Do Escorts keep records of clients and meetings?

[Guest LeoWalker]

I don't see how any professional Escort could function without keeping at least some kind of records. It might not be detailed like some listed above, but it would need to make sense to the Escort so-as to keep from making serious mistakes in contacting clients, etc.

 

It's not unlike the Farley File System that politicians and other people of note (i.e., people who meet hundreds to thousands of other people and whose business is people/personality-oriented) have to develop to keep their acquaintances "straight." I have such a system in my own profession because I meet so many different people. Interestingly enough, I even "file" people I know well and consider friends ... if only as a matter of course and "to not break with procedure." Each date of every meeting and what happened at that meeting is listed in all but those few cases were I meet with them every day, etc. I'm sure most escorts who are professionals and are in "the business" for any appreciable length of time (years) and who have had from many dozens to hundreds of different clients, must keep some kind of "Farley File" on at least their regular clients. I would almost be disappointed if I found out that they didn't (and amazed that they keep their information about me from getting mixed up either other clients!)

 

I've seen many escorts over the last 5 or so years (since I began seeing escorts). Due to my travel patterns I see some on a regular basis, and others less regularly. Those I see less regularly don't seem to have any difficulty remembering details about me that would be hard to remember between "dates" without a "memory-tickler" of some kind. That tells me enough to know that they keep at least some kind of records about me. And I think that's a good thing. Would I necessarily want to read their evaluations of me? Probably not. And I trust that such records are not accessible to just anybody and that those records are eventually destroyed.

 

Excellent post. First post I've seen from you, so...welcome to the forum.

[Luv2play]

. These records are not just for budgetary, and tax reasons but primarily for STD notification should I test positive for anything.

 

It is very important in the fight against the spread of disease to be able to contact ones sex partners so they may get tested or treated. I consider anything less unresponsible. .

 

I think this is a very ethical practice you have adopted and I commend you for it. As clients, we tend to focus on the happy aspects of meetings with escorts and put the less pleasant potential consequences aside. Any thinking individual realizes that the more sex partners one has, either directly or through your partner (you sleep with all the people who slept with your partner), the more important it is to take the care to keep track of partners just in case they need to be contacted. This can be done discreetly and prudently without causing unnecessary disturbances.

[uwsman2]

re records for emergency contacts

 

Yes, Raul, I applaud you for that.

Actually, I once received a call a few weeks after meeting with a NYC escort - he was calling everybody in his records that he had seen over the past several months since he had just tested positive for some STD and wanted to alert everybody to get tested. I was very pleased -- after I calmed down -- to have been notified, got tested, and was all clear. But the odd thing is that although I had really enjoyed my session with him, and thought highly of his ethics for having contacted me, but it turned out to be a deterrent to seeing him again, since I concluded that it meant that he engaged in unprotected sex and therefore was more dangerous to be with. Of course I know that when engaging in sex with an escort one should assume that he has lots of sex and is exposed to lots of different men and thus presents a higher risk of spreading STDs, so I should be reassured by the fact that this guy gets tested regularly and contacts his clients if he tests positive. Just the same.... there is a psychological thing there. (And I should get over it, because he's a highly rated escort on this site and I had a wonderful time with him.)

[Guest LeoWalker]

Yes, Raul, I applaud you for that.

Actually, I once received a call a few weeks after meeting with a NYC escort - he was calling everybody in his records that he had seen over the past several months since he had just tested positive for some STD and wanted to alert everybody to get tested. I was very pleased -- after I calmed down -- to have been notified, got tested, and was all clear. But the odd thing is that although I had really enjoyed my session with him, and thought highly of his ethics for having contacted me, but it turned out to be a deterrent to seeing him again, since I concluded that it meant that he engaged in unprotected sex and therefore was more dangerous to be with. Of course I know that when engaging in sex with an escort one should assume that he has lots of sex and is exposed to lots of different men and thus presents a higher risk of spreading STDs, so I should be reassured by the fact that this guy gets tested regularly and contacts his clients if he tests positive. Just the same.... there is a psychological thing there. (And I should get over it, because he's a highly rated escort on this site and I had a wonderful time with him.)

