Training yourself to take a long dick

[Bosguy]

Lee, I have to admonish you - there are young, inexperienced people on this board who are looking for information of an educational nature on how to take a big one. What you have posted is certainly not in the realm of a beginner's manual shot. That is for the second semester, I believe. I think I may be ready for the advanced, honors level course myself, which this picture would most definitely be a part of. I like the way your mind works; we should probably study and prepare for the exam together.

 

Come to think of it - Rich, the same criticism could be leveled against your picture. There are young and impressionable minds here that are thirsting for knowledge. I suspect that your picture might fall into the realm of "near the end of first semester" material. But I also like the way you're thinking!

 

PM I think you are getting the wrong impression of Lee and Rich--they are shy, modest gentlemen with pure minds. The wonderful images they presented were simply male dancers practicing their stretching routines for their dance program to be performed for those in need. Believe that BS and I'll introduce you to Santa and the Tooth Fairy. We should all get together to practice these positions, but we better make sure there's an orthopedic physician nearby.

 

Bill K.

[Phil_musc]

Somehow I think Lee's posted pic has more to do with animalistic fertility practices as depicted in Rite of Spring than stretching. But I do realize that stretching is also important and boy, that guy in the middle sure can stretch. I want to meet him - will he be a guest lecturer? Wait, no: I don't want to meet him; I want to BE him.

[Juan Vancouver]

Long, technical post. Reader patience advised.

 

As it's often the case, I would like to share an entirely different opinion to what has been said so far.

 

Your anus, rectum and colon are incredibly malleable organs but they are also very frail and highly susceptible to being hurt.

 

Finding a hot, experienced escort to do it for you is not only an inefficient solution but it could prove to be a dangerous one. Even if he has a really long dick and has a lot of experience fucking other guys with his dick, that will only give him information about the asses that he has fucked before; this means that he has absolutely no idea of what is happening inside you and how things feel in your body. Only you know this.

 

To make things worse, since in the past he has been able to fuck many men before, he may think you are just being a bit uptight and he may feel tempted to push your limits a little thinking he is doing you a favour. (It is part of our work to push your limits a little within reason.) At best this can prove to be painful and difficult, at worse you may end up having to visit your proctologist.

 

Not all asses were created equal.

 

No amount of positions or talented tops will change this fact.

 

I believe that hiring an escort to learn about your body and build your self-confidence is an invaluable aid. It makes your life better and helps you grow and be empowered. It prepares you to go into your personal life -knowing- about yourself and having full control and mastership upon your body. On the other hand, hiring escorts to relinquish all control and let their expertise do everything will only make you dependant on them, and no sex outside of a hiring situation will ever be pleasurable again. It is important to learn about your body and be the one that is benefiting from his experience but building your own.

 

The third anal sphincter -or inner sphincter to avoid unnecessary technical discussions, is actually quite close to the anus when the rectum is empty and free of faeces. When an object passes the exterior voluntary sphincter the rectum expands to accommodate the object to a certain degree. This ability to expand comes from its very function of housing the excretions before they are released. This elasticity, however has its limits and when they are reached, a sphincter has to open to release whatever is in it. When we are talking about insertion rather than excretion, it is the inner sphincter the one that has to open. Some inner sphincters have to open after four inches, some can take even nine without being disturbed.

 

This sounds very straightforward but there is a trick to this: every body is different and since our inner organs have to fight for space inside us, every rectum is folding in a slightly different and personal way in each of us. Depending on our weight, the amount of exercise we do, the state of our digestive system's health, our congenital predisposition.

 

In some of us the inner sphincter is perfectly aligned with the outer sphincter and in that case penetration with something very large is very easy; once the capacity for the first fold is reached, the second one opens and you can continue as deep as you want. (You may have seen men taking entire arms up to the elbow.)

 

In most, however, the inner sphincter, pushed away by the particular disposition of the rectum may hide in different angles. Sometimes it is to one side, sometimes it is towards the side of the prostrate, sometimes it hides against the other direction. In such cases, as I suspect may be yours, once you reach the limit to which your first fold expands, the intruder will find nothing but a wall that cannot be poked. Trying to poke harder may result not only in pain but it could result in some damage. For some men whose inner sphincter may not be hidden too far, changing the position of insertion will help expose the sphincter, but in some cases this will do absolutely nothing.

