Time Outs

[peterinla19]

I am very sorry to see these situations being rehashed again. Very early on I asked all participants to cease and desist and sent private messages to some as well as a couple of postings here... I have not "defended" anyone, but have been critical of the lack of civility in many of the posts. All of us here are adults, but some of the posts have been so childish and mean spirited that it reminds me of 5 year olds playing in the sandbox. I really appreciate almost everyone who has posted on this site in all the categories, even when I have significant disagreements, but I do try to be civil and expect others to be the same. I still think the "Golden Rule" applies to adults!

 

Well said Diverdan.

 

Personally, I'm disappointed at how some conducted themselves after Ryan's posts. I only hope that everyone can chill out, let Ryan back into the fold, hold hands and sing Kumbaya.

[doitb4ugo]

Well said Diverdan.

 

Personally, I'm disappointed at how some conducted themselves after Ryan's posts. I only hope that everyone can chill out, let Ryan back into the fold, hold hands and sing Kumbaya.

 

I do not wish to defend myself. I did indeed behave badly. I was quite willing to let the whole incident ride out but when RC jumped into Romann's announcement, I felt that he violated and coerced Romann's news and very upbeat post....I lost my cool and started a thread to draw RC away from continuing to denegrate Romann's post... It certainly worked but I lost site of my own sense of fairness and good will when I carried on...I also am sorry that it felt so good denegrating RC. Defending people who I call friends on this site was important to me...I'm sure there were less nasty ways to do what I felt I needed to do..

[doitb4ugo]

Would you like to be considered for the exalted position of Moderator?[/color]

 

The original suggestion I was given was to give ALL of the participants a timeout. The moderators will be discussing that privately. Given that it's the labor day weekend, I chose the least amount of spanking that I felt would calm the waters. The jury is still out, and after a careful deliberation we may find ourselves with a line of young men in the front office.

 

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Daddy,

 

I am quite willing to accept whatever your descision is....I certainly know I did not behave like a gentleman. I cannot say that I am not proud of standing up for Romann and Tom but I admit I could have handled it more civily. It is hardly so important who started it....

[+ newatthis]

line of young men -- now you're talking!

 

...we may find ourselves with a line of young men in the front office...

At last something to look forward to! May I join you in the front office when that line of young men is summoned?

[seeker630]

I do not wish to defend myself. I did indeed behave badly. I was quite willing to let the whole incident ride out but when RC jumped into Romann's announcement, I felt that he violated and coerced Romann's news and very upbeat post....I lost my cool and started a thread to draw RC away from continuing to denegrate Romann's post... It certainly worked but I lost site of my own sense of fairness and good will when I carried on...I also am sorry that it felt so good denegrating RC. Defending people who I call friends on this site was important to me...I'm sure there were less nasty ways to do what I felt I needed to do..

 

It takes courage to look back and admit it when we could have/should have handled things better. Congratulations on your self-awareness and self-respect.

[Epigonos]

At times I marvel at some of the posters on this site. Daddy has announced that he and his moderators will decide if any future censure is necessary regarding this matter. Now let’s stop behaving like a bunch of squabbling kindergarteners. Really this entire matter has become one big f—king bore. LET’S DROP IT AND MOVE ON!!!!!

[peterinla19]

At times I marvel at some of the posters on this site...Now let’s stop behaving like a bunch of squabbling kindergarteners. Really this entire matter has become one big f—king bore. LET’S DROP IT AND MOVE ON!!!!!

 

As the dust settles, those directly and indirectly involved are going to look back at the situation in retrospect and learn from it. Please let those participants do so without persecution. You do not need to read nor take part in this thread. I say this with the utmost respect.

[flguy]

From Daddy to Flguy: Would you like to be considered for the exalted position of Moderator?

 

The original suggestion I was given was to give ALL of the participants a timeout. The moderators will be discussing that privately. Given that it's the labor day weekend, I chose the least amount of spanking that I felt would calm the waters. The jury is still out, and after a careful deliberation we may find ourselves with a line of young men in the front office.

 

 

I would have pressed the button as a moderator a long time ago against all of them, maybe that is why I would NOT be a good moderator. There is certainly a lot going on BEHIND the scenes on the disputed threads, but there is guilt on the part of a number of people including more than one escort. You deleted Romann's toxic post in regard to David SF that showed his real personna. However you did not delete any of the threads that ran toxic for Ryan, NYTomcat and others. Fair play should be the same for all, not just 90 days suspension for Ryan while everyone else goes back to normal. I have already had your and Deej's rath and timed out, that is why I normally do not get involved in these kinds of threads.

