Aidan Euro College Jock visiting Bosotn soon

[shadowcatzxxx]

Hi!

 

This guy is visiting Boston later this week, and looks form his pix to be just my type

 

http://www.men4rentnow.com/ds/index.asp?cmd=view&id=219926&Login=EuroCollegeJock

 

Has anyone on this board met him, his reviews are SO COMPLETELY contradictory that I don't know what to make of them. SOme gushing 1st-time reviewers, and then a few by people with more than one review, some gushing, some scathing.

 

http://www.daddysreviews.com/cruise/2010-08-18/aidan_houston

 

Does anyone here have a personal perspective?

 

Thanks!

[down_to_business]

If he's your type, go for it. I hired once, but wouldn't repeat. It wasn't bad, I guess I would describe it as mediocre. He was attractive but mechanical.

 

If it's important to you, the Euro/Mediterranean part is Turk. Nothing wrong with that but I don't like to be suprised. He does have limitations on who (and I will leave it at that) he will accept as a client, or at least did in the past if that matters to you. Best to discuss with him.

[unsub2O17]

I agree with DTB. Same story, same experience.

[RickyDC]

I saw him once when he was in DC and wouldn't see him again. Body is great and pictures are accurate in that respect. I didn't find him handsome though. Personality was not the masculine type that I'm attracted to (I apologize for lack of a better way to say that). His performance was un-enthusiastic, which is not what I'm used to.

[MscleLovr]

My experience was similar to that described by the 3 previous posters.

 

I hired him for an overnight 15 months ago and I ended up sending him home early (with the full fee). He was enthusiastic before dinner, but the second session after dinner was very feeble and uninteresting. To be precise, he could not bottom for long and his oral skills were much less than I am used to.

 

I feel there is great truth in the statement he volunteered that his "boyfriend is Benjamin Franklin".

[William]

My experience was similar to that of the previous four posters.

 

I did think Aiden was very handsome and masculine, but he was very much not into engaging in french kissing or other erotic activities with an older man (me). He warmed up a little as the hour wore on but remained fairly detatched from the experience to the end. I left his hotel room (in NYC) with a bad taste in my mouth. Not only did I believe he misrepresented what he'd be willing to get into with an older partner, but his attitude was condescending.

 

Not only would I not repeat the experience, but I wouldn't spend time with him if he paid me. (I should have written a review and apologize for that lapse. No good excuse, but I do have a tendency to write negative reviews only when the level of deceit is higher than what I encountered here.)

[shadowcatzxxx]

many, Many thanks for your honesty and sincerity, guys!

 

saved me time, $$ and more.

 

what a great service the people who post here give all of us!

[PoppedRice]

With all these anecdotes here, why aren't there more review found in the actual review, of which shadowcatzxxx provided?

 

I'm sorry, but can some of you folks here explain your rationale of why you haven't turned in reviews? At the very least, the reviews allow the escort to address the issues raised, since Daddy (and Hooboy before him - yes, I'm one of the really old timers) allows them a forum by including a response to the review. Whether you agree with the response (as a reviewer) is another matter...

 

Right now, all the arguments here are one sided...with 17 reviews, of which 2-3 are still positive, I start to question - what are people really getting out of this site?

 

-Popped

[Guest]

That's interesting.... I had an absolutely fantastic time with him. I'd hire him again in a heartbeat. Maybe it's the chemistry. Of course, I like Turkish men.

[TruthBTold]

My "excuse" is pure laziness and/or the difficulty of putting the essence of encounters down in writing.

[unsub2O17]

With all these anecdotes here, why aren't there more review found in the actual review, of which shadowcatzxxx provided?

 

I'm sorry, but can some of you folks here explain your rationale of why you haven't turned in reviews? At the very least, the reviews allow the escort to address the issues raised, since Daddy (and Hooboy before him - yes, I'm one of the really old timers) allows them a forum by including a response to the review. Whether you agree with the response (as a reviewer) is another matter...

 

Right now, all the arguments here are one sided...with 17 reviews, of which 2-3 are still positive, I start to question - what are people really getting out of this site?

 

-Popped

 

First, I did write a review. It's here on Daddy's. Second, I appreciate the OP because it allowed me to see that I was not alone. It seems that, at least some of the time, this is Aidan's "way of operating".

[William]

With all these anecdotes here, why aren't there more review found in the actual review, of which shadowcatzxxx provided?

 

I'm sorry, but can some of you folks here explain your rationale of why you haven't turned in reviews? At the very least, the reviews allow the escort to address the issues raised, since Daddy (and Hooboy before him - yes, I'm one of the really old timers) allows them a forum by including a response to the review. Whether you agree with the response (as a reviewer) is another matter...

 

Right now, all the arguments here are one sided...with 17 reviews, of which 2-3 are still positive, I start to question - what are people really getting out of this site?

 

-Popped

 

As I said in my original post, I did not write a review because the experience was, literally, "nothing to write home about." It was OK, not horrible. I have written a good many negative reviews over the years (e.g., Riaan from London when he was in USA; Marcello, an Italian who lives in London and visits NYC frequently; Ryan Cade, from Atlanta when he visited the northeast several years ago), but I tend to do so only when the service provider is a rip-off (my experience with Riaan and Ryan Cade) or the next step up from rip-off (my experience with Marcello).

 

I might add that negative reviews do pose risks for the reviewer. I caught hell for my highly negative (and 100% accruate) review of Ryan Cade several years ago. In retrospect, many have come to appreciate the negative side of Mr. Cade, and he flamed out last year (I believe). But one does not write negative reviews lightly.

