dinner before fun?

[soccerbutt]

Hey guys, I am looking for feedback. I was considering doing a two hour and wanted to have dinner first. I was wondering if that is a good idea?

thanks

[+ Charlie]

It depends on what, and how much, each of you eats.

[+ azdr0710]

have dinner first?....before your meet with him or during??!!!!....just kidding....

 

I presume you mean as part of the two hours.....to me, that would rush things a lot.....maybe meet just for coffee and reserve most of the two hours for fun time???....or expand the meet time, though I know that can make it pricey just to have a meal together......

[Guest jaighbos]

There are a few guys I see which always involves dinner first, but I don't think I ever did on a "first date" ;-) . I know this can be a splurge because our time always goes beyond 3 hours, but it's part of the evening I really, really enjoy.

[+ ArVaGuy]

I'd advise three hours if you are going to include dinner. By the time the meal's over it will have taken almost half if not more of a two hour time period. Consider having dinner after play time rather than before. That way there's no rush and no effect of a heavy meal on performance.

[Edward]

Should dinner be considered part of the time?

 

If you take one of your "guys" to a nice dinner. Should it be included at the same rate as private time? Seems like $300 an hour is expensive to take someone to a nice dinner. Any thoughts?

[Electra 225]

Dinner Before or After?

 

I've done it both ways: Dinner with an escort before playtime as well as afterwards (not on the same date, of course). Both work well, but you have to be prepared for a three to four hour appointment--unless you are getting burgers and fries (not recommended for a wide variety of reasons). One idea that has worked well is, if it is possible, to have dinner sent to the hotel room as room service or to simply dine in the hotel dining room--cuts down on transportation/commuting time.

 

I've also taken an escort to a nice breakfast before or after a morning session (brunch, too, on the weekends) as well as to lunch (before or after a session). That works well if you have the time.

 

Naturally, you have to be careful about selecting the restaurant and the menu as well as be sure that both of you have the ability to brush and rinse before playing--just to belabor the obvious.

[JT Brooklyn]

Hey guys, I am looking for feedback. I was considering doing a two hour and wanted to have dinner first. I was wondering if that is a good idea?

thanks

 

My Advice would be PLAY FIRST! Paying to watch a guy sleep on an OverNiter is one thing..But Paying to watch him EAT Food! LOL

 

If the Working Guy goes for a Free Meal OFF THE BOOKS fine.. But with the "Popular" Guys be ready for the inevitable Cell Rings, unless he has "turned it off" which usually ain't gonna happen once YOUR Dime is up!

 

P.S. Sex and a Meal in 2 Hours Equals.. very little Sex!

[NYTomcat]

I love having dinner or a meal to get to know the gentleman first. But I will be honest. No I do not intend to pay the hourly rate for that time dining. If you are hiring at a discounted day or night or weekend rate of course feeding your gentlemen friend is a must. Thats different.

 

But honestly, If I am hiring hourly (OK which I rarely do) I will simply ask if they would like to share dinner before the __ hour session. Obviously the meal is on me. If they are charging for that time the answer is I guess not. If they would like to share a meal great... just MHO. Now obviously if they are traveling and need to keep to a schedule you need to understand they may not have the time to go on an unpaid meal with you. As long as you understand that is their right as well, everyone should do fine. If you feel the meal is necessary for you to get comfortable with him. Then yes you may need to pay for his time.

[JackTwist]

You've already received some great advice here. I'll just add my two cents based on my experiences of hiring "bottoms." Several escorts have told me they prefer to not get fucked immediately after eating a meal. They feel too full to perform...they feel they may need to "refresh" after eating, etc. I've taken some of the guys out to eat after sex and that seems to work best. The post-sex conversation is always enlightening, the guys seem less conscientious about eating too much or eating the right thing, and it's always great fun working up a big appetite!

[NYTomcat]

Good point. Thanks Jack. See pick up something new everyday

[Guest greatness]

well

 

i can't do anything when I'm full lol..

[seaboy4hire]

You've already received some great advice here. I'll just add my two cents based on my experiences of hiring "bottoms." Several escorts have told me they prefer to not get fucked immediately after eating a meal. They feel too full to perform...they feel they may need to "refresh" after eating, etc. I've taken some of the guys out to eat after sex and that seems to work best. The post-sex conversation is always enlightening, the guys seem less conscientious about eating too much or eating the right thing, and it's always great fun working up a big appetite!

 

Bingo! As someone who usually ends up bottoming you hit the nail on the head Mr. Twist.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[adriano46]

NY Tomcat and Jack have both raised excellent points.

