Escorts & Overnighters

[Like2Hire]

I've arranged for two overnighters with escorts that turned out to be big dissappointments in that we "did it" two or three times, when I thought there would be more. Now, I've had a couple unplanned overnights with escorts for the one-hour price that were extremely hot. My conclusion: don't waste my money on overnights and be glad for the rare ones that move that way.

 

Has anyone else had better experiences than I?

[Luv2play]

I gave up on overnighters many years ago when I realized that they rarely lived up to my expectations of an all-night orgy. Now I couldn't care less as I am rarely, if ever, up to an all-night sex marathon :-(

 

I like a one or three hour orgy and then, that's it, off to the showers and send the escort home!

 

It all depends on your libido (and your pocketbook), but to spend what an average escort wants for an overnight fee (in the $800 to $1200 range), you could have 3 or 4 dates with good escorts (or the same escort) over a long weekend. I would opt for the latter but that's just my personal preference.

[ted]

Might this be another case of discussing what you are looking for up front with the escort. You really didn't provide a lot of info. Did he rebuff you when you tried to start something? Or was it just a go with the flow type thing and the chemistry wasn't all that hot?

I don't normally do overnights unless I know the guy because there's a lot more than sex going on in an approximate 12 hour meeting. That being said the hottest meeting I ever did was a first timer, we had talked on the phone quite a few times and discussed up front that he he could stay if I wanted. Well I was comfortable enough by the time we met that I had committed to the overnight and we both ended up cuming 5 times that night and we did manage to sleep some too. He initiated play three times and I did it twice. Surprisingly I was the one who started the last go round, but he had me so horned up that I couldn't keep my hands or mouth or ... off him by that time.

I would say three is the norm for me on an overnight, once on arrival, once when we come back to the room after dinner, a play, a movie, or whatever may be planned, and once before he leaves in the morning. I'm of an age where it normally takes me some time to recover and I do need to sleep or I'm wasted the next day, so that is quite adequate for me, and I suspect quite normal. Some guys see more than one client a day, particularly on weekends, so if you are expecting a sex marathon all night you might want to mention it up front so he can continue to rise to the occasion.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

More AND Better

 

>I gave up on overnighters many years ago when I realized that

>they rarely lived up to my expectations of an all-night orgy.

>Now I couldn't care less as I am rarely, if ever, up to an

>all-night sex marathon :-(

>

>I like a one or three hour orgy and then, that's it, off to

>the showers and send the escort home!

 

This entire topic, both in similar expectations, and outcomes, has been discussed here on the board, for both overnights and other extended hire situations.

 

Please avail yourselves of the search option. I would like to add a few final thoughts, from an escort persective: beyond good communication, as Ted suggested, you also need some definitions. During one full day hire (which actually took 27 hours), a client and I had sex a total of seven times. However, some of these were very hot and heavy but over quickly while one lasted nearly two hours (including a bath and massage). Another client hired me for another full day and we had twice, but the first time was a three to four hour orgy, only interrupted by a walk to Whole Foods, the making and eating of dinner and then a video. Afterwards, we had sex for another three or so hours.

 

One client got seven hours of sex, or approximately half of the time which was not spent sleeping, but only in two sessions. The other client got some nine hours of sex, in seven sessions. Both were satisfied but both had different expecations and desires (and both of them communicated what they needed and wanted in advance).

[TotallyOz]

Wow. I guess I am a pushover as I don't expect an all out orgy all night. There is only so much sex an escort can take anyway. If they go into the situation knowing that sex is expected all night that is one thing. But, in my experience most expect that sex will occur on a typical overnight 2 or maybe 3 times. Good communication is important. I hire more overnighters than I do one hours and I do that because I enjoy getting to know someone on a more intimate level not because I want to bone them 8 or 9 times that night. But, I am also very clear in my expectations up front. I make sure they know exactly what I want as I communicate that to them very effectively. That normally produces a great overnight for me and for them.

[+ deej]

Oz, I don't think you're a pushover at all. You know what you like, you ask for exactly that, and you're happy when you get it.

 

Sounds like a smart customer to me, and I'll bet your escorts appreciate the fact that they know in advance what you want.

 

I rarely do an overnight unles I've been with the guy enough times before to know I'll enjoy his company. There's a lot of value in not having to rush to get in the "good bits" ... you know you'll get there eventually.

[+ Cock Eyed Optimist]

I, as most of you, never do an overnight with an escort unless I have met him before. Before I went to NYC a few weeks ago, I was in contact by email with an escort (Michael S.-listed in NYC reviews) whom I had never seen before. The vibes I "received" from our emails prompted me to arrange an overnight with him. I am glad I did! It was great, and I am glad I let my intuition take precedence. I have submitted a review, but it hasn't been posted yet.

