Quality silicone lube will not have this happen. Swiss Navy, mentioned above, doesn't appear to have this issue. You might want to experiment around with some new product and see what suits you best. I'd also recommend looking into a lube with a dark bottle (to minimize light exposure) like Eros.
You can also switch to a petroleum based lube as long as you're using the right condom. In my experience, nothing lasts longer than an oil based lube, although it can be a real bitch to clean off