 

In my earlier hiring years, I almost always hired for 2 hours (on European rates, which were cheaper then), and would -on the spur of the moment if I enjoyed the guy and depending on the time - invite him "off the clock" if he would like to join me for a meal when we finished. I was amazed how often these guys said YES, but note... this was ALWAYS après sex and after we had showered, cleaned up and dressed. Sometimes, if the mood was really right, I would even consider calling room service, if the hotel had decent food, giving us a little more time to play.

 

When I was visiting a European or Asian city where I was unfamiliar with the language, I would suggest a meal "before or after" (at the escorts preference) as a way of avoiding having to navigate a meal "alone" and this was understood between us when setting up the fee, as often these fees were negotiable in Europe an Asia, especially with some agencies I used back then. I also found most escorts hired through an agency actually jumped at the opportunity to do something off the agency's clock (at a much reduced rate), which was fun too. If I clicked with a guy (ah, I think of two or three in Moscow, soldiers with magnificently muscled bodies), I would invite them to a night at the theatre, or a really great restaurant, and found them to be very accomodating on the price, and charming on the company!!!

 

I do not often hire a guy bottom, but if I DO want to go there, meals are not done until AFTER, for obvious reasons of mutual comfort. Had one bad experience and this taught me a life lesson... no heavily spicey food before anal!!!!

 

That said, I generally hire 90% for mutual oral work (very ORAL) so if the meal does not include garlic and some other lingering things, then it can go before, but generally comes after. This is probably because lately guys who are harging $250-$300/hour, well for me they already have enough of my money, and I will probably enjoy more dinner with a good book (that cost me only $20). Maybe just gettin old and crotchety.... One member here did ask "Why pay to watch a guy eat?" as this is not a feish dream of mine.

 

So here in the USA, I rarely invite the guys for a meal as most of them are trying to accomodate 2 or more clients in a day, so they are rushed, and I find the phoning and texting during the meal a bit annoying, so why go there?

 

I chalk it up to the economy now - with less $$$$ for play, and more $$$ needed to replenish what the stock market already stole from me... More and more I hire strictly for the hour or two of sex. I hav cut back on the movie dates, the theatre dates, and the dinner dates sadly.....

[good ol boy]

I just did that and it was not really that expensive. I called and asked for the price for the first hour. His rates were not posted on rentboy. I suggested dinner and asked what the cost would be for dinner before. He quoted me a price for the dinner and the "time" after dinner. I agreed. I was given a great discount on the time we spent having dinner. Although, I was charged something for the time when we were together at dinner. Sushi and sex, a great combo...

[+ bigjoey]

I often have dinner with an escort but when hiring, I make that intention known and usually ask for a 3 or 4 hour rate for the time. The rate is usually fairly reasonable and I like a holistic approach where I get to know the whole man I am with. Sometimes, the escort even jumps for the check!

[Epigonos]

I NEVER do one hour appointments with escorts. I always begin with either lunch or dinner and conclude with two hours of play time. When making my initial email contact with a new escort I ask what his fee would be for lunch or dinner followed by two hours of play time. If his fee is within the range I am willing to pay ($500 - $600) we set up the get together. If his fee exceeds what I am willing to pay I thank him for his time, explain that his fee is beyond what I am accustomed to paying, and apologize for wasting his time. If the escort responds asking what I am willing to pay I generally DO NOT answer as I dislike bargaining intensely. However, I recently responded to an escort who quoted a $750 fee that his fee was beyond what I normally pay. I then added that I NEVER pay more than $500 to $600 for such an arrangement. He emailed me back stating that he would be willing to accept $600 for such a get together. As I really wanted to meet this guy I decided to accept his offer. We currently have plans to meet next week.

[xxxdude]

I NEVER do one hour appointments with escorts. I always begin with either lunch or dinner and conclude with two hours of play time. When making my initial email contact with a new escort I ask what his fee would be for lunch or dinner followed by two hours of play time. If his fee is within the range I am willing to pay ($500 - $600) we set up the get together. If his fee exceeds what I am willing to pay I thank him for his time, explain that his fee is beyond what I am accustomed to paying, and apologize for wasting his time. If the escort responds asking what I am willing to pay I generally DO NOT answer as I dislike bargaining intensely. However, I recently responded to an escort who quoted a $750 fee that his fee was beyond what I normally pay. I then added that I NEVER pay more than $500 to $600 for such an arrangement. He emailed me back stating that he would be willing to accept $600 for such a get together. As I really wanted to meet this guy I decided to accept his offer. We currently have plans to meet next week.

 

so who is the lucky guy??? am just curious.

[raulgmanzo]

Having dinner with a client (on or off the clock) is great, but NOT before playtime.

