Escorts Already on a "Date"

[+ nycman]

>What if they are in a

>committed relationship and the older

>guy is insecure about his

>young lover's fidelity? What

>trouble could you be causing

>with this suggestion?

 

Thank you Dick. You took the words right

out of my mouth. I've been the younger

guy in a committed relationship trying

hard to make my "older guy" feel secure.

A situation like this is a recipe for

disaster on all sides.

 

Respect the privacy of others...is that so hard?

[Guest cp8036]

<I find your comments demeaning to young gay men in particular who may have greater depth than just the physical. Love, companionship and fraternity are also a part of gay life, not just a hot body, financial gain and being supported.>

 

Your point is admirable, but not sure what gay world you live in. I am sure there tons of younger gay men that are interested in more than just a hot, ripped, young body.

 

You just don't see those kinds out on the street/bar/cafe, or online. You hear them moan how they hate being labeled as vapid, young pretty boys, sex objects, or they wish they can find a nice guy with brains and a good heart.

 

But go to a club...any gay club... and watch that same guy recoil in disgust if some kind, decent 40 or 50 year old gentleman were to have the nerve to approach him, or even smile at him.

 

I might be going out on a limb, but don't seem to hear comments like "Geez, this place is dripping with great men -- the air is pregnant with love, companionship, and fraternity. The go-go dancer is fine, he is so nice, wise, cultured, I think he knows my Dad their years together in college.

 

Or, go online, "oh- dude, you're 39, like sorry, I didnt know you were like, so old".

 

That is demeaning as well.

 

I cannot think of anywhere where youth is as prized as in the gay world.

 

At least a 50yo gentleman knows what is like to be in both young and older, a 19yo cutie does not know what it is like to be 50.

 

It is not the fault of the young and pretty. Their seekers are just as, if not more so, culpable in exploiting the physical. Some go as far as to pay large sums of money just to be naked with said boy. If you're young and handsome, then have guys gush over you about it, it would be hard to brush it off. Like most of us, you soak up.

 

Sorry, but didnt mean any ill will toward the above poster. But, that is what you can run into many times in the gay community. Rather risk such age rejection, I prefer to date guys close to my age. For some no strings fun, with a hot, cut, gorgeous, young guy, there is the option of an escort. Some of come with class, maturity, and intelligence. That is a real treasure then.

[Guest cp8036]

<I find your comments demeaning to young gay men in particular who may have greater depth than just the physical. Love, companionship and fraternity are also a part of gay life, not just a hot body, financial gain and being supported.>

 

Your point is admirable, but not sure what gay world you live in. I am sure there tons of younger gay men that are interested in more than just a hot, ripped, young body.

 

You just don't see those kinds out on the street/bar/cafe, or online. You hear them moan how they hate being labeled as vapid, young pretty boys, sex objects, or they wish they can find a nice guy with brains and a good heart.

 

But go to a club...any gay club... and watch that same guy recoil in disgust if some kind, decent 40 or 50 year old gentleman were to have the nerve to approach him, or even smile at him.

 

I might be going out on a limb, but don't seem to hear comments like "Geez, this place is dripping with great men -- the air is pregnant with love, companionship, and fraternity. The go-go dancer is fine, he is so nice, wise, cultured, I think he knows my Dad their years together in college.

 

Or, go online, "oh- dude, you're 39, like sorry, I didnt know you were like, so old".

 

That is demeaning as well.

 

I cannot think of anywhere where youth is as prized as in the gay world.

 

At least a 50yo gentleman knows what is like to be in both young and older, a 19yo cutie does not know what it is like to be 50.

 

It is not the fault of the young and pretty. Their seekers are just as, if not more so, culpable in exploiting the physical. Some go as far as to pay large sums of money just to be naked with said boy. If you're young and handsome, then have guys gush over you about it, it would be hard to brush it off. Like most of us, you soak up.

 

Sorry, but didnt mean any ill will toward the above poster. But, that is what you can run into many times in the gay community. Rather risk such age rejection, I prefer to date guys close to my age. For some no strings fun, with a hot, cut, gorgeous, young guy, there is the option of an escort. Some of come with class, maturity, and intelligence. That is a real treasure then.

