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Guys, I had an odd experience recently-- not a bad one, just slightly strange, and wanted to hear reactions. I was travelling and hired a well-known, very popular escort. I like very aggressive, dominant, verbal tops and he fits the bill. We exchanged emails about the encounter and I asked for a two hour appointment, in part because I like it to be so intense that usually we have to take a breather or two. All cool.

 

He performed as requested, starting with passionate foreplay and then topping me athletically, and I want to be clear that it was great. We both came a little after an hour in, and I would have gladly taken some time to enjoy the afterglow, since I'd asked for two hours. But he pretty much leapt out of bed and said, great, let's take a shower, you can just pay me for an hour. He wasn't too insistent but the appointment was clearly over. I actually gave him a bit more than the hour rate, since we had gone over by about 15 minutes by the time I left.

 

Now I'm not really complaining-- he gave me a masterful fuck, and I suppose we had done everything I'd asked for. And the fact that he didn't expect to be paid for two hours is in his favor. But is this common? I am not in great shape, but we'd exchanged pictures, so I don't think he just wanted to get rid of me, but it just had a faint air of "okay, let's get this over with." I've heard so much about clock-watchers it just seemed unexpected to find such a diametric opposite case. Thoughts? How would you react?

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I've always interpreted the term "clock watcher" to refer to an escort who follows this protocol: "git it up, git it in, git it out, gotta git a new hairdo" (sung to the old bonanza theme song:

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Sounds a little "clock watchy"...

 

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Actually that has happened to me before on a few occasions. I never really minded, since I am the type of person that once sex is over it is pretty much, "juice is in the fridge, slam the door on your way out". I love to cuddle in the beginning, but I'm not much into hanging out afterwards. Each time this has happened the escort charged me only for the time spent, only once did the escort, very well known BTW, want to charge me for the full time. It was a three hour and only lasted an hour. The amount came to $550 and I handed him 600, and then I asked for change. He was taken back for a moment and said, "No one has ever asked me for change before" and I said very sarcastically , "well I need change". I was pissed, and told him that I didn't think that it was equitable. I took my 50 and walked out. Then he actually had the nerve to email a couple of weeks later, telling me how much fun he had and wanting to know if we could get together again...uuuhhh, that would be a NO.

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Well the same thing happened to me... Way different activities... Again a very well-known and popular escort... Booked two hours... Likewise he decided to end it after an hour and fifteen... He asked for only an hour's worth... I gave him a bit more as I was surprisingly extremely satisfied... actually elated!!! Perhaps because it was one of the most intense flip-flop S&M sessions I have ever had. Though conceivably the escort might have had enough, even though it would have been more my turn to be on the receiving end for the remainder of the session. Also, surprisingly he did not push me out the door either...

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This scenario is VERY common and I have seen it happen both ways alot. I actually try and discourage 2 or 3 hour bookings initially UNLESS there is a lunch or dinner involved.

The reason is that it is really common for my clients to cum pretty fast. I see every new client as a potential regular so I would rather just book the hour and have them see me again soon than have them feel they have to pay the 2 or 3 hour fee. I tell them to book one hour and if we are still going at two or three fine and GREAT actually! Most love this arrangement but some who like to talk and visit really want the extra time which is great with me. I have actually gotten up to shower and dress many times and the client pulls me back to bed and we cuddle and visit for the balance of his time. Many times the client gets hard again and/or wants to suck me some more even if he is no longer aroused. Every situation is unique and different. http://www.rentmen.com/mikeyusatop

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now the other issue and the reason I do discourage the 2 or 3 hour bookings initially: if I book 2 or 3 hours that means that time is yours and I DO NOT schedule another client that night or that day. Thus I have TURNED down other clients to satisfy your demand on my time. If you actually book the 2 or 3 hours then that is the fee I expect to recieve and do recieve. I make this clear in advance to the client that even if he is done and ready for me to leave after 45 minutes. It has never been a problem for me and I always hear back from them for a repeat. http://www.rentmen.com/mikeyusatop

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Guys, I had an odd experience recently-- not a bad one, just slightly strange, and wanted to hear reactions. I was travelling and hired a well-known, very popular escort. I like very aggressive, dominant, verbal tops and he fits the bill. We exchanged emails about the encounter and I asked for a two hour appointment, in part because I like it to be so intense that usually we have to take a breather or two. All cool.

 

He performed as requested, starting with passionate foreplay and then topping me athletically, and I want to be clear that it was great. We both came a little after an hour in, and I would have gladly taken some time to enjoy the afterglow, since I'd asked for two hours. But he pretty much leapt out of bed and said, great, let's take a shower, you can just pay me for an hour. He wasn't too insistent but the appointment was clearly over. I actually gave him a bit more than the hour rate, since we had gone over by about 15 minutes by the time I left.

 

Now I'm not really complaining-- he gave me a masterful fuck, and I suppose we had done everything I'd asked for. And the fact that he didn't expect to be paid for two hours is in his favor. But is this common? I am not in great shape, but we'd exchanged pictures, so I don't think he just wanted to get rid of me, but it just had a faint air of "okay, let's get this over with." I've heard so much about clock-watchers it just seemed unexpected to find such a diametric opposite case. Thoughts? How would you react?

