Ever cucked a provider?

[hungry4darkmeat]

I had an interesting situation a while back where my regular top buddy got upstaged by a provider I hired and took it so personally that he stopped seeing me. He was a decent top but the pro was a beast and he put it on me in front of my buddy so good that my buddy got insecure and basically got cucked.

anyone else ever have this happen? I felt kinda guilty about it but tbh he was lazy and after that he knew it 

[SkyBliss]

Lol. Just had that occur with a good top and a lazy top. I don’t think the lazy top was cucked per se. He just was made clearly obsolete in the presence of someone who was actually attracted to guys and was romantic with me yet pounded me well.

[hungry4darkmeat]

4 minutes ago, SkyBliss said:

Lol. Just had that occur with a good top and a lazy top. I don’t think the lazy top was cucked per se. He just was made clearly obsolete in the presence of someone who was actually attracted to guys and was romantic with me yet pounded me well.

Exactly!!! Glad im not alone lol. The lazy one was a long term fb who i met decades back and taught to be a good top who unfortunately got strung out on T and got very lazy. The provider actually held my legs open and invited him to get in on the action and he declined… then the provider topped me like a true bull for hours while lazy looked on and smoked. I would have been much happier had he jumped in and worked with the pro to use me up but he opted out and subsequently got out performed 

[Decatur Guy]

No judgments here - I have a lot of kinks. But I also have rejection issues, whether I'm the one being rejected or the one doing it. And cucking feels too close to rejection. 

It's been years, but I used to sometimes hire two tops at once. Even if I felt like one was doing better than the other, I tried very hard to make them feel equal appreciated. And usually in the trying, they both ended up being well-received, so to speak. 

All that said, there is a certain hotness to what unfolded. Just not for me. 

PS - I would like to add that I have had scenarios where both tops understood that one of the tops would be more or less taking the lead. But they both knew that going in and were both fine with it and no one was cucked. It was more than one was Batman and one was Robin, so to speak. 

Edited Monday at 05:57 AM by Decatur Guy

[+ PhileasFogg]

It’s a risk with any threesome, isn’t it?

[hungry4darkmeat]

On 3/9/2026 at 8:25 AM, PhileasFogg said:

It’s a risk with any threesome, isn’t it?

That is definitely the most challenging element- when I find guys who work well with others I encourage them to connect and work together with other clients and stick with them as long as you can enjoy the hottest elements of the experience like when they develop their tag team style and know exactly how to turn you out.

 

[Becket]

Sorry I'm not up on the lingo, but what is "cucked"?