Final thoughts as I retire from hiring..................

[Okliehomo]

I started hiring escorts about 2 years ago now and it has been a truly incredible journey for me. (and no, not like the one where Sally Field did the cat's voice). Anyway, it has completely changed my perspective and redefined my sexual life as a gay man. Boys, I have learned so much from these guys. Have to admit that I came into this with more than my share of prejudices. I assumed that they were all doing this to support a drug problem, but I found that for the most part, they are a clean living bunch. 99 % of whom don't even have a glass of wine with dinner..And boys, I have done things with them that I never did with any boyfriend. So, as I pause to reflect as this phase of my life draws to it's inevitable ending, here is a recap of my escort adventures. Hope that it is not too arrogant to assume that you all would be interested....

 

Ridge.........the most beautiful man ever. My first. And he is the only guy that I have ever taken out in public and had strangers stop him to tell him how handsome he is. Perfect dick, perfect ass and a great kisser. Was here twice. Fell a little in love with him before I realized how this all works.

 

Trent Fosters.....well, he's from Australia.

 

Marco Feretti.........Had him here 5 times before he went home to Argentina and now, sadly, cannot get back into the US. The absolute best all around escort. He loved the sex as much as I did and was a nasty, nasty top. Totally dominant with this hairy latin ass and hot uncut cock. Only escort that came in me while he was fucking me (condom , of course). Holding that hard little ass while he pounded me is my hottest memory of all... Fell alot in love with him and still am.

 

Dan from Nashville/Peoria...sweet guy. Amazing skin, very smooth and soft. Beautiful ass. More a bottom guy, but no regrets. And no way he wears a toupee....

 

Ricky Price.....Knew more about George W. than I gave him credit for.

 

Kyle Cannon/Denver......HUGE dick and sweet guy. Big white muscled ass. Perfect white teeth and very nasty. Loves to watch you jack your cock while he sits on your face.

 

Tony Cummings.....cute as Hell and one Hell of a top guy. Woke up in the morning being smothered by his sweet ass.

 

Phillip/Seattle..........Unforgettable. Smart, funny as Hell, and a hot, hot ass. Amazingly talented and genuine.

 

Steven./SF........Hot guy. Gave me alot of insight into my life and my choices.

 

Jim Slade/LA.........in a class by himself. The butchest bottom in porn. He totally got me and used my ass like he likes to be used. Incredibly funny, dry witted and masculine. He was here 6 times, sometimes for 2 nites. Spent an incredible Labor Day watching tennis and eating that perfect ass. He made me have sex even when I didn't want to...made me suck his dick and eat his butt til he came. All the time. Clean as a whistle, too. Used to joke that his ass would get germs from my mouth.. Opinionated, hilarious and no bullshit. Taught me alot. Knew better than to get attached, but I do miss him.

 

Mark/Long Beach.........too young for me. Very hairy, and the only escort to ever almost make me cum orally. Very gifted.

 

Mike Rutter/LA....Big dick and hard little ass. Spanked me even though not really his deal.

 

Damian Ford/LA........sweet, gentle lover. Good heart and very passionate.

 

Tony Zerega/NYC.......two word email responses, but couldn't shut him up in person. Very, very funny for a Republican. Wouldn't have missed meeting this guy for the world.

 

Marco Rochelle/the world.......European perfection. Amazing dick and awesome accent. He, too, doesn't lack for opinions. Says exactly what he thinks. Gave me "lessons" on how to be a good bottom. Hell, listening to him talk was hot as Hell. May bust out of retirement to meet his new bf.....

 

Steve James.......we didn't click, but not all his fault. Chemistry is a two way street.

 

Bill/Portland......get hard thinking about him still. Long perfectly shaped dick. Fit me perfectly. Like being with a lover. And this hard little ass, perfectly shaped. Passionate kisses and candles. Baby. Seem to have used "perfectly" alot. Hmmm.

 

Cole Davis/ NYC.......everything that he promised. Great fuck and intense role play. "Bring me that belt, son"...wow.

