Finally doing it

[KissingCalvin]

Well, after some thought and other things getting in the way. ( travel, life, money), I'm taking the plunge and hired an escort.

 

Took your advice here. Found someone reviewed well, communicated. Etc.

 

I'm very much looking forward to it. Though I think in need to reign I my anxiousness. Lol. Will be the third time ever and first in 15 years.

 

But thank you all for the advice.

[+ Gar1eth]

I, and I know many others, wish you the best!!

 

Gman

[bigvalboy]

Well, after some thought and other things getting in the way. ( travel, life, money), I'm taking the plunge and hired an escort.

 

Took your advice here. Found someone reviewed well, communicated. Etc.

 

I'm very much looking forward to it. Though I think in need to reign I my anxiousness. Lol. Will be the third time ever and first in 15 years.

 

But thank you all for the advice.

It's natural to be anxious. My advice would be to try and relax, and just be yourself. I don't think it would hurt to let the escort know that you are a tad bit on the anxious side. He can most likely make you feel more at ease, and I stand with Gman in wishing you the best...

[+ azdr0710]

Though I think in need to reign I my anxiousness.

 

 

yeah, that sounds pretty anxious to me!!....ha....

 

have fun, take it easy, talk slowly, don't babble (!), chat him up, don't try too hard....maybe start with some low-key massage to break the ice.....

 

as BVB suggests, definitely let him know it's been a while and ask him to see what he can do to make it a great time.....

[+ Funguy]

Agree with all that has been said by azdr and BVB.

 

Contact Wisconsinguy…..he just had his "first EVER" experience and I suspect he was a lot more nervous than you. He got through it with flying colors and he is well on his way to enjoyment without the butterflies.

 

Good luck and get back to us if you have any other questions…. Above all, take a deep breath, smile, be yourself, and be open to your escort so he knows what is going on!

 

Funguy

[+ bigjoey]

Remember the good guys are professionals; they ail work hard to make you feel comfortable and having a good time; they want repeat business so just relax and let them take over.

 

Nothing to feel nervous about: they have seen it all before and know how to handle any occasion. Just enjoy.

[+ purplekow]

Good luck with the first plunge. it is like diving off the high board the first time. it looks scary and you are afraid you might get hurt but in the end a leap of faith and you will end up feeling good and probably wet.

[wisconsinguy]

By all means, please PM me if you'd like. Although many gave me the same sound advice, I know it's hard to try and "talk oneself down." I would often I say I never had to worry about being clean inside and out. Some days, I thought I'd have to strap a toilet seat to my butt from pooping all the time! Sounds like you did some good research on your own. Plus, the communication is important. It was really anxiety reducing when I heard his voice for some reason. Rand

[JT Brooklyn]

Remember the good guys are professionals; they ail work hard to make you feel comfortable and having a good time; they want repeat business so just relax and let them take over.

 

Nothing to feel nervous about: they have seen it all before and know how to handle any occasion. Just enjoy.

 

Indubidably!

[TruthBTold]

It's funny. I had been seeing a guy for many years but he moved out of state to go to school and that put an end to things in large part. I decided I would start fresh. I, of course, have learned a lot from reading the posts here over the years. But I still am nervous in that "going on a first date" sort of way.

[Phil_musc]

Well I was going to say something snarky and tasteless about your guy of many years moving out to go to school (how old WAS he when you began this relationship?!), but really I wish you much luck and good times. Relax too and let him do his job. And may the force be with you;-)