You are right about the Westside Club. It is a late night place and often the guys are really high on crystal. That doesn't mean that you will not find an occassional hot boy not into crystal to have fun with. But, the later it gets, the hotter it gets.
There are also several organized parties in NYC that are fun if you like group action. Most are not advertised and you need to find them. A good way to do this is to talk to guys on AOL in the NYC Chatrooms or on manhunt.net. There use to be a listing in Next for these things as well. If you choose this route, you may need to get an invite in advance. Although, there are a few that are open every weekend and anyone can go. Cost for the parties are usually $25.
I hope this helps. If you need more info, e-mail me.