[Discerning]

As I said in my original post, I did not write a review because the experience was, literally, "nothing to write home about." It was OK, not horrible. I have written a good many negative reviews over the years (e.g., Riaan from London when he was in USA; Marcello, an Italian who lives in London and visits NYC frequently; Ryan Cade, from Atlanta when he visited the northeast several years ago), but I tend to do so only when the service provider is a rip-off (my experience with Riaan and Ryan Cade) or the next step up from rip-off (my experience with Marcello).

 

I might add that negative reviews do pose risks for the reviewer. I caught hell for my highly negative (and 100% accruate) review of Ryan Cade several years ago. In retrospect, many have come to appreciate the negative side of Mr. Cade, and he flamed out last year (I believe). But one does not write negative reviews lightly.

 

I agree with your rules of thumb as regards posting reviews. In fact, I've only posted reviews (using another handle) of escorts with whom the experience was exceptional. Happily, I've not had an experience so horrid that a review warning off potential clients was warranted. So-so experiences, yes, I've had plenty of those and in those cases, I too avoid posting reviews because it seems to me that many (not all of course) escort rebuttals are less than pleasant. Of course, it does come down to client expectations and chemistry. Still, I tried to give Aidan Silvy a genuine go-of-it last year... I liked his torso. His cock was the right, average size, and his face pleasant enough. The first encounter was so-so, but I chalk that up to mutual awkwardness. It happens. The second time was great -- really satisfactory, and he was quite engaged. The third time, he was tired but really did his best to perform and situations such as that can happen now and again as well -- though I would prefer an escort not take an appointment if he is not physically or mentally up to the task. But throughout the total experience of hiring Aidan, I absolutely noticed some sort of arrogance or condescending attitude, as others have noted. I did not take it personally. I am in my 40s, slim and trim and nice looking. I hire for the convenience, and always treat escorts with respect, never as objects. Experience has taught me that a condescending attitude, as in Aidan's case, has everything to do with the individual's perception of the self, and not the person to whom it is directed, in this case, the client.

[jusmeinbr]

Some time back, I made a post asking if clients had experienced situations in which an escort got too plastered to go through with a planned meeting. I also relayed that it had happened to me on a couple of occasions. Well, Aiden was the main one whom I was referencing. It was during the first day of Southern Decadence in New Orleans (a party town to start with then an event chock full of binge drinking). Well, we'd agreed on the 2nd day of SD to hook up, and I was about to drive down (I live 80 miles north of NO). I called to confirm, and he immediately told me he'd need to reschedule to the next day and admitted he was tanked and in no condition to meet. Well, I'd been "saving up" and refraining from jerking off for three days, and there was simply NO WAY I could go another day. Consequently, I just "unloaded" and decided I'd just drop him. He emailed me the next day saying he could now meet, but I responded saying I was no longer interested and maybe next time. He's been to NO maybe 3-4 times since, and I see he's scheduled to be there again soon. Based on what I've read here, I'm now glad he got too drunk to meet with me.

 

On a brighter not, I see where Daddy has posted my review of Jimmy (Feb 10 cover guy). Jimmy's venture to Los Angeles wound up somehow taking a detour through Florida, and I see he's now in Gainesville with the caption "just passing through." Once he makes it to L. A., he comes with my highest recommendation.

 

On yet another bright note, I met with a guy named Nobel in NO last Monday, and I had a fantastic experience. Like Jimmy, I found him on Adam4Adam. We're meeting again tomorrow and, before the weekend is up, I'll supply a review for him as well.

 

I really appreciate this forum and all we are able to learn from one another!

[+ Gar1eth]

I had a meeting scheduled with a Canadian guy whom I had met before either once or twice. The date of the appointment unfortunately coincided with the day the Canadian National Olympic Hockey Team won the gold medal in the 2010 Vancouver Winter Olympics over the USA. He partied a bit too much during the game. The meeting never happened.

 

Gman

[jimboivyo]

Some time back, I made a post asking if clients had experienced situations in which an escort got too plastered to go through with a planned meeting. I also relayed that it had happened to me on a couple of occasions. Well, Aiden was the main one whom I was referencing. It was during the first day of Southern Decadence in New Orleans (a party town to start with then an event chock full of binge drinking). Well, we'd agreed on the 2nd day of SD to hook up, and I was about to drive down (I live 80 miles north of NO). I called to confirm, and he immediately told me he'd need to reschedule to the next day and admitted he was tanked and in no condition to meet. Well, I'd been "saving up" and refraining from jerking off for three days, and there was simply NO WAY I could go another day. Consequently, I just "unloaded" and decided I'd just drop him. He emailed me the next day saying he could now meet, but I responded saying I was no longer interested and maybe next time. He's been to NO maybe 3-4 times since, and I see he's scheduled to be there again soon. Based on what I've read here, I'm now glad he got too drunk to meet with me.

 

On a brighter not, I see where Daddy has posted my review of Jimmy (Feb 10 cover guy). Jimmy's venture to Los Angeles wound up somehow taking a detour through Florida, and I see he's now in Gainesville with the caption "just passing through." Once he makes it to L. A., he comes with my highest recommendation.

 

On yet another bright note, I met with a guy named Nobel in NO last Monday, and I had a fantastic experience. Like Jimmy, I found him on Adam4Adam. We're meeting again tomorrow and, before the weekend is up, I'll supply a review for him as well.

 

I really appreciate this forum and all we are able to learn from one another!

 

 

sounds like you lived and learned. glad it worked out in the end. a bullet might have been dodged missing out on that drunk fella