 

Joe #2/Chicago.......that crazy chemistry thing again. Go figure. Nice guy, though.

 

 

Richard/Baltimore.........class act.

 

 

Rick/Derek/NYC.........fun boys. Very smart and into whatever. First 3 way and discovered I am too selfish for that. Will never see Susan Hayward without thinking of them.

 

Aiden Shaw.......total disappointment. Only real regret.

 

Parker Williams./SD...... could be the perfect escort if he kissed. His ass almost makes up for it. Funny and smart.

 

Dave Angelo/Montreal........a Gaiety escort, and a "private session" attitude but with the best ass out of them all. And he loves to be rimmed. Good Lord, it's this amazing combination of hair and muscle and heat and when he grinds it on your face and starts to cum, boys, you haven't seen or heard anything like it.

 

Jason Markus/NYC....nice guy and unbelievable uncut dick. All the reviews are true. Classy and sweet yet knows how to change to nasty and rough if you want him to..very big on making his boy clean out his hot hole, and threatening to spank his ass if I didn't do it just right. That's more my fantasy than his...

 

 

 

Still have Trey Rexx, Alec Martinez and Scott Stanton on the schedule. Then I am done. Only regets are that Eric Hanson won't return my emails and that Brad Stephens won't travel...and that pornstar Paul Johnson won't escort and that Reece Rothmeir won't spank me. Oh, yeah and that I am broke. Ha.

 

Hope I didn't bore you all with this. Appreciate this site and all the doors it has opened for me.

 

OKliehomo

[KY_TOP]

Cool, err I mean HOT list.

 

So why after 2 years are you retiring from hiring?

[Luv2play]

Maybe he wasn't kidding when he said he was broke. That WAS quite the list of well-known escorts on this site. And it did sound like a lot of travel expenses thrown in as well. But I concluded a long time ago that it only takes one lover to go through more of your money than 40 high priced escorts taken together. So go figure!:-(

[+ Charlie]

By my count that's at least 36 appointments in two years, with first class escorts, in a variety of cities. I'll be happy if I can afford that in the next decade! (Of course, for Hooboy, that would probably be just a couple of good weekends--of consumer research, naturally.)

[Okliehomo]

I am quittng for alot of reasons, but mostly, I am bored with it. I tend to have an obsessive personality and I really went abit overboard. I wanted them all, and once I had them, I started to realize that essentially, they are all the same with just slight variations. And yes, I also took a look at my checkbook. I rationalized it because I, too, believe that it is MUCH cheaper than a boyfriend, both in real $$$ and in the emotional price that one inevitably pays. Anyway, for the record, all those guys flew in to see me. I would be a much richer man today if I had gone to them and paid the hourly price....oh, yeah, one more regret...that Jason Branch wanted $3000 for one night.....and even I am not that obsessed.

 

OKliehomo

[Chuck50]

KY-Top sounds like you are his replacement. LOL HUGS CHuck

[KY_TOP]

I must admit that after also hiring for over 2 years my attitude on hiring has changed a bit but I'm not "bored" yet. Thankfully I am NOT bored yet.:+

[Chuck50]

Mine is over 2 almost three as well. I too am not tired actually have atrip planned with Adrian From Orlando to Vegas again. want to get back with Ben Nicholas and then see were else after that. HUGS Chuck:P :P

[VaHawk]

Hey don't know you, but I wish you the best and certainly understand and support your decision for whatever reasons you have. I too, after 2 years find it mediocre, if not boring, with most that I have hired and the escort would have to be someone super appealing to me in some way for me to hire him (someone in the BN or Marco Rochelle category who can offer a memorable experience and not just a good toss in the "old hay").

 

Now, $3000/night????? He better have an always hard, 24k gold 10" cock with two diamond balls the size of the Hope Diamond and the lasting power of the Energizer bunny for that price! :o

[Guest OralBtm4Top]

Great post Okliehomo. I wish more guys would share their thoughts as you have. Listing them, while giving us descriptive sexual insight, is like reading an abridged verson of great erotic experiences. I wish you well.