 

My recommendation is this: Go to your nearest sex shop and buy a long dildo. I am talking at least ten inches. Don't be greedy and make sure it is thin, perhaps three of maximum four inches around; this is a training aid, not a husband. Also get yourself a StreemMaster douche. It will become your favourite belonging. Also lots of fine, thick lube. If you are serious about this get a tub of fisting lube but be careful not to use it when you are also getting fucked; most fisting lubes are oil based and would make condoms break.

 

As often as you can, when you are alone at home and have at least forty minutes to spare, douche carefully and wait a little to make sure the water absorbs or gets excreted. Lay on a couple towels and put on some porn. Nothing too distracting, just enough to get you in the mood. Play with your ass with your fingers using a lot of lube. Once you feel relaxed and open start inserting your dildo VERY slowly, making sure you take it out every now and then to lube it up. Regardless of the quality of the dildo, I suggest you use a condom on it. It may get micro-tears because of the oil based lube but you won't get any disease from the dildo if you don't share it.

 

At some point you will reach the expansion limit, which will feel like hitting a wall. This is the point in which you experience pain from big dicks. Slowly take the dildo out and put a lot more lube inside and insert the dildo again. This time, however, imagine that you are very gently massaging the wall of your first fold. Move the dildo slowly in all directions; while still inside, pull the dildo closer to your belly button, then all the way down, then to the right, then to the left, all in slow, gentle, well lubricated movements. At worse, this will prove to be incredibly pleasurable and sensual, at best you will hit a place inside that has a little texture and a LOT of heightened sensations. BINGO! This is your inner sphincter. Very slowly play around this area without poking, just massaging. This muscle although mainly involuntary, responds well to indirect relaxation. If you breathe deeply and relax all your voluntary muscles, it will open as a reflex. If you hold your breath and tense your voluntary muscles it will close like a vice. This is an incredibly stubborn and strong muscle, so you have to lure it, distract it, make love to it, never rape it.

 

With enough patience, lube and relaxation, the dildo will go inside, creating an incredible pleasure, but as I said, you are just training, so this is not the goal, just an added bonus. If you are jerking off, it is likely you will have an orgasm; it is very hard to say no to such pleasure. What you should do is remember the angle in which the dildo was when you entered the inner sphincter. Next day, or after a couple days (don't leave a long time in between), repeat the whole procedure, replicate the angle and go inside. Do it as often as you can and you will notice little by little that the repeated practice will gradually but distinctly correct the misalignment and soon enough you will be able to take not only enormous dicks, but arms, if you were so inclined.

 

Word of caution, though: the inner sphincter is your body's way of controlling the pace with which the faeces are secreted. In other words, the inner sphincter is the last gate that fills the last poo purse before it is released. If you douche and have cleaned your first fold, it is likely that if you enter your inner sphincter you may find more stuff there. With practice, you will be able to douche with very little water pressure and relax to a point so that the water enters the second sphincter and cleanses higher up the rectum. This kind of douching sometimes takes longer but keeps you clean for a long time and prepares you for deep penetration.

 

Only then, when you are in perfect control of your body, when you have correctly aligned your sphincters, when you are practiced at cleaning, opening, relaxing and understanding your ass I would recommend you to try the ministrations of a talented hugely endowed top. Only then you will be able to fully benefit from his talents and endowments while at the same time making sure that you are being mindful and respectful of your body. Then, you will be able to show up ready to meet any hugely endowed top, talented escort and rough ruffian alike, and you will be safe, ecstatic and in control.

 

Sometimes correcting an extreme misalignment may take a lot of work, but believe me, it is incredibly delicious work that you may become addicted to.

 

Sorry for being so detailed and serious, but I take fun, safety and pleasure extremely seriously.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Lee, I have to admonish you - there are young, inexperienced people on this board who are looking for information of an educational nature on how to take a big one. What you have posted is certainly not in the realm of a beginner's manual shot. That is for the second semester, I believe. I think I may be ready for the advanced, honors level course myself, which this picture would most definitely be a part of. I like the way your mind works; we should probably study and prepare for the exam together.

