others, of course!

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I live in Santa Clarita. So that already rules out Alec, Ryan, Thomas Dexterous, and a couple other dudes. For such a nice and safe city people really complain about driving here even though it's only 30 minutes from Hollywood if you take the Hollywood freeway.

 

RSully - isn't that reverse discrimination? Come on down to LA and partake of those guys.

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I live in Santa Clarita. So that already rules out Alec, Ryan, Thomas Dexterous, and a couple other dudes. For such a nice and safe city people really complain about driving here even though it's only 30 minutes from Hollywood if you take the Hollywood freeway.

 

Well it's 30 min IF there is no traffic, but we all know that the HW Fwy is a mess. Is it possible for you to split the distance, and meet them somewhere in North Hollywood? Getting a Hotel could be fun, and un-complicate things. Certainly worth it for "Mr. Ryan and Company"...

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First off, there are no escorts in my town. So boredom ain't the issue.

 

Secondly, if there is anything that I have learned from all these years of hiring is that monogamy could never, ever work for me again. Ever. I did it in my twenties and thirties and I kind of regret wasting all those hot years on just two guys. Like I should have slept around when I was young and then settled down when I was old instead of vice versa. But then again, it would have been exactly the wrong time in medical history to choose promiscuity.

 

Thirdly, having said all that, if I had Thor in my bed and on my face every night, monogamy might be just the ticket, after all.

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Okliehomo - you have given a good option, however.

 

When bored, save up your funds and rent out a room or two in a nice, discreet hotel near an airport and FLY IN the guys you most desire. I envy your industriousness (and extreme generosity) in how you stage these fly-ins.

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Seattle is a veritable desert some months of the year. There is some good local talent, but often not much selection--thank god for fly ins. I am always envious of the choices in SF. LA, NY, Chicago, Vegas, Florida, Phoenix, Dallas, San Diego...even Portland! I notice wide selections in the big cities, but also in places where being gay in public is less accepted--guess that might be why. I shouldn't complain, but Seattle is still a bit provincial and in some ways rather puritanical. By the way, dutchmuch, where exactly is Paducha?

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I live in Santa Clarita. So that already rules out Alec, Ryan, Thomas Dexterous, and a couple other dudes. For such a nice and safe city people really complain about driving here even though it's only 30 minutes from Hollywood if you take the Hollywood freeway.

RS94,

Have you asked Alec and Ryan about traveling to you?

From my experience with Alec, not only is he an amazing experience worthy of all of the positive feedback I seen, he traveled to me further away than Santa Clarita (though we had previously met). And Ryan, who is arguably the sexiest man alive (and when he flashes that million dollar smile - the argument disappears), has a nice place to host and has indicated to me that he is willing to travel.

My apologies if you've already tried to have them travel to you and been turned down.

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Being bored in bed says as much about you as your partner. For every hot guy our there, escorts included, there is someone that got tired of having sex with them. Most usually it is because they stopped trying. So, if you have a limited choice, or only one, do something to make it more fun. Use your imagination and some props and stretch your limitations a little bit, and boredom might not be the issue. Monogamy, or thereabouts, is not for the faint of heart nor for those lacking in imagination. First time sex with a muscular tanned sex god is easy. It takes a bit of effort to have a great time with an old fat fucker like me, so I make sure I do my part as best I can.

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