[Regina]

JASON BRANCH WANTS $3,000 A NIGHT??????

 

JESUS CHRIST!!! When I read that my dick receded into myself! That's a lot of cash for a former nurse...or was she a hair dresser...and we all know that Chi Chi doesn't pay that girl that much.

 

What next, gays getting married? Arnold Schwartzenegger president? I understand that he now believes that aliens should be allowed to be president...how about friends of Kurt Waldheim and children of Nazis?

 

But I digress...you chould have an orgy with ten VERY HOT MEN for the same amount. I think Jason needs to step up to the mirror and take a long, hard look!

[+ Axiom2001]

RE: JASON BRANCH WANTS $3,000 A NIGHT??????

 

:-) :9 :-) I selectively read the initial thread/response and found it to be an interesting read, one which engendered some insight into the hiring of escorts, but I, too, as KYTop, have NOT become bored with these men and our involvement. Although I have hired somewhat sporadically, there are others out there whom I yearn to see before they retire or before I find my activities to be lacking. Some of these men include: Michael Brandon, Kristian, (LA), Alex Martinez, Jason Markus, a few Brazilian men on the east coast, Omar in Phoenix, and some repeats of others I've enjoyed during the past three years!

 

Thanks go to the originator of the thread!

[Okliehomo]

I agree that I thought his price was way too much for one night, but totally understand that the man has the right to establish the value of his time. He was really cool and understanding about it when I told him that I couldn't allow myself to pay that much. Also, I think Blake Harper was the nurse....You know, I prefer Jason Branch having the balls to simply state his rate over guys like Aiden Shaw or Chase Hunter who asked me to make them an offer because they are not "fulltime" escorts and don't have "rates". The whole "what's it worth to you?" approach is much harder for me to deal with......or guys like Alec LeMonde or Eric Hanson that don't even have the professional courtesy to answer emails...Jason Branch handled our price discussions professionally and in my opinion, with alot of class. And for the record, I have gotten rate quotes from Boysnextdoor in the past(though I have never used them) for $2500 for guys not nearly as well known as Jason Branch. If I was going to pay that much, I would rather give to Jason than to an agency. Hmmm..giving it to Jason...that does sound like fun...

 

Okliehomo

[londontopbear]

I, too, have (semi)-retired as a client. I used to see escorts a lot and have posted reviews frequently here, and like the original poster here, had some great experiences that I'll remember forever -- including the amazing Blake Harper twice (before *he* retired, once in his then home-town of San Francisco and next flying to see him in Toronto when he was appearing in a play there with Jason!); Peter Raeg (in his pre-porn days when he was living in London); an Australian horse-hung escort called Travis (in New York); and lots more.

 

But like the original poster here, it was partly a case of 'diminishing returns' and a diminishing bank balance (!) that caused me to retreat from regular hiring: you can never get enough of it, which is part of the pleasure but also part of the pain of hiring regularly. It never *truly* hits the spot.

 

Then, three years ago, I met the love of my life -- and he's just gorgeous! (A guy who, if he escorted, I would have bancrupted myself over, but actually comes -- and cums -- free!) He absolutely hits the (G) spot, too -- in every way! So I stopped hiring, for the most part. I now only hire VERY occasionally if I'm away in New York and he's not with me -- three times in the last three years, two of which I've reported on this site (one of them was Rick Munroe, another highlight!)....

 

But I still find this site a wonderful way to keep in touch vicariously with something that has long fascinated me and still turns me on. I may have (mostly) retired, but thanks to you guys, I still enjoy being a part of it.

[pierrot]

I really enjoyed this posting. The summary of all these guys gives us a good idea of who the best escorts are, and the writer's sincerity adds to the value of the post. I restrict the frequency of hiring escorts for myself for many reasons, one of which is that it allows the fantasy to stay alive. In addition the excitement builds more when I know I have to wait. It also controls the money outflow. If I were richer maybe I'd be tempted to splurge more.

I'd like to see other posts like this, and will one day offer one myself. Right now, I'm planning my March entry. Let's see now....