 

I certainly hope the moderators meeting goes well and penalties, if any, are equally just for all.

[Romann]

No sir.

 

You deleted Romann's toxic post in regard to David SF that showed his real personna.

 

Flguy, lets be 100% correct on the post that was removed. I personally removed the post myself after a few minutes of consideration which you claim showed my real persona. Daddy or the moderators did not remove my post and if they would like to step in and confirm that to clear themselves of your accusation, I welcome it fully. RC made the charge that Daddy and the moderators removed the post and that is 100% false, incorrect and just another one of his false claims simply said to in some way further his own agenda of burning ships along with his. Again, I say with 100% confidence, I removed the post myself and Daddy or the moderators and all management included did not remove the post.

 

I stand by my word because I was there when the post was up and I was there when I hit the delete icon. Please be correct in your statement before throwing that charge at others who didn't have involvement in the matter. Let's be fair or at least ask the appropriate questions to the parties involved before making such a claim. I'm sorry you feel my real persona was revealed but honestly kind Sir, I feel your judgment of me is inaccurate and based on the word of someone (RC) who has already proved himself to be dishonest in writing which is well documented in various threads against various people including myself.

[+ deej]

Daddy or the moderators did not remove my post and if they would like to step in and confirm that to clear themselves of your accusation, I welcome it fully.

 

I cannot speak for all involved but I do believe this to be correct.

 

The episode did cause us to revise the time period where self-edits are allowed.

 

Can we get back to having a lazy holiday weekend now?

[+ deej]

I certainly hope the moderators meeting goes well and penalties, if any, are equally just for all.

 

For whatever it's worth, we don't have meetings.

 

Knowing our crew as I do I'm pretty sure none of us would show up if a meeting was scheduled.

 

HTH

[Romann]

Guilty as charged!

 

The episode did cause us to revise the time period where self-edits are allowed.

 

I admit without doubt that I'm 100% guilty in continually editing my posts after I have submitted them because my mind more often than not thinks after hitting the submit button which is one of my greater faults. A consequence of continual thinking... I'm prepared to take my punishment and if I could only find where my flogger walked off to, I would happily self impose a painful punishment with a nice sting for my faulty actions in editing my posts after the fact.

 

http://www.bratcnteas.com/flogger0109a.jpg

 

Where are you my dear flogger? Where have I put you because I know you were packed into a box of some sort but you've gone MIA and I miss you!

[Rick Munroe]

we may find ourselves with a line of young men in the front office.

 

I'm already on my knees and ready, Daddy!

[whipped guy]

More MIA

 

Where are you my dear flogger? Where have I put you... but you've gone MIA and I miss you!

I am experiencing a similar dilemma. I have a flogger that is MIA as well... my small one with the fine tails... and I can't seem to find it around the house... I must have brought it to NYC on one of my recent visits, but I am not really sure so I am still searching... If I did bring it to NYC perhaps I left it at the NYBC... or more likely in the hotel room.

 

In any event, if I left it at the hotel I am sure that it provided a bit of gossip for the housekeeping crew on the forty something-th floor of a large Midtown Manhattan hotel... But then again those maids have probably seen it all so possibly not... who knows?!

 

In any event, based on the pic, that was/is one fine flogger... I would guess it would put quite a smile on one's face... however, if lost I guess I will never know.

 

At any rate, form one editor to another... and I need to do so because I type with two fingers that are at times 'all thumbs'... let's hope we find both of our "missing buddies" so we can duly self-inflict our just punishment.

[Romann]

Damn kids!

 

I am experiencing a similar dilemma. I have a flogger that is MIA as well... my small one with the fine tails... and I can't seem to find it around the house...

 

SAY IT ISN'T SO! That was one sweet flogger you had!

 

That's it, I'm sending out an APB for our two friends and maybe, quite possibly, our two friends hooked up and are traveling together like bad boys in the night dancing on the dark side without their masters! Kids these days! Flying the nest in such a manner and not leaving at least a note to let both of us know where they have gone. Well, they better be home by dark!

[NYTomcat]

SAY IT ISN'T SO! That was one sweet flogger you had!