 

This happens more than you would think for different reasons... I can understand some feeling slighted by it.

 

There was a Time when I as a Client would have felt that way..no more! You had a Good Time for the Hour so technically He did his Job!

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I would have no problem if someone did that, but if I really wanted the guy to stay and asked him to do so and he still insisted on leaving anyway, I would be disappointed. I'd obviously still let him go, but it might have an impact on whether I'd want a repeat appointment. The kind of escorts I like are those who can enjoy being in the moment with me, even though I am likely not physically the kind of guy they'd try to initiate sex with if they were looking for recreational sex. I'm pretty sensitive to guys who nonverbally communicate that they really don't want to be with me apart from getting money from me, and someone who does that is not likely to get a tip or a request for a second appointment.

 

One of my pet peeves is guys who get up after 30 minutes, for example, because I've had an orgasm and thus they believe they've "done their job" -- as if bringing someone to orgasm is the only reason they are hired. It not only makes the otherwise enjoyable sex less enjoyable in retrospect since it does pretty loudly indicate that the escort would rather be somewhere else instead of with you, but it's also insulting from a financial perspective. I've certainly left appointments without having an orgasm when the time was up and I just couldn't "get there," and I wouldn't expect someone to stay longer without additional compensation. Likewise I think that collecting an hour's fee for a half-hour appointment is simply inappropriate. I think the appropriate term for guys like that is hustler, not escort, since it leaves me feeling like I've been swindled.

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I mustn't be functioning on all four cylinders, but what is TMZ?

www.TMZ.com For celeberty gossip... For those who want the 'scoop' on all the silly BS that's out there!! :) Way to go BVB!!!

 

For those who want names... Sorry... It ain't coming from here... That was part of the deal given the type of session that we had... ;)

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I have had this happen too and it was all good. That said I am not a fast cummer and to the best of my knowledge have only cum once in a one hour appt. So that is why I always schedule for a 2-3 hour appt. I have had a couple where I was ready to go sooner but just paid the gentleman and left, sex okay just no interest in staying in around or the sex was going nowhere and just wanted to leave. I have usually felt I would rather get an intense passionate 45 min session where I know the gent is all in rather than two hours dragging it out of a laid back kind of guy who is just not my style. I have had overnights where we are nearly 3 hours in and we are still not any closer to the bed and and its like where is this going. But that is why looking and asking questions and making your inquiry clear about what you are looking for. So I will take the meeting described here in a heartbeat and no concerns that he was trying to get out early at all especially when he only asked for the hour.

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www.TMZ.com[/url] For celeberty gossip... For those who want the 'scoop' on all the silly BS that's out there!! :) Way to go BVB!!!

 

For those who want names... Sorry... It ain't coming from here... That was part of the deal given the type of session that we had... ;)

 

 

lol....

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I've only had one escort do something like this. The first time I met Tristan Baldwin, I reserved 2 hours of his time, but we finished up after a little over an hour. After we showered, I got dressed and got ready to leave. He refused to accept payment for the whole 2 hours even though I was happy to pay it. To be clear, he did not rush me or push to end the appointment early. Things came to a natural conclusion, and I was ready to leave his hotel.

 

The next time I saw Tristan, he was even more generous. Although I reserved multiple hours of his time and we went to a movie together, he refused to accept payment for the time we spent watching the movie. He even insisted on buying popcorn and drinks for us both at the theater. I gave him a decent tip, but I would've been happy to pay much more. That's why he was my number 1 pick for escort of the year. I always have a terrific time and feel like I get a tremendous value when I see him.

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...and there is always "round 2"~ After round 1, rest for a bit with some snuggling or a back rub and then go for round 2~ it doesn't have to be about the hard or or cumming twice but still just enjoying each others bodies and physical intimacy~ (...as well as personhood intimacy).

 

Tyger~

http://www.tygerscent.biz

tygerkink@yahoo.com

971.400.2633

Tygerscent on men4rent.com

AAAtygerscentxxx on rentmen.com

Ty in Portland on Daddys Review's

 

Travel: Northwest: (PDX, Seattle, Bend, Salem) July 14th

Vegas: July 15th - 19th

LA: mid August.

Mid West: October and possibly August.

Iceland, Amsterdam, Brussels, Brugge: Sept. 4th - 24th

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There are some of those I play with, who make this job so enjoyable...who make this job not work, that from a 'mental balance' standpoint; I'll never be able to rationalize taking money for it. Some of my clients are my 'sounding board', too....and they're the people I am able to find solid advice and fun with. In my eyes, not taking money for extra time and buying some food is getting out CHEAP for quality therapy like that. Don't thank ME for such things; let me thank YOU for being yourselves.

 

TB

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...and there is always "round 2"~ after round 1, rest for a bit with some snuggling or a back rub and then go for round 2~ it doesn't have to be about the hard or or cumming twice but still just enjoying each others bodies and physical intimacy~ (...as well as personhood intimacy).

 

Tyger~

 

Amen!

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