Canyou tell whether someone is gay or straight from the way they fuck ?

[zeyfur]

In today's review of Abbas, the reviewer wrote that he knew the escort was straight as he" fucked differently " . I have never been able to tell the difference. Anyone has any technique to differentiate gay and straight men from the way they fuck ?

[Rick Munroe]

Anyone has any technique to differentiate gay and straight men from the way they fuck ?

 

When they reach down to tickle your clit, that's a big clue.

[jjkrkwood]

When they reach down to tickle your clit, that's a big clue.

 

I have tickled and licked many a "clit" in a butthole....

[+ Lucky]

When they reach down to tickle your clit, that's a big clue.

 

Very funny, Rick!

[LurkerSpeaks]

i was thinking that if he keeps saying "I see your butthole, but I can't find your vagina", that might be an indication as well.

[AdamSmith]

My favorite girl escort is a lesbian, and she and I seem to fuck each other pretty much as straight people would do. FWIW.

[mmk123]

I cannot tell whether they are gay or straight by how they fuck but I can tell by how they kiss. I always notice that when someone who used to be predominantly straight or still is and they kiss that they use their tongue is a "forceful" way (for lack of a better description).

[Kippy]

Yes, I believe there is a difference. It is often seen in porn with St8 or bi guys. The thrust is more like a rocking chair with quite angled thrust. My experience (and often seen in porn) is that gays' tops thrust is rather lifeless and in and out without the angled thrust...just sayin'.

 

Peace,

 

Kipp

[JT Brooklyn]

When they reach down to tickle your clit, that's a big clue.

 

I tend to agree on that move!

[Rick Munroe]

I always notice that when someone who used to be predominantly straight or still is and they kiss that they use their tongue in a "forceful" way

 

That's how I kiss! You mean I've been straight all this time and never knew it?

[Guest verymarried]

I was only with guys for 12 years then I was with only women for the next 12 years, now I am with both. The first times I started having sex with women, after years with gay guys, they could not believe the sex. To my total shock, though I wasn't even sure I could get hard for a woman, I began to have a reputation for delivering good sex to women. Women who were friends of other women I had sex with, used to call me up wanting to get together. I still do not know what it was. I am not that large and was only an average gay lover and still am. I always believed that whatever exists between two guys in bed is so far beyond what most straight guys deliver, that it translates to whatever women want. I'm clueless what it is, but I believe there is a difference and I'm grateful I learned whatever it was.

[MsGuy]

That's how I kiss! You mean I've been straight all this time and never knew it?

 

Maybe not but clearly you should add "straight acting" to your Men4rentnow ad.

[tom1980]

I cannot tell whether they are gay or straight by how they fuck but I can tell by how they kiss. I always notice that when someone who used to be predominantly straight or still is and they kiss that they use their tongue is a "forceful" way (for lack of a better description).

 

This is interesting. I've been told the opposite by a few escorts. One of them stepped back after kissing me and said, "You're married aren't you?" When I asked him why he assumed I was married, he told me it's because gay guys are more aggressive/forceful in their kissing than straight guys.

[jjkrkwood]

This is interesting. I've been told the opposite by a few escorts. One of them stepped back after kissing me and said, "You're married aren't you?" When I asked him why he assumed I was married, he told me it's because gay guys are more aggressive/forceful in their kissing than straight guys.

 

Its the old saying, you can suck my cock, but you cant KISS me.... Straight guys will find it acceptable to have SEX with men as long as they dont kiss.... Fuck, they are missing the BEST part of the encounter.

[Decatur Guy]

All the jokes aside, I think I can usually tell a difference, at least between a guy who is a total top vs. a versatile guy who is topping.

 

Generally speaking, versatile guys have a slower entry, wait longer to really start pounding and stroke differently in a way that's hard to describe. There are exceptions both ways. But generally speaking again, I feel like it's a different fuck from a total top vs. a versatile guy.

 

I'm deliberating avoiding the whole "Is a total top gay/bi/straight?" thing.

[jjkrkwood]

All the jokes aside, I think I can usually tell a difference, at least between a guy who is a total top vs. a versatile guy who is topping.

 

Generally speaking, versatile guys have a slower entry, wait longer to really start pounding and stroke differently in a way that's hard to describe. There are exceptions both ways. But generally speaking again, I feel like it's a different fuck from a total top vs. a versatile guy.

 

I'm deliberating avoiding the whole "Is a total top gay/bi/straight?" thing.

 

Oh cum on DG, you KNOW that no matter how hard one tries to avoid Controversy, some people LOVE to stir it up. Its out of your control.

[Bosguy]

I don't believe so. I spent time last night with a younger, married, "straight" guy who was absolutely unbelievable as a top and bottom. I think if a straight guy is experimenting, they will do the Avis thing--try harder!!

 

Boston Bill

[Rick Munroe]

Maybe not but clearly you should add "straight acting" to your Men4rentnow ad.

 

Bite your tongue (or else I'll just aggressively kiss it).

[MsGuy]

LOL, I knew "straight acting" would get a bite out of you.

[Rick Munroe]

LOL, I knew "straight acting" would get a bite out of you.

 

You know how to push my buttons, Ms Guy! LOL

[BostonPhil]

This thread is hilarious!

 

I don't know what it is, I can't quite stick my finger in it, there is definitely something that gives away the straight or married guys. I guess maybe it is just that I deal with so many different guys I can just feel it out quickly. Then again maybe it is the indention where the wedding ring use to be......................................................