*Too Polite

[MikeBiDude]

Moderator comment/warning…this thread is starting to derail. The OP started a topic about being polite (or too polite) to providers. Let’s quit the sniping and get back on topic.

[+ PhileasFogg]

I have a regular RM contact in Atlanta.  He had a friend (guy 2), currently a classic twink porn star, who tried RM and took himself  off because he was tired of being treated like meat!   Our common friend arranged a threesome because he said I was different.  We had a blast and Guy 2 and I traveled several times together in the last few months and remain friends and talk regularly even though he’s out of porn and escorting and has a boyfriend   

After that, Guy 2 introduced me to a childhood friend (Guy 3) who was thinking of getting into escorting.  He thought I’d be the right “first experience” for him.

The three of us met in Detroit for a weekend.  We had a blast.   Guy 3 and I have traveled several times.  At the moment, he’s sitting to my right as we watch movers pack one of my houses.  He will be here for two weeks helping me settle in.   We have great chemistry.   I’ve also introduced him to another forum member and they have a great (and regular) travel experience.   He’s not on a platform and we’re his only two clients.

The moral of the story:

- rude is a transaction 

- polite pays dividends

and with familiarity, we have mutual awareness of each other’s needs without asking or demanding  

 

 

 

 

Edited 14 hours ago by PhileasFogg

[ACluelessGent]

1 hour ago, PhileasFogg said:

I have a regular RM contact in Atlanta.  He had a friend (guy 2), currently a classic twink porn star, who tried RM and took himself  off because he was tired of being treated like meat!   Our common friend arranged a threesome because he said I was different.  We had a blast and Guy 2 and I traveled several times together in the last few months and remain friends and talk regularly even though he’s out of porn and escorting and has a boyfriend   

After that, Guy 2 introduced me to a childhood friend (Guy 3) who was thinking of getting into escorting.  He thought I’d be the right “first experience” for him.

The three of us met in Detroit for a weekend.  We had a blast.   Guy 3 and I have traveled several times.  At the moment, he’s sitting to my right as we watch movers pack one of my houses.  He will be here for two weeks helping me settle in.   We have great chemistry.   I’ve also introduced him to another forum member and they have a great (and regular) travel experience.   He’s not on a platform and we’re his only two clients.

The moral of the story:

- rude is a transaction 

- polite pays dividends

and with familiarity, we have mutual awareness of each other’s needs without asking or demanding  

 

 

 

 

Yes. This is how it works.