Once, twice ?

[gcursor]

Let's say you see an escort and it went okay. Average okay. Do you try to get together with them again to see if it was just a fluke or do you give up? If you do get together with them again and once again it's okay then how many more times do you try?

gcursor

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

In my case, I think it depends on the location. When home in Columbus, I have hired a second time someone with an okay first experience due to the limited number of guys advertising in town.

 

However, if I was traveling to a major city with a larger menu of guys, I would try someone else the next time.

[seeker630]

In my case, I think it depends on the location. When home in Columbus, I have hired a second time someone with an okay first experience due to the limited number of guys advertising in town.

 

However, if I was traveling to a major city with a larger menu of guys, I would try someone else the next time.

 

I was about to say something very similar. I look for better than 'okay', so if there were any more promising guys available, I'd try them. Of late, if the experience is merely 'ok', I regret spending the money.

[Decatur Guy]

Unless there's something I can specifically point to that could be changed, if the experience is just OK, I don't go back for seconds. I've had too many goods and greats for that.

[+ Shoreboy]

With money being tight and if the experience was just "okay" there is no way I would go back for round #2

[Michael Wayne]

AS AN ESCORT MY FIRST ENCOUNTER WITH A CLIENT SHOULD BE AMAZING. I really try to dazzle them and spend some extra time with them so they will come back for more

[+ Charlie]

I have never rehired anyone unless the first experience was set-my-hair-on-fire outstanding. Unfortunately, even then, the second time is usually a letdown. I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of escorts I've hired more than twice.

[Bosguy]

I, fortunately, have never experienced an "average" first time together. Vast majority have been repeats (or will be) because we mutually agree not to go the full way, but leave things for future dates. It works for us, cause we look forward to the next time being the first time without the pressure.

 

Boston Bill

[leigh.bess.toad]

I guess it would depend on the circumstances. Was there still a personal connection? What was it about it that wasn't great? On the whole, assuming it wasn't truly bad (which has never happened), I might give it a second shot just to see -- but only for a short appointment.

[doitb4ugo]

I, fortunately, have never experienced an "average" first time together. Vast majority have been repeats (or will be) because we mutually agree not to go the full way, but leave things for future dates. It works for us, cause we look forward to the next time being the first time without the pressure.

 

Boston Bill

 

I work the same way usually. I treat my first session as a first date and usually go pretty vanilla, sometimes no anal. I discuss what I am into during th first session and then based on this discussion I decide to arrange a second or not....This is almost a necessity with BDSM activities...I would be leary of most of these activities before I got to know a bit about the guy and felt comfortable....It takes a modicum (I used the word because it has cum in it..and I wish I did) of trust to let someone tie you up and blindfold you...you are somewhat vulnerable at this stage.....also many guys just don;t want to play wild....

 

For travelling escorts I make exceptions because I may see them again but not frequently enough to use the first date as a prelude...

 

I have had good luck to this point....

[gcursor]

fire!

 

I am sorry Charlie but I feel compelled to now ask the question, "Which hair do they set on fire?"

gcursor

I have never rehired anyone unless the first experience was set-my-hair-on-fire outstanding. Unfortunately, even then, the second time is usually a letdown. I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of escorts I've hired more than twice.

[+ Charlie]

I am sorry Charlie but I feel compelled to now ask the question, "Which hair do they set on fire?"

gcursor

The one in my left nostril.

[raife]

I'll only rehire if the first session is both outstanding and reasonably priced, he's companionable both in and out of bed, and I get a sense that he's enthused to go again. My first sessions tend to balls-to-the-wall fuck-a-thons "let's see what this guy's got", and I get to see if they're comfortable with my crazy fetish and can roleplay. It's fun to take advantage of all that newness and set the bar up high. Kind of like an audition... Luckily I live in LA so they're used to those here.

 

By the end I'll have a pretty good idea if there's a potential for an ongoing relationship. Most of my sessions are repeats, I prefer to see guys I've already certified as awesome, so my track record is good. I hire at least every two weeks and I try to work in a new guy every month or two, but I currently have 3 regulars so it can be a challenge.

[Epigonos]

I NEVER hire an escort the second time if my first experience with him wasn't sensational. I'm not always able, for various reasons, to rehire escorts with whom I've had a great experience so why should I rehire a guy when the first time wasn't great. Makes no sense to me to do so.

[buzz]

once, twice...and more

 

For a long time, I would only hire a guy once and then move on to someone else, but in the past few years I have met a number of guys who were sensational on the first encounter. So I started doing repeats with them, and I have discovered to my great joy that as we get to know each other, the experiences get better and better. I am a total bottom into seriously kinky sex and a couple of these guys, whom I now see regularly, are helping to get deeper and deeper into really delicious and depraved action. They are taking me to places that I never even dreamed about!

[Toulouse]

I've hired a couple of local guys multiple times because they were super attractive, had great personalities and I thoroughly enjoyed their company and/or because they gave very good body-rubs, even though our sex together was just ok. For me, hiring is not always about having "know-your-socks-off" sex, of course it's wonderful when the sex is outstanding too!

[+ Gar1eth]

I don't understand not going all the way with a guy. I've hired them because I was attracted to them and have wanted sex. On the other hand, it's not necessary for me to understand. If other people find happiness that way, then more power to them. As Brooklyn Guy always says, "Different strokes for different folks". I would say I've re-hired a few guys where the 1st meeting was only mediocre. I think--because it hasn't happened lately-that sometimes I've confirmed that it just is going to remain mediocre--and sometimes--because the awkwardness accompanying meeting someone new is gone, its been a lot better. And I have never lived in some place like LA, SF, Chicago, NYC, or Boston where there are usually lots of listings, so you could experience more guys. But even if I did--if I've had a good time with a guy, then I would repeat with him if possible. I like familiarity as much as I like the excitement of trying someone new. Especially now, when the fees have gone up so much, in many cases I prefer going with someone I know I'll have a good time with versus the possibility of a lousy time with an unknown guy.

 

Gman