[BewareofNick]

And if they are in a committed relationship, then the guy is simply going to throw the card out. If he's not, better that the older man find out sooner than later. I am certainly not advocating this approach, just offering a suggestion.

[BewareofNick]

And if they are in a committed relationship, then the guy is simply going to throw the card out. If he's not, better that the older man find out sooner than later. I am certainly not advocating this approach, just offering a suggestion.

[Guest LAEscortGuy]

Actually, down in Palm Springs I met a guy who was 31, really cute and living with a 65 year old lover dying of cancer. he said that he was just attracted to guys over 45. He is a civil engineer and is also supporting this man. So, yes, never assume anything!

[Guest LAEscortGuy]

Actually, down in Palm Springs I met a guy who was 31, really cute and living with a 65 year old lover dying of cancer. he said that he was just attracted to guys over 45. He is a civil engineer and is also supporting this man. So, yes, never assume anything!

[+ Charlie]

One theme that seems to run through most of the posts in this thread is that if two gay men are together in public, there must be some sort of sexual subtext to the relationship. Isn't it possible that the two may simply be friends, no matter how different (or similar) their appearances? Am I alone in disbelieving the stereotype that the only interests gays have in other men is sexual or financial?

[+ Charlie]

One theme that seems to run through most of the posts in this thread is that if two gay men are together in public, there must be some sort of sexual subtext to the relationship. Isn't it possible that the two may simply be friends, no matter how different (or similar) their appearances? Am I alone in disbelieving the stereotype that the only interests gays have in other men is sexual or financial?

[guyinsf]

Well, you're not alone. I suggested above that they were perhaps father and son. Someone else suggested some other possible relative relationship or teacher/student.

 

Since this is a board for male escort reviews, however, I am sure that most of us have sex and money on the brain when we come here.

[guyinsf]

Well, you're not alone. I suggested above that they were perhaps father and son. Someone else suggested some other possible relative relationship or teacher/student.

 

Since this is a board for male escort reviews, however, I am sure that most of us have sex and money on the brain when we come here.

[Guest BenDover]

I, too, suggested that the relationship between two men of divergent age, appearance etc. might be cause for a friendship or some relatioinship beyond sex and financial gain. I was told that I was naive and perhaps lived in some kind of delusional orbit outside of reality. Never mind that I spoke from my personal experience of having younger friends who are attractive and generous with their affection and time. They are my friends and I am theirs.

 

Granted, this is a site devoted to those interested in the world of escorting, but the original post was a presumption that the two men observed were engaged in a "business" relationship, forgetting that some men do socialize outside that realm. They may be father-son, teacher-student, boss-employee, or whatever.

[Guest BenDover]

I, too, suggested that the relationship between two men of divergent age, appearance etc. might be cause for a friendship or some relatioinship beyond sex and financial gain. I was told that I was naive and perhaps lived in some kind of delusional orbit outside of reality. Never mind that I spoke from my personal experience of having younger friends who are attractive and generous with their affection and time. They are my friends and I am theirs.

 

Granted, this is a site devoted to those interested in the world of escorting, but the original post was a presumption that the two men observed were engaged in a "business" relationship, forgetting that some men do socialize outside that realm. They may be father-son, teacher-student, boss-employee, or whatever.

[Minneapolis]

Thanks for everyones input. I never thought about interupting the date, but was more interested in how someone might approach a hot man that may be an escort. I thought about the bathroom approach, but I had just come back from there and would feel rather subconscious about heading back there two minutes after making eye contact with the italian stud. The two men could have been father/son, but I just had a feeling it was more--maybe my imagination going crazy with me.

 

Anyway, thanks for the advice. The bartender was hot too. Any advice on how to score with a bartender in a straight bar?

[Minneapolis]

Thanks for everyones input. I never thought about interupting the date, but was more interested in how someone might approach a hot man that may be an escort. I thought about the bathroom approach, but I had just come back from there and would feel rather subconscious about heading back there two minutes after making eye contact with the italian stud. The two men could have been father/son, but I just had a feeling it was more--maybe my imagination going crazy with me.

 

Anyway, thanks for the advice. The bartender was hot too. Any advice on how to score with a bartender in a straight bar?