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Yes. Cleaning silicone lube stains is a bitch. On some materials it's almost impossible. That is why I always keep special linens to be used with it and when I am giving or receiving a massage I put a large towel under it. I have found that towels don't get stained by silicone as flatter materials would.

 

Silicone lube is perfectly suited for a real, professional massage. You don't need to use a lot. A little bit goes a long way and it doesn't dry up. Before moving to the next body part, if you want to prevent further staining, you can wipe the remains with a wash cloth . . .

 

Juan, do you know of any detergent, etc. that work well to get out silicone stains? What I have been doing is to use silicone when pleasuring myself in a controlled environment and then breaking out the old fashioned KY when entertaining a buddy. But I would love to just have one big container of silicone that could find its place on a side table in my bedroom (or wherever) and then just launder everything I need to. Thanks.

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Silicone lube is soluble in pure alcohol. I use 99% isopropyl alcohol, which I buy at the grocery store. Look in first aid. Sometimes it's called rubbing alcohol. The most common solution is only 70% alcohol. That won't work. You need the 99% solution.

 

The sheet must be dry. Spread it on the floor in the shower or bath, pour the alcohol directly on the stain. Squeeze the alcohol through the stain. Repeat. Then launder in hot detergent.

 

This has been discussed in the forum before, and someone pointed out that some fabrics might be damaged by soaking in alcohol. I haven't noticed any problems with my cotton sheets.

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Silicone lube is soluble in pure alcohol. I use 99% isopropyl alcohol, which I buy at the grocery store. Look in first aid. Sometimes it's called rubbing alcohol. The most common solution is only 70% alcohol. That won't work. You need the 99% solution.

 

The sheet must be dry. Spread it on the floor in the shower or bath, pour the alcohol directly on the stain. Squeeze the alcohol through the stain. Repeat. Then launder in hot detergent.

 

This has been discussed in the forum before, and someone pointed out that some fabrics might be damaged by soaking in alcohol. I haven't noticed any problems with my cotton sheets.

 

Sorry, VHC, I hadn't seen the previous thread. Thanks for the info.

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Interesting that I just had this discussion with a local Atlanta guy I know. He is goodlooking, nice bod, younger man, fun and friendly, and really well hung. He told me that hook-ups are often difficult and unsatisfying because other guys like to admire, marvel, handle, and suck (gag on) his cock, but will not bottom for him, and since he's not a bottom, he admitted that having a big dick has been a barrier to a fulfilling sex life. To look so good and to be so cursed.....what a shame! ;)

 

You don't even know how much of this is true. I've stopped hooking up and just focus on work.

 

The NUMBER ONE RULE in bottoming is BREATHING. IF you don't remember to take deep breaths your asshole is going to be vigilant to receiving the goods.

 

Wait-- I take that back BREATHING is RULE NUMBER TWO.

RULE NUMBER ONE IS TO DOUCHE!! There's nothing like getting wild and then fining .... you know-- such a turn off >.<

 

Yes i said it, but y'all was thinking it.

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Lube, practice with fingers and dildoes while watching porn -- all these suggestions help. But chemistry and technique also play a major role in achieving a good/great fuck. First of all, you have to be so turned on to the guy that only having his dick up your ass will top, as it were, everything you've done so far. Chemistry is a major factor. And then technique kicks in. This is one reason hiring a working boy helps, because if they're as experienced as they should be, they know how to enter and pleasure a bottom. Ross, the popular escort who was with Maximum, sported eight-plus thick inches when he was stiff and he got that baby in there and had me loving every minute and every inch and begging for all of it. Meanwhile, I've had to ask guys with shorter, thinner dicks to pull out because of the discomfort. Remember, too, that the diameter of the anal channel is not consistent. It varies depending on time of day, what's in your stomach (even when you've douched) and how you feel about your top. Has anyone heard from Ross these days? I'm feeling relaxed and open to things this afternoon.

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But chemistry and technique also play a major role in achieving a good/great fuck. First of all, you have to be so turned on to the guy that only having his dick up your ass will top, as it were, everything you've done so far. Chemistry is a major factor.

