Forthcoming movie on GAY GERONTOPHILIA

[TruHart1]

I don't particularly look for companionship from an escort.

 

That is a very intelligent outlook. However, an escort comes along once in a while who breaks the mold. From personal experience I know that wisconsinguy's escort is the exception to the rule here and all of us who have spent time with him have found that out to our delight!

 

TruHart1

[bigvalboy]

That doesn't mean I have twenty-five year-olds chasing me non-stop. I am also invisible to most men under 40. It doesn't bother me though, and I don't know why not. I know that it bothers other men my age. Part of it is that I get my validation from other things. I have a fabulous partner who loves me deeply, I'm very skilled in a challenging profession, etc., etc. In my work, I also get to spend a lot of time with cute, smart young MBAs and engineers in the tech industry, and enjoy it thoroughly, but I don't have any desire to chase after them.

 

 

 

Also, I've never been that interested in the very young. Most of my hires, for example are in their late 30s or early 40s.

 

+1...So very well said. As I have aged, my life has evolved in so many other positive directions, especially the last few years, that my interests and concerns fall into different categories now. I'm less concerned about the effects of the aging process than I once was.

[anotherjohnindupont]

I run into them at the gym. I don't get out much, it's about my only venue for meeting new people. Since I'm partnered, I'm not usually actively looking, and, occasionally, surprising things happen. It helps to be approachable. I'm usually in a pretty good mood, and I always enjoy chatting with strangers, so that sort of helps things happen.

 

do you hook up with young men you meet at the gym?

 

I know LBG apparently left the forum and

hiring escorts because of so much free sex with young men he was getting online...

[Rudynate]

do you hook up with young men you meet at the gym?

 

I know LBG apparently left the forum and

hiring escorts because of so much free sex with young men he was getting online...

 

Once in a while, but, as I said, I'm not usually actively looking. I don't hook up with them there; I don't go for public/anonymous sex.

[Rudynate]

Exactly. It also helps if you are "aging gracefully."

[marylander1940]

Exactly. It also helps if you are "aging gracefully."

 

That could mean so many things...

 

You'd be shocked about what "in shape" or WHP means in online dating.

 

Personally, I can't get sex for free from young men I find desirable, that's why I hire and I'm on this forum.

[actor61]

The vast majority of guys in their late teens and twenties may be into guys their own age, but there is a nice subset of the age group with a thing for older guys.

 

I'm 53. Winter/spring on 2011 I was living in NYC, and hooked up (for free, mind you) with a number of guys from 19--early 30s. Last fall I began a relationship with a guy then 21, now 22, and we are still together. (He's a short, slender guy from China who looks like he might be 16 or 17. Remarkably big cock, too.)

 

So I don't feel "dead" yet, by any means!

 

I turned 62 this year and although fit, active, involved and vital, I felt pretty invisible. A 25 year old in a class I was taking came onto me so blatantly 1 evening that I thought I was being punked but to my everlasting surprise, he meant it and I've been having a fun relationship with him ever since. It won't last forever, I'm not in love with him and I don't think he is with me, but there is genuine affection, great sex and astoundingly, we have a lot in common and many mutual interests. I feel like it might be my last fling and I'm enjoying every second of it. Getting older is difficult for everybody but growing older gay is especially tricky. The consolation is that it happens to EVERYone eventually.

[Diverdan]

Hey actor61... I doubt that this will be "your last fling"... a lot depends on your personality as well as if you are aging gracefully, and as you said, if you are fit, active, involved and vital, younger guys will recognize that you have something that they want and need. So keep it up in every way possible.... What you are doing will go a long way to keeping your mind, body and spirit going for many years to come.

[+ José Soplanucas]

The movie is now available in Amazon Prime. I just watched it and absolutely loved it.

[Rudynate]

That's very good to hear. Now that I'm middle-aged, I feel invisible, even though I work out every day and dress well and am told that I have a great personality. I need to get over this self-inflicted age thing.

 

My partner and some of our friends complain about the same thing- feeling invisible. Im not looking for much attention from younger men, so Im not even aware of whether they pay attention to me or not. I'm more excited by a foxy 50 yo whos into edgy sex.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I just would not say it is about gay gerontophilia. It is about gerontophilia even when the protagonists are two men.

[+ FreshFluff]

+1...So very well said. As I have aged, my life has evolved in so many other positive directions, especially the last few years, that my interests and concerns fall into different categories now. I'm less concerned about the effects of the aging process than I once was.

 

Not me. I'm as vain as ever.

[mike carey]

Not me. I'm as vain as ever.

But every cat in the twilight's grey, every possible cat.

[johnjohn]

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1815717/ this movie was on Netflix before, i have watched it, not sure of is still on tho

[+ othermanc]

I have found that (as a 72 year old client who loves twinks,) whatever initial misgivings the escorts I have been lucky enough to engage may have at first glance, disappear after a bit of sincere conversation and initial physical contact with me.

I've been pleased with the wonderful attitudes and BFE's I've received from so many young escorts you'd think they were taking classes on how to relate to older guys. The one's who wouldn't be into it are quickly screened out as I make my first attempts at communication which clearly states my age and what I'm looking for. No surprises on either of our part.

Now, I'm not delusional that these "kids" are potential partners for guys like me, but they sure "pull it off" like a scene in "Call Me By Your Name!"

Hey, thanks, you guys. Keep up the good work and I'll see you soon!

[+ Avalon]

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1815717/ this movie was on Netflix before, i have watched it, not sure of is still on tho

 

I have Netflix. I just checked and did not see it.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Are we still talking about Gerontophilia? It is not in Netflix. You need Amazon Prime.

In Amazon Prime you have to sign up for a 7 days free trial for a new service, HereTV.

I did it thinking of canceling the service after the free 7 days, but I hace changed my mine. They have a great catalogue of independent queer and gay productions. They hooked me.

[+ Avalon]

I'm not a computer person. For 20 years I had WebTV but when that ended I got a Chromebook. I have Hulu, CBS All Access and Netflix. I tried Amazon Prime free trial a couple of times but just didn't care for it.

 

I watch more tv shows online than I do on the tv set.

[+ oldNbusted]

Are we still talking about Gerontophilia? It is not in Netflix. You need Amazon Prime.

In Amazon Prime you have to sign up for a 7 days free trial for a new service, HereTV.

I did it thinking of canceling the service after the free 7 days, but I hace changed my mine. They have a great catalogue of independent queer and gay productions. They hooked me.

 

I have both and my opinion is Amazon overall has a better LGBTQ+ selection. I enjoyed this recently: amazon.com: Bwoy

[+ José Soplanucas]

https://ilikepinga.com/2020/04/14/gerontophilia/