Question about oral sex preference ...

[Decatur Guy]

When you're receiving oral, do you prefer to kind of lay back and let the guy sucking you control the pace, or do you prefer to dominate the guy and control the pace with face fucking, etc.?

 

And this is assuming the client has no stated preference and is good at and comfortable with either ...

 

(Nonescorts, please jump in with your answers but I'm particularly interested in what the escorts think)

[Kevin Slater]

Variety is good.

 

Kevin Slater

[Decatur Guy]

Variety is good.

 

Kevin Slater

 

Mr. Slater! Now that's no answer! LOL.

[jjkrkwood]

Well since I am totally ORAL, I feel qualified to respond from the clients viewpoint. When I hire, its primarily for SIZE, and my preference is to SERVICE the escort... I know my job and prefer working at my own pace, but I have realized that its selfish of me not to want the escort to get some enjoyment from the session EVENTHOUGH I am paying, so I would certainly allow him to drive the session at least part of the time... I am shallow and always enjoy when the escort tells me I am a Great cocksuker. Compliments dont come easy in life....

[zeyfur]

It depends on my mood. Sometimes I want to go at my own pace. Sometimes I want the escort to take control.

[Epigonos]

French kissing and sucking cock are my two favorite sexual activities. I most enjoy controlling the pace when I'm doing the cock sucking. I love to relish the cock I am servicing. Licking the shaft, running my tongue around the head and inserting the tip of my tongue into the slit sends me crazy. I derive great pleasure from deep throating a nice size cock but I DO NOT like being face fucked. I also love having my cock sucked and that is when I surrender ALL control to the guy doing the sucking.

[+ purplekow]

Well since I am totally ORAL, I feel qualified to respond from the clients viewpoint. When I hire, its primarily for SIZE, and my preference is to SERVICE the escort... I know my job and prefer working at my own pace, but I have realized that its selfish of me not to want the escort to get some enjoyment from the session EVENTHOUGH I am paying, so I would certainly allow him to drive the session at least part of the time... I am shallow and always enjoy when the escort tells me I am a Great cocksuker. Compliments dont come easy in life....

For some compliments come more readily than for others. I think that your realization that it is not all about you even when you are paying the freight has probably increased the frequency of those compliments.

[seeker630]

I have to confess to being a 'hands on' guy when I'm beign serviced - my hands on someone's head, pulling it closer/pushing it down. And I do like to face-fuck! BUT - I am always respectful of my partners. When I hire, I always ask beforehand if they deepthroat and mention that I like to face-fuck, at times. If they express dislike or reservations, then I may choose to move on to someone else, or to hire them anyway. Not deepthroating is usually a deal-breaker, but if they simply don't like being face-fucked, I'll usually hire anyway. And when I'm with someone, I'll stop whenever it's clear they don't like something. But that's one reason I almost never hire 'total' tops - most of them aren't comfortable letting someone else be the dominant/aggressive one even orally.

[Decatur Guy]

Thanks for all the replies so far. Hope to hear what some others have to say.

[Edward]

Any suggestions to escorts that have a nice cock and enjoy being serviced? And are also into deep kissing?

[jjkrkwood]

Any suggestions to escorts that have a nice cock and enjoy being serviced? And are also into deep kissing?

 

When you say "nice" cock, do you mean Size or appearance ????

[Edward]

Both does not have to be xx large

[bostonman]

Speaking as a non-escort (and an eager cocksucker, lol):

 

When I was younger, I tended not to like it when guys would control my head when I blew them. Nowadays, I find it can be exciting (and erotic) to feel a hand on my head - for me it's best when that hand is touching me affectionately as well as switching it up with some more insistent guiding/pushing, but it also depends on the chemistry and the mood - I remember a hookup I had this past summer with this college-age guy who was really having fun getting playfully tuff with me - even pulling my hair (which I don't like, but in the heat of the moment it was ok). But I think that the key was that he was being playful about it - if he had started acting like some hardcore leather-clad stern master type, I think i would have hated it, lol.

 

Also, due to a rather stubborn gag reflex, deepthroating and face fucking have always been tough for me. But I used to meet up with this guy who really enjoyed fucking my mouth, and he used to get real intense with it - fast, hard thrusts (I used to call what he did "jackhammering" lol) - I had to be in the right mood to want to take it, but I admit that I had fun with him - and he always told me that I was good at taking it, lol.

 

But really, I think Kevin had the right answer - variety. If a guy wants to lay back and let me go at it for a while, and switch that up with some hand-on-head play, and throw in some face fucking too - that's fun. The only thing I *hate* (and I'm sure many of us have been in this kind of situation - I even know someone who wrote a song about it, lol) is when a guy just lays there, doesn't really respond to anything, and just kinda expects me to do all the work. Giving a bj is no fun when you can't really tell if the other guy's enjoying it, lol.

[jjkrkwood]

. The only thing I *hate* (and I'm sure many of us have been in this kind of situation - I even know someone who wrote a song about it, lol) is when a guy just lays there, doesn't really respond to anything, and just kinda expects me to do all the work. Giving a bj is no fun when you can't really tell if the other guy's enjoying it, lol.

 

OH, I so totally agree. I must have at least a low moan, or an "oh baby yes" to really give it my All... But once I feel those balls pulsate, and his pucker hole tighten up, I know i am headed to home plate....

[Decatur Guy]

Shameless bump.

[nate_sf]

Shameless bump.

 

Nothing shameful about a bump!

 

Epigonos's description sounds pretty damn perfect. Given the choice, I like to be gone over slowly and with lots of variation. And don't forget the balls!

 

I also enjoy facefucking a guy if he's into it. You can usually tell right away if he likes it or not so pay attention to that. It creates a more dominant dynamic which can be hot, but again if it's my preference I like it slow.