 

I would like to disagree. To a point.

 

Technique is really important. And I don't mean the top's technique. The bottom learning about his own body, learning to clean it, prepare it, lube it, relax it, communicate when he is ready for insertion and at what pace, learning to squeeze your ass and open it at will, breathing, letting it happen. This is the technique that matters and once you have mastered this, you will be able to get fucked by anyone, regardless of size, length, girth or degree of "chemistry" or attraction.

 

I absolutely know this to be the truth because I am an escort. If you know your instrument and take care of it, you will be able to play any song under any circumstance.

 

Yes, feeling really attracted to the top and wanting him inside will sometimes help you open up and relax but a bottom who depends on this will always be at mercy of his top. A bottom who depends on the top's ability or beauty will always be open to be hurt, sometimes really bad. Sometimes you will feel really attracted to total assholes who will have no regard to your wellness and putting yourself in their hands could land you with serious damage that might take a long time to heal.

 

Take your power back. It all depends on you. YOU are in control. It is your body, it's your responsibility to take care of it.

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Take your power back. It all depends on you. YOU are in control. It is your body, it's your responsibility to take care of it.

 

This is bringing a whole new meaning to " 'power' bottom" Oh the irony. I can't even LOL though because I have a top waiting for me in Texas, and I'm NOT excited about it :oops:

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I've always wondered about this... is it normal that the anus burns when someone enters?

 

No, having your ass on fire is never normal...

http://rs54.pbsrc.com/albums/g105/shanewhit/assfire.jpg~c200

 

In order to get used to enjoying anal penetration, start jacking off while inserting a very small dildo in your rectum.

http://cdn4.edenfantasies.com/Images/CustomerImages500x500/634923920319138750.jpg

http://www.swingersattic.com/advice/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/bend2.jpg

 

As you learn to associate prostate stimulation with pleasure, you will relax more, and be able to take in something larger...

http://www.maxblack.com.au/SiteMedia/W3SVC1178/Uploads/Images/FL_Mr-Limpy_Original_ALLSIZES-pink_600x600_96dpi_MB.jpg

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I generally am used to cleaning using a Stream shower enema, a piece of equipment recommended here. However, I am going to be traveling for a while and am afraid that I will not be able to unscrew the hotel's shower head (not an unreasonable thought I don't think or maybe it is). I don't want to call the hotel plumber to install it for me. ;) What is the best way to make sure I am clean enough for for the biggest, thickest dick I can take (whatever that may be). Thanks.

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I generally am used to cleaning using a Stream shower enema, a piece of equipment recommended here. However, I am going to be traveling for a while and am afraid that I will not be able to unscrew the hotel's shower head (not an unreasonable thought I don't think or maybe it is). I don't want to call the hotel plumber to install it for me. ;) What is the best way to make sure I am clean enough for for the biggest, thickest dick I can take (whatever that may be). Thanks.

 

Use a daily fiber supplement. If things stay very regular, then you will have less prep work for the main event.

 

Also, consider this--http://www.mr-s-leather.com/M121/ergoflow-portable-shower-shot.html

It is an over the shower head enema system. the downside is it is a C-note to buy.

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Use a daily fiber supplement. If things stay very regular, then you will have less prep work for the main event.

 

Also, consider this--http://www.mr-s-leather.com/M121/ergoflow-por

Use a daily fiber supplement. If things stay very regular, then you will have less prep work for the main event.

 

Also, consider this--http://www.mr-s-leather.com/M121/ergoflow-portable-shower-shot.html

It is an over the shower head enema system. the downside is it is a C-note to buy.

 

table-shower-shot.html

It is an over the shower head enema system. the downside is it is a C-note to buy.

 

Waaaaaay over priced. The link I posted does the same thing for waaaaaaay cheaper.

 

Hugs,

Greg

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Waaaaaay over priced. The link I posted does the same thing for waaaaaaay cheaper.

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

Oh, babe--I am not endorsing it. I had seen a similar system that was priced much cheaper, but I could not remember the name. The Ergoflow was the thing I found doing a search that looked like the other system I remembered...a Benjamin is a bit much to pay to flush a shit chute...

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