[Guest ilc1980]

>Now, I've had a couple unplanned overnights with escorts for the

>one-hour price that were extremely hot.

 

Wow, how many other people get overnighters for the one-hour price? I guess the escort really has to be into you too for something like that to happen. Where can I find someone up for that?

[Like2Hire]

My three unplanned overnighters for the price of one hour were just that: quite unplanned and spontaneous. And, yes, they got so into the sex that they offered/asked. At least once in a while, I have the gift. :9

[Guest ilc1980]

I guess I need to work on my technique!! got any pointers? Do you tutor? :9

[SmallTownJohn]

From my personal experiences, Ted & OZ nail it for me. I have very few knock-down-drag-out overnight clients. Overnighters want the experience--a long relaxing date. I need more than a single hour to get my good cuddle on<lol>

 

I love being given the recovery time too...its very intimate. Then, I can be fully cocked-n-loaded to pound that ass into the ground. Its quality, not quantity.<G>

 

 

John

http://www.SmallTownJohn1.com

"Put Some South in Your Mouth"

[Guest laboheme]

I find it hard to generalize about this. I have had some great overnights, and some ones that were disapointing. As I think about it, it seems to me that overnights with an escort, I have never been with before have been less fun on the sex front, but sometimes do give a better chance to get to know the escort, if that is what you are in to. On the other hand, I have found that after a while overnights with a regular escort can slip into too much familiarity, and the feeling of an old couple that doesn't have to have as much raw sex. That's fine, I suppose if you want to pay for that. I don't. So in the end, if I had to pick a rule of thumb, it would be do an overnight with an escort you have spent a great hour with, but after one or two overnights, find another and begin the process of wonder and excitement all over again.

[Guest skrubber]

It's overnighters all the way with me. I like to get to know the escort and communicate with him on another level. The sex is great but not all I am interested in. Besides, I LOVE sleeping next to a sexy guy. The best sleep I have had in my life was while cuddled up next to CODYNYCSTAR (my favorite) and the best escort I have ever hired need I say BN?

 

Everybody loves Backa Baa

[Knabegeil]

Overnighters: an interesting topic. Generally, I have found them not worthwhile. Most of the time it seems to wind up being that someone else is just sharing your sleeping space. Don't need that. The one time an escort did wake my up in the middle of the night I was startled and surprised.

Oddly enough, the best overnite I ever had was in Rio last fall. We didn't "do" anything all night except at the beginning. But the wonderful escort spooned nicely into my stomach and let me hold his cock. It stayed super-hard all night long. I was as happy as ... well, you fill in the rest.

[Matt_Vancouver]

RE: Escorts & Overnighters

 

Typical overnight sessions with me... two or three times bumpin uglies... If someone is looking for an all night marathon sexapalooza.. I would steer them elsewhere. And don't even look at me with sex in your eyes before my coffee in the morning... be warned.

Every client has different expectations when booking an escort, it's not always just about a sexual encounter... believe it or not, there are some guys that actually enjoy our company: )

Sex is usually a given, but again, believe it or not, there are men who have requested my services for an overnight, and sex never came into it... Not for lack of trying on my part... what can I say, sometimes I'm just horny... You know who you are mister... next time I expect full interaction...: )

I know there will be some who read this that are thinking... 'why would you hire an escort and not want sex?'.... Call me naive, delusional, sexy... erm I mean ignorant, but I like to think that a good escort has more to offer than just a hard dick and a bit of talent in the bedroom ... there are some very charismatic young men in this business, with actual edumacations, who lead intriquing lives... it's quite feasable that some men might enjoy the company of someone like this, to hang with, go to a ball game with? Maybe get a glimpse of a life they didn't get a chance to live, because they came out late in life.. maybe live vicariously for a day? Or maybe just to be seen in the company of a young attractive man?

 

Sex is a HUGE part of what we offer, and in some cases.. it's ALL some guys offer, but it's not the absolute priority for every client.

 

I would suggest that if you'd like an all night fuckathon. Have three or four of the hottest studs you can find, lined up over the course of the night... maybe have them staggered every 2 or 3 hours.. maybe get a threeway in there at some point.. that way, you always have a horny willing partner, and a bit of variety as a bonus.. you could probably arrange something like that for around the same price as some escorts overnight rate.. not mine, cuz I'm still charging bargain basement prices.. but then I only put out a few times during an overnight, and I greedily expect some sleep...: )

 

Matt(delusional glorified hooker...)(or ... intelligent, fun, companion... with built in sex bits: )

[Guest TorontoJared]

RE: Escorts & Overnighters

 

HI,

 

I must say that I've always enjoyed the overnights that I've had with clients for it has allowed me to get to know them a bit more and talk, laugh, and have a good time. Of course, my friends have always said that I'm an extreme people person. Then again, growing up in a small town does make one more prone to chatting to the cashier at the store while checking out.