 

I wonder if we should start a new thread for this. I only engage in protected sex...so aside from herpes or HPV (the worst of body to body contact), the only other STDs I could pass would be staph, molescum, scabies...or a variety of other diseases that are so benign and have almost no traceability. You could get almost any of those from a gym, a friend, a hotel...or even a child.

 

Would an hourly client really want me to call them because I got scabies...? When 90% of the time the doctor will tell them they don't have it...

[seaboy4hire]

Yes, Raul, I applaud you for that.

Actually, I once received a call a few weeks after meeting with a NYC escort - he was calling everybody in his records that he had seen over the past several months since he had just tested positive for some STD and wanted to alert everybody to get tested. I was very pleased -- after I calmed down -- to have been notified, got tested, and was all clear. But the odd thing is that although I had really enjoyed my session with him, and thought highly of his ethics for having contacted me, but it turned out to be a deterrent to seeing him again, since I concluded that it meant that he engaged in unprotected sex and therefore was more dangerous to be with. Of course I know that when engaging in sex with an escort one should assume that he has lots of sex and is exposed to lots of different men and thus presents a higher risk of spreading STDs, so I should be reassured by the fact that this guy gets tested regularly and contacts his clients if he tests positive. Just the same.... there is a psychological thing there. (And I should get over it, because he's a highly rated escort on this site and I had a wonderful time with him.)

 

I know you did not state what std you were told to get checked for but you do realize that they can easily be passed from one person to another orally? How many of us use condoms when sucking dick? I don't and out of anyone I've played with only one wanted to use a condom orally.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[seaboy4hire]

PK-

 

Generally I think a lot of people don't live within their means. This includes Uncle Sam.

 

Some might be doing better these days according to various reports. For the first time in a long time Americans seems to actually be saving a few bucks. Bad for the economy, good for them.

 

It would be interesting to know how many escorts reviewed on this site pay whatever taxes they owe, have an investment plan, have a savings plan, have 6 months living expenses in cash and all the other "recommended" things one should do for a personal budget.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

 

I DO I DO I DO!!!! Course it helps I have a day job and have been putting into my 401k for many years now

 

Hugs,

Greg

[uwsman2]

reply to seaman

 

The STD in question was gonorrhea.... And the chances I would have been infected from the things we did were significant because rimming was involved.

[Guest mcknl]

How can you protect yourself from an escort that has contact info on you and has recently been sent to jail awaiting trial?

[+ Charlie]

Did you pay him with a personal check with the notation "for sexual services"? Did you buy drugs from him? Unless there is some really solid evidence that you participated in a crime with him, you are unlikely to need protection against anything except possible embarrassment if the police have access to the contact info and have some reason to think you are worth contacting.

[Lankypeters]

Virtually every guy I've seen more than once has known, without prompting, which of my buttons to push -- even when considerable time has passed between visits. This means they have a) great instincts, b) sharp memories, c) computer notes, or d) some of all the foregoing.

[Guest RyanCade]

Protect your personal records

 

Keeping records is an absolute necessity for me. I would be lost and so confused without them. I assume most clients don't give their real name but a name, number, location, abbreviated preferences and notes like weather its ok to contact them when I visit their city and compatibility are very helpful.

 

However, I do, and recommend keeping such records in a locked safe and on the outside of each folder, binder, address book ect should be labeled "PERSONAL AND CONFIDENTIAL" There are laws in place that protect information with this label, making it very difficult to "legally" gain access to it. and even more difficult, nearly impossible to use the information in a court of law. (Not that there is anything that could be used, but if there was)

[+ glutes]

We might have a clue on 12 NOV.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

 

 

KMEM flakes again!

[Guest SwordSwallower]

What I have noticed about quite a few escorts I have met is that I discuss what I want and when they show up it is like they didn't even remember our conversation. It would have been nice if they had taken some notes!!