 

PM -- I think you have misconstrued what I was attempting to illustrate. I was simply attempting to illustrate a position I have found easier to accomodate larger dicks than simply laying flat on your back or on your stomach. The original pic of the swimmers stretching by my brother Rich was not quite on the side enough, at least in my experience. I was not quickly able to come up with only a twosome to illustrate my point. When you look at as many pictures as I do in a day preparing the galleries, the web photo blogs can tend to blur together and it can be difficult to remember where you might find something completely appropriate for the question at hand. I would certainly not recommend the 3 some for beginners in that scenario: the bottom should probably be devoting his attention to lilstening to his body and making any slight adjustments or communicating with his top if it is working and especially if it is not. Which is hard to do when your mouth is full of dick.

 

But I'm always up for a group practicum (now there's an appropraite name if ever there was one).

[leigh.bess.toad]

Juan -- I want to thank you for this wonderfully insightful, yet thoroughly practical post. You have hit on many things I have learned and experienced myself. The main point you make about practicing with an appropriate dildo does coincide with what another very experienced escort has told me. He says that he can tell when he is topping someone for the first time if someone has practiced and learned on their own.

 

But maybe just as important are your comments on one of the main reason I have hired and continue to hire escorts: to learn. To make me a better and more successful partner in my real life. To slowly and gently push my limits, knowing that somethings I try I will like and some I won't. I do and will have better control of my body after my experiences with my escorts. And it has certainly vastly improved my self confidence. I have said since my early days here on the forum that I view my escorts as teachers, mentors, guides. I am not one to hire simply to get my carnal needs satiated. Sure that's fun and part of it. But there is so much more that I want to get out of each experience.

 

Your post is full of valuable, practical tips that I think even the more experienced bottoms can learn from. And for that I cannot thank you enough for your contribution to this thread.

 

Now when can we get you to come east to help us learn even more?

[chelseanyc]

I'm the original poster and wanted to thank everyone for their posts. It was great to hear how others have dealt with the issue and I've learned a lot from people's comments.

 

I have to admit that I've not been very adventurous regarding positions. Part of it is that the times I've bottomed in the popular "doggie" or "standing, bent over" positions, it's usually be pretty uncomfortable for me. Meanwhile I get such intense pleasure from the missionary position (partly from the added stimulation of the taint and balls) that when I'm paying, we usually end up in that position sooner rather than later. Based on the comments, it would behoove me to talk to the escort (someone who is very client-oriented) and be open to experimenting with positions, particularly the side-by-side one others have recommended.

 

Sitting on a dick is second only to missionary in terms of pleasure, but the position feels too much like I'm taking a dump. Though I douche and have never had an accident, I have had "leakage" on one occasion and I always feel like I'm on the verge of an accident, and that hinders my pleasure.

 

Special thanks to Juan Vancouver for such a beautifully written tutorial. The detail, clarity and thoughtfulness with which it was written was sexy in itself, and I'm jealous that I don't live near Vancouver to experience Juan's ministrations personally.

 

Now, a quick update. A few days prior to posting, I ordered this anal probe. It is about an inch longer than I can normally accommodate so I thought it would a safe "first step". Though I hadn't seen Juan's posting, I think I ended up doing some of his initial recommendations, and lo and behold, I could feel the tip of the probe passing through the inner sphincter. It was a fairly subtle sensation in a very quiet, relaxed setting, so I will have to train myself to feel this when there's another person involved. I'm going to take Juan's suggestion and get a longer dildo (not curved like the probe I just got) so I can carefully practice and train myself some more. Only after extended practice will I talk to a sympathetic escort and explore this with him.

 

Thanks again, everyone. Keep the comments coming!

[RexAll]

2 Titles--OUCHHH!!! and COLOR MY WORLD!!!!

 

I also remember when my doctor gave me a prostate digital exam as a part of my physical, he really found the spot. It was a sensation like I have seldom experienced. I thought of signing up for more physicals - one should never take good health for granted, I believe. Alas, he has retired and moved onto the examination room in the sky. But I wish more guys were as adept as he was. The prostate needs stimulation, not obliteration.