 

I've always found that for the most part, my clients seem to feel that they get more from an overnight than a short visit. As one client once put it, "Sex is so much better when you know the person and genuinely like their personnality" while we were discussing a topic similar to this. While there are economic benefits to the one hour sessions and while many of them are quite hot and fun I think that you gain something that is invaluable from an overnight which is gaining a look into another person's life. I've learned quite a bit from some of my overnighters with clients such as how growing up in a different time was, what living in other cultures, climates, or places is like, and it has also expanded some of my interrests. An example is that I was introduced to opera for the first time by a client and have since loved it. I've also been told and witnessed that a client can get much the same result. One client who I've seen for an overnight when he's in town everyother month or so and I were talking during one of our first meetings and after mentioning that I loved to swim he said that he'd always wanted to learn. Since then when he's in town part of the evening (a half hour to an hour) has been spent at the hotel pool.

 

My final thought for the benefits of overnighters is that I've found that it is so nice to cuddle after having sex, have it happen anywhere from 2-5 times and sometimes more and have it happen spontaneously some of the times and be able to have a great evening. While one hour sessions can be fun I've always enjoyed my overnight sessions and if given the choice of many one hour sessions or one overnight I know that the overnight client would be my choice.

 

-Jared in Toronto

 

One last comment: Do people actually charge 1200 US for an overnight? Wow! That's a lot! I wonder if those escorts get many overnights with that price.

[Alex Berlanti]

>Wow. I guess I am a pushover as I don't expect an all out

>orgy all night. There is only so much sex an escort can take

>anyway. If they go into the situation knowing that sex is

>expected all night that is one thing. But, in my experience

>most expect that sex will occur on a typical overnight 2 or

>maybe 3 times. Good communication is important. I hire more

>overnighters than I do one hours and I do that because I enjoy

>getting to know someone on a more intimate level not because I

>want to bone them 8 or 9 times that night. But, I am also

>very clear in my expectations up front. I make sure they know

>exactly what I want as I communicate that to them very

>effectively. That normally produces a great overnight for me

>and for them.

 

Hi OZ,

 

I just wanted to say that I really admire and respect your outlook, coming from an escort I like the time that an overnight provides to get to know one another, and I really treasure the relationships that I have from those overnight experiences. Hey I'm not getting any younger but I like to think that I'm good at what I do being a bottom. And I never take a appointment prior to an overnighter, but being pounded for 12 hours isn't really my idea of a good time, like you said a person can only take so much. 3-4 times in a 12 hour session is my average, and we both are satisfied !! And no you're not a push over, smart as well as considerate yeah !! And thanks for your insight.

 

Take care.

 

And Best Wishes.

 

Alex Berlanti

 

alexberlantixxx@cox.net

 

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/alexberlantiwichita.html

[Guest skrubber]

RE: Escorts & Overnighters

 

Hey Jarod-

How about some fullsize pics or a link to a website. Although you look gorgeous that itty bitty one just doesn't do it for me.

 

Everybody loves Backa Baa

[marc anthony]

RE: Escorts & Overnighters

 

>Hey Jarod-

>How about some fullsize pics or a link to a website. Although

>you look gorgeous that itty bitty one just doesn't do it for

>me.

>

>Everybody loves Backa Baa

 

You mean like this one?

 

http://www.geocities.com/TorontoJared/photopage1.html

[tedbear]

RE: Escorts & Overnighters

 

>One last comment: Do people actually charge 1200 US for an

>overnight? Wow! That's a lot! I wonder if those escorts get

>many overnights with that price.

 

I love overnights, but I simply can't pay $1,000+ for it. I've found that escorts who charge more reasonable fees usually do so because they enjoy overnights!

 

For those escorts who really enjoy them, I think it's a great business move to charge a somewhat lower price. For a night mostly spent sleeping, an escort gets a few hundred extra bucks than they do for a typical multi-hour session. And they probably get a lot more overnights than the $1000+ guy. Who makes more money over time? Probably the guy charging the more reasonable fee but who has lots of overnights on his calendar.

 

We both get a great night of cuddling/spooning and holding each other (OK, I'm a hopeless romantic). I always take the guy out for a nice dinner and conversation. I'm not usually one to frequent the more expensive restaurants, so it's a real treat for me to do so and hopefully for the escort as well.

 

My all time favorite overnighter? Steven from San Francisco/Portland--A real sweetheart who loves to cuddle, is a great top and usually brings out the top in me! He's also interesting and smart and I always enjoy our coversations.