ASS-SLAPS: Do you do them?

[Decatur Guy]

So you're fucking a guy. You're doggie style, and you've got a good rhythm going. You're bolt-up straight, and there's his butt.

 

Do you slap his ass? If you do, just once or a series? Hard or playfully? Do you wait for the bottom to say: "Slap that ass!" or do you just pop him one without asking?

 

To me, it's more of a porn thing than a something-you-do-in-real-life thing. I can't recall that much ass-slapping -- as a top or a bottom -- in sex. Nothing against it; it just doesn't seem to happen that often.

 

So where do you fall on the whole ass-slappin' thing? Are you slap happy?

[jawjateck]

Nope....don't recall ever doing it or having it done to me. I suppose over the years it may have happened once or twice, but definitely not part of the routine I insist upon.

[gcursor]

Well to start with, I've never fucked a guy doggy-style before. If I did then I probably wouldn't slap their ass because I'd be afraid of breaking them (i'm very serious)....and I just don't want to have to pay whatever the replacement charge is (this was humor)

Gcursor

[jjkrkwood]

Ive seen it done at sex clubs, but not my style, so have nothing more to add here.

[zeferrelli]

i've always enjoyed giving a few playful slaps and have never had any complaints!

[josephga]

I like to slap ass. sometimes light other times hard

[doitb4ugo]

Being the bottom, I generally have my ass slapped, flogged, paddled etc. as foreplay....but I wouldnot object to having it done during the main course.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Yes I have done it quite a few times. Not always, but on multiple occasions. And not just when topping (which is kind of rare but not unheard of). I have been slapped. I have slapped. When fucking and when being fucked. And when sucking dick. And being sucked. Normally pretty hard and normally more than once.

[Guest Bauer]

Do you slap his ass? If you do, just once or a series? Hard or playfully? Do you wait for the bottom to say: "Slap that ass!" or do you just pop him one without asking?

 

...

 

So where do you fall on the whole ass-slappin' thing? Are you slap happy?

That is such a personal thing. It's like asking guys to sound off on how they like to be tipped. Cash or in kind. Most people already have the answer to that question. (Cash).

 

Afterall only one escort in a hundred likes Kiton Cashmere sportscoat's on their own dime.

[uwsman2]

Slapping ass is hot! Getting my ass slapped is hotter! What I love: Heat up my ass real good, then fuck me. An escort that can do this in a natural way - so it doesn't feel either mechanical or staged, but just a natural part of interaction - is a gem.

[orbital sander]

No, not my style.

[seeker630]

I'll usually deliver a slap either during foreplay or at the start of fucking; if I get a good response (verbally), then I'll do it a few more times. But it's lilke nipple play for me - if it gets no response, then I won't bother.

[Guest Spanker01]

This is of course my specialty. I have been slapping butt for a long time and am very good at it.

 

Spanker

[+ purplekow]

I love to slap a butt sometimes hard sometimes gently, usually in some sort of variation. If I slap an ass until it is red, I will usually then ever so gently kiss the reddened area and perhaps if I am feeling devilish, slap it hard again right in the same spot.

[Dave]

This is of course my specialty. I have been slapping butt for a long time and am very good at it.

 

Spanker

 

ooooooooh.

[Dave]

I love to slap a butt sometimes hard sometimes gently, usually in some sort of variation. If I slap an ass until it is red, I will usually then ever so gently kiss the reddened area and perhaps if I am feeling devilish, slap it hard again right in the same spot.

 

oooooooooh. oh! oooooooooh.

[bostonman]

I think I'm one of those freaks in the gay male world - the kind of guy that really has no interest in anything relating to ass. I've never really enjoyed anal sex. When I see pictures of guys online (escorts or otherwise) who show lots of ass shots I tend to be a bit turned off. And I really don't like it when a guy slaps my ass during sex.

 

Guess I'll turn in my gay card now...(lol)

[rvwnsd]

So you're fucking a guy. You're doggie style, and you've got a good rhythm going. You're bolt-up straight, and there's his butt.

 

Do you slap his ass?...

 

I do not like being slapped. The first time, the top would be politely, but firmly, asked not to do that again. The second time, he would be firmly told not to do so. The third time, fucking would end, he would be handed his clothes, and shown the door. That being said, I generally bring up the topic when discussing likes and dislikes. If slapping is a deal-breaker it is best to part ways.

[Dave]

I do not like being slapped. The first time, the top would be politely, but firmly, asked not to do that again. The second time, he would be firmly told not to do so. The third time, fucking would end, he would be handed his clothes, and shown the door. That being said, I generally bring up the topic when discussing likes and dislikes. If slapping is a deal-breaker it is best to part ways.

 

ok, so my bottom side was coming out in my last few replies. let me address rvwnsd's comment as a top.

 

i do like to slap ass, but it's not like i wanna slap everyone's ass. i have to feel that feeling, not like i just do it as a routine thing (i guess that's true of how i have sex in general - i may play one way with one person, and entirely differently with another). but if i do wanna slap someone's butt, and i don't know how they might react to it, i would try the first ass slap a bit light - and see how they respond. for a little hand on the butt when getting dicked doesnt need to read as a slap. think how gingerly you can touch something... rub your hand round it... and even lightly spank it in the way one claps hands quietly... its almost more of a tentative touch than a "im-a wallop your ass, boy" sort of thing.

 

anyway, once that's done, i pause (with my hand, i mean - my cock keeps fucking) and see how the bottom reacts. if he mumbles something like "ooooooh, yes", that's a sign. if he shakes his ass round, that's a sign. if he yells out "fuck yeah!", thats a sign. if he grunts in an animalistic way, that's a sign. so far, all the signs ive described tell me to continue - whereupon i'll give another slap, this time a bit harder. i may continue like this for a few more slaps, and let it go at that. or if i sense he REALLY wants it, i may work that thing till its good and red. as PK noted, a gentle touch in between slaps ramps all this up a notch. in fact, that's often when the endorphins start flying.

 

if i spanked someone (like you, rvwnsd) and got a negative reaction like a verbal expression, or if the bottoms body reacted in a way that made it seem like it was painful and not wanted, or a certain kind of grunt or groan or something else that showed he wasnt really into it, i would of course stop. if you get slapped three times and end up handing clothes to the top, it would show something is way off... not just that he can't take direction, but that he's probably missing other communication your body is putting out, too.

[JT Brooklyn]

Butt slapping definitely can be Fun.. IF it's the right Purdy Butt!

[Bosguy]

Ass slapping as the receiver is absolutely a great enhancement to anal sex if its done properly by an experienced top. Just prior to entering, the mild slapping begins and as the bottom is entered the amount increases spreading the pleasure/pain point throughout the butt area. Slapping increases the ability to take a larger cock than the bottom is usually comfortable with because the discomfort is not as local or intense.

 

As Mikey says, "Try it, You'll Like It"

 

Bill K.

[Guest]

I would never slap someone's ass without asking them first, nor would I take kindly to someone slapping mine without asking me first. I only had one escort ever do it, and it really detracted from the experience. He obviously wasn't reading me correctly (or did the next best thing which is to ask).

[+ sf westcoaster]

I am with Bosguy on this one. As a bottom I find that mild slapping enhances the pleasure for me.

[Decatur Guy]

Thanks for all the replies. Very interesting range of responses. I guess I like it more than not like it. It just doesn't seem to happen much in real life, but I see it a lot in porn, hence the question.