 

I've had a problem with recurrent prostatitis since I was 28--thank G-d the flare ups have been less over the years--but ejaculating too much or physician exams can bring on an episode. I was having a minor flare 2 months and it was also time for my yearly urologist visit. Well that just "fanned the flames" so to speak. I experienced pelvic soreness on and off for at least 2 months--once or twice pain of at least a 7 or 8 on a scale of 10, and it only now seems to be subsiding. In the mean time--I've been on a urinary analgesic called Prosed DS which is only partially effective. However a bright spot--one of the components of Prosed is Methylene Blue. It's a dye not broken down by your body-so my pee is the color of Scope (green)--depending on the batch of Prosed sometimes the dye is stronger, and I pee urine that looks like Ty-D-Bol. So even though I'm in pain, the medication brings a bit of color into my life.

 

http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:j3LplDTxUMkD3M:http://www.flatrock.org.nz/topics/flying/assets/toilet.jpg

 

Rex

[Tighty]

As it's often the case, I would like to share an entirely different opinion to what has been said so far.

 

Your anus, rectum and colon are incredibly malleable organs but they are also very frail and highly susceptible to being hurt.

 

Finding a hot, experienced escort to do it for you is not only an inefficient solution but it could prove to be a dangerous one. Even if he has a really long dick and has a lot of experience fucking other guys with his dick, that will only give him information about the asses that he has fucked before; this means that he has absolutely no idea of what is happening inside you and how things feel in your body. Only you know this.

 

To make things worse, since in the past he has been able to fuck many men before, he may think you are just being a bit uptight and he may feel tempted to push your limits a little thinking he is doing you a favour. (It is part of our work to push your limits a little within reason.) At best this can prove to be painful and difficult, at worse you may end up having to visit your proctologist.

 

Not all asses were created equal.

 

No amount of positions or talented tops will change this fact.

 

I believe that hiring an escort to learn about your body and build your self-confidence is an invaluable aid. It makes your life better and helps you grow and be empowered. It prepares you to go into your personal life -knowing- about yourself and having full control and mastership upon your body. On the other hand, hiring escorts to relinquish all control and let their expertise do everything will only make you dependant on them, and no sex outside of a hiring situation will ever be pleasurable again. It is important to learn about your body and be the one that is benefiting from his experience but building your own.

 

The third anal sphincter -or inner sphincter to avoid unnecessary technical discussions, is actually quite close to the anus when the rectum is empty and free of faeces. When an object passes the exterior voluntary sphincter the rectum expands to accommodate the object to a certain degree. This ability to expand comes from its very function of housing the excretions before they are released. This elasticity, however has its limits and when they are reached, a sphincter has to open to release whatever is in it. When we are talking about insertion rather than excretion, it is the inner sphincter the one that has to open. Some inner sphincters have to open after four inches, some can take even nine without being disturbed.

 

This sounds very straightforward but there is a trick to this: every body is different and since our inner organs have to fight for space inside us, every rectum is folding in a slightly different and personal way in each of us. Depending on our weight, the amount of exercise we do, the state of our digestive system's health, our congenital predisposition.

 

In some of us the inner sphincter is perfectly aligned with the outer sphincter and in that case penetration with something very large is very easy; once the capacity for the first fold is reached, the second one opens and you can continue as deep as you want. (You may have seen men taking entire arms up to the elbow.)

 

In most, however, the inner sphincter, pushed away by the particular disposition of the rectum may hide in different angles. Sometimes it is to one side, sometimes it is towards the side of the prostrate, sometimes it hides against the other direction. In such cases, as I suspect may be yours, once you reach the limit to which your first fold expands, the intruder will find nothing but a wall that cannot be poked. Trying to poke harder may result not only in pain but it could result in some damage. For some men whose inner sphincter may not be hidden too far, changing the position of insertion will help expose the sphincter, but in some cases this will do absolutely nothing.

 

My recommendation is this: Go to your nearest sex shop and buy a long dildo. I am talking at least ten inches. Don't be greedy and make sure it is thin, perhaps three of maximum four inches around; this is a training aid, not a husband. Also get yourself a StreemMaster douche. It will become your favourite belonging. Also lots of fine, thick lube. If you are serious about this get a tub of fisting lube but be careful not to use it when you are also getting fucked; most fisting lubes are oil based and would make condoms break.

