In A Realtionship?

[VaHawk]

Please refer to the earlier post from a few week back by deej and click on the link he provided that discussed interenet trolls.

Anyway, I found your post to very beautiful in all ways!

[VaHawk]

Well shut my mouth, I guess I should run spell check!

[Chuck50]

Love ya Hawk no matter how you spell. HUGS Chuck

 

I hear HAWK'S are in now at least for awhile.

 

HUGS

[axebahia]

Good one!!:-)

[+ Charlie]

Tri, your philosophy of love and sex makes perfect sense to me. However, I think we are a small minority.

[+ Lucky]

"However, I think we are a small minority."

 

I don't know about you, Charlie, but tri isays he is not small!

[Rick Munroe]

>It will be a field day

>for the anti ANTI DEPRESSANT set.

 

Will they need permission slips from their parents?

[jackhammer91406]

Relationship Therapy

 

Hey Guys,

Thanks for all the informative posts. Please forgive me, my keyboard seems to have become dyslexic under the influence of meds and therapy. Although I tried to proof the original post several times, it still ended up being realtionship instead of relationship. Duh.

First, to Rick, yes SIGNED permission slips will be required.

 

I have received a few emails asking if I was no longer going to post. Sadly (for some) that is not the case. Therapy will continue, so those who are not into Group activities can just skip the sessions when they see my name (unless of course they have some deep seated need to reply in some kind of carping fashion). Therapy is therapy and I want everyone to get healthy. do whatever it takes, You know who you are. As leader of the prozac pushing set, it is my duty to make sure you get your frustrations out with the rest of us.

 

I am so encouraged by the various replies, and yes, hiring escorts was the first step of getting to the person I think I am instead of who I have been.

 

Another question that has come in emails, is whether I am still going to hire. I would say, again sadly for some, yes, I think I am, although it may be a while digging myself out of this hole before I get to ground level again after NYC.

 

I have been taking small steps to open up and participate more in activities where I might meet people who might be interested in me. Two weeks ago, meeting someone in WEHO for lunch at a place called Eat Well Cafe, I really enjoyed the time and the food. WEHO is not a place I would normally feel comfortable spending time because it is filled with hot men and I feel distinctly conspicuous in that setting. But today I tried a little experiment after my training (which is in WEHO). I stopped at the cafe alone just to see if I could do it. I was nervous. I felt sure I would be invisible and at first I think I was, then one of the waiters noticed me and all of a sudden, it was like I was a member or something. Later as I was finishing my meal a really hot guy (the place is supposedly a favorite for porn stars and escorts) sat at a table across from me. He had been standing outside for a while on his cell phone and we had exchanged glances. I looked over and he was smiling at me. During the course of the next few minutes I tried to look comfortable and like I belonged, but it was hard. The waiter came by and I asked for my check and he said he thought he had given it to me and the hot guy across the aisle said that in that case my Lunch was free. I fumbled something about not having seen that sign when I came in and got up to go pay. I was too nervous ( where are Cooper and Lucky when I need them?). But the point is (yes there is one) I took a step today I wouldn't have taken if I hadn't pushed myself, and I could never have pushed myself if I hadn't spent some time with some of the finest on this board, both escorts and posters, in person and in writing. If that is therapy, then so be it. IT WORKS FOR ME. lol

 

Thanks for your time. Send me the bill.

 

[Bilbo]

Tri - I also agree with you! Except that, my hand is not my best sex partner, even when I'm not bored with it. My mind wanders and then wanders again and instead of moving with me like an experienced partner would, my hand fairly often keeps going and I forget to rewet the lube and I wind up with sore spots that last an hour or two. Oops.

 

I believe so strongly in open relationships. I want beside me because he wants to be there, not because he feels like he has to be there because that's the only place he's allowed to have sex. And you want to borrow my man? Sure, if it's OK with him. Just remember he's like a library book. You know where to return him when you've read him through once.

[Guest LAbuyer]

Jack,

 

Just wanted to tell you I think this is a great question, one that I"m thinking about myself. I'm usually a lurker on this site, but just wanted to let you know that the same thoughts have been going through my head also.

I was in a long term relationship for fifteen years. My lover suddenly passed away and for the last few years have hired. Money is no problem, but I too want a relationship again and thinking that I need to put my attention in another direction. Not that I want to, or will stop hiring right now, but definitely thinking it might not be helping get what I want in the long run. I don't know....interesting questions though, thanks.

 

LAbuyer