 

That's it, I'm sending out an APB for our two friends and maybe, quite possibly, our two friends hooked up and are traveling together like bad boys in the night dancing on the dark side without their masters! Kids these days! Flying the nest in such a manner and not leaving at least a note to let both of us know where they have gone. Well, they better be home by dark!

 

And If they are not just what are you going to do.... beat them with themselves. Oh wait no you will beat them with your back and shoulders. Of course That'll teach'em.

[JT Brooklyn]

I am experiencing a similar dilemma. I have a flogger that is MIA as well... my small one with the fine tails... and I can't seem to find it around the house... I must have brought it to NYC on one of my recent visits, but I am not really sure so I am still searching... If I did bring it to NYC perhaps I left it at the NYBC... or more likely in the hotel room.

 

In any event, if I left it at the hotel I am sure that it provided a bit of gossip for the housekeeping crew on the forty something-th floor of a large Midtown Manhattan hotel... But then again those maids have probably seen it all so possibly not... who knows?!

 

In any event, based on the pic, that was/is one fine flogger... I would guess it would put quite a smile on one's face... however, if lost I guess I will never know.

 

At any rate, form one editor to another... and I need to do so because I type with two fingers that are at times 'all thumbs'... let's hope we find both of our "missing buddies" so we can duly self-inflict our just punishment.

 

Did JT not Report to the Mass Readership on Daddys in another Thread that you have been known to leave Whips in Hotels all over Manhattan?

 

Keep it up my Friend and we will have to do a Reality Show.."Finding Whipmans Whips" Fiming in various NYC Hotels....

[NYTomcat]

Did JT not Report to the Mass Readership on Daddys in another Thread that you have been known to leave Whips in Hotels all over Manhattan?

 

Keep it up my Friend and we will have to do a Reality Show.."Finding Whipmans Whips" Fiming in various NYC Hotels....

Now this would be a great show to replace logo's gay A list bs

[JT Brooklyn]

I thought "Queer Eye" and the lets all think and do Gay Show Sucked and lasted way to long... Now the "A-List" What a bunch of Crap!

 

Where did they find this group of very AFFECTED Characters? I doubt many Gay Teenagers want to aspire to this Degree of Gayness.

 

Not everyones "Gay Life Ambition" is to meet Heidi Klum....

[+ purplekow]

I thought Queer Eye and the lets all think Gay Show Sucked! Now the A-List What a bunch of Crap!

 

Where did they find this group of very AFFECTED Characters? I doubt many Gay Teenagers want to aspire to this Degree of Gayness.

 

Not everyones "Gay Life Ambition" is to meet Heidi Klum....

Does that mean I should redo my Bucket List?

[Romann]

Surprise!

 

I am experiencing a similar dilemma. I have a flogger that is MIA as well.

 

I found it!! It was packed away in one of two laptop bags that I have and why I packed it in there I'm not sure nor do I remember doing that but most likely it was shoved in there to keep it out of the prying eyes of movers. Thankfully, it has been found and I intend to use it later this evening so I can dance on the dark side and flog myself which I haven't done for a couple weeks now. Oh the joys of finding lost items and being reunited with good times again!

 

Now we need to find yours or a new one from me to you on my next trip to NYC!

[NYTomcat]

Does that mean I should redo my Bucket List?

 

Dont give me that crap pk. You have done far better than Heidi klum already. Need I remind you of my mistake or maybe

You Just like to collect starlet pictures

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[whipped guy]

He found it!!!

 

I found it!! It was packed away in one of two laptop bags...

Great... as from what I recall it needed to still be broken in... so get to work on it!!!

 

As for myself, I have two laptop bags as well and I already looked there... but as they say, "It's always the last place that you would look." So there might still be hope. Of course this is not the first time I have lost something... a couple of years ago my TENS unit went MIA... and it took a month to find it... but I did... With any luck the little bugger will show up!!!

[doitb4ugo]

Hey Guys....What are you doing....You've unceremoniously highjacked my flogging....That is not fair....I unfortunately have no flogger to beat myself with....

[Guy Fawkes]

Here ya go

 

http://www.dragontailz.com/images/flogger_gold-big.jpg

Hey Guys....What are you doing....You've unceremoniously highjacked my flogging....That is not fair....I unfortunately have no flogger to beat myself with....