 

As often as you can, when you are alone at home and have at least forty minutes to spare, douche carefully and wait a little to make sure the water absorbs or gets excreted. Lay on a couple towels and put on some porn. Nothing too distracting, just enough to get you in the mood. Play with your ass with your fingers using a lot of lube. Once you feel relaxed and open start inserting your dildo VERY slowly, making sure you take it out every now and then to lube it up. Regardless of the quality of the dildo, I suggest you use a condom on it. It may get micro-tears because of the oil based lube but you won't get any disease from the dildo if you don't share it.

 

At some point you will reach the expansion limit, which will feel like hitting a wall. This is the point in which you experience pain from big dicks. Slowly take the dildo out and put a lot more lube inside and insert the dildo again. This time, however, imagine that you are very gently massaging the wall of your first fold. Move the dildo slowly in all directions; while still inside, pull the dildo closer to your belly button, then all the way down, then to the right, then to the left, all in slow, gentle, well lubricated movements. At worse, this will prove to be incredibly pleasurable and sensual, at best you will hit a place inside that has a little texture and a LOT of heightened sensations. BINGO! This is your inner sphincter. Very slowly play around this area without poking, just massaging. This muscle although mainly involuntary, responds well to indirect relaxation. If you breathe deeply and relax all your voluntary muscles, it will open as a reflex. If you hold your breath and tense your voluntary muscles it will close like a vice. This is an incredibly stubborn and strong muscle, so you have to lure it, distract it, make love to it, never rape it.

 

With enough patience, lube and relaxation, the dildo will go inside, creating an incredible pleasure, but as I said, you are just training, so this is not the goal, just an added bonus. If you are jerking off, it is likely you will have an orgasm; it is very hard to say no to such pleasure. What you should do is remember the angle in which the dildo was when you entered the inner sphincter. Next day, or after a couple days (don't leave a long time in between), repeat the whole procedure, replicate the angle and go inside. Do it as often as you can and you will notice little by little that the repeated practice will gradually but distinctly correct the misalignment and soon enough you will be able to take not only enormous dicks, but arms, if you were so inclined.

 

Word of caution, though: the inner sphincter is your body's way of controlling the pace with which the faeces are secreted. In other words, the inner sphincter is the last gate that fills the last poo purse before it is released. If you douche and have cleaned your first fold, it is likely that if you enter your inner sphincter you may find more stuff there. With practice, you will be able to douche with very little water pressure and relax to a point so that the water enters the second sphincter and cleanses higher up the rectum. This kind of douching sometimes takes longer but keeps you clean for a long time and prepares you for deep penetration.

 

Only then, when you are in perfect control of your body, when you have correctly aligned your sphincters, when you are practiced at cleaning, opening, relaxing and understanding your ass I would recommend you to try the ministrations of a talented hugely endowed top. Only then you will be able to fully benefit from his talents and endowments while at the same time making sure that you are being mindful and respectful of your body. Then, you will be able to show up ready to meet any hugely endowed top, talented escort and rough ruffian alike, and you will be safe, ecstatic and in control.

 

Sometimes correcting an extreme misalignment may take a lot of work, but believe me, it is incredibly delicious work that you may become addicted to.

 

Sorry for being so detailed and serious, but I take fun, safety and pleasure extremely seriously.

 

We need a tutorial section!

[SeattleWorkingMan]

My recommendation is this: Go to your nearest sex shop and buy a long dildo. I am talking at least ten inches. Don't be greedy and make sure it is thin, perhaps three of maximum four inches around;

 

Juan, Would you advice the practice dildo to be firm or flexible? I typically use a very flexible dildo ( I explained my process in the thread: using a dildo before escort session), which seems to find my inner ring on its own. What advantages do you see for a firm dildo? Thank you!

 

I really appreciate your advice to explore gently and take the time to touch and massage the inner ring.

[Juan Vancouver]

Juan, Would you advice the practice dildo to be firm or flexible? I typically use a very flexible dildo.

 

Hey man, thanks for your nice words. Really appreciate them.

 

For the purpose of training yourself to bottom and becoming comfortable with deep penetration through the inner sphincter, I would definitely recommend a flexible dildo, flexible enough to give a little and feel comfortable, but not flabby and hyper foldable to avoid the risk of having it breaking inside of you. Especially if you are trying to align your sphincters, you may have to put the dildo through certain pressure, so it's best if it doesn't fall apart.