 

Anyone who has learned to supress the natural urge to relieve themselves immediately after dinner has part of the answer as to why they no longer have a tight flat stomach.

 

I absolutely love food, and I really loved the homemade meal I've had cooked for me on occasion.

But I'm afraid to eat as much as I would like, and that can even be perceived as an insult. Then I always need to relieve myself after eating and that does not go well when I feel like someone is waiting for me, at their house or the restaurant. I feel rushed. Then I still feel heavy and worried about my stomach gurgling and farting, and my breath, and heavy brushing should NOT be done before oral, so then there is the inevitable worry about something caught in the teeth etc.

 

I would say that if anyone ever has an appointment missing some pizazz they might consider having the meal afterwards. It is is absolutely normal and in fact the way are bodies are supposed to work, that one will be lethargic or find blood flow redirected away from the brain, and the dick to the stomach.

 

Sex makes for a great appetite. And after having the clients dick in my mouth or vice versa, I am going to be very relaxed about eating in front of them, almost guarantee you that the dinner will be much more fun and satiating.

 

Though I do understand that many a client wants a chance to ease into playing around. Almost every appointment has been stellar when I've jumped right into sexual or at least romantic play. But starting out slow can have the opposite effect and give too much time for either participant to feel awkward or as though one is on an interview or blind date. In an actual date the sex might be on the next date or after hours of, a movie, theatre, concert, drinks or drawn out foreplay, not as soon as one can put away the room service or get in the elevator.

 

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[whipped guy]

... and heavy brushing should NOT be done before oral, so then there is the inevitable worry about something caught in the teeth etc.

Excellent point!

... one will be lethargic or find blood flow redirected away from the brain, and the dick to the stomach.

Top... Bottom... or in my case getting your butt pummeled... there is "no way Jose" that I'm doing it on a full stomach. I usually prefer to schedule appointments at night so my usual routine is an early supper at about 5:00 - 6:00 PM and the hookup at about 8:30 - 9:00 PM. That way I don't have that heavy feeling dragging me down.

 

If the hookup is in the afternoon I usually have a brunch-like late breakfast so as to again maintain that light feeling and then schedule the session for later in the afternoon. In such a case I will invite the working guy for a post session supper if he so desires... an offer that is often made in advance.

[Lankypeters]

Do both

 

Of course you can combine food and sex, especially the desert course.

 

Drizzle honey over your partner's stiff shaft and lick it off. Or balance a cream filled Godiva chocolate on the head of his dick, crush it with your tongue and then eat it.

 

On the flip side, slather his butt crack with whipped cream and slurp it up.

[+ glutes]

Why don't you do 'fun', dinner, then more 'fun'?

[doitb4ugo]

Yum

 

Of course you can combine food and sex, especially the desert course.

 

Drizzle honey over your partner's stiff shaft and lick it off. Or balance a cream filled Godiva chocolate on the head of his dick, crush it with your tongue and then eat it.

 

On the flip side, slather his butt crack with whipped cream and slurp it up.

 

Sounds Hot...Have never experienced any food play....I might want to give this a try as long as you can clean-up after the "feast".

 

I am going for corn dogs and barbecue sauce in the butt crack. If the food were good enough, I might convince my escort to have a meal with me. :p:p

 

My apologies for stooping to the sophomoric humour.

[+ Shoreboy]

I am the kind of person that hires for an hour and sometimes for two hours and it is always in my hotel room as I travel across the Country.

 

I usually reserve a room service dinner as an option but rarely share it with the escort until I feel I want to get to know him better. Then, when the fun has ended I am free to ask him if he would like to stay for dinner in the room or not. The escort has already received his fee so he knows he is off the clock.

 

When I do decide to propose this offer some agree and others do not. I had one great experience in DC whereby the escort lounged buck naked on the bed while we ate. Not only did it provide some great eye candy during dinner, but afterwards he got horny again (must have been the seafood) and we played together again and he said since I paid for dinner, dessert was on him..

[NYTomcat]

I am the kind of person that hires for an hour and sometimes for two hours and it is always in my hotel room as I travel across the Country.

 

I usually reserve a room service dinner as an option but rarely share it with the escort until I feel I want to get to know him better. Then, when the fun has ended I am free to ask him if he would like to stay for dinner in the room or not. The escort has already received his fee so he knows he is off the clock.

 

When I do decide to propose this offer some agree and others do not. I had one great experience in DC whereby the escort lounged buck naked on the bed while we ate. Not only did it provide some great eye candy during dinner, but afterwards he got horny again (must have been the seafood) and we played together again and he said since I paid for dinner, dessert was on him..

 

Now there is an escort worth hiring. Want to elaborate? If not publicly Hey pm me. Lol