What do providers really want to hear?

[BCMan]

I often find myself, as a client, with a great guy, falling back on nothing but cliches:“You’re so hot”, “Your muscles are HUGE”, “You’re built like a Greek statue”, etc…  it sounds terribly vacuous. I’m wondering, from a provider perspective, what would be a genuine compliment you would be flattered to receive? I guess a good tip might be the ultimate answer, but anything else? Just curious. Thanks!

[+ Jamie21]

Nothing needed. If it’s clear that the client is having a great time then that’s all that’s needed for validation. 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

In my experience, it's not that different than what clients want, as discussed in the "What Makes You Feel Special" thread. The first time you see someone, the compliments may lean toward the superficial, but if you have guys you see regularly, what do they do that makes you feel great? Beyond the massage or sex, is he funny? Warm? Intelligent? Those are all things you can compliment him on. 

[MikeW]

23 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

In my experience, it's not that different than what clients want, as discussed in the "What Makes You Feel Special" thread. The first time you see someone, the compliments may lean toward the superficial, but if you have guys you see regularly, what do they do that makes you feel great? Beyond the massage or sex, is he funny? Warm? Intelligent? Those are all things you can compliment him on. 

In my relative short experience this is a skill that is rare to find. 

[Thelatin]

Oh jeeze - I don't think I could say anything like that and keep a straight face lol. 

[polysome]

Isn’t repeat business the best compliment?