 

As for dildos for fun, I think it's entirely a matter of preference. Some like them hard and ribbed, some soft and smooth. Whatever tickles your fancy.

 

It's weird. I have absolutely no recollection of having written that long detailed post. Clearly I used to have a lot of free time! =)

[+ Gar1eth]

I saw the title of this thread and read the first post. As I read the first post in this thread, the thought of bottoming for any tallywacker but especially the longer ones, as well as the mention of the two or three sphincters, made my stomach drop with a queasy type of feeling. I think I must be a definite top. And even if some day I can never top again as I can definitely envision happening as it gets more difficult to get an erection the older I get, I still don't think I could ever be a bottom.

 

Gman

[gallahadesquire]

This indeed good information, thanks for sharing. One of the techniques the article BC provided, explains exactly how I handle my favorite escort. He has about 8" and is very thick. My favorite position to get fucked is laying on my stomach, but I can't take him like this very long. But, when I lay on my side, with him holding my leg up is perfect. The sensation is out of this world, and he can delivery the best fuck ever. Hope this helps.

 

ST

 

AHA! EXACTLY the position that gastroenterologists use for colonoscopies. I think it's a conspiracy: you're sedated so as NOT to enjoy it, lest they engender more gay sexual desires.

 

Of course, anyone who plays with someone else's guts is a little strange to begin with …

[+ Gar1eth]

AHA! EXACTLY the position that gastroenterologists use for colonoscopies. I think it's a conspiracy: you're sedated so as NOT to enjoy it, lest they engender more gay sexual desires.

 

Of course, anyone who plays with someone else's guts is a little strange to begin with …

 

 

That would be the only way I could bottom- deeply anesthetized. When it comes time for my regular urology exam, I almost need a *Valium before I can force myself to go. And I tell my gp not to do one because I'll be getting one at the urologist.

 

Gman

 

*If I can't get Valium, thinking of England gets me through the exam.

[SeattleWorkingMan]

Juan, Thanks for the confirmation that a flexible (but not foldable or breakable) is best for exploring my inner anatomy and the sensations of touch and penetration there. Of course, the details, “at least 10 inches (mine is just 9) & narrow” give me an excuse for one more toy. But most of all, thanks for the increased confidence I’ll have when fucked by a well-endowed partner.

 

Gman, I respect that you are a satisfied top and endured your queasiness reading this post. You mentioned a concern about getting older – having seen many indignities of growing very old, I hope we all have the depth of character to age gracefully.

[thickornotatall]

One of the best things about hiring escorts is that many have large dicks. One of the worst things about hiring escorts is...many have large dicks.

 

I'm not sure if I'm unusual about this (it's taken a long time to get the nerve to post this question) but I have trouble taking a dick that's longer than about 7.5". Anything longer than that hits a barrier that feels pretty uncomfortable. I've tried researching this online and can't seem to find much about this barrier, although I found this great explanation about this "second" (or "third", depending on how you count) sphincter:

 

Puborectalis or pubo-rectal sling explanation

 

I would love to hire Rafael Alencar or Diesel Washington, but would have a hard time accommodating their length. Of course, I could ask a long-dicked escort to not go all the way in, but one of my favorite things about getting fucked is the sensation of the top's groin slamming into mine, so going only 1/2 a dick deep wouldn't be as satisfying.

 

So my question is: how are you able to take a long (8", 9" or longer) dick? Are there (safe) things you've been able to do to train yourself? Any particular anal toys that can help?

 

Also, since the barrier separates the rectum from the colon, is there a danger of poop entering the picture? (I eat pretty healthy with fiber, but always douche when I'm getting together with an escort).

 

Any suggestions and advice are greatly appreciated. I've tried looking up this question in these forums but haven't found anything - if I'm mistaken, please point me in the right direction!

I have always been interested in XXL cock....since day one when I came out (12 years old)...I have had 3 LTR over the years..and all have been 9+ wonderful inches...Taking that size is more of an art..not a science...If you have a deep affection...chemistry.. it makes it much easier to take the cock....I find that the thickest cocks are much easier to take...no poking and pinching....You don't need to hit bottom....just slide on the sides....

The owner of the cock must also know how to fuck...it should be a slow and deliberate entrance...He needs to feel muscle grab hold and pull him in...Plunging in roughly will cause the muscles to contract..grab hold and evict the cock....

I need to be kissed and whispered in my ear to start...that relaxes me...

On my knees doggy style or sitting on top facing with full control is my choice...sitting on top also allows lots of kissing...a real relaxer...I always try to climax at the same time...nothing worse than finishing first and still have him inside..banging away...

Good luck and bon voyage....

[Bob]

Gman, someday in the distant future I hope you can get over your revulsion about getting fucked. I was you for about the first 60 years of life. I loved my life as a top and never ever imagined I could bottom. But about the time when erections began to fail I met a top who changed my thinking entirely and introduced me to the joy of a penis in my anus. Since then I have become quite a size queen and can now handle anything coming my way and have enjoyed the company of a few escorts renowned for their blue ribbon cocks. The bigger the better. My secret is to relax. Totally. It starts in the brain.

[Rudynate]

Easily, the biggest one I ever took was when I lived in Europe around age 19. I was pretty inexperienced, only having had a few experiences with men. I met a German guy in a bar, named Horst (I'm not making this up). I was really attracted to him - he was quite a bit older - maybe early 30s, a classic blue-eyed blond and he had one of those blocky, powerful builds. We got to his place, got the clothes of and he was enormous, easily lived up to his name. He wanted to fuck me - dry. Being as inexperienced as I was, I didn't know that you could just say "no" to something like that, and went ahead and let him. I suffered through getting fucked not once but twice. I must have made an impression because he proposed marriage on the spot. Even though I thought he was impossibly hot, I couldn't imagine dealing with getting fucked like that every day and so I told him I would have to think it over. He drove me home. The next morning, my drawers had bloody streaks in them and my hole was really sore, but I sort of liked the feeling. I kept squeezing my hole and thinking about Horst inside of me.

[Rudynate]

2 Titles--OUCHHH!!! and COLOR MY WORLD!!!!

 

but ejaculating too much or physician exams can bring on an episode.

 

I have also had a lifelong problem with prostatitis. I have noticed that excessive masturbation can bring on symptoms, but sex with another rarely provokes symptoms. I have no explanation for this, it's just what I have noticed.

[Juan Vancouver]

nothing worse than finishing first and still have him inside..banging away...

 

If he gives me ten seconds to recover after I cum without taking his dick out and slowly starts fucking me again, there's no sensation in the world quite as pleasurable as that.

[Racketjock]

I've just added to my bucket list to visit Vancouver and hopefully have the pleasure of some time and tutorial with Juan Bruno.

[mike carey]

I've just added to my bucket list to visit Vancouver and hopefully have the pleasure of some time and tutorial with Juan Bruno.

Juan was already on my bucket list but not my 'this is likely to happen' list! Maybe it will happen, maybe not, I can deal with the possibility that my dreams are unattainable!

[Rudynate]

Juan was already on my bucket list but not my 'this is likely to happen' list! Maybe it will happen, maybe not, I can deal with the possibility that my dreams are unattainable!

 

 

He really is an immensely appealing man.

[mike carey]

He really is an immensely appealing man.

He is, hot and potentially unattainable. He speaks such sense when he comments, unlike so many others.

[Rudynate]

He is, hot and potentially unattainable. He speaks such sense when he comments, unlike so many others.

 

I haven't travelled internationally in a while and I let my passport expire. Since shortly after 9/11, we have needed a passport even to travel to Canada or Mexico. Every time I think that I could pop up to Vancouver for a visit, I remember the passport and think, "Dammit. Foiled again. "

[mike carey]

I haven't travelled internationally in a while and I let my passport expire. Since shortly after 9/11, we have needed a passport even to travel to Canada or Mexico. Every time I think that I could pop up to Vancouver for a visit, I remember the passport and think, "Dammit. Foiled again. "

Juan is as good a reason I can think of to have a passport and use it. I have just printed out the renewal forms for my passport (not just for Juan but because I need it). Juan, I'm not stalking you, I just like the personality you project. Oh, I should just shut up!!